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Brighton1:
E be like say before una go accept anybody to be ur boyfriend/girlfriend the person must submit doctor’s report of his/her mental health.

That is not enough. Mental health can be messed up even after that.

I suggest that lovers should tell anyone they want to date that they have someone else in their life but will accept them as a side hustle. That way, when they brake up, it means that they have gone back to the main person. Sounds weird but it seems like a good solution.

This is crazy.

Anyway, someone who has been cheating with any of them may be more distressed now without people knowing.

No matter how good your partner is, just imagine that he or she can cheat and disappoint you. That way, you can be psychologically prepare in event that it happens. There can be drama but there shouldn't be crime.

Abati is a saboteur. Very careless.

Caused by postino 2.
Use condom instead. Not sure but if she is into pills, she should stop. Nevertheless, let her go to the hospital for tests.

Some of us that moved abroad without experiencing stress should continue to thank God.

It's like kids are flooded here. Many of them can't decipher true stories from fake stories due to lack of experience. The story has everything to be true.

moscobabs:
22 Years, One SIM, One Story

In 2004, as a young student at The Polytechnic, Ibadan, I bought a SIM card from a new network that had just arrived in Nigeria. That network was Glo, and little did I know that small chip would stay with me for over two decades.

Through the years, that SIM witnessed everything—late-night calls with friends, business growth, family moments, tough times, and victories. It remained constant while life kept changing.

From the days of recharge cards and “Who go dash me card?” to today’s world of fast internet and social media, my number never changed. It became more than just a line—it became part of my identity.

Today, after 22 years, I finally upgraded my SIM to 4G. Same number, same journey—just a new level.

Not everything old needs to be replaced. Some things just need an upgrade.

Cheers to growth, consistency, and evolution. 🥂

#22YearsStrong #From2004ToNow #GloNetwork #LifeJourney

You must be an old school type of human being. How have you been browsing with a 2G sim card?

Nothing is bad about keeping a line but when you have not upgraded your sim for 22 years then you haven't been evolving progressively.

I hope you changed your phone too because it is possible for someone like you to be using Nokia 33.

In the UK, this can only feed 6,750 inmates in a year. To be in prison in Nigeria can be likened to hell fire.

ThIs means that this N14.83b cannot feed 91,000 prisoners in a month in the UK.

In 2025, I spent over N500k on snails alone.

She is just the HR Head and not necessarily his boss. He may not have anything to do with this woman throughout the job. He is just a psychopath and a misogynist.

DeclanR:
Please Doctors, kindly come to my aid.

WHAT HAPPENED

I don't know if it's called Earpod, Earbud or Airpod, but it's all earpiece.
So I bought a Bluetooth one, downloaded Spotify playlist app on my phone's playstore and began listening to jamz 24/7 except when I'm bathing. Even at work, I use it.

I wasn't used to using accessories like this.

So, I noticed a pain inside my right ear, later it became a boyl. I felt the pains, took Bicham ampiclox and after a few days, it disappeared.

Now I can't hear with that ear any longer. I can only partially hear with it.

HOW AM I FEELING ?

In the ear, I feel like there's a blockage which is impeding sound. I feel like there's water in there. You know how it is when you're bathing and water enters into your ear? That's how the feeling is, right now. If I'm talking to someone, I feel there is an earpiece hanging in my ear, so I need to speak louder than normal. This is the Third day.
I am worried.

Go to the hospital. It might be the rubber cover at the tip of the earpiece that has dropped in your ear. It is not a difficult thing to remove by experts.
Thank me later.

This is disgusting. Why will this person not rot in jail?

I can bet you, this man has seen shege for the wife hand.

It is becoming clear who paid that man called Primate for that fake prophecy about Lookman in this AFCON

Two unfortunate adults. Extreme religious power tussle has always added spices to the tearing apart of Nigeria.

Forget about this topic, if you're very active, do not marry someone who is not good on bed. The partner will frustrate your life.

NaijaCars234:
Fuel prices and maintenance costs are already high, but many drivers make a mistake that silently damages their engines. Skipping regular oil changes is the main cause of engine problems in Nigeria.

Engine oil lubricates moving parts, reduces friction, and keeps the engine cool. When oil is old or low, parts grind against each other, causing heat, wear, and reduced efficiency. This leads to higher fuel consumption and poor performance. If left unchecked, engine failure can cost hundreds of thousands of Naira to repair.

Some drivers wait until the engine makes strange noises or overheats before checking oil. Others use the wrong type of oil or extend the interval between oil changes beyond the manufacturer’s recommendation. All of these habits shorten engine life.

The solution is simple. Check your oil at least once a month and change it according to the schedule in your car manual. Use the recommended oil type and quality.

Drivers who follow this habit save fuel, avoid costly repairs, and keep their cars running smoothly on Nigerian roads. How often do you check your engine oil? Has it affected your car’s performance or fuel usage?

Nigeria environment is completely different from what manufacturers factor in when recommending use and change of engine oil.
So, it should depend on how and where you use the car. Nigeria atmosphere has a lot of dust particles that unfortunately find their ways into the engines. This alters completely the efficiency and the duration of whatever engine oil you use. For me, I change engine oil every month or once I drive the car for 3,000 km

Jennyclay:
Men should also have time for their wives to avoid many drama

Sincerely, if you’re not always available for your woman when she needs money or sex, then let another man do your job, it’s as simple as ABC

We are humans, blood runs through our veins not water

If you want money and sex then remain in the streets and don't bother yourself marrying. Of all the men, it's the gateman that the wife could cheat with. Some women don't understand this life. Just imagine a man and his gateman sharing a woman. How safe is the man in his own house? One day, the woman would decide to kill the man for something not worth it.

This is the mentality of poor people without much hope.

I have always been very careful not to do anything with someone who doesn't have any image to protect.

The difference between that place and Nigeria now is not so much

Fake story for clout chasing.

Codepain:
Olubadan isn’t Obi brother they don’t share common ancestor

Africans are addressing themselves as brothers when they meet at Europe, Asia, America and so on but when a Nigerian addresses a fellow Nigerian as a brother even at home, it stirs the Internet.

This is highly commendable. Shame onto past governors of the state.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

If you still love your marriage, listen to me:

Has it taken long when you had sex with your hubby last? If yes, please do not create such gap again. If your hubby doesn't ask for it, give it to him after a while especially around your ovulation period.

I am just wondering why you could be aroused so easily when someone that you never fantasised about, touched your waist.

If you don't have any absurd thought about the colleague, just move on but be ready to warn him sternly if he doesn't that next time. Don't ever tell that your colleague how you felt about when he touched you. Also, don't tell your hubby about it. The consequence may be unpredictable

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Please be sincere. How long did you guys date before the marriage?

Most women are aware of such situation before their marriage. I knew a lady who was having fibroid and got married without telling the husband. Their marriage is about 7 years now and nothing to show.

You can divorce her on the ground of deception if she knew her condition before marriage and she didn't tell you. It is better that one person suffers than 2 people suffering such pain for too long. It might sound very brutal but just think about it.

Thank God you brought the issue to the public court. Please don't change the school for the girl.

Your wife is pregnant today, just as tomorrow is also pregnant. This message is from the Council of Elders.

I have been laughing out loud 🤣
The OP get enough free time

Deji is an APC decoy.
Don't be deceived.

This is one of the worst crimes in western world. They can lynch an identified pedophile both in or outside prison. The worst is that they are the most vulnerable in terms of attack by fellow prisoners.
I guess it is the most stigmatised crime.

ChildOfDoom:
betting hard since 2015

oloshos here and there since 2022


multiple loan sharks indebtedness since 2021



had to flee from my 6-digit paying job as i owe a lot physically and online


my misery is about to start

Betting is a big problem. I was introduced into it by a colleague in the office in 2017 or so.I was earning over N400k then as monthly salary. I lost over N500k to it. I took a bold step to delete my betting account and that was how I stopped it.

Fast forward to 2024 another colleague in the office showed me his small small winnings and before you know it, my old habbit came back. I created a betting account and within a year I lost over N7m. I was betting with N200k or N300k so that I could win big but nothing.

I took another break for about 4 months but each time I remembered the total amount I had lost, it would pain me. In May 2025, I started again but I was lucky to win N15.3m with N240k.

I feel happy now that I have gained something from these terrible gambling companies

I do not advise anyone to go into gambling. It has evil spirit that won't leave you once you go in there. Unfortunately, over 99% of gamblers will never recover their money "invested" in it.