₦airaland Forum

jaelz:
So in the Nigerian context, the guys always do all the spendings in a relationship and that leaves us wondering what the ladies do with their money, although many atimes I have always heard that women have more money that men in the real sense, I didn't believe until it happened to me, see my story below:

So I have been dating this girl for like a year plus now, and I always do all the spendings, bills, outings spendings and so on, but just last week she gave me her ATM and told me to help her witdthraw 80,000 from her account for her while coming back from work, on my way back I stopped at an ATM to withdraw for her, but one mind prompted me to check her account balance, when I did guys guess what I saw? This my babe wey dey always do like say she no get one Naira had close to 3.1 Million Naira in her account lying there breathing.

Omo I almost fainted at the ATM queue. Many ladies have money guys o, please guys kindly share how you found out your girlfriend had more money than she has been revealing.

I just pray that the devil does not use you now that you discovered this just like he used Chidinma Ojukwu.
Lazy man! Go and make your own money.

It is possible that some partners have not cheated before but I make bold to say that Anyone who has not cheated has not been presented with what I can refer to as a confidential opportunity.

You have the right to argue with yourself.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that?

You will one day get married and your wife will be cooking for all her ex-boy friends. You will know the best answer by then. Nonsense!

Cosbyrich:
fulani terrorist.God will still deal with you all.I made a mistake voting for Buhari.You all watch your back from God's anger.

You did not make any mistake. Even if Buhari contests for the president of your community or even that of your family politics, you will still collect the change they gave you and vote him again. We know you guys.
You can't vote this type of person twice and call it a mistake. Deal with it.

Jesuschristus:
KANU should be sentenced to life imprisonment with hard labor, that will send a clear message to other people like him in future.

I have no problems with your suggestion but what about his insurgent counterparts who have been arrested and rehabilitated? Some even promised to be voted as president of this country if they behave well.

Oh my country! The woman is a disgrace to her family and faith. Even her pastor will take her less serious after this.

Bro, marriage is good oo but don't marry who will kill you.

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your work place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

When you picked a job in a hotel, were you hoping to see praise and worship singers?

Does it mean no other meetings have held in your hotel?

Nigerians are highly sexual, they eat and breathe sex but pretentious because of religion.

Even you the investigative hotel worker taking roll call isn't exempted.

Sex is like a recreational activity and hobby for most Nigerians both young and old.

But our hypocrisy is out of this world !

Even the OP who is talking like this will do the worst when he marries due to his wealth of experience.

Nigerians are pretenders. They do one thing in secret and condemn it in public. In the case of Otaga, even the wife may be doing worse than the husband as somebody who works with politicians just that her case has remained secret. Now, the husband is being painted bad and unfortunately she may join in doing so too.
Even the unthinkable ones are involved in extra marital affairs. It is a case of "your own chapter has not been opened". Period!

Modified:

I forgot to add that if they ask thunder to strike all the cheating partners dead today, both married and unmarried, we may just be left with kids and a number of adults in the neighbourhood. �

Andy UBA or Heritage? Which one should be the correct name now that he is trying to "kill" the bank with bad debt?

An HMO or a HMO officer?

You can meet any kind of woman but once you start seeing money my brother the only woman you can sexually risk is your wife.

Nonexisting:
Were you there when he was beating her? Evidence ko evidence ni. An olosho can hate the cheap men around her but the real men around won't notice and when they do, won't give a fucck.

Nawaooo. You can dig oo. It is obvious her vibration is a transfer of aggression.

OlayemiAshraf:
I'm not mocking anyone ... What happened to this woman is a tragic incident , I wouldn't wish on any person .... May her soul rest in peace .... As for the "woman beater pastor , I have saved his picture , if I see him anywhere , ahh he'll need 6 orthodontist to refix his teeth ... I hate nonsense ... Beating a pregnant woman doesn't make any sense , that shit is absurd

The way you are struggling to prove your innocence may be how the man is struggling to prove his "innocence".

oluswaggz:
Omo I feel your pain. Mesef don tire, irony is that when I use a condom I can last one hour straight up. But let me just remove the condom under 1 minute I don drop.

Condom was helping me till I got married, I didn’t really feel it but now my wife does not like condom. I need help too

Hahahahaha... I won die oo for laughter.

You are either a lazy worker or you procrastinate a lot. Simple!
If you are not ready to work then resign. If other teachers are compliant why won't you?

My advice to you is simple. Just review your mum's life and make a choice.

Racoon:
Thread announcing the death of Lt.Gen.Joshua Niymel Dogonyaro(The late Langtang General).
Nigerians were unified in accepting the intervention and looked forward hopefully to progressive changes for the better. Almost two years later, it has become clear that the fulfillment of expectations is not forthcoming.

It is unfortunate that this quote is still very valid about the same person even after 35 years. Nigeria mumu die.

Someone should watch it at 4:46 and 5:30 mins.
That is why we are human being. No one knows tomorrow

Entayali:
My younger brother is about to register for JAMB for the second time and my mum insists he must study medicine. What's so special about medicine?

She feels that doctors are rich. I've been trying to convince her. What do I do to help my bro because he doesn't want to study medicine?

What are you trying to convince her about? That Doctors are poor?

Can anyone tell me where is Femi Adesina? It seems all is not as usual with him.

DuBLINGreenb:
Define close relative

The person who wrote this about her niece because I'm sure it has to be a woman, is a very big fool, why didn't you Write this when she was alive so that she can respond to your stupidity.

You just want to gain publicity and fame off her death, the girl had kidney disease it's a very normal thing.

Poverty and religious brainwash has made us see asthma, high blood pressure, sickle cell, fibroid, malaria, typhoid, stroke and more which are regular normal sickness as spiritual attacks and you think only evil people die.

Why do you people reason like fowl? Go to hospital for regular check ups you won't go, Ada Jesus had been treating kidney problem for more than 5 years before she even became famous, infact she did most of what she did to get money for her dialysis. She was sick before she even knew odumeje.

If I die after typing this you fools will say it is because of what I typed I died. You people are goats. Your education is a waste. Death is just as normal as birth, good people die, bad people also die, death is not punishment for evil or reward for good deeds.

I will die, you reading this will also eventually die no matter how long it takes none of us will live for ever.

But religion has turned your brain upside down that if someone you think is a bad man or infidel dies you rejoice like Pantami you say God has punished him.
But if someone you think is a good man dies you say God has called him. My brother all die na die.

I refuse to believe she was a bad person or she did evil simply because she died young from an illness she has been battling with for many years. After all it is you guys who say good people die young.

By the way I'm not a woman, I'm not Igbo, I'm not even a fan of Ada Jesus I only heard of her a day or two before her death and actually got to know of her and her case after her death.

God bless you.

Hmm

kmcutez:
You think it’s every girl in Nigeria that is as poor as the guy chatting her up?

The guy is poor and insecure. It's not necessary.
I will advise him not to ever let her girl know that he did this rubbish but then, it's already on social media.

The relationship may not survive this.

It's not only your eye balls that are big. Some other things are also looking big enough.

Good. But We like shows in Nigeria. Has the guy not been worshipping there since?

Or maybe the pastor join the rest of us to see him for the first time on social media too.

walcruise:
Someone should please explain how bonds work

See refresher

https://www.nairaland.com/search?q=bond+hotguy27&board=0

Which models? Most of the Ford vehicles are damn cheap because of maintenance issue.

adminlo:
Please how did you go about getting a court order against his account and retrieving the money ?
Sent u a pm

I think there are a lot of ways to get your debtor pay you back. In this my case, I approached a lawyer about it but his advice would not be easy for me since the guy was far from me. I rather chose to claim that it was a wrong transfer. Though, I explain to the guy who was processing it off record what really happened. I was just interested in placing restriction on his account so that he could call me. He didn't dispute the claim and the bank had to reverse the fund. While I paid 10% of the amount + 2k for obtaining the order, I also paid 5k plus for legal search report by the bank.

I have a terrible history with debtors. Let me find a way to summarise that.
1. I lent a brother 300k he paid only 80k and that was all.
2. I lent another brother 800k and he paid back 570k.
3. I lent yet another 1m he never returned even a kobo for over 3 years now. I have written the debt off. I have suspended borrowing brothers because they assume that I have much but it is not so. I'm just a contented person.
4. I lent two friends 9k and 5k respectively and they never paid back but never borrowed again.
5. I lent someone 455k and he paid me in piece meals (100k, 30k, 50k, 80k etc) in 4 months to the extent that I couldn't figure out what I did with the money. After I almost had issue with him.
6. A neighbour borrowed 99k and he paid after 3 months.
7. I lent another casual friend 99k for over 3 months he has not paid.

8. The one that pained me most is someone I barely knew well who called me and begged that he was in trouble that I should lend him 50k that by Monday (in 2 days time) he would pay back. I was not comfortable but I was thinking that he could also be of help one day. I transferred the amount to him.
To cut the story shot, he refused to pick my calls after few weeks. 5 months later, he was still not picking my calls. If I called with a strange number he would pick and once he heard my voice he would drop. I was over a thousand kilometres away from him. So it was almost impossible for me to travel to his place. Next thing I did was that I approached a court for a court order which I obtained against his account details.
Finally, I got my money reversed from his account but not until I spent 12k on the court process. He never called me even when he got the court notification till date.

Though, there are some requests that if u have it would be difficult to decline but I will be cautious going forward.

athaboi:
They will soon bring one mallam to scatter Nigeria Stock Exchange! Just watch who replaces him

They leave this type of business for those who know how to do it.

Hardened criminals are not remorseful. It serves him well.