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HeadNigga:
She is cheating. You have one option which is to throw her out(divorce). Her eyes go clear when the man deceiving her refuses to come take charge openly as her man.

Two bad options

Start getting sex elsewhere too but do it with protection so that when her madness stops you don't infect her with a disease you contracted while playing away matches. I hope the man is not digging her raw though coz in her case she will not only bring back a deadly disease but a bastard too.


The last option which is not an option is to endure coz you have endured enough from what I read. Endure cheating? Hell no. Man up

I can't say more. This is also my take.

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Have you discussed with your hubby how you feel nowadays? I suggest you open up with him and explain how honestly you need him to "service" you. He might make plans to intermittently visit you or bring you over to himself.

Preciousgirl:
What is wrong with men?
Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again
Knowing very well that I am married
Should I tell my husband?
Should I block him?
Please how do I handle it?

I am never interested in him

You gave him room to do that and you clearly knew how it all started again. If you like, brake your marriage, it is your cup of tea.

Why disturbing us?

Waynesteave:
Like you read up there, I don't actually know my age, but I can remember some event way back,
I lost my mum and dad so early and I grew up with grandma.

I remember my uncle coming to take me back to lag, in year 2000 precisely and I remember very well when that bomb blast at Ikeja cantoment happened for days in Lagos.

Now key important things to know is, when my uncle came to take me back to lag it was during third term holidays and I was on my way to primary 2 then but when I got to lag he enrroll me to private school and I was taken back to nursery 3 because baba (me) no Sabi even speak English as at then, and I still remember that very moment very well.

So like how many years of age do you guys think I might be then cuz all the memories are still fresh in my brain so for me to still remember everything then, I am thinking maybe i was 7 or 9 then. I'm so confuse.

You have more important things to worry than your age especially when it is not your fault. The most important thing about your age should be to maintain a consistent date of birth. About 98% of Northerners do not know their real date of birth and it has never been an issue like the Southerners always make it look.
Face your front and see how you live longer and a good life for your own children.

When he voted Buhari in 2015 and 19 did Yoruba people not contest?

This is why Nigeria is backward. Tribal bigot everywhere.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

If you are not pretty with brain please do not form too hard for a man that you will eventually accept.

This man must have suffered in his life. He talks like a retired Lagos bus conductor

If you are not lucky to have a good paying job in this country of today as an adult you are, it can be a serious reason for HBP

Fear politicians. If Obi wins tomorrow, he will tell you how their relationship dates back to when he was a toddler.

It is obvious that cheating by men is completely different from cheating by women.

You gerrit...?

IamAtikulate:
1. Tinubu Support Group has been planning a solidarity Walk in Kano since February.

2. Governor Ganduje was appointed Chairman of the solidarity Walk committee.

3. Over 120 different Tinubu support groups signed up for the walk and each were asked to mobilize separately to boost the number of participants.

4. The walk was scheduled to hold on 31st July from the Emir palace to the Government house

6. Tinubu inaugurated the committee about 14 days to the date.

7. Tinubu Supporters boasted that Tinubu's solidarity Walk committee has more members than the number of votes Peter Obi will get in Kano.

8. Today is 11 August and we never hear anything about the solidarity Walk.

Please what happened to our two million solidarity Walk?

Politics is a game of interest. It appears the governor is not happy over the choice of BAT's Vice

Tonero5200:
I won't say I'm ugly let's just am an average looking guy, every time I get to see boys who are handsome or finer than me I get moody, angry and jealous about their looks...the way people stare at them and wish they are their friends.

I had an issue with one the other time just a minor misunderstanding I took it to another level... which was very wrong of me.

God is to be blamed, why did he create some people normal and the other better looking..and yet they say he is not a partial God.

Forget! Na money be fine bobo ����

Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening everyone , so I came across a particular status post on my WhatsApp, which made me to explore more thinking and I arrive at this particular question: [/b]girls that date cute guys, how do you cope?[b].

Cuz I understand everyone has sight for something good, and we all desire and always want it to belong to us. Which makes the competition very high etc sha.. even with the high competition, I don't I have seen anyone in their right sense ever desired something that's bad or poor? We all want the best, either in human, finances, career and etc.. Gbogbo wa la Mon ikan to da, gbo gbo wa la de n Fe.

So at the verge of realising this point, I became troubled a little, that what if the guy I later choose to go with is cute and girls are all over him? How do I cope, what are the things I need to understand to make my relationship with him last and many more guidance sha. So I deem it fit to open a thread on it, to learn from relationship gurus .

Cuz I can remember well, I have an elder brother who is dark and very cute, and I know how girls throw themselves over him etc .. infact, girls wey even dey serious relationships o .. wey old pass him self.. like girls that some have even done introduction o, o deep . Pls share your thoughts.

You're likely not a fine girl or maybe you are just an average one whose self confidence is low.
Now, do you think that the reason why ladies go after married men is just fineness? It isn't. That ugly rich man you may know has more ladies around him than any poor fine dude.

But if you don't want ladies around your man, just marry a poor average or ugly man and enjoy him alone.

What if it was a suicide mission?

You will pass the next one. Just be calm when you want to start. I believe it is computer base test.

Don't waste time on any question you don't understand or know the answer at a glance. Move to the next until you get to the last question. Thereafter, you can go back to attempt those questions that you couldn't answer.

How many top government officials from the developed countries visit and roam the streets of Nigeria?
Useless Nigerian politicians.

VeryWickedMan:
How about your Mom?

The meme and the question gave me joy. A lot of things are hidden in them.

I do not mean to make the Op feel bad but if must be objective I would ask him same question and also go further to attempt answering that if he is not willing to do so.

For the fact that he is seeing Yahoo Yahoo as the alternative to studying is enough to reveal to us that he is a lazy and also full of entitlement mentality.

Is there anyone stopping you from joining the Yahoo Yahoo business today if you think it is easy and right?

Your parents are separated; have you told us what led to the separation? What effort have you made to reconcile them? Did you blindly support your mum even when she seemed to be wrong or not? How did you empathize with your dad when he probably was helplessly complaining of the emotional torture he was going through in your mother's hands? Was your father earning big enough as at the time your mother left him or is it because he has struggled and found his footing again and now you know he is your father? If your father is drinking away such amount of money, have you tried to sit down with him to discuss that? I have too many questions to ask but I feel I should just summarize them by asking this one more question; are you sure you are his biological son? This last question could be the reason for the separation and also why he is not interested in you.

Go back to your "faultless" mum and ask her to tell you the truth. Remember, you are a man and you are not yet sure of what future holds for you in terms of relationship. While you plan to make your "father" suffer you may never know how your own old age will be.

Sue for peace and ask God for wisdom and directions. Some people who don't have parents or rich parents still survive and become successful in life.

Prettylitlady:
Goodday NL members.. I am here for any matured advice I can get as I understand we have matured people here who can talk senses into my head and make me realise one or two things.

I am in my mid 20's, I dated my Ex for few years, we were both students then in one of the West Universities (graduates now) and I really loved him, it was true love I felt for him to be honest, he wasn't working, I don't demand for money from him or anything, I sell clothes, shoes, bags and do other small businesses while schooling, that's how I foot my own Bills and also give him money sometimes when in need. His family knows me, my family knows him like we were so much in each other(or so I thought). I saw no other guy except him, I built my world around him, we were best of friends as I am an introvert and really don't keep friends so he was my all.
Even though it was a tough decision to make, I had to break up with him due to the following reasons;
1. He has beaten me once and promised not to do it again but he still slapped me in every slightest provocation.
2. He wanted to go into yahoo yahoo. That's not the kind of partner I want, I want a legit hustler not a fraudster.
3. He sometimes cheats on me and I will forgive him always. He tells me I am the main while the others is just for cruise that every guy cheats
4. He suddenly started smoking and drinking due to friends influence I guess (Eew, I don't want that)
5. He is Lazy, always wanting big money buh doesn't want to work. I told him to Start from somewhere after our graduation no matter how little buh he won't heed.
6. He always talks dirty with his female friends even in my presence, I wonder what happens behind me.

I ended the relationship after so much talking, pleas and counselling hoping he will change but he didn't. I dated another guy 2 months later, I know nobody is perfect but trust me when I say my current guy is all I ever wanted in a man. But the truth is I really do not love him that deep, He treats me fine and all but I still feel something for my ex maybe because I was already soo used to him. My boyfriend has told me to go back if that's what I want because he doesn't want a divided attention. I know I can't break up with him because it will hurt him so badly and my conscience won't even allow me because he has done literally nothing wrong, yes we normally have our ups and downs but he hasn't done anything worth breaking up over with.

I just need advice on how I can get this my ex off my head for good. We don't communicate, I have deleted all his numbers, We have been separated for few months now but I still think of him every single day even when I have a good guy already. I don't know what is wrong with me pleasee

Someone with all these bad characters listed above still has a woman thinking of him. Some women give men reason to treat them badly.

The woman is already a ghost and should be allowed to be. She has no political relevance.

Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!

I have not followed your previous stories and I may not have time to go and check that either but I want to let you know that bringing your family issues online is not the best idea.

There are only two conditions for a successful marriage:

2 matured minds = success
1 matured + 1 immatured minds = success
2 immatured minds = failure

Where exactly do you think your marriage belongs here?

6 packs gone just like the standing breasts have gone too.

Life inside marriage!

Why has he not said this since he was in charge?

Henry651:
so I applied brake and wind down trying to purchase one for myself.

How do you explain this to the court?

I'm not discouraging you but I'm afraid you may not have the time and money to pursue the case.

Whenever you are on the road, do not claim to be the king especially when you are not.

Provision stores

Just start doing her and her other partners na.

Below half of my a month package.

lightdream:
No tithe?

No! I never paid tithe. Though, I do charity stuff.
I hope I can start paying tithe one day.

Wilson5183:
Please which side hustle are you into.

I want to start a side hustle but I Dnt know wat business to start.

I opened an outlet where I deal on Solar Energy and CCTV materials. I also have adhoc engineers on standby for installations at cheaper cost and it makes people patronise me

Op

Lucky you!

Your access to the MD aided your victory. What you went through is what most people are going through in their work places. Unfortunately, it is not as easy as anyone may think to "fight" your boss. They have so much privileges that they use to oppress their subordinates but one weapon that has proven effective in dealing with them is to be an expert - a knowledge bank, a solution provider and a target oriented fellow in your work place.

Warning.

Remember, the worst time to "fight" your boss is when you are wrong. It will look as if that is how you have always been if the issue should escalate.

I was saving 50% but increased it to 80% after my pay increase last 2 years. I use 20% for the family and friends. My side hustle is also very helpful.