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officialmario:
A 300level student of Federal College of Education (name withheld) was expelled after Confessing to the school management of using a fake olevel result.

It all happened that members of the Deeper Life Bible Church student fellowship had preached to her to change from her old ways and she accepted to give her life, she decided to confess all her sins to the college provost who happens to be a deeper life campus fellowship director.

After about two weeks, she was summoned to the Disciplinary committee to come and face panel, She was found guilty and was expelled from the college, and her picture was pasted ot the entrance of the school gate.

I felt bad after hearing her story.
What if she had not confess all her sins to the man? That means she could have graduated successfuly without any hindrance.
What's your say and opinion on this?

She simply passed the heavy burden to the director who unfortunately could not harbour it hence his decision to push the burden away from himself. Well, I would say she was carried away by the "anointing".
I hope the man would follow it up with a prosecution to conclude the matter properly.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

I believe your story to be real. You may be surprise to know that many marriages are in this category nowadays.

I was telling my wife the other day that there are many married women who are not experiencing orgasm with their hubbies but she was surprised to hear that. She believed that every woman is satisfied just as the man does each time they meet.

Well, let me give you workabke solutions.

1. Your hubby should engage in small exercises daily.
2. He should eat more of fruits in places of square meals.
3. He should desist from much sugary intake.
4. He can drink a bottle of Guinness before the match begins.
5. You both should engage in a long fplay.
6. He can use flex condom sometimes.
7. You should help him build his confidence by encouraging him to do all the above.

As for licking your honey pot, I cannot guarantee you that but if I may ask, do you carrot him?

Fahdiga:
After subjecting the woman to physical and emotional trauma the same court that gave the search warrant is now withdrawing it. Banana republic

Don't mind them. Useless people everywhere! If they had succeeded and possibly had seen any incriminating evidence would the Magistrate do a U-turn?

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

How old is your mum? Is she still sexually active? It might also be that your father's children are all grown and maybe your mum is frequently visiting you and your siblings for one reason or the other while your dad is left behind alone.

At this level, it is not just about sending your dad money while his heartthrob is not available for them to enjoy it. Create moments for your dad and mum to go on a vacation together. Even if it is just traveling out of town to lodge in a good hotel together for atleast 3 days, it will be a great moment for your dad as well.

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.
I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

I see many ladies like you everyday and I wonder how they feel.

The worst here is that you didn't see any fault or blame yourself for f^cking around and "enjoying" yourself when you were supposed to accept one of the numerous suitors that wanted your hand in marriage at your prime age. You were probably gallivanting from one night club to the other with different guys who would never consider you decent as a wife material when they want to make their decisions.

You have learnt your lessons though very late already.

Well, your last resort now is to run to God. There is nothing He cannot perfect!

I suspect that this is deliberate and ritualistic.

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pigineng:
I find it difficult and impossible to urinate in public rest rooms, and in the presence of anybody no matter how pressed I am.

I don't think it is a problem. You are probably not above thirty. By the time you get more mature your bladder and urinary track will enlarge more and you will have easy flow of urine without delay. By then you won't be able to push your urine up to the level of your head or chest as you can probably do now.

siofra:
There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted.
Is it okay to tell him this?
Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?

Can you swear that you actually don't have vaginal infection? I feel you do.

ashewoboy:
What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

We are about to celebrate 10th anniversary and till date my wife waits for me despite my several appeals for her not to.

Darhmmy:
Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Go and seek further advice from your father. You seem to be the last daughter of the devil.

Nonsense!

Kisstomboli:
Depression is real.. I have been having symptoms lately and decided to go run a general test and i tested positive to HIV.

Please avoid unprotected sex my people.. am loosing it

How some people do unprotected stuff to different partners or strangers is what remains like a mystery to me. It may be tough but that is not the end of life for you. It just opened a new chapter for you and you can face it without fear. Be strong.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Let me be frank with you, you are not satisfying her on the bed. You may say "but we dated for 3 years and she never complained". My brother, I have just told you the problem. You were using condoms before but now, the whole thing is juicy and waiting for you to bang flesh to flesh for long but NEPA is taking light unexpectedly.

Go and do something to avoid crashing your marriage. Be confident! Stop taking sugary drinks. Start doing exercise. Start taking fruits especially water melon, banana, coconut, bitter Kola etc

Engage her in a serious pre-intimacy, s*ck her and let her cum severally before trusting in.

Thank me later.

Channels TV didn't envisage this during their romance over six years ago I supposed. This burden is only their own.

ivolt:
I pity their kids.
They will likely face several health challenges in the future.

But why publicize it?

No wonder there are a lot of health challenges including Covid19 in the world today. It happened in the bible Genesis 19:30-38

Nonpartisan1:
How come most of them are always broke if they earn that much?

Hahahahahaha...

Your question is in order!

Well, let me tell you some secrets.
About 70% of workforce in Nigeria Banks is made of of junior workers who are tellers, marketing associates, security guards, messengers, cleaners, support staff etc. Another 15-20% are the employees at the bottom ladder of the senior staff cadre whose pay range from 100k to 300k

Most of the bank employees who come online to discuss their work environments or boast around as bankers are basically from the above mentioned categories.

It would therefore, be normal to assume they are broke especially if they don't drive exotic cars, wear designer clothes, shoes, wrist watches or build mansions as expected of rich people. However, they still try to live a decent life.

Though, naira value is going southward against other currencies, those who enjoy financial stability are those that earn from 350k to 1.5m as their basic monthly take-homes. These categories of bank employees are within 10-15% of the entire workforce excluding performance or annual bonuses that also run in millions in some cases.

You need a hot slap for a brain reset.

You just want to cause problem for the poor woman.

This is embarrassing! He will never forget this experience in his entire life time.

He goofed.

Great lessons for corporate employees in particular. One needs to know the mission and vision of his organisation, core value, full names of atleast MD/CEO and Chairman.

There can be accident anywhere but as it is now, Nigerian roads now are nightmares. From accidents robbery to kidnapping.

If you can afford to fly when you have a long journey to make, pls do.

crossover:
I met my wonderful wife on Badoo in Aug. 2013 and we got married in Mar 2014.

Wow! Interesting!

Back then, I met one girl on badoo. That was when badoo was new. So cute and fresh. We got chatting. I discovered she was in her first year in the university. It wasn't long before she asked for money. That was N3k. Due to her beauty, I did not even asked her why asking for money when we had not gotten to know ourselves that much. I just felt as a student she needed the money.

We kept chatting till one day, she uploaded new pictures but they were private and I couldn't view them. I had to request for access but she denied. I became curious and kept on asking her why she was denying me access until she agreed to permit me to view them. I was shocked when I opened them. Lo and behold! They were her nude pictures with fresh b**bs!

As normal, I started imagining alot of things. I had to invite her over after much persuasion. I waited at the airport to pick her up. I had to claim that I had arranged a taxi driver to pick her up in case I noticed anything funny. To my surprise, she was prettier than I saw on the pictures - so fresh! Everything in perfect shapes and figures. Very jovial and open also.

Well, the rest was history. We have been friends till date.

Goodplace:
Please kindly advice on the topic.

With only 80k monthly take home, you should not rent an apartment worth more than 160k per annum on the max.

duro4chang:
Haaaaaaa!!! It is finished!Men are becoming endangered species. What a pity!!!

It's like you don't get the point. How eoukd she inherit his wealth if she had opted for divorce?

donbachi:
No perfect woman.but,make we no meet the ones wey go kill us.

It would be fair to have said "No perfect human" being .
Same way a man wants a "good" woman is how a woman wants a "good" man.

Though, I think understanding is more important than love in a marriage.

tinsel:
FIRST OPTION

Firstly, the NEC of the Party can URGENTLY meet and consider and reconstitute the CECPC to exclude, not only Gov. Buni, but anyone holding ANY executive position in any government establishment as stipulated in Article 17 of the APC Constitution.

But Mr Festus was aware of the illegality of the Government Executive Officers running the party affairs since as opposed to the provision of the party's constitution quoted herein.

Fyngal1:
There is. Count 14 days from the first day of menstruation and have se.x on that day. It works


Ensure that you do not have intercourse before that day

That is only when the menstrual circle is 28 days

flawlesskayc:
Hi all.

Has anyone worked towards or tried conceiving a particular gender and it worked??
Kindly drop tips, advise e.t.c.

Ps - Please Don’t come here preaching how every child is a child!.
WE ALL KNOW THAT!.

Thank you.

I’m a mom of 2 beautiful girls & would love to have a son next.

With proper calculation and timing, there is a 95% chance of determining your child sex.

By God's grace, I was able to determine the sex of each of my 4 kids.

Most women do not even know how their bodies work. I can use my wife as an example. I thought her everything she knows about ovulation, monthly circle, safe period, pregnancy and how to determine the sex of a child.

Firstly, master the pattern of your monthly circle so you can know the exact day of your ovulation. I'll will use a regular monthly circle to explain this to you. E.g, if your monthly circle is 28 days, it means your ovulation is on the 14th day from the day you start menstruation.

Secondly, you should know that as a woman, you produce only X chromosomes while the man produces both X and Y chromosomes.

Thirdly, know that when the man's X Chromosome meets the woman's X Chromosome, the union will produce a female child. And when the man's Y chromosome meets the woman's X chromosome, the outcome will be a male child.

Again, Y chromosome swims faster that X chromosome but dies faster than the the later depending on many conditions from where is is coming from and the condition inside the vagina. This means that, if you want a male child I will advise you not to meet your husband any day before the ovulation period/day.

If the sperms are deposited on the day the eggs are already released (ovulation) there is usually struggle among the X and Y chromosome sperms to fertilise or fuse with the woman's egg and usually the Y chromosome swims faster and does the needful before the X chromosome.

However, if there was an intercourse 3 to 1 day before the ovulation, the chances of Y chromosomes being dead will increase leaving X chromosome that can live 72 hours and above to still be swimming and waiting and immediate fertilisation can take place as soon as ovulation occurs.

In a summary, if you want a BOY meet with your partner on the ovulation day (don't allow sperm deposit before ovulation) and if it is a GIRL you want allow sperms deposit 2 days before ovulation. The chances of getting what you want will be higher.

Note:
X+Y = boy
X+X = girl
I'm not aware of Y+Y

Try this and thank me later.

I'm not a medical expert but read widely and this worked for me.

Much female comments here still show that they have sympathy for feminists.

The truth is that most women that are claiming to be feminists really think that it's all about opposing the men. To me, they can fight for female rights without being extremists.

That was how one woman was throwing jabs on her husband on a national TV show only for her to get home and faced severe consequences from him. Since that period I have not seen her face on a TV show again.

I dated one fine babe in the university (thank God I didn't marry her) who was always claiming she would fight for the women's right when she finished school. I saw that as a red �flag and I made up my mind. 15 years later, she is still looking for a husband.

No sensible man will marry an opposing woman.

It is amazing to see how the narrative is being changed. So, it is now the duty of the governor or the state to equip and look after a Federal security agency not the president or Federal government again?

Even the security agents are confused in this country. They are also afraid to call out the president over his failure.

Op

This is pathetic.

However, I believe you can still work on the marriage and make it a success because I can see you sound like someone with a mature mind. I'm also looking at it that if you have children already and you decide to divorce now, it may give room for your children to be raised by a divorced (single) parent and your children may transfer their anger to their own partners later on.
My advice is that you should start having a periodic (e.g. monthly) one-on-one review of the strengths and weaknesses in your marriage with your wife with effort on sustaining the strengths and finding solutions to your weaknesses together.

Personally, I don't subscribe to seeking the services of marriage counsellors if actually both of you are mentally sound. You will both be more proud if you can resolve your challenges yourselves.

A 3 year old marriage is at the last stage of the volatile period and if you survive it you can survive future challenges as there will always be issues in any marriage.

Quit if you think it is too toxic to remain in the marriage especially if you can't handle it anymore.

This is a slap to the security agents in this country.

After living in a particular place for over 37 years, all of you are still staying in shanties while strangers in your own home states in the Northern Nigeria are occupying the G.R.As and other highbrow areas in their mansions just within a few years of relocating there?
This is why one Nigeria is not a reality.