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pigineng:
I find it difficult and impossible to urinate in public rest rooms, and in the presence of anybody no matter how pressed I am.

I don't think it is a problem. You are probably not above thirty. By the time you get more mature your bladder and urinary track will enlarge more and you will have easy flow of urine without delay. By then you won't be able to push your urine up to the level of your head or chest as you can probably do now.

siofra:
There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted.
Is it okay to tell him this?
Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?

Can you swear that you actually don't have vaginal infection? I feel you do.

ashewoboy:
What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

We are about to celebrate 10th anniversary and till date my wife waits for me despite my several appeals for her not to.

Darhmmy:
Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Go and seek further advice from your father. You seem to be the last daughter of the devil.

Nonsense!

Kisstomboli:
Depression is real.. I have been having symptoms lately and decided to go run a general test and i tested positive to HIV.

Please avoid unprotected sex my people.. am loosing it

How some people do unprotected stuff to different partners or strangers is what remains like a mystery to me. It may be tough but that is not the end of life for you. It just opened a new chapter for you and you can face it without fear. Be strong.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Let me be frank with you, you are not satisfying her on the bed. You may say "but we dated for 3 years and she never complained". My brother, I have just told you the problem. You were using condoms before but now, the whole thing is juicy and waiting for you to bang flesh to flesh for long but NEPA is taking light unexpectedly.

Go and do something to avoid crashing your marriage. Be confident! Stop taking sugary drinks. Start doing exercise. Start taking fruits especially water melon, banana, coconut, bitter Kola etc

Engage her in a serious pre-intimacy, s*ck her and let her cum severally before trusting in.

Thank me later.

Channels TV didn't envisage this during their romance over six years ago I supposed. This burden is only their own.

ivolt:
I pity their kids.
They will likely face several health challenges in the future.

But why publicize it?

No wonder there are a lot of health challenges including Covid19 in the world today. It happened in the bible Genesis 19:30-38

Nonpartisan1:
How come most of them are always broke if they earn that much?

Hahahahahaha...

Your question is in order!

Well, let me tell you some secrets.
About 70% of workforce in Nigeria Banks is made of of junior workers who are tellers, marketing associates, security guards, messengers, cleaners, support staff etc. Another 15-20% are the employees at the bottom ladder of the senior staff cadre whose pay range from 100k to 300k

Most of the bank employees who come online to discuss their work environments or boast around as bankers are basically from the above mentioned categories.

It would therefore, be normal to assume they are broke especially if they don't drive exotic cars, wear designer clothes, shoes, wrist watches or build mansions as expected of rich people. However, they still try to live a decent life.

Though, naira value is going southward against other currencies, those who enjoy financial stability are those that earn from 350k to 1.5m as their basic monthly take-homes. These categories of bank employees are within 10-15% of the entire workforce excluding performance or annual bonuses that also run in millions in some cases.

You need a hot slap for a brain reset.

You just want to cause problem for the poor woman.

This is embarrassing! He will never forget this experience in his entire life time.

He goofed.

Great lessons for corporate employees in particular. One needs to know the mission and vision of his organisation, core value, full names of atleast MD/CEO and Chairman.

There can be accident anywhere but as it is now, Nigerian roads now are nightmares. From accidents robbery to kidnapping.

If you can afford to fly when you have a long journey to make, pls do.

crossover:
I met my wonderful wife on Badoo in Aug. 2013 and we got married in Mar 2014.

Wow! Interesting!

Back then, I met one girl on badoo. That was when badoo was new. So cute and fresh. We got chatting. I discovered she was in her first year in the university. It wasn't long before she asked for money. That was N3k. Due to her beauty, I did not even asked her why asking for money when we had not gotten to know ourselves that much. I just felt as a student she needed the money.

We kept chatting till one day, she uploaded new pictures but they were private and I couldn't view them. I had to request for access but she denied. I became curious and kept on asking her why she was denying me access until she agreed to permit me to view them. I was shocked when I opened them. Lo and behold! They were her nude pictures with fresh b**bs!

As normal, I started imagining alot of things. I had to invite her over after much persuasion. I waited at the airport to pick her up. I had to claim that I had arranged a taxi driver to pick her up in case I noticed anything funny. To my surprise, she was prettier than I saw on the pictures - so fresh! Everything in perfect shapes and figures. Very jovial and open also.

Well, the rest was history. We have been friends till date.

Goodplace:
Please kindly advice on the topic.

With only 80k monthly take home, you should not rent an apartment worth more than 160k per annum on the max.

duro4chang:
Haaaaaaa!!! It is finished!Men are becoming endangered species. What a pity!!!

It's like you don't get the point. How eoukd she inherit his wealth if she had opted for divorce?

donbachi:
No perfect woman.but,make we no meet the ones wey go kill us.

It would be fair to have said "No perfect human" being .
Same way a man wants a "good" woman is how a woman wants a "good" man.

Though, I think understanding is more important than love in a marriage.

tinsel:
FIRST OPTION

Firstly, the NEC of the Party can URGENTLY meet and consider and reconstitute the CECPC to exclude, not only Gov. Buni, but anyone holding ANY executive position in any government establishment as stipulated in Article 17 of the APC Constitution.

But Mr Festus was aware of the illegality of the Government Executive Officers running the party affairs since as opposed to the provision of the party's constitution quoted herein.

Fyngal1:
There is. Count 14 days from the first day of menstruation and have se.x on that day. It works


Ensure that you do not have intercourse before that day

That is only when the menstrual circle is 28 days

flawlesskayc:
Hi all.

Has anyone worked towards or tried conceiving a particular gender and it worked??
Kindly drop tips, advise e.t.c.

Ps - Please Don’t come here preaching how every child is a child!.
WE ALL KNOW THAT!.

Thank you.

I’m a mom of 2 beautiful girls & would love to have a son next.

With proper calculation and timing, there is a 95% chance of determining your child sex.

By God's grace, I was able to determine the sex of each of my 4 kids.

Most women do not even know how their bodies work. I can use my wife as an example. I thought her everything she knows about ovulation, monthly circle, safe period, pregnancy and how to determine the sex of a child.

Firstly, master the pattern of your monthly circle so you can know the exact day of your ovulation. I'll will use a regular monthly circle to explain this to you. E.g, if your monthly circle is 28 days, it means your ovulation is on the 14th day from the day you start menstruation.

Secondly, you should know that as a woman, you produce only X chromosomes while the man produces both X and Y chromosomes.

Thirdly, know that when the man's X Chromosome meets the woman's X Chromosome, the union will produce a female child. And when the man's Y chromosome meets the woman's X chromosome, the outcome will be a male child.

Again, Y chromosome swims faster that X chromosome but dies faster than the the later depending on many conditions from where is is coming from and the condition inside the vagina. This means that, if you want a male child I will advise you not to meet your husband any day before the ovulation period/day.

If the sperms are deposited on the day the eggs are already released (ovulation) there is usually struggle among the X and Y chromosome sperms to fertilise or fuse with the woman's egg and usually the Y chromosome swims faster and does the needful before the X chromosome.

However, if there was an intercourse 3 to 1 day before the ovulation, the chances of Y chromosomes being dead will increase leaving X chromosome that can live 72 hours and above to still be swimming and waiting and immediate fertilisation can take place as soon as ovulation occurs.

In a summary, if you want a BOY meet with your partner on the ovulation day (don't allow sperm deposit before ovulation) and if it is a GIRL you want allow sperms deposit 2 days before ovulation. The chances of getting what you want will be higher.

Note:
X+Y = boy
X+X = girl
I'm not aware of Y+Y

Try this and thank me later.

I'm not a medical expert but read widely and this worked for me.

Much female comments here still show that they have sympathy for feminists.

The truth is that most women that are claiming to be feminists really think that it's all about opposing the men. To me, they can fight for female rights without being extremists.

That was how one woman was throwing jabs on her husband on a national TV show only for her to get home and faced severe consequences from him. Since that period I have not seen her face on a TV show again.

I dated one fine babe in the university (thank God I didn't marry her) who was always claiming she would fight for the women's right when she finished school. I saw that as a red �flag and I made up my mind. 15 years later, she is still looking for a husband.

No sensible man will marry an opposing woman.

It is amazing to see how the narrative is being changed. So, it is now the duty of the governor or the state to equip and look after a Federal security agency not the president or Federal government again?

Even the security agents are confused in this country. They are also afraid to call out the president over his failure.

Op

This is pathetic.

However, I believe you can still work on the marriage and make it a success because I can see you sound like someone with a mature mind. I'm also looking at it that if you have children already and you decide to divorce now, it may give room for your children to be raised by a divorced (single) parent and your children may transfer their anger to their own partners later on.
My advice is that you should start having a periodic (e.g. monthly) one-on-one review of the strengths and weaknesses in your marriage with your wife with effort on sustaining the strengths and finding solutions to your weaknesses together.

Personally, I don't subscribe to seeking the services of marriage counsellors if actually both of you are mentally sound. You will both be more proud if you can resolve your challenges yourselves.

A 3 year old marriage is at the last stage of the volatile period and if you survive it you can survive future challenges as there will always be issues in any marriage.

Quit if you think it is too toxic to remain in the marriage especially if you can't handle it anymore.

This is a slap to the security agents in this country.

After living in a particular place for over 37 years, all of you are still staying in shanties while strangers in your own home states in the Northern Nigeria are occupying the G.R.As and other highbrow areas in their mansions just within a few years of relocating there?
This is why one Nigeria is not a reality.

jaelz:
So in the Nigerian context, the guys always do all the spendings in a relationship and that leaves us wondering what the ladies do with their money, although many atimes I have always heard that women have more money that men in the real sense, I didn't believe until it happened to me, see my story below:

So I have been dating this girl for like a year plus now, and I always do all the spendings, bills, outings spendings and so on, but just last week she gave me her ATM and told me to help her witdthraw 80,000 from her account for her while coming back from work, on my way back I stopped at an ATM to withdraw for her, but one mind prompted me to check her account balance, when I did guys guess what I saw? This my babe wey dey always do like say she no get one Naira had close to 3.1 Million Naira in her account lying there breathing.

Omo I almost fainted at the ATM queue. Many ladies have money guys o, please guys kindly share how you found out your girlfriend had more money than she has been revealing.

I just pray that the devil does not use you now that you discovered this just like he used Chidinma Ojukwu.
Lazy man! Go and make your own money.

It is possible that some partners have not cheated before but I make bold to say that Anyone who has not cheated has not been presented with what I can refer to as a confidential opportunity.

You have the right to argue with yourself.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that?

You will one day get married and your wife will be cooking for all her ex-boy friends. You will know the best answer by then. Nonsense!

Cosbyrich:
fulani terrorist.God will still deal with you all.I made a mistake voting for Buhari.You all watch your back from God's anger.

You did not make any mistake. Even if Buhari contests for the president of your community or even that of your family politics, you will still collect the change they gave you and vote him again. We know you guys.
You can't vote this type of person twice and call it a mistake. Deal with it.

Jesuschristus:
KANU should be sentenced to life imprisonment with hard labor, that will send a clear message to other people like him in future.

I have no problems with your suggestion but what about his insurgent counterparts who have been arrested and rehabilitated? Some even promised to be voted as president of this country if they behave well.

Oh my country! The woman is a disgrace to her family and faith. Even her pastor will take her less serious after this.