₦airaland Forum

OOzz:
Wike the idiot is wasting Rivers money with impunity

if he is not gifting 500m to Sokoto state, he is giving artists millions of naira. Who approved those sums he is spending like his personal money??

If he gifts you 10k "tradermoni" now your mood will swing

Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.

Do you frown only when men try to get your attention or everybody? If it is to everybody, then you are possibly maturing to be a full blown sadist which could be caused by poverty and unfriendly environment where you stay. On the other hand, if it is only men you frown at, then I would tell you that you were probably taken advantage of by a man you least expected or you have been heart broken by a man who is far above your age in the past and you have come to think that love does not exist.

Whichever way, you can win your happiness back. Just believe that love exists. When you are in a beautiful relationship it can make you be a happy person anywhere you are. Dont go into any relationship trusting that it must end in marriage. Just be in a casual relationship and be open minded for any outcome. Also try to be friend with happy people. You can't be sad around them.
Above all, live positively.

Guest911:
My tenant just reminded to come and collect rent lol. Who else have experienced stress free tenants before.

He even called and said please add electricity bill so I can pay everything lol

Is Nigeria getting better?

The rent is reasonable and he can afford it. Simple!
Increase the rent beyond reasonable amount or not commensurate with the apartment and see his other behaviour.

It isn't that much surprise that at 23 you are already a full blown olosho. What I'm surprised at is how you sound so mentally demented and talked about sex at this age in such a manner that can best be described as reckless abandon.
You sound sick, weak, helpless and disgusting. It will take a strong spirit to revive or save you.
I also guess that you are ugly and below average mentally.
How may we help you?

Kinematics:
Natural method of family planning fails more than any other method.

Lol. If you know the ABCD of it you are in for the best. I have used it for years and it never fails.

The truth is that natural family planning is the best if you can be careful and patient.

Modified:

Just stay off during ovulation period - If possible, sleep separately in different rooms.

saphiere:
God instead of a womanizer may I remain single.

Men are terrible.

Young lady,

Many ladies that thought like this later changed their minds. Please be advised that men and cheating are like bread and butter. No man, I repeat, No man, if given opportunity will not cheat on the wife with a beautiful damsel. Quote me anywhere.
So, calm down and reset your mind. That way, you will never be disappointed in any man and you will have less suspicion and enjoy more in your relationship. The one you trust most may be cheating more on you. That is how it works.

2 weeks

Modified:

I seriously searched for job during my NYSC program. I was writing aptitude tests which was one major way of getting job then. I was lucky to get one which I'm still doing till date.

My advice to fresh graduates looking for jobs now is to be more serious while job hunting. Don't have boundaries - apply for jobs both within and outside the country. Be serious as if you have been given your last chance. While doing so, ensure you engage in any legitimate means of making money. Your breakthrough will come in a surprise way.

Goodluck!

From the way you sound, you are either very poor, jobless or have no plan for your future or all of the above.

Stay away from sexual advance from a married woman. The danger is limitless.

Switchman:
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Due to her age and desperation, we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job.

I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate.


Thanks
Switchman

To be honest, you could have done worst than what she is doing to you now if you had gotten a better job as soon as you moved to Abuja. Just go through the quote up here again. You never loved her especially as she did to you. You wanted to use advantage of her situations but karma is not patient to deal with you thereafter. The type of karma that was assigned to you in this case is an upfront type. Let me say it in clear terms - deep inside you, you know you don't love this girl for real. Just try and walk away very early and stop deceiving her. You will see how things will start being ok with you.

Elliot2:
Bravo! This is what every man should experience, an understanding woman, one who does not have entitlement mentality. Men are willing to spend more in this case. You don't have to nag a man to death when you know he is putting his best but not enough, a little appreciation and encouragement does it magic.

You are absolutely right bro. Close to 10 years, I still have reasons to appreciate that gift from God especially as bizarre stories are always flying on social media. I wish every marriage should experience peace of mind even beyond how I do.

Prospertochu:
My wife and I are always arguing because she keeps asking for more money my salary is 55k I use to give her 20k monthly, 10 monthly to my mother and I use 20 and save 5k she said the money wasn't enough that I am stingy, I now started giving her 25k she is still complaining about the money not being enough.

I swear, I'm marrying an angel.

Damn! I earn over 500k monthly and I give her not up to 30k cash as monthly house keep (which she basically spends on snacks for our kids) while we shop together to buy other house needs yet she doesn't complain. Although, she knows how I spend the money including how much I save, she still supports from her meager minimum wage salary.

In fact, once I'm done with the project at hand, I will place her on 100k monthly allowance. May God help me.

Modified:
I forgot to advise the OP to hustle more and take responsibility of the situation because even the 55k is not sufficient for the 3 kids' care in a month. His situation should serve as a lesson for all. The woman is right. That amount is not enough at all.

This is graphic!

You have also concluded the interview here. So, if it should be by it, it is gone.

Most HR Officers are always on social media nowadays.

The truth is that the North is dealing with themselves economically. How can you shoot yourself on the foot while protesting?

If this car is used in Nigeria, it will electronically and automatically refuse to move because the car will be confused on how terrible our roads and the users are.

May be he contracted deadly disease like HIV and must have infected the girl even without her knowing it. It could also be that he felt leaving her will eventually reveal the real reason for his suicide.

I'm just a mind decoder.

Who knows the meaning of that guy's name Oshiotu?

Jakasibo:
I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.

It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).

Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.

Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.

Below is the scan result

Can it still be aborted successfully?

Going by the dates you quoted here, it is 99.9% impossible that you are responsible for that pregnancy. If her menstrual circle is 28 days, her possible chances of getting pregnant would be between 9th Dec to 15th Dec.

Even if she has an abnormal menstrual circle that gets up to 35 days, her highest possible chances of getting pregnant would be between 12th and 18th Dec.

Confront her with this calculation or threaten her with carrying out DNA test immediately the baby is delivered. She will open up.

Killertune20:
Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.

Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.

Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.

Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.

I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.

Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?

Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?

Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?

The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.

Almost every grown adult who has had a relationship had experienced it. Chill guy. You are still budding. Most relationships in school never lead to marriages.
Move on like she never existed. Go and make money.

You will find a better person when you grow up.

Marayesa1:
Hello Nairalander
Times without numbers we've gone out of our ways to render some act of kindness to people to people around us. It could be a member of our family, a total stranger or your colleagues at the office. Most time these acts are done without any interior motive or personal gain.

That's bring me to the question " What selfless act have you render for anyone without any hidden motives?. I will be looking out for your responses.

I was travelling on a lonely and dangerous road in the night, around 9pm and I saw 3 aged men travelling with a bike in opposite direction. Obviously, their fuel got finished and they became stranded and confused. About 10km from there, I got to a small village where I saw "a black market". I bought a gallon and fuel, then drove back and handed them over in that manner that we see people exchange hard drug on movies since I was afraid of them. They probably saw it as coming from God since they never expected it.

The ugliest part of this is that no reason is stated for the petition and yet some people are promoting it. On what ground? Hatred?

I also discovered that most of the handlers in the forefront of the campaign are yoruba names.

Can anyone explain the reasons for the petition? If it is worth it, I will then join.

Trustme2:
Visit a panel bitter. It's not serious at all. It'll surely be fixed

No be only panel bitter, na olomo bitter.

Send her packing so that she won't do it again.

Henreez:
It's no news. Clitocurrency is the most profitable investment for women

Gaddeeemm!

This one is not a feminist and has no sympathy for them!

Did they call on Governor of Kaduna or that of Zamfara, Katsina, Borno or Sokoto just to mention to resign?

He is ignorant of many things.
Let him go and review himself well.

Antoeni:
Corporate Prostitute

What makes her a prostitute?
A lady we all know how hard she works to earn a living?
Must we reason like this all the times?

That first outing looks local.

She knows you are fine. She just wanted the guy to acknowledge that she made a "better" choice.

However, is it true that she does not kiss you?

Who is 31? That woman has reached her menopause abeg.