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ubunja:
sure man,, as Nigerian men you reputation of dishing out easy money precedes you, so any woman looking for a quick buck instantly thinks of naija men.

Basically there's two kinds of SA women, one who doesn't want to hear anything about Nigerian men and those who love them. Among those who love them there are two types: those women who want to use Nigerians, and those who know Nigerians are hustlers and want them, but not necessarily for gold digging, but for purely hypergamous purposes, as in "I need someone with a plan who can take care of me". It will be impossible for me to tell you the ratio between these two groups of naija lovers.

The difference between SA men and Nigerian men is upbringing. Naija is patriarchal, SA is matriarchal. This means Naija men grow up knowing how to take care of women, while SA men grow up knowing a woman can take care of you and it's okay. This means women here find Naija men a lot more supportive, giving and willing to protect and provide. Which has won them a serious section of women who will kill to have a Naija man.
It doesn't help that generally nigerian men are the most good looking guys in SA and they're famed for their big dicks and sexual virility. So any Naija man will easily succeed with women here. The goodlooks, good body and sexual prowess is a strong reason why many nigerian men become gold diggers to well-off SA women. As well as prostitutes to these women where they're paid to fucc. I'll never tire of talking about this, cause you guys must utilize this opportunity.

Okay for a little background,,, If you're a naija man in Southy you very well know there are places you are banned/forbidden to stay, especially at "kasi" (high density townships like Soweto where the low income live), reason being Nigerian's reputation as drug dealers make them Public Enemy NO. 1 in those areas. Now, it is mostly girls from these areas who have a "fast life" view of naija men and will want you guys for a short fun time to use you because they believe Nigerians are fast money men. And by "use" I mean spend a little of your money. These girls are not that expensive but they'll waste your time if you're looking for something serious. These are the girls who if you spend a 1,000 rand on them you've shocked them. If they come to your place and the fridge is full, they'll camp. They're the cutest compared to their well-off mates in the low density suburbs (richer areas) and they have that Southy vibe that's internationally known. You'll find them in their 20s and with a low education and most are unemployed (especially nowadays) and those who work don't mind stopping if their man makes enough. They have a very strong stay-at-home wife mindset. They're very domestic and if they spend a weekend at your place they'll do EVERYTHING - cook, clean, wash clothes etc. In Southy even a 1night stand doesn't mind cooking and cleaning for you the next morning.
Now, when you hear SA men complain about foreigners stealing their women, it's this demographic/group of women the men are mostly complaining about and it's the low income men mainly complaining. Hence this group of men vehemently hates Nigerians (for taking their women) and foreigners in general (for taking their wives AND jobs)

It must be added that no group of men in SA is correspondingly crazy about Nigerian women. By and large no one wants them. But Nigerian women are usually the smart, intelligent ones and dominate fashion wise because they understand clothes better and know how to put together extravagant attires. Yet beauty and body SA women are hands down ahead of the pack.. If you're a Nigerian man dating an SA woman you'll find then intellectually slow, and less mentally stimulating than the naija girls you're used to. You'll also find SA women less enterprising and less concerned about education than the average naija girl. Yet on the domestic front, SA women take the cake. They become your wife without becoming your wife. The chores, the cooking and the sex will be abundantly taken care of. With no complaints.

It's worth noting also, that in Southy there's no distinction made between Nigerians, Cameroonians, Ghanaians and those countries from your region because to us here you all sound the same and you're collectively referred to a "Gs". (Gees) G as in nigerian. And since you can't be differentiated from Cameroon dudes etc you can very well understand no one can point out a Yoruba from a Hausa or Igbo.

For now I stop here. Hope you can use this info. There are plenty of YouTube videos on this topic by SA women, like the ones below. Find them and learn more.

Palazee:
This shīt is getting real

Martinez39s:
For those in relationships, hear me well; anything you give her is a gift, anything she gives you is a loan or has conditions attached to it, even if she gave you of her own accord. It doesn't matter how much you have loved her in the past or how much you have sacrificed for her, (even if you donated a kidney to save her life) this rule still holds. They don't love you, they are selfish, and you are always an expendable utility to them (utilities serve and are not served or have sacrifices made for them without anything equal or more in return.)

ProphetJeroboam:
Bro, ignore the sh*t out of her. Leave her on read without thinking twice about it. Especially if you are into her, don’t help her. If you’re not into her, you can help her just once but make sure you complain and show your displeasure about her bothering you then proceed to decline any help to her for the next 7 Favours. Seems extreme but it works for me

Martinez39s:
Na so dem dey do. Some will get your contact from the class's WhatsApp group and chat you out of nowhere. They will try to build small rapport with you in hopes that they can capitalise on it to keep you as one of their useful orbiters. Usually, they would have done their findings and discovered that you are intelligent or that you are kind-hearted and willing to do task for people in need. Sometimes, they are trying their luck in gathering orbiters. Many think they are the shit and orbiters will always be on ground, thanks to simps.

Playing many men like this gives them ego boost, and they think they are able to achieve this only because of their feminine charms, beauty and men's readiness to get in their pants. Even when this is not true and some men are just being kind with no ulterior motives, they still want to believe all these are happening because they are the shit since it boost their ego and it makes them feel good.

ProphetJeroboam:
Personally I have a strong rule against helping out female classmates with assignments or tests. You think you’re doing an innocent gesture but they’ll never stop coming back until you’re the designated nerd who helps them with assignments, tests and classwork, now tell said girls that you like them and that’s it, finito! You’re dog on a leash. It’s funny how female always take any help you render them to attempt to turn you into a simp. I know men also think girls who who are nice to them wants to fvck them but it’s not usually our fault, girls hardly show green light so sometimes we confuse niceness for green light. I’ll share my university experience on this soon.

heartofcity12:
Guys are waking up. These natural born redpiller jezebels(rippers) have been ripping boys off for ages.. This is hilarious

oldienavie:
A lot of terrible advise on this thread, this is a 32 year old woman and it is perfectly within her right to demand for pregnancy. What a selfish and wicked being.
It is unfortunate that OP is in this terrible situation, did you not discuss about this before getting married ?
What exactly were you guys discussing during your courtship ?

Ronnnie:
Boss you never see anything....The worse part is that they feel so bold demanding from you..
Few weeks ago,I wanted to watch Man united vs crystal palacee match but no light so I just went to get little fuel to watch the match since my guys were also around...before getting to the filling station I saw a neighbour of ours,a bike man, so he asked me if I wanted to get fuel at the nearest filling station and I said yes then he volunteered to quickly take me there then we both go home...on getting to the filling station,the male attendant who is my friend was off shift,so just two other female attendant...so I just went to one and told them to fill #500 fuel..
The next thing I see is her pressing #450 on the meter,I didn't say a word until she filled it,I told her it's 500# not 450#...the next thing she said is "big boy like you that used bike to come and buy fuel,just dash me the 50#"...I frowned my face at her and told her "if I wan dash you money,no be you go tell me or determine the amount I will give you"...she also frowned her face and pressed 50# on the meter to then pour the rest into the keg....I just bone face comot,go house go watch my match that day(thank God man united won)...Till today she still frowns her face when she sees me but that's her his..

Righteousness2:
When I see or hear things as these, I see more reasons to appreciate GOD for the Privilege HE gave to I and my siblings to Have Parents who didn't put us through things as these.

Young man! I Have seen reckless Homes mend together again.
I Have seen almost radical homes come together again in Love.
The Rallying point of these Homes was JESUS Christ.

The Missing link in your Home is JESUS Christ. I can tell you that for Free.
If you can embrace JESUS Christ and Stand in the Gap in Prayer for your Home, you will be Suprised how GOD will mend every Broken walls and restore Love and Unity in the Home.

I Have seen it Happen and I Believe Same will Happen in your Father's house. But Somebody needs to stand in the Gap.

posty56:
let me assume that you are new, bro we don't reply to females on this thread read and pass if not we'll end like other dead derail threads.

Iyaebe:
.Small boys all over this forum,none of them can buy ordinary Range for their girlfriend but they can bash women like their life depends on it

temi1290:
A fresher here bro, that school too get wahala

Iyaebe:
I'm here to help your marriage work, contact me via DM for your relationship and marriage counseling

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

heartofcity12:
From Tunde Ednut’s page. Girls keep dealing with these kind of men ruthlessly yet the goats won’t learn.

Regex:
Have you noticed how boys/men take pictures nowadays? Pouting their mouth, moving their face, head and body in a childish yet irritating way but somehow they managed to convince themselves that it is cute. Does that irritate you too? I can not be the only one who finds it irritating, even when women do it.

Hotspotbro:
Nigerian Unis, where Mummy and Daddy's girls become upcoming holoshoeein my little observation and my Lil talk with some bros I befriended, it seems majority of the vaginarians just want a dude who's big and has cash or a nerd-assignment runner

Think4Myself:
This guy is probably in a university in Edo state or delta
In uniben, Yahoo boys buy iPhone 10 upward for their babe to oppress and show off

SOZINN:
Just when you thought you've seen it all.

NorthSerious:
One of my regrets in life is in my younger years I used to think girls are reasonable beings and I treated them as such. Really, I always assumed women are more or less men but with boobs and vagina. Couldn't be more wrong. Every day they keep proving how unbelievably dumb they are, especially Southern Nigerian girls. Take a look at this utterly ugly thing with smelly mouth and privates feeling entitled.