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Dreytonisback:
Avoid broke girls
I have some useless set of girls who are all sister , about 10 in numbers but living with their sister's boyfriend who got one of their sister pregnant
The boyfriend feeds them all , in fact their mom comes to spend time with them

I came to Nigeria for some lil business as usual, man say make he cure konji
That's how i came across this young girl of age 18-19
She couldn't hold a perfect conversation , I held her hand and she was even shaking bc she couldn't imagine herself being wooed by a handsome cashed dude like me.

Omo we exchaged WhatsApp contacts
I hid my view receipt on WhatsApp so she can't know when I view her status
You won't believe what this girl does for a living is to be posting different twerk videos on her status every morning, noon and night

She'll post different small yahoo boys on her status with different captions lol
Omo I didn't bother chatting her, I wipe her off

Moral of this story : No matter how broke you are, never settle for a broke girl from a poor background
Even if the girl lacks manners and have money or from a rich family just fvck am leave am

My gbola no fit enter poor girl kpekus laye

Lights up my kpoli in peace.

Pumpumking:
U dont giv dyam but yet u thread givin dumb comment........my brother, kindly commmbak after chrissssssmas when yor comon sence is fully comon sir!!(no oofenese)

Pumpumking:
I have self esteeem becuz u enjoy drinking garrrrri in front of babes & its fobidden for me?..... brother u are not sufffarrrin from self esteeemmmm....u sufffarrrin from povertical suffaheadimik pooormansiblix brokebeggarish jambytist....which simply mean u poor.but anyways, real men dont drink garrrrri..only pooor people(no oofenese)

otipoju:
This poster deserves a dirty slap.

A Big boy is a guy confident in his doings and does not send the opinion of any girl. A Big boy is not by material possessions, you are big when you are authentic.

Na your tyoe dey clean their room ONLY when woman dey find dem come house

1Sharon:
The lord doesn't desire for you to go to hell twice.

All you need to do is seek his face.

1Sharon:
You are supposed to seeking the face of our Lord Jesus Christ, why are you on the internet?

Hell for you too.

Laggafin:
I go de neutral jare.. any wen win . I go port to dat one

Laggafin:
Yes na

Laggafin:
Hmmm.. all ds Sudden flexing of muscles by small nation's.. Russia we sight you stoking ds hurricane underground.. make una come out make world war 3 begin already joor..The Suffering for Naija don tire person

Martinez39s:
Still, don't mind her and her nonsense talk.

Ketapu:
Field Report: IT IS A MUST THAT YOU HAVE ABUNDANCE MENTALITY

Some weeks ago, I made a post about one of my raw encounter with the true nature of females in their partying/hoeing years. That post is below.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/890#107176113

Since that encounter, I've been frequenting the female hostels. The sight of men carrying ladies away after small talks is now normal scenes to me. I just pity guys taking these University girls as their serious girlfriends. They are in for rude shocks later in life.

Back to field report, my today's encounter shows why females are the natural red pillers. We men are only learning their game. They can't just help but have abundance mentality.

Today, around 6:30pm, I decided to go out again to find ladies to woo.

I went to the female hostel and was walking around. I must say, we guys are the architect of our problems. Come and see men trying to entice ladies with their cars. How won't they fall into the hands of gold diggers!

Well, that apart, I began to scan for a lady that I will woo.

At around 7:20pm, I saw 2 sexy ladies dressed in very tight dresses. I decided to approach them and talk to one of them who looks sexier than her friend.

As I was about moving to them, I saw a car drove up to them and greeted them. The ladies only waved and continued walking. I knew the man in the car will continue to pursue them.

I decided to continue to follow the ladies and woo my target once they get to a more comfortable spot for me. After about two minutes, the man parked his car as the ladies walked towards him. When they got beside the car, the man stopped them and started talking to the lady I wanted to woo.

I knew at that moment that I've failed. I should have walked up to the ladies faster and woo them. (According to Alan Roger Currie, the only time you fail with wooing women is when you fail to approach them and tell them your mind. If you have the courage to woo/talk to a lady, you have won even if she rejects you).

Well, I stayed some metres away from the car to see if the ladies will enter the man's car. I promised myself to act faster and woo them if they don't enter the man's car.

Unfortunately, as usual, after about one minute of talking, they entered his car and off they go. I FAILED!

After accepting my loss, I decided to target another lady. Within one minute of the ladies going with the man, I saw another lady. This time, I didn't hesitate to approach. I just walked up to her and introduced myself. She said she's in a hurry and decided to give me her number. I accepted the number and moved on.

I decided I want to woo more ladies before I go back home. So, I set my eyes out for another lady. This time, I saw another two sexy ladies dressed very seductively. I decided to approach them. Unfortunately again, before I could approach, one guy approached them. It seems they were waiting for the guy. Within 30 seconds, a car droved near them and the two ladies and the guy entered the car and off they go. I decided to end the night at that time. After all, tomorrow is another day to woo!

From this field report, you will notice that ladies don't have problem having abundance mentality. The supply of guys they get is just too much. So, they have the luxury of selection. That is why they can easily move on from one guy to another even if they have been with the guy for a long time.

As a guy, you will most likely not be getting ladies falling at your feet like guys do to ladies. Your own way of having abundance mentality is BY APPROACHING/WOOING MORE LADIES. WHEN ONE LADY REJECTS YOU, YOU SIMPLY JUST MOVE ON TO ANOTHER LADY. IF THE NEXT ONE ALSO REJECTS YOU, STILL MOVE ON TO ANOTHER.

As you will see from my report, I didn't beat myself up for failing to approach one lady. I simply just moved on to another one. That's the abundance mentality.

Since I started going to the female hostel, I've wooed many ladies. Some have responded well and some rejected me either subtly or harshly.

In fact, I wish I can share more of my encounters with those ladies but that will likely reveal my identity.

Martinez39s:
As CaveAdullam said, what she did was a shaming tactic. It was an implicit insult made to insinuate that you are broke and that you had no ground to call out Nicki Minaj on her debauchery since Nicki is wealthy and you are not. Its quite unfortunate that most people act like wealth immune one from fault and criticism and provides validity to all of one's statements; that's a logical laspe for the immature and emotional who need an emotional counterattack. Also notice how she sided with Nicki Minaj and said nothing about the sordid pictures; she herself wouldn't mind if afforded the latitude and she doesn't see anything wrong with it.

If a girl did such nonsense to me, I would ignore her forever. Even if it is necessary that we associate and communicate, I will keep things brief and say no more than necessary.

khiaa:
Who are you saying I'm married to?

darkelf:
So you're afraid of her?

Or is there something else you're not telling us?

Which kain stupid excuse be this bro?

khiaa:
Who are you talking about?

MJBOLT:

sometimes you have to let people know their place,if not they will keep on disrespecting you.

darkelf:
So you're afraid of her?

Or is there something else you're not telling us?

Which kain stupid excuse be this bro?

MJBOLT:

Her: she can buy your future
Me: is that why you exchanged your future for indomie and egg

Dliquidmetal:
thats the thing with superstitious people,they are a problem to themselves and others and 100% sure he would always have nightmares lol then he would start being paranoid and forcing the results of what his subconscious mind absorbs on others around him The best his to be away from such people and just greet them from afar because they would always affect you with the problem they inflicted on themselves,talking about "someone being after they lifes lmao
And if you check well there's really nothing going on for them that warrants such.

DieRich5:
I just mistakes enter fb ND I see her message,I just Dy vex at the moment so i reply her b4 I leta check her profile ND she's 23yrs.... laugh wan kill me when I saw dis post she's looking for a simp to take care of her ND calling a guy baby will mk me fall