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megareal:
Yea, that's how they are.

Then they are not worth the hype.

Dating a prostitute will even be better. I will spend money on them and have sex. This virgin want to chop my money and dump me.

megareal:
Dude, don't waste your money. Being a virgin sef guarantees that she will leave you at the end when she starts sampling other guys.

To her reaction, most virgins don't care about any lovey dovey especially because they have no emotional connection with you. And hers is a conscious thing cos she is using the virginity thingy to tie you to her.She won't apologise cos she feels she has nothing to loose.

Leave her and move on. Use your money to do something better rather than build some heartaches for the future.

At the bolded is so true. She has no emotion even if she says "I love you" 100 times. Her "I-love-U" has no emotion tied to it.

olac21:
What's with all these unneccesary spending on girlsCan't you invest in your own life?Come to think of it,she is still in contact with her ex..you be maga bro!

Ok

smoby:
***clear throat *****there's a proverb which goes like this..... No matter how small a fish is if it swam into a fishermen net it will become food.... We do mistakes everyday 2 learn.... I have come to many stories like this that end up wit the guy regretting wishing if he can change back d hand of time... Bro the biggest mistake u did was spending ur hard earned money on her all in the name of schooling... Or else you r doing it generously, looking at ur story in my own opinion the love is no longer there, even if she doesn't want sex now at least 4month nd she did not call u, common Bro be real with ur self....... I have come to learn no matter how much u got family first if my fam is still lacking in some area's until dey r comfortable i ain't spending on no Gul who latter will leave me for someone who will maybe spending on her than I do.latter give him her virginity... Let's be wise Bro... ND do the right things before we fall too deep....... Bt if u Continue..... Mark this day...... After her nysc she will be done with u. Like my guyz go say if u see woman wey love you.... U go know....... Thnk u.

Wise words. I take care of my siblings too. I loved her, and I felt I should be able to help her in her trying times.
Its not late. I have'nt pay her school fees and house rent. I posted my experience here so people can advice me, before I sink deep in this heavy commitment

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tosyne2much:
Though. I'm not a relationship expert but it's clearly written on the wall that this girl is not into you despite forcing her to.. It's just a matter of time before she dumps your ass

Even if you have sex her, it will not change perceived heartbreak

Use your brain bro

Noted. Thanks

prittygift114:
Brother, I feel your pain... Am a lady and I hate when my fellow lady play smart on good guys.
First and formost, there is nothing wrong sponsoring a girl you want to marry in the future because you love her and you feel she needs to be educated..
But then, not all ladies deserves such assistance...
Some are ingrate must especially someone like your girl who is in control of you...
The truth is that girl does not love you. She just want to put up with you to achieve her BSC, simply because she knows you are calm and good to her. She is overriding you because she knows that you loves her.
Lemme be factual with you, a girl that loves you so much cannot stay worst of it two days without hearing from you. A girl that values you will always find means to make the relationship work out.
It is even possible the girl is not a virgin or might loose it to someone else....
Lastly, if all you have written is pure truth, then rejoice for you are all fair to her but also have it in your mind that you are wasting your time with her..
Ponzi self is better.. Be wise!!!

Hmmm.soothing. People are making me feel bad. Its as if I am stupid to take care of your woman.

ToriBlue:
I'm a woman and am telling u that that girl is using you, inhort, you are her maga. Girls that love marriage talk and this one is getting angry when you talk about marriage. its not like she is from a well to do family.


You av been magarize, rum before it's too late.


cc hotwax.

Thanks.

Dannidom:
You wana let al your monies go like that without getting anything back.
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Well! What is my business

Its a bad investment...I will leave with the loss

Enahi:
You better change your number now or else she will coerce and use sweet words and u will fall for again.

Her Juju no go work again

Dannidom:
My broda the moment you realize that this life we are living is a game the beta for u
Do not end your relationship. Get a lawyer, have her hand you the previous receipts for every dime spent on her prior her education then in the presence of some witness preferrably a lawyer and the parents, enter a truce stating your intention to continue footing her bills on the intention of getting back your money when she establishes her career with added interest or ultimately marriage.
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Even if you dont intend doing the above threaten her with it and watch everything go your way.

I guess the best way is to let her go. Although she is still disturbing me for her school fees. I don't want to force her into marriage.
I have started declining her requests already. That should do.

Enahi:
No u are not fair o, you need to do more. After paying her school fees please dont forget to add her accommodation money and feeding allowance as well. Dont forget to always send her recharge card so she doesnt run out of airtime, may God bless you for been a cheerful giver.

I will thanks.

rebirthforgoody:
I see I don't have your time mr blacklister

Egbami ke...another person's fight don turn my own.

I am only stopping you and blacklister from fighting here. Wetin be my own...If you wan fight, abeg fight...I go even give u broken bottles sef.

rebirthforgoody:
Check yourself very well..

Psss...face Blacklister who you are fighting. I just don't want fight in this thread. Or you go chop cane.

eezeribe:
You have to end that relationship now it is still early... Otherwise,the heartbreak you will receive after her graduation is still doing press up.
Just try to make her pay for all the expenses and stress she has caused you.
How will a girl you are paying school fees for,keep malice with you for four months and you still foolishly apologized...
Are you sure she didn't jazz you??
Anyway try and make her pay back before you break up...
Even if it means penetrating by force.

I have tried that...except I will rape her. She does not even come close to me these days. No need to do that.

rebirthforgoody:
Are you sure you are okay

Pssss...No noise please.

daewoorazer:
[color=#995500]In fella's voice, suegbe ree na suegbe o!


Dindinrin.....and if ur fellow man ask u 1naira, u go slap am o. Ewu! [/color]

Yes I know I am Suegbe for her. I love her so much and I can go any mile to make her happy. Thats what love can do to a man.

However, her body language is making me think I am being played.

firstking01:
I thought you said the money for her fees can buy a tokunbo car??

Yes its enough to buy a car. I have not paid.

I wrote "At this stage, the burden of her school fees and expenses is on my neck. "

silvercute:
Dude you spent some good time writing this so lemme help you with a little advice.

See we guys tend to prioritize sex a lot but if you look deeper in the case of your relationship with your gf you will see that sex in the long run won't solve your insecurity about her. She has some guy she still has intimate convo with and that insecurity cannot be quenched by 5 minutes of pleasure. What if you deflower her and she ends up disching it to the other dude without you knowing. Remember you did not install an odometer in her body and once you open the package the counter starts ticking without u detecting.

Honestly you have to man up and sincerely i mean u quit those largesse and sponsorships you giving her. Haven't you read countless cases as yours with the results the same...the lady walking away in the end. Don't come to nairaland in a years time to disturb us of how you spent heaven and earth on her and she disappointed you. This is life..anticipate the unforseen. Invest your money on something else. If she pledges to marry you now that can change in a years time. Hand don dey pain me. I hope i passed a point or two.

Shalom

I don't care if she dishes it out to all guys on the street, I just want to have a taste before I become presidents of Friendzoned mofos of Nigeria. So if she leaves me or dishes it out, I will know I have satisfied myself.

Thats my thinking tho. Thanks for your opinion.

firstking01:
Advicing you now is too late...in your next world never sponsor a girl in school...

Its not late. I have not paid the school fees. Thats exactly why posted this. I am about to start paying school fees and the handwriting I am seeing on the wall is not readable.

jaymichael:
hotwax. That girl is not your girlfriend, you are doing what Yoruba call "belejayon" She doesn't love you. She won't give you assurances of marriage because she isn't gonna marry you. She will leave after you have sponsored her education and she will appear blameless because she will tell you she never promised you marriage.
My guy, use your money train your sister, brother or your family members.
Find your wife go front before it is too late.

Thank you. One love.

firstking01:
You are a building that's about to collapse

Please can you expansion your statementology?

Oyind17:
That girl is way too smart for you. She's not into you, she'll dump you in the nearest future.

Candid opinion. Very precious

I am dating this girl I met 2 years ago. I have been taking care of her (at least to the best of my ability) ever since she lost her mother. Her father could not take care of her because he is not financially buoyant to take care of 6 children at a time. Apart from taking care of her upkeeps, I also helped her gain admission into a university recently.

At this stage, the burden of her school fees and expenses is on my neck.

To the real issue. I have never touched her. We agreed that our relationship will be without sex. I visited her at school last month. We played and both got carried away. I got her naked. And, at the point of penetration, I noticed she is water tight down there. She stopped me, she said she intentionally allowed me to attempt the penetration so that I would see she is a virgin myself. She said she did not want to tell me but wanted me to confirm on my own. I was still hot in the mood, I attempted to penetrate anyways, but she resisted and started struggling with me. I thought as a gentleman if a woman says No, you should respect her wishes so it won't turn to a rape case. I left her.

Although I attempted to try again but she resisted.

The issue now is.

1. She had a boyfriend and they are still chatting on whatsap. She claimed he left her because he could not take care of some of her needs. But they still chat and call every now and then. I have challenged her on many occasions, she will just say they are just friends, nothing will make her date him again.

2. I don't know if I am wrong, I always think the only way she can be mine is if I bed her. Also, I am about spending big on her. Her school expenses alone is enough to buy a Tokunbo car. What if she does the girl thing, is that how all my effort will be a waste?

FYI: I am bent on marrying her although she keeps saying she can only talk marriage after her NYSC. She even get angry anytime I talk about marriage (Im not rushing for marriage. I just need assurance of marriage). I remember one day when I even got angry and said "This whole relationship is on your own terms. You see yourself as the center of the relationship. You dictate everything even though I carry all the pains" I later apologized for speaking in such manner.

3. Anytime we quarrel, I will be the one to apologize. If I don't call her, she won't call for eternity. The last quarrel lasted 4 months before I later call her as usual. She never apologize.

All these are making me to rethink. Thats why I keep asking her for sex. Hope I am not investing in ponzi scheme.

What do you think?

Am I fair to ask for sex?

Am I fair to her?

Are these so-called virgins actually worth the stress?

Please I need your

Why wont I check name?

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And when Fulanis show up, you all run away like chickens. Bifarans

danasjoe1:
The dwarf can't sign any law without the dullard Buhari sorder..

So the dwarf should sign any bill to law so as to appease your tribally bigoted brain cells even if the bill is to massacre you people in Anambra.

Yes...true that

I was not his fan on the start. I started liking him when the whole world started attacking and hating on him. When CNN attack you publicly, you must be a good man. CNN did media justice to Ghaddafi, he is dead now and Libya is now ISIS headquater.

Back to the recent one.

He commented on Sweden failed immigration system. The media and their brain dead zombies called him a liar, fakenews president...many names.

Now riot broke out in sweden on Monday. Muslims immigrants went on a rampage.

Riots have broken out in the Swedish suburb that Donald Trump referred to in his speech about immigration problems.
Police were forced to fire warning shots after a group of rioters began setting fire to cars, throwing stones at police and looting shops in the Rinkeby district of Stockholm on Monday night.
A police officer was injured during the clashes, Swedish public service broadcaster SVT reported.

Donald Trump made his confusing remarks about immigration in Sweden at his Florida rally on Saturday.
Trump was initially thought to be talking about terrorism when he warned of 'what's happening last night in Sweden'.

But he later claimed he was talking about an edition of Fox News' Tucker Carlson Tonight about immigrant crime in the Scandinavian country.
Trump was mocked widely for his Florida speech, in which he said: 'You look at what's happening in Germany, you look at what's happening last night in Sweden.
'Sweden. Who would believe this? Sweden. They took in large numbers. They're having problems like they never thought possible.'
He later clarified on Twitter that he was denying 'fake news' claims that 'large scale immigration in Sweden is working out just beautifully.'
Police said in a statement that at least seven or eight cars were burned in the district, which has one of the largest immigrant populations in Stockholm, during Monday's disorder.

Police later said they suspected that cars had been set on fire to lure them to the scene.
A photographer from the Dagens Nyheter newspaper also claimed that he spent a night in hospital after he was assaulted by a group of 15 people in Rinkeby as he attempted to report the unrest.
'I was hit with a lot of punches and kicks both to my body and my head. I have spent the night in hospital,' he said.
A shopkeeper was also reportedly beaten while trying to protect his store, while another person was also beaten, with both taken to hospital for treatment.

The disorder reportedly broke out after police arrested a wanted person, believed to be a drug dealer, at the subway station in Rinkeby at about 8pm that night.
'It happened in connection with an intervention near the metro station, the officers were to detain a person, our colleagues got stones thrown at them' Eva Nilsson at the police regional command center in Stockholm told Aftonbladet.
While it was initially reported that police had fired warning shots, national public broadcaster SVT later said that the officers, in fact, fired directly at the rioters.

'That is correct. According to initial reports it was warning shots, however the officers did indeed fire directly at the stone throwers but missed their targets', police chief Tony Lagerkrantz told SVT.
Stockholm police spokesperson Lars Byström, said officers were unclear exactly how many people had been involved in the riot, but estimated that the number was between 30 and 50 young men.
'Some may have disappeared, others have been added, it is difficult to get a handle on how many exactly,' he told SVT. 'We have a fairly large number of police officers trained to handle this type of a situation.'
Officers managed to get the violence under control by around midnight, and have now launched an investigation in an attempt to track down those responsible for the disorder.

The suburb, north of central Stockholm, has a population made up of 75 per cent immigrants.
'We will make sure to reestablish law and order,' Lars Byström, press officer at the Stockholm police told Aftonbladet.
Swedish Minister of Interior Anders Ygeman added: 'The police do not back out, the police are there. It is good that the police intervene, they arrested a wanted person.
'They have expanded their presence in our suburbs and it has led to more interventions, it can also risk getting a bit messy, but in the end it leads to greater security for the residents', he told the national daily SVD.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4245322/Riots-Stockholm-suburb-Trump-mentioned-speech.html?ito=social-facebook

I smell an Agatu genocide loading. This is how Nigeria Military first disarm the locals before unleashing fulanis on them.