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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Searching For Onitsha Trader Whose Shop Was Burnt In The Market Fire by hpymoment(f): 6:44pm On Oct 17, 2019
PureGoldh:


Amen my brother... The thing wey dey vex me be say.. The governor came to the scene today and all he could say is that not more than 30 shops were burnt down that he will ensure that fire service station are being built within Onitsha.

That man is just something else... Empty promises everyday

Are you just knowing that Willie is a drunkard?
He doesn't know the things he has said or suppose to do, he is a confused man. cry
Unfortunately, a man with such description is the governor of a state.

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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Searching For Onitsha Trader Whose Shop Was Burnt In The Market Fire by hpymoment(f): 6:27pm On Oct 17, 2019
PureGoldh:
Thank you Reno.

That guy is extremely depressed...I pray God will give others the fortitude to bear the loss and may he make a way for them

My heart broke when i saw that guy in red on fb, that moment i felt sooooo sad that I'm not OK financially. Frankly speaking i have never felt like that before, so I'm happy seeing that Reno wants to help the same guy. The pitiful look, his far away mind speaks louder than voice.

Reno may my God bless you absolutely. Amen.

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Events / Re: Funeral Arrangements For The Late Stanley Nwabia (former Nairaland Supermod). by hpymoment(f): 1:53pm On Oct 09, 2019
Rip nwafor cry cry cry
Celebrities / Re: See The Moment Mike Caught Ike 'Unfresh' In Lagos Traffic (Photos) by hpymoment(f): 2:06pm On Oct 08, 2019
This guy should try and be closing this his lips nah haba
Education / Re: UNILAG Cold Room Where Sex For Marks Takes Place: Don Jazzy, Uche Jombo React by hpymoment(f): 7:32am On Oct 08, 2019
RTSC:

NA wa o. I was expecting faculty of arts.

Did they catch him red handed? I am sure it must be chemistry Dept.

grin @bolded, why do you said so
TV/Movies / Re: Tacha Kneels Down As Her Grandma Blesses Her, AY Reacts (Video) by hpymoment(f): 7:58pm On Oct 06, 2019
DonHummer:
people can be easily deceived. No wonder buhari won a second time. just a week of eye service you are saying she wants to get better. Her management is just doing damage control for business purposes..
If she had won the show, will she be doing all these fake humble act? .... mtseww

For this your comment alone, good thing shall come your way.

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Romance / Re: Pls Is It A Must They Make Love. by hpymoment(f): 2:25pm On Oct 06, 2019
dami9ja:


It’s not compulsory. It’s a movie. Contrary to popular belief a lot of people don’t have sex on their wedding night.
I will be one of the few people that doesn't have sex on their wedding night, as in won't i be tired? Even the next three days will be on probability not certain, it depends on my activities like settling of hired stuff, going back to thank the in-laws as my tradition, a lot of works to do that the thought and urge for sex go disappear. After all we don dey do am before that day grin
Celebrities / Re: Tacha Covers Her Full Body For The First Time In New Pictures, Fans React by hpymoment(f): 7:35am On Oct 03, 2019
DRPAIT123:
Simply Beauty, a handful of character will have make her utterly Lit.
She is what she is.

I'm not beautiful myself grin but i refused to accept that she's beautiful.

Have you seen that girl leg? It's filled with black marks, the stretch marks on her bossom is an eye sore. She's the most ugly girl I have ever seen that's claiming beauty.
Spit

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by hpymoment(f): 3:52pm On Sep 27, 2019
BdorianGray:


Meanwhile there isn't any result from any scientific health research that has proven in the long run, the adverse health implications of consuming noodles.. Or do u know of any?

Lol
There's a different between " there isn't any" from " i don't know of any? You have concluded, why asking me again?
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by hpymoment(f): 6:50am On Sep 27, 2019
BdorianGray:


I think you right about this o... esp abt the MSG part ....But who really cares..
Isn't NAFDAC aware of these

People don't have idea of how harmful noodles is. I have an uncle who works in one noodle company (won't mention name) but you can't find a single pack of it in his house. He knows the truth about it!
TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by hpymoment(f): 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019
bestboo001:
Pls someone should help me with a site I can download cool romantic Korean movies... Series preferably.
TIA..
There's a Korean thread. Search for it on TV/Movies.

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Education / Re: Do You Regret Your 2:2 by hpymoment(f): 10:43am On Sep 26, 2019
peeps4u:


Please, just be good at IT. With professional skills like coding, your grade doesnt even matter. If it is by your certificate, I have to be factual with you, with 2.2, getting a good job is slim except a govt job. Check all these private companies, they require 2.1 at least. And to crown it all, if you experience delay getting a job due to 2.2, you keep getting older, once you clock 30, e don dey red totally be that.

But I'm happy for you, IT is the biggest thing now. I've read a story of a trained lawyer, who after looking for good jobs for years switched to IT skill he learnt in 3 months (the IT skill wasn't mentioned though), applied for jobs and already got 6 figure salary job.

You even have prospect of applying for foreign jobs with IT skill. Someone just told the story of his female friend who applied for IT jobs in Luxembourg from Nigeria and got it and now in Germany with her family.

Be focus on that IT

This isn't not to say one can't get job with 2.2, but the reality is that, the chances are usually slim and left to luck.

Good luck
What type of IT skills do you advise a female to venture into? Will like your view on this, thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by hpymoment(f): 8:50am On Sep 20, 2019
ehnkay:
We Accept CVs for:

Tellers
Qualification: Minimum of OND and NCE
Age: 28 Years below
Salary: 68k

DSA
Qualification: OND, NCE, HND, B.Sc
Age: 35 Years below
Salary: 50k plus commission on sales
Location: South East and South South Send CV to:
nkere@trimconsult.co.uk

Use the desired role and location as subject of the mail
Please can i still send my cv for this vacancy?
Romance / Re: Meeting His Parents For The First Time: How To Win Their Heart Easily by hpymoment(f): 5:15am On Sep 19, 2019
Writercruze:
It’s always exciting when your guy asks you to meet his parents. Most times, it’s an indication that the relationship has a great future, except the guy’s intentions, aren’t real. But let me tell you this – meeting his parents for the first time is sometimes complicated.

Many relationships have ended because ladies create the wrong impression when meeting their guy’s family. Even though you aren’t marrying your boyfriend’s parents, they still have an input in the relationship, especially if you are dating a daddy or mummy’s, boy.

Your boyfriend already knows your personality. He knows your strength and weakness; he accepted you for who you are. There’s nothing terrible in blending with the situation in his parent’s house to create a good impression. After all, if you are in Rome, you behave like a Roman.

Like I mentioned earlier, meeting his parents could be an indication that the relationship is leading to marriage. But it could also lead to the end of the relationship if his parents don’t like you.

In this article, you will learn some tips that will guide you when meeting his parents for the first time.

How To Create Good Impression When Meeting His Parents For The First Time

My lecturer in school once told me a story of how clumsiness made a lady (Carolina) lost a suitable suitor(Jordan). They were both passionately in love. No one thought they could live without each other.

But everything changed when the suitor (Jordan) decided to introduce Carolina to his parents. Just like every other lady, Carolina, was excited because she knew that her dream of being with Jordan forever was getting closer.

When Carolina got to her suitor’s parents’ house, she was very free. Interestingly, she decided to help Jordan’s mom in the kitchen. During the process, she mistakenly broke a million dollars antique tea set.

Jordan’s mom didn’t find this funny as she immediately told Jordan that Carolina is too clumsy. He tried to defend her, but his mother already had a wrong impression of her.

When they return from the visit, things were a little bit awkward between them. Meanwhile, Jordan’s parents were still pressurizing him to end his relationship with Carolina.

After a while, he yielded to pressure, and that was how the relationship ended.

I wouldn’t want you reading this article right now, to experience what Carolina went through. For this reason, I want you to pay close attention to the tips discussed here.

Below are some of the things to take note of when meeting his parents for the first time.

#1. Try Not To Bring Your Phone To The Dining Table



When you are meeting his parents for the first time, you must be as courteous as possible. It doesn’t look cool to be sending messages or pressing your phone while dining with your boyfriend’s parents, especially if you are meeting them for the first time.

You may be doing this innocently. But it will send a wrong impression about you to the boy’s parents.

It’s better not to bring your phone at all. Some ladies even make the mistake of hiding their phone under the table and pretend to be listening.

#2. Be Moderate In Your Display Of Affection



This is an area many ladies flop when meeting his parents for the first time. There’s nothing wrong with showing affection to your man before his parents. But be moderate about it. Try to respect them as well.

You can do the kissing and other romance gesture when alone. But when you are with his parents, try to be moderate about it. Seriously, it will create a terrible impression about you.

Don’t forget that meeting his parents for the first time is like an interview. And you need to be modest before them. Let me remind you, this isn’t pretense, but it’s a way of respecting your man’s parents’ personality.

#3. Don’t Try To Control The Conversation

Ladies don’t act as if you know if all when meeting his parents. I didn’t mean you should be boring. But listen more and talk less. It makes them value you, not the other way around.

Let me tell you something from personal experience. I still remember the first day my elder brother introduced a lady to my parents. All of us outrightly disliked her.

Do you know why? It’s because she was always interrupting my mom in the family conversation. She was basically answering all the questions for my big bro and controlling the conversation.

At times, when mom tried to tell a funny story about my bro as a little boy, the lady will interrupt. Trust me. This particular act pissed my mom off. She gave the impression that she knew my bro more than every other person.

It took my elder bro a while to be able to convince mom that Judith was a good girl. Imagine if my bro didn’t try to defend her before my mom, it could have been the end of the relationship.

#4. Put Your Good Home Training To Practice

Some ladies don’t have manners. And they unconsciously display their mannerlessness when meeting their boyfriend’s parents for the first time. Sorry, I don’t want to sound insulting, but this is the reality.

My friend told me how his girlfriend messed up when meeting his parents for the first time. According to my friend (paul) story, he invited his new girlfriend home to meet his parents.

Out of excitement, his mother prepared a delicious meal for her and bought her gifts. After the family meal, my friend’s mother got up to clear the table; his girlfriend didn’t assist. She was busy playing games on her cell phone.

It didn’t end there. When she unwrapped the gift my friend’s mom bought for her, she left the wrapping paper on the floor and walked out of the room.

She expected paul’s mom to clean the mess. This was very rude and disrespectful. After she left, paul ended the relationship immediately.

I know ladies may have a different opinion about this. But it’s absolutely wrong to watch your guy’s mother clearing the table after a meal. Even if you ask you to leave them, insist.

#5. Try Not To Overstay Your Welcome

I always tell people that it’s good to leave the stage when the ovation is loud. Same applies when meeting your guy’s parents for the first time.

When you are with your guy’s parents always behave like a guest. Don’t be faster than your shadow and try to respect everybody’s opinion. In fact, if you don’t like their tradition, keep it to yourself.

By the time you start making your guy’s parent uncomfortable, you are overstaying your welcome. Try not to let that happen. Remain calm and try to spend only a few hours with them. Look for an excellent excuse to leave. Trust me, your guy’s parent will value you more when you seem scarce.

#6. Don’t Bring Any Issue You have With Your Guy



Don’t allow your misunderstanding with your guy ruin your time with his parents. Whatever issue you have with him, don’t bring it along with you. I’m sure you wouldn’t want his parents to have the impression that you are weird.

If you know you are really angry with your man, it’s better not to visit his parents at all. Otherwise, your mood may affect the entire atmosphere.

No matter, don’t let it shows that you are angry with your guy. Imagine what his parents will think when you are ignoring and rude to him… They may not know what happened, but they will have the impression that you are rude.

#7. Don’t Drink Too Much Alcohol (If possible Don’t Drink At all)



It’s never a good idea to be drunk when meeting his parents for the first time. You will definitely mess things up.

I lady once told me her embarrassing experience when she met her guy’s parents. It was a New Year’s Eve, and she took too much alcohol before coming to see them.

According to her, she was already drunk when she got there. So, she started dancing uncontrollably and saying irrelevant things.

She eventually fell asleep after a while. When she woke up, her boyfriend told her what had happened the previous night. She was so embarrassed and left without saying goodbye.

#8. Stay Away From Controversial Topics

There are some sensitive topics you must never discuss when meeting your guy’s parents. Any topic that has to do with religion and politics stay away from them. They could start things off on a wrong footing for you.

Even if his parents’ political ideologies and religious belief differ from yours, try to respect it. For instance, if his parents are atheist, don’t try to urge them to accept Jesus Christ as their savior. It may make the entire conversation awkward.

Similarly, don’t discuss politics with them. I still remember how the girl I introduced to my parents was interrogating them about their political beliefs. She even went as far as convincing them to vote for a particular candidate. After she left, my father said that the lady was so disrespectful.

#9. Don’t Lie To Impress Anybody.

Never fake what you are not. An iota of dishonesty will immediately raise a red flag on you. Be sincere in all your conversation. Don’t try to impress anybody with lies.

There’s nothing terrible with telling the truth. If there is anything you don’t know, say it, nobody will flog you.

#10. Always Respect The Family Rules

If you hope to become part of a family, learn to respect their rules. Disrespecting family rules will make your man’s parents question your characters.

I still remembered when my cousin brought a girlfriend home. She disrespected the family rules, and my cousin parents didn’t find it funny.

Let me tell you what happened…

My cousin’s parents are old-fashioned. When his girlfriend visited, they asked my cousin to share my room with me while his girlfriend sleeps alone in my cousin’s apartment.

Do you know that my cousin’s girlfriend was still sneaking into my room to sleep with my brother at night? There are times when she will get my cousin into her room. When my cousin’s parents knew they were very disappointed.

#11. Dress Modestly

You are meeting his parents for the first time. You aren’t going to a party. Dress decently, don’t wear skimpy clothes that barely cover your body. Don’t forget that you are addressed the way you are dressed.

#12. Don’t Be Late

Showing up late is the easiest way to create a negative impression about yourself. Try to get to his parents’ place early. Once you agreed on a particular time, try to get to their home a few minutes before the time.

Like I mentioned earlier, meeting his parents for the first time is a new phase of your relationship. Try to make yourself presentable and create an excellent first impression.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/meeting-his-parents-for-the-first-time/



Very nice
Education / Re: Jamb CAPS Wan Kill Ma Cousin by hpymoment(f): 6:30pm On Sep 17, 2019
Go to the jamb office
Phones / Re: ***** Infinix Discussion Thread ***** by hpymoment(f): 1:35pm On Sep 16, 2019
photon3106:


Do the phones or laptop detect the HotSpot name of your hot7? If yes, you can go to your hotspot settings on your hot 7 and toggle frequency band there. Then try connecting again.

Thanks. I changed the password, deleted the hotspot name on my laptop and phone , tried it afresh and it connected. Thanks guys

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Phones / Re: ***** Infinix Discussion Thread ***** by hpymoment(f): 8:56am On Sep 14, 2019
Sociology55:
I experienced same problem,just disabled your data saver option.

It is not on . just the data limit that was on but i have disabled it and it's still the same. cry cry
Phones / Re: ***** Infinix Discussion Thread ***** by hpymoment(f): 5:02am On Sep 14, 2019
Please heeeelllp! I can't use my infinix hot7pro hotspot on another device. Just used it once and since then other devices doesn't connect to the hotspot. This is frustrating me, who still uses modem on a system? If i try using my nokia phone hotspot on the system na one touch connection but this infinix only functioned once. Bought the phone just 2months ago
Family / Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by hpymoment(f): 3:42am On Sep 14, 2019
omotola224:
A woman loves unconditionally but when you cross boundaries she can decide to unlove you with the same energy.
Men can often be insensitive through their actions but when you say it to their face then it's a confirmation of what you have been thinking. Never get to this point with a woman who genuinely loves you. That being said
You have to keep trying...
When she leaves you alone in the sitting room go and meet her. Gist with her.
Take her out on dates
Surprise her
You have to do things like you are just asking her out all over again.
Over one of your dates tell her you are sorry and would love to be the love of her life once again. Pls let it show that you are truly remorseful.

She will forgive you only you might have to reassure her over and over again.

Note: watch what you say henceforth .

Goodluck!

Oh! This your description brought tears to my eyes. You knows how the heart of a woman that is in love works.
Op she can never forget that hurtful statement all the days of her life, it's the most hurtful words i have a ever heard, i prefer that a man cheat on me than say those words to me. cry. With time she will bury it somewhere in her heart and become lovely again.
Note that this her reaction will continue to reoccur in the future whenever she remembers it.
You made a loving heart bleed and this is the result, deal with it.
#typingwithtears

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Romance / Re: Warning To This Girl.... Please Be Warned by hpymoment(f): 6:27am On Aug 27, 2019
Bonatheripper:


Senseless men

Errand boy.... cheesy

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TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Esther Wins Head Of House, Picks Frodd To Share "Special Room" With Her by hpymoment(f): 1:52am On Aug 20, 2019
Angelfrost:


Knuckles, knees, elbows, and buttocks are resistant to the transformational power of Caro White and Neutrotone. grin

Jeez! That hand entirely is disgusting for a celebrant to carry nah, she should wear a hand glove.
Moral: don't let makeup deceive you.

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Career / Re: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by hpymoment(f): 11:24am On Aug 15, 2019
spyglaxx:


just type irekke#1161 in the search bar or give me your digital id i.e the numbers

I have done that. That number was what the app requested in other to send the request and you didn't include it then. grin
Career / Re: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by hpymoment(f): 9:17am On Aug 15, 2019
spyglaxx:

Download discord for android register and search for irekke. Let's talk more there.

Registered. Why not search for me there, I'm not familiar with the app operation. hpymoment.
Career / Re: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by hpymoment(f): 7:39am On Aug 15, 2019
spyglaxx:

Why? You are not considering the experience earned by being there. There is something called experiencial contact. Are you on discord?

Business centres needs to be around school areas for it to move well and I'm not currently around one. I'm not on Discord.
Career / Re: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by hpymoment(f): 9:40pm On Aug 14, 2019
spyglaxx:


Do you run a business centre?
Nope but i do work there once in a while especially when I'm on holidays. I just want a step forward. I don't want to venture into business center. Any other ideas for me?
Education / Re: Isamah Jude Ogochukwu: Lost But Found Certificates (Photo) by hpymoment(f): 2:25pm On Aug 14, 2019
valenu:
Looking closely, those are not the original. They were scanned cloloured and printed.

You get a sharp eyes. It's a scanned documents printed colored or colored photocopy of the original.

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Phones / Re: Airtel 4G LTE Vs Mtn 4G LTE Speed Test Enugu by hpymoment(f): 8:43am On Aug 14, 2019
Mtn 4g LTE is rubbish. 3g is better than it. Wasted my 1200 for this kind hard time. angry
Career / Re: Should I Quit My Job Or Not? by hpymoment(f): 7:34am On Aug 14, 2019
spyglaxx:


Be prepared to learn very hard and fast the way you read for your final year exam.
Excel, vps, rdp, programming, alternate power generation, printing (of any format) can be learnt on youtube and google. Just subscribe to mtn night browsing and start learning. My wife learnt tailoring on the internet and bought an electric maching on jumia for five thousand, she now proceeded to learn printing and sowing of T shirts.

And don't forget blockchain you can also go and learn how to repair photocopying machings

I will just do that. I'm a girl and i love everything about computer and ict. I have a good knowledge of computer and i have been considering to add digital marketing or networking skills. How do you see it?
TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by hpymoment(f): 5:56pm On Aug 13, 2019
Started watching the mentalist but the whole thing seems childish, though i am still in season 1. As in, must the criminals ask him "how did you know it was me" every time? And why is it always him knowing the unknown just like Red in Blacklist.

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TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by hpymoment(f): 5:36pm On Aug 13, 2019
Keky:
I'm glad Tony is
dead, maybe now Teresa will grow a pair.
It might be a dream you know undecided
Phones / Re: Who Else Fall For The Airtel 200mb Scam Today? by hpymoment(f): 7:43am On Aug 13, 2019
generationz:
Lol me I enjoyed 400mb on my two sims o.


Best of all,, it seemed to last morebthan normal data. I don't know how come. grin

Same with me. 400mb

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Phones / Re: Airtel Compensates Customers With 200mb After Downtime by hpymoment(f): 7:11am On Aug 13, 2019
I have two Airtel Sim cards and i received 200mb on both, i don't have any active data on both too. Those saying it's19, aren't you people seeing the number next to 9?

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