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[quote author=Method-Man link=topic=25993.msg2401510#msg2401510 date=1214052679]Oh, ok!good, so u working in architecture now or doing sometin else?
T-South was far better than T-north!
Cardiff is great for money management, unlike London where m at, but with a Good job, it still balances @d end of da dai!
I had a good time upthere tho, it was undergraduate years and the fun was maximus!! [/quote]I never have to manage funds in cardiff. . . something i have to learn to do when i move

Cardiff is good for pub-crawls and cheap clubbing

[quote author=Method-Man link=topic=25993.msg2401484#msg2401484 date=1214052081]I was in Talybont North for my first year and i studied Exploration geology

Talybont was crap tho, good thing was nearby TESCO's and sports facilities

Are u still in Uni and what are/did u study?

Cardiff just bored me, i didnt want to come back again! [/quote]done with uni, post grad in architecture

I was at talybont south. . . tesco was a pain, too far. . . I cldnt get anything delivered. . . hated it!

money wise cardiff is great, everywhere is within walking distance, taxis are cheap, rent is cheap. . .

[quote author=Method-Man link=topic=25993.msg2401444#msg2401444 date=1214051289]Yah, i was in Cardiff Uni, and finished in 2005

Lived in Severn Point and Atlantic Wharf, Cardiff Bay!

I have not been back since Grad summer 2005 tho, couldnt wait to get out! [/quote]what did u study?

I lived at Talybont for 3 months during my post grad, cldnt stand it, had to get out.

yeah cardiff is lovely but u kinda grow out of it, once upon a time i thot i'd never leave, now i feel so choked being here

Rockchick:
yeah, i m back 

call u in a sec. . .  i'm alone here, boredom wan kill me 

[quote author=Method-Man link=topic=25993.msg2401431#msg2401431 date=1214051114]I feel you?!haha

You fall faster out of it than FEDEX DELIVERS A PARCEL!!!

What part of Cardiff do u bubble at? I used to go to UNI up there u know!!![/quote]really?

I'm at students ville and hating it. , 

moving at the endof the month

Rockchick:
Well thats why its called first love! you just have to remember i still havent suprisingly and i love having that memory. i giggle to myself sometimes

Hiya babes

u back?

[quote author=Method-Man link=topic=25993.msg2401412#msg2401412 date=1214050812]haha

mean woman! [/quote]Not mean, i just dont do things in small measures,

I fall inlove fast and fall out of it just as fast

I fall inlove every other day . . . I've fallen inlove so many time, I've lost count. . . i cant remember theguy I was inlove with last week not to talk of my first love

the essence of thsi thread is not to bash people who shop in high street stores,

one of my favorite places to shop actually is primark. . . £50 can go a very long way in there

I dont think Gap is that bad, i did get a couple of nice things in there a while back, it all has to do with taste

Naomi campell is well known for her silly tantrums and physical as well as verbal abuse. . . na today?

the girl has major issues and quiet frankly it easy to believe she is guilty of all she has been accused of, she has been accused of displaying this sort of behaviour countless times. . . there is no smoke without fire

uzoo:
@HR.Hotness

i feel you dear,


tejuosho market has been levelled to dust and stones as we speak ,
i couldnt believe my eyes when i got there.

the market was set ablaze last christmas, and since then , they've pulled
the entire structure down.

For real? 

so what happened to all the traders ? 

@ poster

What are u playing at?

Its not necessary to post on in the politics section u knw? no one will think less of u. . .  its perfectly ok to remain in the sexuality section

[quote author=Method-Man link=topic=144352.msg2401237#msg2401237 date=1214048036]what the fuc.k are you murmuring all about?!

do u mean scrabble or scrap?! [/quote]thinking the same thing muself

@ Topic

I take it if u were serving in some lush bank this thread wldnt be in existence eh?

Hold up. . . whats happening?

Oh no, i was looking foward to going and getting lost in there. when i visit in july . . . where do i get my bargaining and battering fix now?

Cyclone5:
Sometimes human being naturally repress things. It's a perfectly natural response to stress or fear. I am just saying that the rearing up of feminism in a relationship can have the effect of lashing out at one person for the sins of many. That just can't be right.

I am ashamed to admit that there are a few women claiming to be feminists who go around lashing out at all men with no justification and all in the name of feminism. . . thats not the way its spsed to be. womens rights simply means the right to be treated fairly and equally and not the right to special treatment and ordering the whole world around. That said, any woman who wld lash out at her husband for the "sins of all men" is quiet frankly a fool. why would she marry him in the first place? I still hold the opinion that any man who marries a feminist shd be open enough to understand her values and the importance of what she stands for, respect her opinions and treat her the way she expects to be treated. It would be just silly for any man to go marry a feminist and expect to dominate her, thats just a recipe for disaster

Being part of a society does imply subsuming oneself into the culture and rules of that society. In order to relate to others we sometimes have to use society as reference point. Of course no one should be limited by the limitations of the society they live in. But they have to live by it norms. That might mean not exposing ones vulnerability to opportunists in the name of being strong and independent.

Who defines the norm? who determines what is normal and what is not?
this has nothing to do with being strong and independent, its simple deciding for urself ur own values and standing by them. how can we have free will when some of our actions are frowned upon by society just becos they dont fit into the "norm". I am of the school of thot that states its a free world and I am entitled to do as i please as long as i dont hurt anybody. Life is too short to live by somebody elses rule. . . make up ur own and have a blast!

If you really want to be strong, you can wait to express your views challengingly in the right forum, or you can work your guy over pretty hard in bed. I am sure he will love that kind of strong independence!

BTW I subscribe to this form of independence

stillwater:
Like this one for example. Cover your bones it's not appealing.

babes forget oh. . .

some useless men actually think thats hot, thats why they will be harassing big girls like us to loose weight. . . i love my humps and my muffin top and all my wobbly bits, who want to look like a bag of bones in clothes? I like my clothes to fill out not hang loose


@ Topic

I feel you, my cousin and i can entertain ourselves for hrs looking at Nigerian girl, all dressed up looking like all their cloths were hand-me-downs. even shoes sef, I remember a girl at church wearing shoes that were obviously too small

I dont understand why there is such a strong need to feel among?
why not develop ur own personal style? . . but i guess class doesnt sit well with everyone

Creamish:
lol mayb shez showin u sth u can get addicted to . . matchmaking

no thanks. . . cldnt care less about other pple. . . its all about me!

do u see me making any matches on here? NO!

cldnt be bothered

Cyclone5:
All relationships will have moments of extreme stress. Thats perfectly natural. Its just not appropriate to reduce everything to gender biases and sexism. Sometimes we all have to confirm to societal definitions of genders. That doesn't stop a good relationship being a good relationship. When this go awry we fix them. No need to go burning bras. All I am saying is small pikin wey wan stretch neck to see wetin old person dey do must be ready for pepper wey go wash im eye.

And the cry of the feminist simply is why shd sex or gender be involved or be an issue in the first place?
why should we allow society to define us as individuals when it should be individuals who define the society? why can't a marriage or any relationship be a partnership with each person treated equally and fairly and each with his/her own responsibilities? yes there are moments of extreme stress in every relationship but need there be? Most of the time it arises becomes the woman is bitter or unhappy about something and cannot repress it for much longer. occasionally the reverse is the case but if both parties where on equal footing to start with, there would be no need for any form of repression but an avenue for dialogue and mutual compromise

Cyclone5:
You know that, sometimes after a cat has spent all day chasing chickens it might think that its a tiger. The balance should be found but dog wey rear up for hind leg must know that when im come down na run be im next move. So she just needs to show good judgement even in times of extreme stress.

In my opinion, being a feminist means u are shd be rational and show good judgemnt. . . I expect that she shd always show good judgemnt unless u are planning on being irrational and applying extreme stress

I expect any man who marries a feminist wld have found a balance between commitment, love and respect and therefore there should be no need for her fight the causein her own home.

If you treat her right, there will be no need for her to be "feminist" at home

lady bam:
speaking of suicide,what about suicide bombers.In 2005, there was this 20 year old Marvan Abu Ubeida.he says has been training for months to carry out a suicide mission.this young man plans to offer up a final prayer and then blow himself along with as many US. or Iraqi soldiers as he can reach.Marwan asked his commander to consider him for a suicide mission but had to wait until the beginning of April for his name to be put on the list of volunteers.When his commander finally agreed,Marwan recalls, "it was the happiest day of my life."
While he waits, he spends much of his time rehearsing that last prayer. "First I will ask Allah to bless my mission with a high rate of casualties among the Americans," he says, speaking softly in a matter-of-fact monotone, as if dictating a shopping list. "Then I will ask him to purify my soul so I am fit to see him, and I will ask to see my mujahedin brothers who are already with him." He pauses to run the list through his mind again, then resumes: "The most important thing is that he should let me kill many Americans."and at the time for his mission draws near he says,"I can't wait," "I am ready to die now."

Ok, now why some people kill themselves out of depression, others have ulterior motives and build up so much alacrity toward comiting suicide.

Isn't that due to the promise of paradise with 7 virgins?

@ RC

why r u comin to hook-up on my thread?

onyinye2:
oh just shut up david seriously. you are drowning in your own ignorance. just because a girl doesnt fit "your description" of what she looks like doesnt mean you should go around calling her a boy. personally i don't think you sound like a man but you don't see me saying things about you. and jenny i didnt start it THEY DID!! I'm just ending it

LOL

davidylan:
Ewooo.
God is good all the time.

why are u making noise here?

cooldude62:
by the way,
hr,hotness,
who really are you?
can i know the person behind the name?

not here where everyone is watching

@ Jackal

bia. . swthrt

why are u so bitter?

all this aggression and anger, what is the reason?. . . talk to momma

@ RC

friendship not over dear

we know ourselves

Rockchick:
Open letter to HR.hotness

My dearest friend,

Please stop playing with innocent mens heads here. you have continuously "led on" your Victims and dumped them. please spare these young men from heartbreak. anyway guys apply within but make sure u have a strong heart.

HR.hotness you!!!!!!!

<sup>p.s

If you can't handle all the applications pass em 2 your girlie</sup>

Playing?

Led on?

Victims?

heartbreak?.

what are u talking about? I'm only looking for conversation https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/25.gif


BTW if i pass the left over applications to u, can u handle conversation? there is no sex involved oh