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What is all this talk about being corrupted,

the girl is 17, at that age your body is doing things u don't understand.

its normal for the girl to want to act on those feelings. . .  talk to her and advise her to be careful, thats the best u can do because no matter what happens she'll still find a way get her groove on

If I'm crazy about a guy I will display my affection whenever, wherever and however I feel like it,

I don't know how to hide my feelings or emotions

Eclairs:
Meet the man and introduce yourself. Case close!

Next step, tell him u are following him to his house or else you would disgrace him.

I gs he would see u mean business.

Question?

How often do women woo men. Men are suppose to woo women and thats why they are called woo-men bcs they are wooed by men.
Get it?

LOL,
is that how u fantasise about a girl wooing you?

Me I woo men all the time oh, they waste too much time in getting around to it

very dumb post

it would appear u have trust issues in ur relationship,

why shd either of u find the need to test?

My advise is to asses ur relationship, where or when will the testing stop?

how long will u continue to live that way?

Its not marriage that is boring, its your life that is boring. , 

u don't work and u hav no kids thats why you're bored. . . . 

Get something to do, because you're married doesnt mean u have to loose your individuality.

If u don't want to work, get pregnant or get a hobby. . .  It seems u're just looking for an excuse to do something u otherwise wont do.

stop blaming marriage for ur alleged boredom!

Quit complaining and learn to cook,

Being a woman doesnt automatically mean u must know how to cook, some women just dont and that is a fact that we need to accept. . . the same way not everybody can pick up a brush and paint a potrait

my mum never really had the time to cook but she encouraged us to learn to fend for ourselves

I have one rule in my life and that is to always say how I feel. . .
People can always say where they are with me at every moment, I dont know how to pretend.
Maybe its a character flaw but thats the way it is and some people actually appreciate the blunt honesty, I know I do.

I've got a really good friend who has people around her who've hurt her badly in the past, she never really brings it up and doesnt discuss it with them. personally anyone who has treated me badly would have no place in my life but she insists she doesnt want to hurt their feelings. she has people in her life who she doesnt really like and I am of the opinion that all this baggage is weighing her down. Unfortunately she doesnt see it this way and although she seemed to understand in the beginning its becoming a cause for concern.

Recently, she said to me that we probably cant get along if I continue to act this way. Friendship is the most important thing to me and I have accepted the fact that she chooses to keep thses people close. The thing is I cant be around people who've hurt her because I cant smile and pretend its all good. I cant and wont stop her from seeing these people if she wants to but I cant understand why she wont see i cant be that way. I can be civil when I need to be but thats about it. I believe she deserves better but she thinks I'm being stubborn and difficult. Ok so maybe I am stubborn and I can be very bull-headed with my opinions but these are the traits that have helped me succeed in very challenging situations.

I have personal standards and I accept nothing less, does that make me such a bad person?

[quote author=~Xerxes~ link=topic=141518.msg2362410#msg2362410 date=1213229030]My opinion does not necessarily mean that is what i do. . . .
Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. [/quote]yeah rite, heard that line before
from the abundance of the heart. . . .

[quote author=~Xerxes~ link=topic=141518.msg2362377#msg2362377 date=1213228570]Fart in his presence!!! Farticles attracts men more than pheromones. [/quote]I spse thats wht attracts u eh?

ztyle:
Applause!

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^{***takes a gracious bow***}

arianne:
welcome to the art of seduction!

You got that right!  

The most important trick in getting a mans attention is eye contact, steal occasional glances, hold his gaze for a little longer than necessary then smile before lookin away

Be bold but not to assertive, walk over to a guy u like and say hi. . . make light conversation all the while holding eye contact and smiling.

touch him lightly or subtly brush against him, eg touch his hand lightly when u laugh (prettily and/ seductively) at his jokes. . .  or stroke his back or lightly brush against him when u walk up behind him.

smile as much as u can. . . nothin tells a person that u like them more than smiling while lookin into their eyes

whisper in his ear when u can. . . its a huge turn on for men; a bold step would be than to tell the guy u like him when he has responded positivelyto all your feminine charm, otherwise u can sit back and let him do the rest  

Esss:
HELLS NO

I will remain Naija in peace or war.

Where else in the world can I get such peace of mind??
Where else in the world can I drive 60km/h on a 10km/h road and not get pulled over by the cops??
where else can I eat good quality garri and soup ( and not live on fries).
Where in the world can you fly okada
Where in the world would I get my PHC bole' and fish.
Why would I leave a place where I am King and go to a place where I'm just another Nigger.
Why would you want to switch the beauty of life in Naija for life in Germany.

I know Naija is not perfect (in fact it's screwed up big), but thats what makes it Naija. The bad things that happen in this country is what gives us the unique identity for which we are known the world over.
Why drop my Igbo language for that german crap.
You'll never be a german, nor an American or whatever you call it. You will always be known as an Immigrant, african american, Black community, colored people, Niggers, you know the names. Here you are known only as igbo, yoruba or hausa (Nigerian), not black nigerian, not coloured nigerian, not african nigerian but Nigerian.

Why be tolorated abroad when you are Celebrated at home.

In peace or War, PDP or ANPP, Yaradua or Atiku, I remain Nigerian. PROUDLY NIGERIAN

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Thank you

LadyT:
lalaboi STFU please how stupid do you sound.

As a woman I have No issues in taking on a guy who already has a child or children. I need to just understand that those kids are number one there were there before me and if I love him I love them too.

Children are wonderful and beautiful gifts. A woman or a man should not be punished for having one.

If you believe you can't handle another mans child I guess your love has more limits than others. But to condem someone who has had a child as useless is a disgrace.

Well said!

As much as i hate nigeria sometimes I can never give up my nationality. . .

Thongs are my best friends basically becos i generally hate clothes

my mum finds them funny and breaks into giggles whenever she catches sight of me in them

I usually dont do mush. . . but this is rather touching

Virginity. . . . highly over-rated!

Dignity is an individual thing and has nothing to do with the hymen

I guess there is no hope for progress in Nigeria then

Uche2nna:
You concur, your head

wetin dey make u dey vex na ?

@ Uche

ur confusion is hilarious. . . LOL

jennykadry:
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more to come

Jenny, quiet ? well behaved?

na the tin wen dey tire me for ur bodi be this. . . .  why u dey fool urself?

we all know the truth. . .  

but dont worry, we like u like that