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MickzyDonald:
#100k per month I'll resume tomorrow

Jafar1:
Don't use one person's action to qualify the others...
The fact that the previous one was later caught in a hotel with a man doesn't mean this one is also gonna be that way...

The level of insecurity in this country alone should make u realized that she may have been kidnapped or so..
This is somebody's daughter and her family members are not at rest RN.
Pray not to ever miss any family member of urs.


I pray and hope she returns home in good health and in one piece..

Dpsychologist:
The excess attention gets to their head leading to what is referred to as female narcissism. She gets to a point she feels entitled. She sees men as "success objects" and as such begins broke shaming guys in their early 20s who are broke.

She now roll with men in their 30s and 40s( and guys in 20s that are loaded).

Till her head clears when she is in her 30s

mormoney85:
because ur country doesn't know hw to use him or don't hv the kind of players he needs, tall players do not play much all they need is good supply from crossing and corner kicks

mormoney85:
because ur country doesn't know hw to use him or don't hv the kind of players he needs, tall players do not play much all they need is good supply from crossing and corner kicks

MASTAkiLLAh:
This guy has confidence issues while wearing our national colors, he just needs a goal to break his duck

AFvckingAlpha:
The fvck

Niggarr!!

This tall lanky forward.

Anytime he wears the green white jersey, he is always a shadow of himself.

Yet he scores for his club sides.

I watch this guy video for YOUTUBE before we go the last afcon, my guys ask me who be Paul, I overhype am for my guys.

For Afcon proper, na me them dey swear for ontop the rubbish wey him play.

Na only Oshimen we get, after Oshimen nah still Oshimen.

Peace out

Peng12345:
You see the tricks behind this?

You banned them why giving us numberso to call again

This #Endsars is just a joke on us, watch after some weeks and see them crawl out in full force again

If only we all can gather mind and occupy every city in Nigeria

tillaman:
na woman cause fight bro

Ishilove:
Oh please. Stop being a Pharisee. When someone points out the obvious to you, you begin to foam at the mouth. Abegi. I will quote you OVER and OVER again as I deem fit, within the ambit of Nairaland laws so get used to it.

You are not the only Christian on this forum so shut it abeg. 'Devil begin to make use of me' indeed. Fanatic.

IamD18:
If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courting, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.

Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.

Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 99.742% of relationships in Nigeria.

yultater:
mind your business

PRETTYPRINCES:
The Commander did well. I have seen where one of an emir's warrior defeated 4 soldiers in a hand battle. Infact, he was later being begged to join the army as a special force which he declined. HE SAID HE DETEST THE NIGERIAN ARMY SO MUCH. It was realised that he has no hole in his bones a reason for his strength apart from his traditional military training.

smogup:
That soldier will sleep in the guardroom for one week.

onyechez:
Hahaha, you think say na to form hard body, you never see anything, tactics is the real deal. If you have watch world most strongest man, you will know what am talking about.

seanwilliam:
that soldier don enter wahala when they get back to barrack

rontolo:
People are mentioning Nigerian soldiers in same breath as Spetsnaz. This is an insult to these Russian warriors. First, Nigerian regular soldiers are not half as capable as the Russian regular troops. Nigerian special forces (annoying the way our unprofessional soldiers are given this designation upandan) are not even at par with soldiers / conscripts in the Russian ground forces. Spetsnaz is different class, similar to US Delta Force (CAG), US Navy Seal team Six, British SAS, Israel’s Shayetet 13 etc. These guys are extreme warriors. Just one battalion comprising one of these forces will destroy boko haram quickly (using advanced intelligence, logistics, special ops capabilities and deployment etc)

The Nigeria army is an unprofessional ragtag, inferior even to Chadian soldiers. Nepotism and corruption decimated the Nigeria military, long time ago!

tillaman:
Damn, just like the video I saw sometimes back where 2 Nigerian soldiers were stabbing one another with broken bottle

Kriss216:
I’ve witnessed in Ariaria Aba at ATE free zone where they sell yam and fowls, a wheelbarrow pusher disfigured a Nigerian soldier’s face with blows.

The road was bad and the barrow pusher was struggling to push his barrow out of the way so an Army van can pass. One of the soldiers at the back of van descended on the barrow pusher with koboko, the barrow pusher out of annoyance and reflex action threw a punch at the soldier. Come and see fight. The other soldiers at the back of van wanted to interfere but their commander sitting in front ordered them to step back.

Man to man fight. Come and see punch. It was that day I started respecting barrow pushers. Aba people ridiculed the soldier that day. People started dashing the barrow pusher money.

Yungstar28:
Seriously i feel your pain....this same thing happened to me last year...i neva offended her...asin maybe cheat. Or lies i neva done that...am not afraid of her so why will i be lying...


We broke up last year December...

She even get mind tell me say...she don see another guy she loves, see how painful it is na...during the first 3 months my anger for her no be for children play at all...but my little Niece calm me down...that i should let her go, but my Gee e no easy...But Glory be to God...i have no single feelings for her...most especially now i see that the guy with her...can't even help her on a long run



I have No gal friend till now...i took time to garden my heart a bit....Neva to love too much, trust too much, care too much, hope to much....cuz the too much will hurt me so much


If am to date a gal now...i will just do my part as Boyfriend and won't over do myself

Her actions in the relationship will tell me how much she respect the relationship


And you as a Guy....It is easy to spot a gal who naturally loves...for what you are....and not who you are

chukemmang:
Pussy Nigger.

You need to go back to the school of relationship to learn never to love any woman so much that you can't let her go.

Make you EX feel worthless to you. Deliberately Erase her memories from your head. Ignore her like you have never met her in this life.

I used the word Deliberately because I don't want to hear your excuse of you not being able to.

Before you know it, you will never ever remember her again. Then give yourself to a new woman that deserves your undivided attention and love.

If any partner cannot be faithful and reliable during courtship, they are worthless than an animal and don't deserve wasting your thought on them.

IamDavid:
I'm already on this path but I don't wanna push too hard else I'll lose out. In fact, I'm assuming she's gone, so that I'll be able to use my brain effectively and not necessarily emotions. She's the one putting more effort at the moment, but really, this moment made me realize there's so much more to life than relationships, especially for a youth in his twenties. Thanks for the concern bro, I appreciate you.

sisisioge:
She raised the bar of the kind of girl you really take fancy to...until you match or exceed that bar on another girl...you will keep remembering her...Pele.

Alexgman1:
No. I never knew wat i felt was dis strong.

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/