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ARareGem: Happy Birthday, HBG. More grace to your elbow!

Thanks sis...blessed day to you too

CFCfan: I'm also wishing HBG a happy birthday

Thank you bro...go sleep now lol

Reyginus: Happy birthday HBG. You know I thought you are within the range of 25-28. People are not usually as old as they sound.
LLNP.

Thank you sir...m 26 I sound my age @tm right?

CFCfan: LWKMD!

No, she isn't. She is from Rivers State.

your tonto Dikeh type...

CFCfan: Okay. Anyway, it will be her choice though.

as long as its her choice and won't be pressurised into anything

CFCfan: Verse 13 may be difficult to accomplish. What if my future wife (could be Tonto Dikeh) can't weave a cloth?

it depends on what you prefer to wear, but she can learn how to weave a cloth

CFCfan: What will happen if I decide to marry Tonto Dikeh?

is she an Akwa Ibom lady?

tpacalipse: I bet she will never. They love to read the bible but will never study proverbs 31.

lol...you don't know me, stop making assumptions when you know nothing about me

I practice what I preach, ask around about the proverbs 31 woman.....its my favourite. Here is my old post

Humbledbygrace: *takes the same bible*

Same proverbs 31 from verse 11


The Capable Wife
[b]
10 How hard it is to find a capable wife! She is worth far more than jewels!

11 Her husband puts his confidence in her, and he will never be poor.

12 As long as she lives, she does him good and never harm.

13 She keeps herself busy making wool and linen cloth.

14 She brings home food from out-of-the-way places, as merchant ships do.

15 She gets up before daylight to prepare food for her family and to tell her servant women what to do.

16 She looks at land and buys it, and with money she has earned she plants a vineyard.

17 She is a hard worker, strong and industrious.

18 She knows the value of everything she makes, and works late into the night.

19 She spins her own thread and weaves her own cloth.

20 She is generous to the poor and needy.

21 She doesn't worry when it snows, because her family has warm clothing.

22 She makes bedspreads and wears clothes of fine purple linen.

23 Her husband is well known, one of the leading citizens.

24 She makes clothes and belts, and sells them to merchants.

25 She is strong and respected and not afraid of the future.

26 She speaks with a gentle wisdom.

27 She is always busy and looks after her family's needs.

28 Her children show their appreciation, and her husband praises her.

29 He says, “Many women are good wives, but you are the best of them all.”

30 Charm is deceptive and beauty disappears, but a woman who honors the LORD should be praised.

31 Give her credit for all she does. She deserves the respect of everyone.[/b]

[quote author=wazobia_for_u]Babe, you have half knowledge about christianity or you have joined the train of " let adjust it to our taste" anyway half knowledge kill faster than poison

Marriage was before any religion and marriage is for Love and not for religion, millions of pagans are living happily in their marriage and your pastors keep divorcing every month.

Many that marry cus of Money,Ethnic,Religion are crying inside and outside now .... If na lie go to court and open mouth

Marry cus of love[/quote]Come on!

I will marry a man after God's own heart...nothing less. Btw...you amuse me

What taste are you talking about? I hate it when people start being Hypocrites

oluomad: My dear, I love Ūя post!! Happy birthday dearie!! We share †ђξ same birthday!! Happy birthday to U̶̲̥̅ and me

happy birthday to us....how old are you lol

ogaju007: Now this is what i love to hear .... when people claim they know there origin yet live the life, culture and even religion of people thousands of miles away. you have the bible, you have read it, you atleast read it every sunday... have you ever asked the 4 main questions (Why? What? HOw? When?)

I hate it when you act like you know me.

dagr8: [size=15pt]HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our own HBG...
...may your cherished dreams come true...may u be a blessing to your generation ...and may you fulfil purpose in life...In Jesus Name

Happy Birthday dear friend[/size]




[size=4pt]how old are you now?[/size]

23 lol

Thank you my friend God bless thee

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Cheers to us

Happy birthday to you all!

This is the day that the Lord has made...let us be glad and rejoice.



I can hear the footsteps of my King
I can hear His heartbeat beckoning
In my darkness He has set me free
And now I hear the Spirit calling me

Wake up child
It's your time to shine
You were born for such a time as this

I can hear a holy rumbling
I've begun to preach another King
Loosing chains and breaking down the walls
I want to hear the Father when He calls

This is the anthem of our generation
Here we are God, shake our nation
All we need is Your love
You captivate me

I am royalty
I have destiny
I have been set free
I'm gonna shape history

[quote author=omo_to_dun]First and foremost, my father's words and rules shouldn't bother you at all. You are married to me, not him. If he is sick, you would be bothered because I would be bothered. Your analogy get as he be. And you really don't have to worry about the typical in-law brouhaha; we are Americans! [/quote]I am a black african woman...

AFRICAN

Not american. You have an issue with your origin..I rest my case

CFCfan: 200 Likes

lol

Thanks.

[quote author=omo_to_dun]I respect your point of view. For me, the source is of no importance; what is of importance, however, are the fruits of the source.[/quote]are you saying that if I marry you, your father shouldn't bother me? His words shouldn't bother me? His rules shouldn't bother me? When he is ill I shouldn't be bothered?

CFCfan: I agree with the premise of your write-up; a Christian should only date someone who shares the same Christ-like beliefs, just as a non-Christian may prefer a guy/lady who is also not a Christian. Different strokes for different folks.

yea, I don't get it why people are making noise for no reason. Take what you believe fits....then when you get home you realise it doesn't fit.....getting it back to the shop after buying is a hussle.

CFCfan: @omo to dun: You are spot on. Many Christians don't help out those in need when they (Christians) have the capability to do so. They essentially lack love for their neighbour(s).

so true

[quote author=omo_to_dun]It's a simple thing. I don't believe that he was conceived of the Holy Spirit. I believe he was a man like the rest of us. I simply love his teachings. His emphasis on taking care of the poor, the sick, loving your neighbor, feeding the hungry etc. These are the things that so many Christians do not even focus on. These are the things I have chosen to believe in. Where he comes from is none of my business.[/quote]I think the source of the fountain is better known than ignored.

I agree with you about christians not doing what Jesus Christ taught them...for some its just going to church to avoid chores at home...for us its our source of life

ATMC: like d president is now following this thread on twitter, bella writing her finals, uj sizzle now a deaconess and you forming ignorance on top all these goings-on...you grab?

thought nobody noticed, you mean I lack knowledge somewhere?

[quote author=omo_to_dun]OK. That's nice. You are not a hypocrite. At least, you practice what you believe in. Even though I don't agree with so many things in the Bible, I love it when people stand up for what they believe in. I thought you were a feminist Christian. I always found it to be contradictory because a person cannot be both. You are either one or the other.[/quote]I can say I am something but my action tell you something else.

[quote author=omo_to_dun]@Akseph
I love Jesus Christ and his tenets and I try to live by them. He was good moral teacher. But do I believe in God, miracles, the Holy Spirit, heaven, hell, etc? No, I absolutely do not.[/quote]where did Jesus come from? You don't believe in God? The Holy spirit?

M confused

CFCfan: Nice write-up by HBG.

Patience is always a virtue.

when I saw it, I thought about you...

[quote author=omo_to_dun]Chei, so you are not a feminist?[/quote]ask around...I am not

Akseph: Havin read d above post and comments i wil want to give these word of advice to everyone dat is luking for a man or woman who have those character to get married to. Be careful u ar nt being carried away by those properties-they can be made by hypocrisy but let all ur desire b about God's kingdom and he will add evry oda things to u. For it was God who saw dat Adam needs a woman and nt adam who desire it. Let us stand in God's glory and we shall have what he want for us. Dnt let us b like d hypocrite who claim to be godly but is denied d power thereof. Dis is d end of d ages, men wil love themselves than God.
HUMBLEDBYGRACE THANK GOD FOR UR LIFE, MAY HE GIVE U MORE GRACE TO DO THIS NOT FOR URSELF BUT FOR HIM

Thank you brother.

[quote author=omo_to_dun]^
I am not a preacher either, but I know that the Bible says in Ephesians 5:24 that:

Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Not one thing, but everything![/quote]I don't think I ever mentioned a wife who disobeys her husband.

Orikinla: [size=28pt]The sooner you stop looking for a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend in Nigeria the safer you would be. 99.99 of them who confess and profess to be Christians are worse than pagans.

It was a so called Christian brother and maths graduate of UNILAG who ra-ped a 17 year old girl and would have raped a popular celebrity gossip blogger.

Another Christian brother did not only ra-pe a Christian sister, he was also biting her as he was ra-ping her. And he was a banker. [/size]

their actions will tell you who they are...they actually speak louder than words. You said they confess, they don't show

[quote author=BABE!]This topic is an example of the mistakes women (and men) make nowadays; putting God's responsibilities on a mare man. Are you yourself honest? Are you selfless? Do you read your bible 24/7?
You're not half as perfect as the man you crave yet you want him. Aren't you both humans with the same blood running through your capillaries ?

To the "born agains", how about perfecting your relationship/marriage with your God? All these marriage palava won't fix loneliness.

That "perfect" man or almost "perfect" man doesn't exist!![/quote]I am not a preacher...but I know that the bible says we should first seek the kingdom of God and everything will be added. Again we should be holy because he is holy...can't explain this

Akseph: muskeeto, i dnt even think u have any of those qualities. 4 ur qualities is mainly quantify by what comes out of u. Consider one of ur comment: Re: Adeboye Holds
Fellowship With Prisoners,
Guards At Kirikiri Maximum
Security Pri bymusKeeto(m):2:35pm On Dec 26,2012 Great move. He has to make
friends before he joins them.

@ bolded so much said there. Thanks

economia: CHRISTIANITY IS NOT POPULAR AND CAN NEVER BE POPULAR BECAUSE OF THESE AND MANY MORE BASED DUCTRINE, ALTHOUGH MANY PEOPLE GO TO CHURCH IN NIGERIA BUT THESE BASED DUCTRINE ARE NEVER MENTIONED IN THERE. THEY HAVE CHOOSEN FOR THEMSELVES PROFETS THAT ARE NEVER CHRISTIANS. THE PROFETS TELL THEM WHAT THEY WHANT TO HERE. OFCOURSE, THE PROFETS HAVE NOT THE KNOWLEDGE OF CHRIST, THUS THEY FRAME UP SOMETHING THAT IS GENERALY ACCEPTABLE.

your right because your talking about profets not PROPHETS

sweetrace: 1. a frequent or favorite female companion; sweetheart.
2. a female friend.
I got both definitions from a dictionary. Please, what dictionary did you get your own myopic definition from?

let them be...the bitter ones are the male folks...I bet they never had that chance of making the right choices when it came to choosing a lifetime partner.

[quote author=SIR KOL!]i dont know y dis i bcoming a debate...marry whoever u want 2 marry, wat eva u see, u take...afterall na u go suffer or enjoy d whole tin but do not 4get dat marriage is 4 beter 4 worst till death do u part [/quote]hehehehe

some people are bitter on nairaland

FOLLEY20: What u are discussing here is funny & strange to true Christianity. There is nothing like having boy friend or girl friend in xtian circle. If u are mature & ready for marriage, then go for that by following normal processes based on Bible doctrine.

Funny and strange to you....what's the right procedure?

You just pick a random lady @ church and tell the elders you want her?