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obowunmi: Good question. I've gone on dates and God reveals that the person is not the one thru dreams. I never relied on "God" - and I always dated all sorts of women and women are attracted to me. But I no longer want to rely on beautiful women because beauty and sex don't sustain marriage.

I don't see anything wrong with dating as many women as you desire. Marriage however, I believe is a different matter.

Say wat?are you serious?My question awaits ur answer

plappville: This makes it strange
I could remember the pushing of head at same time telling you to start speaking euh!!
The truth is, When we do not take our time to study the bible, we can only be manipulated by fake Pastors.

the moment someone screams "speak in tongues,talk to your God." I say amen gosh then u will hear youth my God!! .

One sunday my lil sister visited my church and she vowed never to visit again because she felt like she wasn't a born again.All our youth were too much teary and tongue twisting.She asked me y I don't do that,I told her I do cry out to God,even @ church but speaking in wat I don't know?m so not doing that

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They can persuade, but its God that gives. Maybe they should start persuading for interpreters [/quote]Not my calling,but they should consider doing just that.

plappville: But wait ooo, it seem the speaking in tongue gift is for Nigeria Christians only.
I have been to two churches here in the West, i have never seen or heard anyone speaks in tongue. Does that mean, the Western christian are not Holyghost filled?

Come to think of it,since m not in Nigeria also I think so

@ all the ladies in the house,did u all realise its only our brothers who speaks in tongues? And they are so persuasive that we speak in tongues why?

[quote author=Bélla3]i dont think i cn add anything to this. IMAGINE. Anyway, they say 'common sense nt common with all'[/quote]He just went off the road so ur Guitarlife covered for us,how's u missy?

k2039: [color=#FF0099] [size=13pt]
I wish I could answer the question but I have never had a girlfriend

On a serious note if I were to have I think I will kiss and hold her hands(but issue of touching is really something I cant really say,but am sure I'm not going to have sex until my wedding night(I actually vowed to God,so am sure I wont))

But religiously speaking kissing makes me guilty of fornication
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Ok,cool but I don't think kissing is fornication but hey I don't trust myself so ur right better safe than sorry

k2039: [color=#FF0099] [size=13pt]
Their is a 1% chance of you thinking about me(1% in mathematics means it is very possible but unlikely)
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Ok m not thinking about u,how's that?

k2039: [color=#FF0099] [size=13pt]
my email kolawoletoluwalase@yahoo.com
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are u on Yahoo Messenger?

k2039: [color=#FF0099] [size=13pt]
Dreams can be deceptive,you dream what you think about
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Not always..u mean if I think about u m absolutely gonna dream bwt u?

k2039: [color=#FF0099] [size=13pt]
@HumbledbYGrace why didnt you respond to my email request?
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hey,I thought I did,drop ur email here then sorry if u didn't get my reply

Omo Alata: We told her it was for better for worse but she said No way

She was stupid

abifoluwa: mmynd are u stalking humbledbygrace? lol

y would he?m I missing sumthin here?

Guitarlife: good, good and how's southern africa ?

Good but still cold and too much rain

Guitarlife: Please look up the word commom sense in the dictionary. When you read anything, you use it to interprete whatever you read. Why would God give us a brain when he didnlt expect us to use it ? When we already ha everything spelt out for us in the bible.
Look up the word metaphor too and also parable. If after you have looked up all of these words you 're still struggling to get it then, I'll take it you are beyond redemption.
If I sold all my properties today please tell me where I am going to find Jesus so I can follow him. It was meant to be a metaphorical statement.
He only meant to infere that as true christians we would need to sacrifice more often than not. It's not rocket science is it ?

Hey u!Long time brother how's school and life in general?

Think12: I am a victim of this unequally yoked crap that refers to oxen and cattle. It was implied to cover marriages. In other words the passage does not specifically cite marriage. It is Paul's interpretation. For all you "Word of God" bible literalists why don't you watch this video, and explain why your religion only focuses on one of the eight steps to get into heaven? I mean if you follow the word of God and everything Jesus says is truth why does your religion only focus on one-the belief in Jesus? What about the passages that say you have to sell everything you own for example? Or you should love everyone and hate everyone at the same time? It's Gods word right? Shouldn't you follow it? Well watch the video and see....my theory is you Christians don't follow these other steps to heaven because even though it is written in the bible you selectively ignore it because you know it's wrong, in other words you can't defend any of it. You guys and your pastors and your churches, you guys selectively pick passages that suit your individual or churches preferences for the message you want to send. But if the Bible is Gods word and the truth why aren't you selling stuff? Jesus commands you to. While this video applies to heaven it and not unequally yoked, it points out that Christians selectively interpret the bible for their own or church's motives and it also makes following the unequally yoked passage absurd because if you aren't following Jesus' steps to heaven you aren't following all of Gods word in the first place, so what makes you anymore of a believer than the next guy. Watch the video, Jesus is very clear on what he commands. Why aren't all you "believers" doing as he says? I think because you know as we'll as I do and the next guy that if anybody heard you following all 8 of his commands in this video, they would probably think you're delusional.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=dzzORZhnCao

if u have nothing to say about this topic y don't u rather pass by?Open ur own post about wat believers have to do then we will gladly answer u

And Christianity is not parading on NL boasting about tongue speaking.Tongue speaking my foot,Christians on this forum wat is da work u do?Rather go through the Acts of the apostles again instead of always arguing ur an embarrassment really.We are all not saints but we shouldn't act like we r the Saducesses and the Pharisees.Icompetent Jews

2gbasky22: I wonder the dictionary we NIGERIANS got these kind of english from!

magomago,
crycry
follofollo,
yanmayanma,
puffpuff,
chinchin
kulikuli,
wakawaka
moimoi,
jedijedi
sharpsharp,
yoriyori
gbomogbomo,
mumu
truetrue,
borrowborrow
lielie,
lailai
fearfear,
touchtouch
talktalk,
holyholy
jigijigi,
jagajaga
kaikai,
mazamaza
scatterscatter,
potopoto
kabukabu,
wuruwuru
palapala,
worryworry.

See as u dey
smilesmile

add ur own abeg!

Mind explaining every single word for me there?Me likey

obowunmi: True story. This is a reality for many people. Many impotent men hide under "God said" I suggest you try the pe,nis before you ever proceed into marriage.

To all the ladies beware of impotent men, men with low sperm count, no sperm.

Make sure your man is sexually healthy before you move forward.

So tell us,how do we get to do that?

Omo Alata: I know a lady (personally know this lady) who waited until after marriage. A white wedding with all the thrills etc. Anyway, on the wedding night, it was a no-show O as the man could not 'do'. The lady ran back to the pastor the next day to divorce them. The pastor said till death do you part so the lady quit the church

hehehe y did the sister run sha?

chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls

God speaks to me through dreams too but about other things not my mr perfect.If I say its about the man I love trust me,iv dreamed of all my exes before I received Christ,I now don't even like the sound of dreams wen it comes to relationships

chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls

So u wanna marry?well where is Ms right?

Ok u stil hv a long way to go dude

eduson002: I will luv only when we er maried.Prio to marriage,no much emotion will b attached.I dnt want stories dat touch

Hmmm ok

meekas: Sin kerekere sin pompo poro pompo ro pompo po

Is that wat u say wen ur speaking in tongues?

andromida: She sounds like a good gal who made a mistake. What if you were the one who cheated would you like to be forgiven?

Girl u know wat I hate?Girls hu stand for other girls crap just because they are girls.

eduson002: it is because of these kind of stories dat touch dat I dnt want to luv any girl.

hu u gonna love?A guy?

obowunmi: Sorry - you are a child.

M no child but m practising abstinence and Man its flipping hard,Married christians please tell us how u did it

obowunmi: If you are not intimate - how about if you get stuck with an impotent man? With no functioning pe,nis?

Is there such a thing?

laberry101: Got hyper high in every way necessary ...I think it and it's done. Then I slept

The nigger is heading to the club now

abifoluwa: i am lol. really hurt, i just smile and laugh a lot. dont knw where i got it from cause both my parents have anger problems. lol but heck, it sure felt good, especially when she was feeling guilty, i couldnt stop laughing. i only wrote this cause this was wat i wanted to tell her be4 she broke up, but i couldnt, cause it sure was a waste of time, u knw wat i mean? lol.... i am even heading to the club right now self

No my story was unfinished heck!come back

Lol u aint the only one who went on a rampage on a socialnetwork after the break up.I did that too,it felt good then but I came to realise I was just hurting myself.Well,we met @ a wedding of a friend's sister and really liked each other,talked the whole day and he asked for my number wen he went back home.

Note:we were from 2 neighbouring countries and we only met once

He called and then we Gtalked our relationship through.We lost connection after 6months and the next thing I saw was a relationship update on fb,I got mad but said nothing as we didn't even talk anymore.

2months later he came to school in my country and called apologising,he was still far but atleast I saw him on holidays,things were good until he went back home.

He didn't call to tell me his trip was ok,not even an inbox on facebook,poor me I was so into the guy I thought he was just Mr perfect because he seemed like that.A week later we were talking on fb wen I received an invite from a girl,I checked her profile and her photos were of the photos I was familiar with-I had seen them in his laptop and he had said she is a friend from his old school.Being me,I accepted the invite,and asked him about the girl.Boy he didn't even know wat to say,I played cool and asked the girl y did she invite me as we had a mutual friend hu happened to be my bf.She too became corcky and said the kind of relationship I have with my bf is exactly like hers killed me but I said we r just friends.she replied with "M just his friend too."

The following morning my bf came clean,telling me that he met the girl wen we lost connection,I asked him y he came back to me but he didn't have an answer all he knew was that he is inlove with that girl not me.I blocked them both on fb but he came back to school,I wanted revenge and I got it.He was having a hard time,I pretended to be there,we had a heart to heart chat via emails and then I ublocked his gf on fb and inboxed our convernsations to her.That was a final blow,He called me but I couldn't pick up,I felt ashamed,he then insulted me on whatsapp,he became a monster and threatened to ruin my life the way I ruined his.

We were done,the truth was out and we couldn't turn back,I apologised and never looked back

Dude u don't sound Broken though

fankasibe: If u want to knw that a Nigeria girl loves u, she will not ask for BlackBerry and Brazilian hair.

The Nigger provides for wateva she wants but she loves him to bits or only Nigerian girls r like that?

Brothers and sisters,Christians alike let's talk about waiting till marriage before having sex.How do you react when your with your partner?Do you kiss,hold hands or touch each other?Or all that will be done after the wedding day?Let's all be honest