₦airaland Forum

eltilon:
Can a girl get married @19yrs

yes she has passed official age of 18, but its not advisable unless the man is rich enough to allow her continue her education and pursue her dreams

Menance:
Unnecessary Make up with kpom at the middle of your head.
Perforated paynt. .
Cheap paynt
Infact paynt in general.

nose ring, tattoo makes them look dirty and tacky, belly/navel ring. Heavy makeup, eyelashes very tacky and dirty

dirtydiva:
But you fail to understand dat hunger kill faster than disease. Imagine if disease enter a body dat hv not eaten for some days or you are managing a particular infection and you hv no forod to keep your body cells working are you not certified a dead man? Think about what companies will do if such was not called off (mass sack and selling off assets)

na wa oh lolz

pocohantas:
No problem at all. I just dey talk say we no kill person, we are doing our best. Na isi ewu and small stout cause all this nonsense.

hahahaahahahahaha

Mrmourinho:
Bro who told u hunger has a solution? alaye u wee never fall victim of hunger oooo, it u know d true meaning of hunger ehn, u won't talk like dis ooo, CoronaVirus is only for fourteen days, after which u might die or survive, Buh serious hunger might lead to chronic ulcer which is mostly lifelong, so technically, Hunger is more deadly and dangerous Dan CoronaVirus

hahahahahahahaha

AfroKnight:
Nice xenophobic yansh.

oh Nigerians, many of you won't make heaven

pocohantas:
Lol. We no kill person...

I know its not easy sha, I am sorry for even making such statement

Supported because if this lockdown is eased by tomorrow in Lagos, by 20th of this month, Lagos will record 5000 new cases of those NCDC will manage to test.


Lagos hospitals will be overwhelmed and doctors and nurses will start fleeing from work.

Yes hunger is bad, but hunger have a solution, sickness and death have no solution.

Nigerians be warned! If you don't have anything crucial, I mean very vital to do outside from tomorrow you better remain in your house oh!! Hmmm


What treatment or vaccination plan do they have in place or special plan for any sudden surge in infection and people falling sick in mass


May God show Nigeria mercy from tomorrow, if not, it won't be funny, I see doom

Vulcanheph:
She's still finer than some young girls i know who are still in their 20's.

some abi majority of young girls in Nigeria with their big tummies

[quote author=grandpoh post=89136518][/quote]Most Nigerian graduates from federal government universities and polytechnics are far more brighter and smarter and better than those that graduated from those glorified secondary schools like Babcock, Covenant, Redeemers, Caritas, Madona, etc universities......you cannot compare them.


You cannot compare a graduate of UNN, UI, OAU, ABU, UNIBEN, UNILAG, FUTO, FUTA, etc with a graduate of Babcock, Covenant, Redeemers, Leads, Caritas, Madona University, you can't.



If you cannot afford to send your child to school abroad, don't waste your time sending him or her to all those glorified secondary schools like Babcock, Covenant, Madona, Redeemers, Caritas, etc, instead send the child to a Federal University it is better, unless your child couldn't pass JAMB and Post-UME, they are better in federal universities than those glorified private universities in Nigeria

Thiwalade:
Great! I have been liking your comments from the beginning till you try talked about lecturers. I needed to defend my interest.

Oh now I see lol.....I respect your interest, just that the mago mago and bureaucracy used in employing lecturers in Nigeria ends up pushing out the best graduates and employing the worst which is the reason Nigerian education is deteriorating so fast and may die a sudden death if care is not taken fast!!



So try and make a difference if you end up becoming a lecturer, don't collect sorting and bribes to pass students, allow students pass or fail on merit....don't demand to sleep with female students first in order to pass them or upgrade their result grade....don't join those useless school boys in their yeye school cults that make them feel they are on the right course since lecturers are also their members.....don't join your fellow lecturers in using juju to kill or attack other bright lecturers or take their glory, try and make a difference, Nigerian lecturing job is a dirty work, don't say I didn't warn you

Thiwalade:
I respect your intellectual capabilities. I don't know how or why you made your decision not to become a successful prof. I know money matters a lot too but in a country like Nigeria, paper also matter as it shows your I. Q. I think E. Q is equally important to be successful. Being a brilliant student is not enough, you must have facts to back it up too. The most important is using the intelligence for the good of mankind.


Money alone should not be used as a yardstick to measure success.

Likewise, academic qualification, degrees and schools one attended should not be used as a yardstick to measure success or future success


We are on the same argument but on a different side

Thiwalade:
PhD or certificate is not a reflection of intelligence nor money. You're getting my own argument wrong. I never said phd is equivalent to success in life. However, that someone chooses academics doesn't make him less successful than one in business. Let those you mention use their money to find the cure to covid 19. Abba kyari l had all the money, where is he today? We are all gifted and unique in our different ways. Respect everyone regardless of their works in life.

That is it....and that was the reason I started commenting on this thread in the first place because I felt bad and angered by the op's girlfriend's dad who judged him and his future based on his HND certificate, who does that

Many people who replied me initially felt I was maybe an SSCE holder defending the op with HND, common, I have seen the high point of PhD holders, I was once the eye of others academically, but haven seen much about life from experiences, encounters with people and exposure, I now judge people beyond their academic qualification or the school they finished from cos some people in Polytechnics are far more intelligent, gifted, smarter than most people in Universities.

Some ended up in Polytechnic and College of education based on family background (poverty, etc), some due to unnecessary JAMB wahala....some for some other reasons, and their finishing from a Polytechnic or College of Education does not make them less of a human nor does it mean they don't have a brighter future than the PhD holders and Professors, that was my own point of argument from the beginning.


I have friends that cut across all sectors of the economy who are HND, Bsc, PhD, WASCE holders, and even those that didn't attend any school at all, and I respect each and everyone of them for their choices so long as they stay focused on their choice and are financially successful to take care of their needs and that of their loved ones without being a burden to others.


That is my own argument.


The op should leave that girl unless she defers her father's decision and show truly that she does not buy into her father's stupid reasoning, if not, he should leave her and focus on growing in his career path by gaining relevant work experience and using that experience to climb up the ladder of his field, and when he is financially settled enough, he can enroll for a PGD programme and maybe Msc if it will help him grow in his career.

Thiwalade:
This is a wrong analysis of the Nigerian higher institution. You're right that some of the best often get carted away overseas. Research has more to do with curiosity than ju academic excellence. Read up on "grit" it's the most important determinant of success. If you had passion for research, you probably would've gone in. In my university for example, it is based on merit many times. I think you have something against lecturers. 5.0 GPA doesn't mean you're the most intelligent. Intelligence is often not the memory game we play in Nigeria. The only difference between a lecturer over there and one here is exposure. Over there, you have equipments to reach your potential and quickly but here, limited equipment. They're not really better, there are good brains here just lack of funding and opportunities.

Yes you have a point, but brother let me brag small, I am a born genius. If I was a white, I am supposed to be in the league of late Albert Einstein and co.


The person you are chatting with here finished reading Physics by Abot while I was in SS1, started studying Physics, Further Maths, etc right from Junior secondary. There was no Internet in my time.

I conduct physics and chemistry experiments in my room as a Junior secondary school student. When I got to senior secondary, chemistry, physics, further maths, etc were like book of my bible stories for kids for me. I was way above my mates right from nursery school.

I was a wonder kid. I won lots of school awards growing up. I do multiplication, division of even decimal figures with my head without calculator.


I helped so many people write waec, jamb, etc and they all passed. I was just too good academically.

I read virtually anything readable; holy books, science books, newspapers, magazines, even awake I never missed any of their publications all thanks to my wonderful Jehovah Witness friends that visit regularly for Bible study then.


I hardly go out cos I was engrossed with reading anything I see. I finished oxford dictionary page to page, Bible almost.


My point is, life experiences have taught me a lot, academic degrees, paper qualifications are nothing....wisdom, intelligence, success, smartness is not by your academic degrees or qualifications.


I didn't further after my first degree cos I saw no need, I saw that academic qualifications are a waste of smart and talented people's time, so I quit but I am far more exposed, learned, knowledgeable and better than most professors.


My mates call me prof till date cos they say I am a born prof.


So you guys should quit those paper qualification crap u use to measure people's success, future and intelligence, it's foolishness

Thiwalade:
Young man, money without the necessary qualifications will mean you can't speak in certain circles. Do you know the respect confirm phd holders get but in and out of the country? Check your list of 36 States governor and see how many people have affiliation with academics. Academics give you the opportunity to earn qualifications, money and respect. Money alone is not enough

I repeat shut up! !!

Stop talking thrash. By the way, I was the best graduating student in my time, I have more qualifications than you can ever think of in your life but I tell you it's all crap without money. You are talking jargons, I am telling you real life experience not perception or hearsay.


Can you talk where Buhari talks Can Wole Soyinka stand and challenge Buhari without being thrown to jail forever What certificate or degree does Buhari or Obasanjo have Obasanjo is HND, Buhari not even WAEC but he is your President.


Ayo Fayose nkor

How many Msc or PhD does Donald Trump has

How many does Mark Zuckerberg or Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos have Who are they today They control global affairs, they control when your yeye research will be conducted and who should be involved, so go and sit down with that your yeye Nigerian paper certificate mentality nonsense that kept Nigeria in the dark and undeveloped till date, don't annoy me oh

Thiwalade:
Speak for yourself young man, maybe you went to a substandard University in Nigeria. There are bad eggs, yes but there are many great people lecturing.

The best students in Nigeria don't end up as lecturers because of the Nigerian mago mago...for your info I was the best graduating student. I was the best student from nursery till graduation but I don't like carrying all those school and degree nonsense on top of my head.


I was born with the gift of academic excellence and I know being the best student or being a graduate of a university does not make me better than those that finished from polytechnic because even my elder bro that finished from the polytechnic has been winning awards upon awards in his various companies far more than the Bsc holders and those that finished from foreign university.


He is so good that wherever he works they don't want him to leave yet he finished from a polytechnic.


All my course mates that are now lecturers in Nigerian higher institutions were the average and least performers during our school days....we the best students are in other fields, some living and working abroad, some are now successful entrepreneurs and business owners.


In Nigeria, it's only the highly connected ones that end up as lecturers, and they are not always the best students, it's usually the students that graduated through sorting and nonsense practice and reason lecturing in Nigeria is a joke filled with local cultists, semi babalawos carrying local jazz for promotion and protection who only specialize forcing female students into unwilling sexual acts through threats of failing them.


So park one side when I speak because you know nothing about Nigerian wacky and lazy copy and paste lecturers destroying Nigerian education system with their over bloated ego and psycho

Thiwalade:
Why do you judge success in life on money? Young man, footballers can pay lecturers or researchers in many fold but that doesn't mean they aren't successful. If academia should choose to chase money, many of you will not have anything to build on. The phone you're using is a product of research of some people. That you can pay my salary doesn't mean you're more successful than I am. If success is based on money, Jesus Christ and many other people we still hear about today will not be heard of. In your own eyes, dangote is more successful than wole soyinka right? Nobody goes into academics with the aim of making millions. We chose it because we love knowledge and wish to improve human life. Look at you all running into your houses while these same researchers are finding cure for the virus. Why can't your money buy you the cure? Get real education and know we are all special in our different ways. You're probably just jealous.

Note# there's always going to be the richest man in every generation but those with influence live long in human hearts through history.

The man in question judged the op based on money. If you like gather the whole degree and qualification, if you don't have money you are a joke


Research without money is babalawo work


Someone must fund the research with his money.


In all your doing, get money brother.


I cannot remember anybody anywhere asking me which school I finished from or the course I studied for years now, and I never heard any father in-law asked any of my successful friends the school they finished from or whatever because their appearance alone changes situation, so go and get money

KunleyY19:
Baba lecturer pass lecturer ooo.... I know one that travels abroad almost every 3 month to deliver lectures in top universities outside. He uses a Benz sef. As a very young Civil Engineering lecturer sef he still owns his own company and he his getting contracts from state government sef. It just depends on packaging jare and how the individual can maximize his potential. Even little UG girls are dying for the man. He his a star lecturer.

The person you described is not just a lecturer, he is a consultant combining lecturing with his other businesses, unlike majority of Nigerian lecturers that make money through sorting and selling of poorly written copy and paste handouts and textbooks they know nothing about


Most Nigerians venture into lecturing, Police, Military, etc out of joblessness and available job they see not out of passion. Give most of them good jobs in some fields they wouldn't become lecturers or Police or Soldier. They became lecturers and Police and Army by availability and opportunity not by will and passion

grandpoh:
Bsc:Babcock
MSC:convenant

Op you sef reason am na
If you were in her dads shoe what would you have done?
Besides I'm sure you would have had inferiority complex any time the lady is around you cos that girl definitely would reek of class and a high standard of living.

Even if the father oblige to you marrying his daughter it will not work because you will have no choice than to be subjective in the marriage..

They are glorified secondary schools.


You didn't even mention MIT, Harvard, London school of Economics, Cambridge, Sandford University, Oxford, ordinary Babcock and Covenant they enter with poor JAMB result, Nigerian youths are truly dumb

Liliantalks:
you see , we hv different aspirations in life , not everyone wants what u want , broke is relative, broke to you may not be broke to me , and their achievements and personality beats any oil company worker a million times , everybody will not be rich , but people can achieve their dreams, be average, and happy . Is like saying because there is no much money in lawyering people shouldn’t be lawyers any more .

lol, when it comes to lifestyle, Nigerian lecturers live the most stupid and dirty lifestyle; they collect bribe from students as sorting to pass them or upgrade their exam result grade.


They sleep with female students to pass them or upgrade them.

They sell poorly written copy and paste handouts and nonsense textbook at outrageous price to meet up with their dream financial life they thought lecturing would provide for them.


They join small boys in foolish school cult and also do jazz to protect themselves from students they maltreat, fail and sleep with.


So what nonsense lifestyle are you talking about here Lilian


Lecturing in Nigeria is a yeye work, Teachers are more respected and dignified than lecturers, so you better aspire to become a teacher than a lecturer if you want to live a modest life.


Go back and read my edited comment you quoted, I have friends and course mates who are now lecturers, so I know

Liliantalks:
now concerning the lecturing part I don’t even understand your pain, lecturers r doing very well n many people dream to be lecturers. So what’s the blabbing about ? They r inexperienced but they educate the so called experienced ones , like u say ? Please if u are really educated relax n reply messagees!!

lecturers are broke people if you don't know lol. How much are they paid 180k - 250k lol.

I know most of you commenting are young graduates without experience and undergraduates still seeing lecturers as demigods, they are broke, without being prideful, I can pay 2 lecturers comfortably every month, that is to tell you how broke they are and how vital your PhD is

The only thing that make them seem comfortable is sorting money they collect from students after exam to pass or upgrade them, without those dark money they make through sorting and forcing students to buy poorly written handouts, they are broke. For your info, some of my course mates are now lecturers, so I speak with facts.

A HND holder working with NLNG or Mobil or shell will pay 3 lecturers, so get that into your head Lilian

greggng:
Don't call it quit ...go and upgrade yourself . Is a mere challenge. Every parent want the best for their children ...keep in touch with her while u upgrade yourself through part time or any how. Thereafter go back for her ..Another alternative is for you to give her big belle ....that way high bp go kill him papa..,then you can marry both her and her mama ...the choice is yours

what kind of nonsense advice are you people even giving this guy

That he should not call it quit but use his probably scarce resources or meagre income to go back to school to upgrade his academic qualification just so he can marry one Babcock graduate, what kind of nonsense is that Is she Queen Elizabeth of England that marrying her will automatically turn the guy to Duke of Edinburgh


The op should walk at his own pace, he should not attempt to run in order to satisfy an insensitive man and his daughter which may lead to his crash. He should continue working, saving massively, updating his CV with his work experience, work achievements, job trainings and be applying for jobs in better companies, his current experience will pave way for him to get a better job, and from there a better pay package and he can then enrol for a PGD and maybe Masters if he so wishes to but not to satisfy any lady.


He is a man for crying out loud, all he needs is to sort his financial life first not degrees. Once he succeeds financially, he will even start meeting better ladies with better profile than the Babcock graduate he feels is the best for him now.


His major challenge now is money not degree, let him sort that out gradually.


Many Directors and Managers of companies you see today and envy were not employed as manager, they grew gradually to become that over the years.


Let me use my immediate elder brother as an example to encourage the op and other HND holders reading this thread.


My brother finished with OND, worked small and went back to finish his HND. After his HND, he went for NYSC and with the experience he had with his OND, he got a job in a factory as Technician. He worked there for 2 years and with the experience and his performance, he got promoted to Production line Supervisor, he upgraded his CV with this new role of a supervisor and got a better job in a bottling company as Line Supervisor but with a better pay package.


He worked there for 2 years there and started his PGD, and like 6 months after he finished his PGD while working at the new company, he got another job in a bigger brewery as a Manager earning x4 of his previous salary and he relocated to another state and enrolled for Msc immediately. Before he finished his Msc, he started getting offers from other breweries with better pay pack....he later moved to one big brewery as a manager again, his previous company came back for him again with more packs and offers for him to come back, he went back.


Do you know he is getting offers with some IOCs now as a senior manager

He is happily married with kids now, his wife is a Bsc holder from one Nigeria's top unis, who just finished her Msc and they met when he was in his final HND programme while the lady was an undergraduate in a university.

He started as an OND holder and gradually walked his way up.


I have so many friends who are HND holders working in blue chip firms, some have even relocated to dfiferent countries abroad through their HND certificate. One got a job in Denmark from Nigeria using his HND in Electrical Electronics Engineering.


Many of you commenting are still undergraduate, young school leavers and struggling graduates who still think high of your Bsc and Msc, you guys need real life experience.

HND is only a challenge for people who want to work in Nigeria's yeye federal and state government owned ministries and parastatals where they only focus on paper degrees and certificates without considering people's experience, skill, performance and contribution to organizational growth, which is why Nigeria is a mess with its leadership and government bodies

emmaodet:
This is very bad. Very very very bad and it seems even we guys support it.
What is wrong if a financially lower man loves and marry a woman above his class? What is wrong?
If we continue on this path and with this mentality, 20 years from now, the society will have far more financially stable women of marriageable age but no husbands of such taste.
Simply because if a man is stable, he brings a struggling woman onboard but if a woman is stable, she either look for a more stable man or rather stay single.
Such a trend will only create a distorted society filled with far more richer women than men. It is not a system that creates a balance rather a one sided system.

You didn't even get it right, it will create a society of forever bitter man-hating single women who have the money but no happiness as young gigolos and playboys turn their hearts to piano, dribbling them around as they continue to search for that missing man in their life till old age.



Most will then fall victim to real life and internet romance scammers and playboys from Nigeria and outside Nigeria.

This is already happening to women in Western countries like US, UK, Australia, etc. And the cause of their problem is feminism and gay practice that are discouraging more of their young men from getting married.


Nigeria will get to that stage with time, I only pity the ladies that will fall victim

Liliantalks:
So untrue . I hv a friend doing his masters in chemical engineering, in other to get a better job , he’s working in a small engineering company and trust me when he’s done , he’s CV would be bam �

I laugh at you, "when he is done", so you think he is the only one doing Msc in Chemical engineering that will be rushed with a Shell Manager job once he is done The problem most of you young people have is you listen to inexperienced people like you, you don't take professional advice from seasoned professionals, you prefer to believe what people say not what is happening in reality.


Master degree is only helpful when you have lots of relevant work experience in your field...unless you want to join the inexperienced league of Nigerian lecturers with PhD and no relevant experience, teaching nonsense in Nigerian higher institutions and turning Nigerian institutions to mediocre because they only teach what they read on paper without any real life experiences gained from work.



If you like waste your meagre resources on Msc without work experience, that Msc certificate will lay in your wardrobe as an artifact for your grandkids

Senorprinz:
Everyone is clamoring for the man to move on without his partner, no one is even bothered about what the lady in question thinks about this. I'd advice the op to discuss it first with his partner, to get her own road map for their relationship based on her dad's stand, before rushing online to ask scared little puppies what to do about his relationship.

If the lady is not flowing with her father, the op wouldn't be bothered to open this thread.


You should know that 98% or more of Nigerian ladies will even reject the op on this same reason without even involving their parents

afecgivers:
My guy, we are living in a country that does give opportunities or platforms to her citizens. You are advising the young man to upgrade, upgrade to where?...can you move faster than the available system. Except of course you wanted the man to get involved in filty activities.
If they can't accept him like that, he should move to a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is.
If the family is so rich, let them upgrade him or they forget about their daughters getting married soon.

don't mind them.


Upgrade his qualification because he wants to marry one Babcock abi Covenant University graduate, who is she When did Bsc and Msc in Nigeria became a catalyst or tool for securing a better job or having a better life

The man should wait, PhD holders lecturing at some schools and earning 250k per month will come marry his daughter soonest. It was never about the guy's HND, if the guy was working in a well established company that pay well and he appeared in a swagalicious manner with his wheels, the man will be asking him to also help his daughter secure a job in his company.


Most PhD holders in Nigeria earn around 250k - 300k, that's the most fortunate ones who were lucky enough to secure better lecturing job, whereas some HND holders working in some firms earn 600k above monthly, that man is probably an educated illiterate

ahiboilandgas:
register for pgd then do msc ...degree na degree

He does not need to register any PGD to satisfy a foolish, insensitive man or people....all the op need now is more work experience in his field and an upgrade to his CV to showcase his experience, roles, on the job achievements, and maybe do some certification in his field to enable him get a better paying job in a more stable organization, and from there he can go for PGD and Msc after he must have stabilised his finances and career path.


Acquiring degrees without relevant work experience is stupidity in our present world. Experience count more than degrees in the world of engineering which the op belongs

jaxxy:
Bro leave all this format, I know dropouts who employ MSC and PhD bt that doesn't mean every dropout will or can do that. That is why I said prospects.

Sm1 cant just come talk anyhow and u eat it up. That is stupidity. U have to ready to show u can walk the talk.

what nonsense prospect are u talking about


The op is far more better and have better prospect than that girl, ask me how


The guy was able to secure a job as a factory supervisor with his HND certificate on his own without anybody's help, but the girl with her Bsc and Msc couldn't secure a job on her own without her Father's help, what becomes of her future if her father dies suddenly, can she also grow to the top on her own without relying on Nigerian mago-mago


Nigeria is a shithole nation all thanks to that man and people like him with stupid mentality that fill the ruling class

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

The reason the man rejected you is not that you are a HND holder, it is how you presented yourself plus how you sold yourself to her father when he asked about your parents and job.


Everybody in Nigeria is scared of poverty, including President Buhari that was why he hurriedly married his daughters out to sons of billionaires cos even as a President he was scared of the future of his kids lol


I can boldly tell you that most of my close friends are HND holders and they earn far more than most master degree holders, most have built their own houses, some building second houses for rent and driving their dream cars and married to ladies with far greater profile than your girlfriend.

For those screaming Masters Degree, what is a masters degree in present day Nigeria and the world when there are no jobs She's only lucky she has a connected father that helped her get a job after her Msc if not, her Msc cert would have expired in her clothing box like thousands of people in Nigeria and even outside Nigeria.


In the US for instance, if you like have 2 Msc in all those yeye courses they study in Nigeria like Marketing, Accounting, Microbiology, Biochemistry, Geology, Business Administration, Public Administration, etc, people with ordinary certificate in Nursing, and other STEM courses will earn far more than you and even get employed before you will ever get a job, so what's the fuss about


Most IOCS and top FMCGs employ mostly HND graduates; especially the engineering guys and they grow faster than most other graduates and fields.


Dangote Refinery, Fertiliser, P&G, Oil Test, Shell, Mobil, NLNG, NBC, etc employ mostly Engineering graduates with HND and most of them earn far more than Bsc and Msc graduates, so op don't let the man's action push you to depression, it is not about your HND certificate, it is about what you are currently earning, about your financial status now; probably you went to the man's house on a taxi, and dressed like an Oshogbo man, just upgrade yourself because the whole world is afraid of poverty that is why everybody is running away from poor people, not that poor people are poisonous.


Repackage yourself, there are far better ladies ahead to meet, the girl profile is not even that high to warrant the father talking nonsense, ordinary Babcock and Covenant university, what will he say about those that trained their daughters in ivy League schools in UK, US, etc He couldn't even afford to send her abroad to study where she would have met sons and daughters of Queens and Kings yet he is discriminating, life sha.


Op you are a man, man no get bad market when it comes to marriage, a man is always a good market when it comes to marriage, the only problem a man has in life is to get money. Go and get money, you will meet far better ladies with higher profile than the ordinary Babcock graduate of a girl with valueless Msc from Otta farm school....focus on moving to a better company that pays better using your work experience and once you start earning higher and start packaging yourself better, you will meet even foreign ladies with royal family background, for a man, it's all about money and your packaging. The man is only doing his daughter not you. He should visit big organisations in Nigeria and outside Nigeria and see ladies in executive positions with even PhD being used and dumped by Gigolo boys who didn't even finish secondary school....some are begging guys for marriage with all their PhD and wealth, it will soon clear from his eyes, I hate irrational people


If the yeye school his daughter attended and the yeye Bsc and Masters was that special, why couldn't his daughter use them to secure a wonderful job on her own with her father helping her to get a job Of what use is her schooling to obtain Bsc and Msc if she couldn't secure a good job on her own without her Father's help Yeye people

Asquare84:
Civil defence should be number 1 among the agency to be scrap, I don't see any job function those people are doing

they should be merged with Nigerian Customs or Police

EFCC and ICPC should be merged and added to ministry of Justice

tyup:
Yet these folks would be the first to hit at Hausa people yelling bla bla

This is not child abuse.....both of them are young....unlike a 60yr old man marrying a 15yr old girl, that is where the problem is.


Even in the US, if a boy of 15 or 16 is caught with a girl of 15yrs, there is no crime committed....there can only be crime if the guy senior the girl while the girl is a minor.


And from the pictures, the girl should be around the same age with the guy.....so they are both minors.....no crime committed