igbowoman:


No

Imustsurvive:
crap! father and daughter offering you Bobo juice, she's part of it, don't think her father did that without her consent , the invitation is just to see you as to recognize you if you go funny, that girl is getting married this year , same girl has brought other guys and they are weighing their options

my own told me it was arranged marriage by her papa to a family friend , I later got to know it was all lies.

OP, you were expecting her to quit her job in VI and move from Lekki to Oshogbo? when sharp guys dey Lagos close marking her, ordering her pizza online and holiday Dubai. OP, you get international passport?

tidalstorm:
I can see where her parents are coming from. Every parent wants a better life for his/her kid. The expenses they spent on school sef no go be small money.
With your qualifications, you might never be good enough for there daughter. Just leave the girl, work harder and try to further your education to avoid family wahala.
I think it is a social class problem, them dey feel say you no reach their class based on money.

DontBullshitMe:
Another sponsored post.

How much do they pay you guys?

jaxxy:


Oga there is smtn called perception. U can tell when sm1 is hungry and relaxed. It's my oberservation and pls don't give me that's nollywood storyline. When u see prospect u know, when u see fake u know and when u see relaxed u know.

Like i said the father might be ridiculous bt its left for the guy to prove him wrong. Presently hes not saying much, not even plans or did u hear him mention such?

Ybaby:



You are so right

My son never liked bathing .... it was a national issue.
He got to SS 1 liked a pretty girl "Favour"
Man started bathing twice a day with comb in his pocket.
I sent Favour flowers.....what I could not achieve Favour achieved it in proxy.

stuffs4me:
OP. even you have discriminated against polytechnics people because I'm very sure you have met countless poly girls but chose to go for a university graduate with masters sef.

No poly guy or girl wants to marry a polytechnic leaver yet you guys are the first people who complain about discrimination. Same discrimination you poly leavers are guilty of
Your thinking is myopic. If you Broaden your horizon you gonna see far.

My advice to the OP is to look for a fellow polytechnic girl and date as that girl he is chasing is way beyond his level in all ramifications.

stuffs4me:
OP. even you have discriminated against polytechnics people because I'm very sure you have met countless poly girls but chose to go for a university graduate with masters sef.

No poly guy or girl wants to marry a polytechnic leaver yet you guys are the first people who complain about discrimination. Same discrimination you poly leavers are guilty of

My advice to the OP is to look for a fellow polytechnic girl and date as that girl he is chasing is way beyond his level in all ramifications.

silento:
Wetin happen to ur dick give her belle and relax they will call u to sort out things

BadLuckonmyGame:
your writing skill is so poor. I'm sure your spoken English is the same. I don't blame the parents. Your types are the ones giving OND and HND graduates problems.

Okuda:


Bsc degree holders pass HND by miles. il compare a secondary school dropout to HND students... when you see their products you would know.

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

OasisT:


What were you doing when the lady was developing herself ? I expect you to have made a step that will give tne man hope or you expect the man to accept another liability in the name of love ? REO and Juliet are dead

Robisky001:
LOL.. Op, the house has harmoniously agreed you settle for your likes to avoid being called a gold digger or an opportunist.

safarigirl:
You are clearly looking at the world with rose-colored glasses.

Life is not a Nollywood movie, where Michael, a hustling Polytechnic graduate will meet wealthy Chelsea, by chance, at NYSC, then after a few protests, her wealthy parents will eventually accept him and welcome him to the family, then offer him some high-paying job with which he can care for their daughter

You are clearly starstruck by this girl, who must be an embodiment of the kind of girl you should have never stood a chance with.

You don't have a uniting factor, aside this love you think you share. The babe probably likes you because you have her time and treat her better than Lagos boys. Lagos boys don't worship her because there are a ton of her in Lagos, however, there aren't a ton of her in Osun, so, you are understandably smitten


It will end in tears

Even if you both, somehow, armtwist her parents to agree to your union, one day, your wife will meet her ideal guy in that big company she works at. He will be a graduate of Babcock or Covenant or one University in the abroad, he will be suave and smooth, he will wine and dine her with all the money you don't make as a factory supervisor.


That is when you will know how much you FVCKED YOURSELF OVER, but it may be too late for you



Better save yourself while you can.

yungz:
he's looking for a suitor that will worth the money he spent on his girl's head and op you are certainly not the person.

At op assume say na range or benz you pull up with for in house the man no go fit talk that rubbish wey in tell you.

Seems like the man has measured you already and it happens to b u came with only leggedis benz na why in throw you format.

Yen yen yen. I wonder how long he's gonna hustle hard to see money buy d cars you mention before his gf family accept him. Una go just dey misyarn.

Op i will advise you to hustle hard, make money and visit the man again, i'm sure this time around he will accept you as his son-inlaw before you even propose marriage.

PureGoldh:
Bro....see eeh,just be urself....No dey worry urself over dx issue.

If the girl in question was designed for you by God.... something extraordinaire wey pass Zeeworld go happen between the two of una...even her family go turn up for you.

There is a man for every woman and there is a woman for every man.
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I wish you all the best

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

stuffs4me:



Keep deceiving yourself.. The Op even failed to defend himself in front of the girl's dad.

The hypocrite and lazy OP should find his level and look for a fellow diploma lady like him to go and marry.

Masters no be beans..

Alaganature:
It's a pity to see our parents of this generation polluting ones mind never to get married to someone his daughter loves..but it's up to the girl to take action if truly she loves you so much.. My parents can't tell me who to marry and who is not as long as I'm old enough to know what's right for me..

igbowoman:
If I had listened to my aunt, I wouldn't have married the man I married .
She asked me to wait for suitors with cars but I married one without a car and without family wealth thank God my parents didnt object.
Today my parents are being very well taken care of.
A man that looks like he has nothing today can be something tomorrow.
My post is mainly for the young unmarried girls reading.Dont only look at a man for who he is today ,look ahead .If he has the drive to succeed and you stand by him he will make it .

pasol4real:

So u think because she went for msc it simply means she is hungry n the guy isn’t, chai some of you could really be funny. N what is this Nollywood crap you’re taliking about. Isn’t it a common phenomenon in our society that even an ssce holder is an employer to a bsc n msc holder. Hell av even seen an ssce holder employ a PhD holder.
As for his plans you are not in his mind to know what n what not he intends to do.