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I understand your angle Bro. Thing is after then we've had long WhatsApp chats still. Then she went to her friends place and it got worse. We still chatted this January when I quizzed her about her changing. I feel like she's got guys on her case which is what is distracting. While u guys think it was because of her coming to see me. She opined that maybe it was cuz of the sex we had. Honestly I feel it could be just an excuse to cover for another excuse. But I appreciate it tho. Thanks G

Ollygentle:
Bro, you met her once and she realised you ain't the guy she pictured to be, you should have understood her body language better and even understand her feelings when you met her once.

Was she excited when she met you, did she talk in a lovely tone when both of you were conversing, you know you could have definitely read her mind through her actions.

Just let her go and hope for someone better than.

Lol I figured that could be but I already told her that.
My theory is that she has guys who r wanting same from her. I categorically asked her if she's dating anyone or fucking anyone n her answers were NO. Not like I expected she'd say Yes to that tho. So much for finding a woman who loves u while your a nobody. I love her I no go lie. Mans no go dey like this pass this year. Anyways thanx for being straight.

kimbraa:
On coming to your cousin's place, and getting to know you better; she realised you weren't the dude she was projecting you to be_in essence, you're not her kind of man. It's best you let her be, though it hurts, but if you make up your mind to, you'll.

I'm a very picky guy. I have gone 2 - 3yrs without relationship but I got girls I call if I have to have sex. I have shied away from banging lagos girls anyhow. Anyway that's not the bone of contention.

I lost my job some years back and for the next years after I was trying to get back into the work force but I only met closed doors and rejection. So I have not been able to make much money to get some things done for myself. I decided to stay with a cousin who's got an apartment. Don't even ask if I have a car lol. Sometime in 2016 I decided to start my own entertainment brand. It's been lethargic because of funds by I am not losing focus. I'm trying to get sponsors. I don't want to mention name of the brand so tomorrow when it blows up someone won't come and cast me with this post. Lol

People are always asking for my girlfriend and for me I believe in being responsible and being able to cater and make your woman shine. If you can't make her better than you met her just leave her. So I stayed away from dating as I also have a soft heart when I fall in love. Other times I am indifferent. I don't just fall for anyone like I said I'm picky but once I pick I know I am in trouble because I will be weak for her.

I met this cute girl on twitter. She was so vibrant and happy. I mean a girl so cute with such high vibes. I felt strong about her immediately. Got her number, went on WhatsApp, chat and chat, WhatsApp videos. It was the best thing that happened to me at the time (September ending last year). She has her own hustle going. So she makes money for herself. As I got to know her I realised behind the big smiles and jovial nature is a girl who hides her fears and pains. You could hurt her and she'd act like it's nothing.

While I was toasting her (still toasting) she told me how her ex whos was very generous to her turned out to be a married man with kids and she only got to know when she went visiting him. I asked her what she did. She said she turned around and left. There n then I knew she internalised a lot.

In summary, we met only once. She came to where I stayed at my cousin's. We had this brief fling that day. After she left everything went south since then. The WhatsApp calls have reduced to nothing, she doesn't talk to me in what I think is a deliberate act to ignore me. She tells me she likes me, she comes up with excuses why our dating won't work. I keep nullifying it. I want to think it's a money thing. Her exes were made men with cars n all. I love her like my life depends on her. I feel I should let her be but my heart can't take it. I have taken advise from some places but I just wanna drop it here one time. I want her so bad. I don't think I could ever hurt her. I don't even wanna camp her or anything. I just want her to show me the girl I tripped for. I call her now she cuts me off with any excuse like she's eating and all that stuff girls do when they don't want a guy. I wanna forgot her but I think I still have a shot at this. I love her so much. Maybe I just need to find someone who cares but who?

Elchappo:
Oga shut ur mouth...
i said i am not in support of the killing but sometimes people deserve what they get..

I have been owed by someone nd he promised paying but when i got angry about the pay, he told me point blank that there was no evidence of him owing me, tell me if i ve decided to take his live, wont he ve deserved it...

No matter how u say this u still sound inconsiderate and mean. So I guess u must have felt like killing people for wronging u in the past. Its a matter of time b4 u act it judging by ur comment. No she didnt deserve to die cuz she didn't pay salary. That man had many choices but killing her of all is the one he chose. They shld kill him too. Capital punishment pls

ikp120:
Bro stop throwing cash around and start flirting with her.
Flirting is the key to unlocking any babe's feelings. But that doesn't make them cheap though.

I won't lie I am a freak that's y I dont wanna flirt with her cuz if I do she wld think am in it for her sexy figure which she wont totally be wrong. All guys r visual.

CorGier:
You had a dry spell that lasted all through 2015. I'm not sure if you've gotten laid yet but I doubt a relationship is what you should be focused on right now.
You miss having a girlfriend so much that you could not wait to "pour out your soul" to some girl you haven't even met yet.
I think she knows this; she sees your desperation, hence why she asked you to "take it slow".

If you ask me, you need a release. You've been celibate for over a year and it's messing with your head. So go out, score some easy lays. Get that excess sexual energy out of your system, then you can stragetize - with a clearer head - on how to get her down.

Appreciate ur precision. I actually av freaks I Bleep with. That 2015 was just a year I wanted to stay off women. Was worried the whole job thing was a jinx I got from a lose chic. I av had great knacks this year. I agree am moving fast for her.

It's been about 3 years now that I had a relationship in the actual sense. It ended in a heartbreak for me becsuse at the time I had just started working and was earning 100k but my ex used to be a bad girl and like they say in pidgin "her eyes don tear". She basically went to serve and found an older man who was a political appointee and I became old news. When she told me I almost lost my mind because I really loved her. She was perfect in my eyes despite her past. Thing is she's born again right now.

That experience made me stay away coupled with the fact that months later I lost my job. I had to seat back and look at my life instead of worrying about women. So I reduced th3 plates I was spinning. Stayed celibate. So celibate I had no sex in 2015. Sometime last two weeks I found a girl thru a girlfriend of a friend and being single for so long and missing that cherished feeling of being appreciated and having someone to share my moments with I f3ll for her fast. I am a virgo and I think I am the ultimate one. I carry most virgo traits. I just like this girl. We been chatting and I'v seen her on all the social medias. She tells me shes scared of heartbreak and that I shld take it slow. I av poured out my soul to her. I really want her to be my girl. Infact its why I am writing it here.

My mind plays tricks on me like maybe shes not feeling me, maybe its because we havent met, maybe she has guys on the back burner toasting her just like me so shes taking her time to choose (this bothers me). Without seeing her av helped her put financially. (Not proud to write that cuz I dont want it to look like I want to buy her love cuz God never begin answer my financial prayers yet). I try to hold back and form blind eyes but my heart keeps me rushing back to her. I really want her. Shes not the wayward type I av sensed but anything is possible. The world corrupts faster than a rabbit gets f******. Na this take it slow be my p. I cant get her off my mind. Am scared if I shift my focus I might lose her because I wld start caring less. She frustrates my chats with her by not talking much too. She fades out in convos. When i call shes not the best conversation person i know. I want her to be my MRS if possible. What do I do?

Please izzit your rice??

Naso that guy enter prison in 2016. Lol. God protect person. Sometimes its best to act a fool than show ur not weak.

Its almost the same. I studied GRP too. Its the pure science and social science combination. Because u will do science courses with social science courses. URP is more social science. But when its all saud n done. The courses he will take are the same from 200 level up. If hes a science student let him try Geology staright if not he shld do the URP. Probl3m with these GRP/URP is u will be explainig ur course of study to most pple.talking ftom experience. Its the Regional Planning part that will save u stress n they be like oh ok.

Mastitia.

Na hypocrisy go kill nigerians. Pretend u love God openly and spite him with ur relentless sinning. Rapture will reveal all u religious hypocrites.

I guess I must d only one in the world surprised by this. Dija don born? Ehn She don marry?? Make I go ask google.

Until Kemi Adeosun and the idealess president with his cabinet lead you to this kind of currency before you pple have sense. Nigerians sha them go don use una head finish before una wise up.

gypsey:
fuvking cretin! So because people do not agree or take your position on this topic means they are haters right? Amigo! If every body has the same view of life we would all be zombies so chill! Ciao!

if not that ur shallow u won't think I want pple to agree wimme. U sef dey speak English. Who dash u?! Take several seats in the place where the chairs r bad. Ode!

Half of y'all commenting hypocrisy here I hope u don't wake up 10yrs from now n hate yourselves. Some of u already hate ur lives so I don't blame y'all. Keep hating in comment section.

Half of y'all commenting hypocrisy here I hope u don't wake up 10yrs from now n hate yourselves. Some of u already hate ur lives so I don't blame y'all. Keep hating in comment sections.

Turks:
I'm sure you'll have kids someday...Maybe then you'll understand.

I understand u man but if u keep having thoughts like this its going to limit u n eventually ur kids. Cuz dey won't be able to see beyond. Go to school , get good grades n become a doctor. Nothing wrong with that but with how pple r getting made this days its not only thru book. Besides BBA is a legit way to be someone. Ur not as moral as I am but its like nobody sees anything good in anything anymore.

Turks:
This program should be scrapped. It's not encouraging Nigerian youths morally. It's the complete opposite of what our culture [Yoruba] depicts.



But then again, some foo would say 'who morals don epp'?

Go away! Why does someone have to be pessimistic about everything. Wake up n smell the roses man. Times av changed. Get in or get left

pyyxxaro:
High way robbers

Sit down there and be shouting robbers when they made for life.

sammyj:
nobody should berate this man for his choice of candidate because every body is entitled to his or her own opinion!!!

true let's not forget its peoples opinions that has created ISIS, homosexuality, Boko Haram etc. Opinion

As much as I criticise the man I av to admit he has good intentions. But who good intentions epp when u don't know how to. Tired of criticising him before his apologist ask me "IF IT WERE YOU WHAT WOULD YOU DO TO THE ECONOMY?" lol. They got tired of defending him n pounced on the next available excuse. Anyways Buhari was a better choice no doubt. This things wld av crumble under Jonathan too. Believe me it wld be worse cuz u remember how they gangaed up against Jonathan during subsidy?? Lol by now Jonathan for don abscond. Anyway Buhari does not know how n very bad at picking a team. So let's work for our own lives n expect less from the government. Get involved in local politics n start leaving a mark. Tomorrow don come o

Its not beans to be alive o! Some even start feeling entitled to their life as if its theirs. U eventually give it back mate.

Una go line up Ehn. Back to 1985.

Those women own don set. Kano of all places that there r even gaylords there plenty. Poor pple r so jobless they prey on their own poor while the rich commits the same sins n laughs. If they islamize let Naija just break up o.

kodded:
so far so good, you have made zero sense

Gerarahia! How old u see sense when u lack brain. Olobe

ificatchmodeh:
Baba..no dey look face..

Senior citizen.

Wonder how many billionaires Bubu government go make..

I mean through their policies..not corruption..cos cabal don already dey..

Dangote, Otedola...many politicians are part of them. Yes OBJ made them billionaires

All of you attacking the doc have no sense. You guys shld be living in those communities yet to discover electricity and clothes. Person drop sound argument you're just abusing him without any reason. Hypocrisy go kill una. If ur sons n daughters turn gay will you kill them?!

All the judges in here stay ranting about how evil lesbianism is. Most young ladies under 35 these days r bicurious. I setup a catfish badoo profile once and u need to see the amount of women both married single that came to message me. I av no right to judge anyone of their sexuality cuz I am not God. Correcting people is different from bashing them. U only make things worse n look bad when u curse a girl cus she's lesbian. Is the depraved things u do even in heterosexual sex in the bible?! Like Mouth Gig, asslicking...lesbianism is a part of that depravity. Check ur sisters , cousins , aunties, brothers, fathers u might find they r gay. Na from one man hand bobrisky dey get money o. I am far from being gay cuz I love big tities n boootyy! Let's just live n let live if not ur no different from Isis who throw gay pple from skyscrapers. Judge not for thou not be judged too