₦airaland Forum

As modern parents we have to find ways to groom our kids right. So they can have sense. Shit don’t make no damn sense! Why beautiful girl!? Halfway across the Mediterranean Sea are enough black guys who wld idolize you. Then u go kill yourself over likes!? If na that one many people for don die!

I guess the excitement she had when she imagined how she would model the clothes was so far ahead of the disappointment she really met from no likes. Too bad.

That woman is literally carrying Legend on her forehead and they still deport her?! Make them take their time for Uganda o

I can relate to your situation in fact very well. In a time love has to be backed up with financial strength to blossom and even if the lady is understanding u wanna treat her well and be the model boyfriend but your job is paying little. First of all you gotta upgrade yourself any way u look at it. Women like men who have confidence.

I have been having job issues and after I kept running to almost relationships partly because I couldn’t easily see the babe I’m toasting due to my lack of nice job and a place of mine. I met a girl who was in oil and gas and all she wanted to know what I was doing and when I came out straight to her that I was btw jobs she wasn’t feeling it and latered me. It hurt but you as a guy have to save your self esteem and be on that level. I’m older than you just so you know. I suppose even send u to go buy me rice and beans sef.

Ask yourself if you’re happy with where you are and if u aren’t don’t expect someone’s daughter to be happy with u. IF A WOMAN COMES AND APPRECIATES YOU DESPITE YOU SETBACK KNOW YOU WERE LUCKY AND NEVER TAKE THAT WOMAN FOR GRANTED. Get on with getting better

I will totally ploughing her in 1975. See babe

Lol the email he registered with tho! Kuku hang yourself by yourself

Not this cow disease again yo

Greatzeus:
Next time use pidgin,leave English for the educated.

I bet if we both took an IELTS test you wouldn’t be anywhere near my grade. I typed in a rush and That was my error.

Hausas have an agenda. Yorubas are complacent and Igbos are agitated.

MelesZenawi:
I used to tell people that liberalism is a sign of mental disorder.


A Democrats dominated house of Representatives Impeached president Trump and now wants a Senate dominated Republicans to also do so.

Imagine Pelosi saying "we hope they will be fair to us"........Was she fair to Trump.

Republicans should rubbish those articles when finally Pelosi got the nerves to send them.


In McConnell's voice "I am in no hurry"

Trump is everything America isn’t. Before u reply me please tell me if you’re a Nigerian and why u think trump doesn’t deserve this impeachment after the wanton corruption and abuse of power he’s elicited. Blind loyalty to party is y republicans are not doing anything.

Olamide is transitioning... He’s making money in other ways now and feels less pressure to dish out songs to prove his talent. It happens to every artist. Now he wld drop songs once ina while and unbothered whether it shatters the roof.

No money is even better. No babe. To marry you needn’t who to marry. And in this endless pool of omo wobe who use social media happening to judge you and life u can’t be too careful. Plus the last tries have been social media meetups that ended in confusions. So now I wanna sort myself. As a Man U have to have your confidence level up before u attract a woman. Women love confidence. Anyways I’m just saying your point is another level compared to some people’s situation

soberdrunk:
If you zoom in well you will notice the killer did a fairly good job with the cutting, he isn't a professional but this isn't his first time of cutting, he knew which knife to use to prevent too much flesh smashing and to get a certain level of precision. From my analysis this isn't ritual or revenge killing? just a very mentally sick man playing out his sick evil fantasy......

Thanks for your forensic analysis but only rituals instigates Nigerians to do this kind of nonsense and overkill.

I love her. She can act the role of a shrew so well.

Samueltemi337:
She and her husband won't start preparing for the Olympics until they loose

Wetin person wan do wey una no go complain.

The way her fans gas her up U can’t blame her for being cocky

A good man or woman are hard to ignore. You might look past them because of momentary fun but you will remember them when all is quiet

Imagine trying to nail a Nigerian judge on an issue like this. E no fit work

meobizy:
As usual we can see an example


The day I believe in witches or things of the occult is when pigs fly.

I’m happy for you. Just stay in your lane and don’t dabble into such sides. The universe has designed different patterns for us all. Enjoy yours

meobizy:
Poor guy. He had a manic episode. I’m sure he displayed once or twice in the past and people brushed it off as village people at work.

That manic issue is science way of interpreting a spiritual jinx or a possession. Who just wakes up and runs into a well. I have seen young guys attempt get rich quick voodoo like for instance the Baba asked the guy to bath with a certain soap at exactly 1 am. It must not be 12:59 or after 1. Exactly one. And if he misses the time he’d go incurably mad. The guy declined such means and left. Imagine he took the soap n ran mad sheybi you will call it a manic fit!? Well done

Lets get twerking

VolvoS60:
That slogan isn't a sound argument, sir.

My point is very clear and I will make it again: Each individual has agency.

It makes no sense if aggrieved muslims make subtle and not so subtle threats to public order and safety because of the speech and actions of a private individual. Is Etinosa Idemudia acting on your behalf or mine? Why then should you or me (or anyone else) suffer loss on her account?

When will it end? There is not and will never be a shortage of things for people to get offended about. Will you cower in fear for your safety each time any other random non-muslim (whom you don't know from Adam) is considered to have spoken or acted out of turn?

Do you understand now?

You dropping reasoning like 2/3rd of Nigerians are educated. They don’t care.

Xisnin:
Don't be a coward or a fanatic.
Etinosa is within her rights.

I’m neither of those. What’s my own?! I just don’t know why you would provoke people. Mia Khalifa that did porn was far away from her home country. I’m not a fanatic but there are fanatics out there. You people confuse what is with what should be a lot just to allow your own free will. Nigeria is a plethora of diversities.

VolvoS60:
^^^^
Take a close look at the key issues here.

The question that should be asked is why comments by one Etinosa Idemudia should lead to religious or ethnic violence on anyone else. Why should comments by this woman cause me or anyone else to suffer loss in any way? Does that make any sense?

Etinosa Idemudia is not my representative in any shape or form. I do not necessarily approve of or endorse her actions. But there is absolutely no reason on this earth for those who feel insulted by her speech or actions to take out their anger on me or anyone else with these veiled threats. That is pure insanity.

There are proper channels for people to express their grievances. Not this.

For us to even talk about this shows how low we have sunk.

Freedom is sweet until it leads to chaos. Enjoy it

I can’t imagine how hard Ronaldo grills his son. Boy you must learn how to play football

If religious or even ethnic violence starts a lot of social media youths will suffer cuz most don’t have survival instincts. All you know is to work, make money, Bleep and party. Whether u believe in a God or not the blowback will affect both atheists and religious.

Let’s have sense please. Nigeria is not so settled. Don’t think because you’re in Lagos nothing will happen.

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

There’s a quote that says “One often meets his destiny on the road he walks to avoid it.” You can’t have so much rules and expect to find someone. It’s best to keep an open mind when in the dating pool. Forget all those rules just enjoy meeting new people unless the red flags are staring you in the face.

Gazzy88:
Your amiable governor? Now I know you're an e-rat of Dapo. Ire oo

I voted for him and believe in him. E rat or whatever. He will deliver

Gazzy88:
It's crystal clear you're being paid to defend mediocrity. No matter how bad y'all claimed amosun was, Dapo can't march him head on. So APC didn't rig àbí or how do you explain overvoting in ogun east especially ogun waterside local government where the total number of votes surpasses rge total accreditation. All politicians are crook which we all know but this dapo is a dumbass and stop praising him when we've not seen any reasonable achievements from him. Go to òkè mosan, you will see the acclaimed security hardwares Dapo posted online months ago still lying fallow there. Reliable sources claim he had to borrowed to buy those things hence why he's still yet to distribute them. What happened to the huge Paris club refund that came in the month of June? You can deceive gullible ones but not someone like me. Amosun ain't a saint which many people know but dapo isn't his match. Deal with the truth.

You’re talking about rigging in Ogun East but somehow forgot rigging happened in Ipokia lol. See you guy has lost on 3 levels and will lose the 4th one and you know why!? He rigged and still lost the election.

AtikuNetwork:
If you're close to the governor, better tell him to hire some good and competent PR team because his efforts are being undereported and this is beginning to give him a negative perception in the eyes of the public. He can take a cue from Akeredolu in Ondo, whose people flood this forum everyday with several moniker to hype his efforts. All the so-called 'performing' governors are doing just that and it is making the ones that are not even doing much to look like they are 'working'. That's what the smart ones are doing.

Thank you my brother. Efforts are being made in that regards. And truly the Governor is making moves but people are used to loud governances. Either way your point is noted and actions will be taken

Bbbwings:
Audio roads on posters
Pls list the names of the roads he has repaired or constructed?
One year is almost gone

E ma binu si Governor wa. Please! We know Amosun scattered most road in his bid to loot. Creating grandiose projects he was never going to complete and collecting rebate on each one. But for now it’s been palliative approach to our roads and I promise u once the Commissioners and Caretakers are in place works would begin. There’s consistent work geared towards smooth running of Ogun. It’s never an easy task to please politicians but the governor has the interests of Ogun people at heart.

Gazzy88:
He's been paying salary but what of deductions he accused amosun of owing? Ask any civil servants if they've received their deduction since Dapo took over the reins of power. Which activities were you referring to that hasn't been happening during amosun era? Ogun tech hub or what? Dapo abiodun is already a failure until he proves himself right. That guy is a big thief stealing codedly.

My brother I understand your sentiments. We all know that Amosun looted Ogun treasury and made stupendous money while being governor. A lot of the details will be made public some time to come. The Governor has been running on Amosun’s budget and he will be presenting his first budget sometime this month. Please do excercise patience. It is far too early to write off our amiable Governor. We will all smile in the end.

Gazzy88:
He was rigged in. Keep deceiving yourself oga. Only Ìjẹ̀bús praise him because he's their son. Come tell an average Ẹ̀gbá man that trash and see how you would be humiliated.

Where did he rig please! Was it not APM chieftains that we’re caught with already rigged ballot papers!? If not for Amosun stolen money those people should be locked up by now but they were bailed out. Same Amosun men were caught moving money around on Election Day with their cars. You think we don’t know how Akinlade did massive rigging in Yewa axis!? That’s why they’ve lost at Tribunal and Appeal and the only reason they are going to supreme is because Amosun wants to buy the judges. They have no case. Stop deluding yourself. Ogun people voted Dapo Abiodun and he will give them the dividends of democracy.