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PEOPLE CAN. I DID!

IM A LIVING EXAMPLE. IM A TESTIMONY TO THE METHOD I USED TO END MY ADDICTION

a poor man doesnt end up a rich man without quitting habits that wastefully takes away money from his pockets.
now listen. the poor man could win a lottery worth millions of naira, but without dealing with his wasteful habits, hed still end up poor in just a matter of time.

how does one plan to end ones drinking habit without learning to build a tolerance to staying away from alcohol FIRST.
you want to build a house but you dont want to lay foundation.
you want to build muscles but you dont wanna exercise cus exercise is stressful.

cmon.

THE GOAL IS SIMPLE. follow the instructions in the thrrad link i gave and i promise you, by march youll be free of your addictions. im open to questions from anyone whomsoever

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Well, here's your method in a nutshell, your method to beat any addiction:

STOP DOING ALL THE THINGS YOU LOVE DOING AND START DOING ALL THE THINGS YOU HATE DOING FOR 30 DAYS STRAIGHT!!!

I told you the BIG FLAW in your method is that people can't stop doing what they love for even 5 days, and do what they hate for even 4 days, TALKLESS OF THIRTY DAYS!!!!

https://www.nairaland.com/7939213/one-guide-end-addiction

i know what it feels like to be addicted. depressed and second guessing yourself all the time.

ive been there and noww im out. shared how i got my freedom from my addiction in the link above

pansophist:
The new slave masters are not with whips and chains, they are addictions. To be free is to be free from addictions.

Imagine a man that smokes, is a philanderer, a gambler, addicted to porn, an alcoholic, and a wankster? How life wan take better for such a man?

So to be free and lead a good life, you must rule yourself very well. You must be a well-functioning self-government. You're like a raw diamond, and you must refine yourself to live a good life.

its was like that for me to at first...but i got over it like you will soon

what about the foods you dislike eating

hansomb:
As usual

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quittting masturbation can be done. ive been there and now im out
you can also be free too

https://www.nairaland.com/7939213/one-guide-end-addiction

Kimcutie:
I just want to drop something, masturbation is the main reason why you're simping

Stop masturbation this 2024.

OH REALLY


YOU KNEW THIS ALL ALONG huh

LADIES N GENTLEMEN, THE BIG PICTURE

JESHAL007:
If the poorest of the poor men can cherish their commitment, if majority of sexually thirsty men can control their urges, if emotional and vulnerable men can control their urges to have a crush or onetitis, I'm telling most ladies will be bankrupt, they would sit up and return to their traditional gender role, entitlement and promiscuity will drop, they would behave and keep themselves on guard

But simps won't let this happen

Thank you

people dont change with time. they do so with basic understanding of themselves. the basic understanding of themselves is then wrapped in time. thats why you hear phrases like "time heals" NOPE TIME DOESNT HEAL. if not all @ 40yrs would have been veerry wise

millie0:
Long Post Alert;

Please pardon the multiple grammatical errors and disorganization, i wrote this with difficulty in my heart. Please read it and advice me.
Hello everybody. Happy New Year.

I'm in a dilemma and I need help. I have been feeling down and almost depressed for the past few days.

There's this girl that I met in school last semester. I go to a university in the US. So, I met her in like September. It was a school event and someone introduced us together. She's mixed, Nigerian and Asian (blasian). She's also relatively tall and she's older than me. She'll be 22 this year and I just turned 19 a few days ago. but i told her i was 21 as well She's also noticeably taller than me. She was a first year student and I'm in a higher year (or should be).

When I met her, we just introduced ourselves and talked for a few minutes. I told her I was 18 then when she told me my age but she kinda forgot down the line. But basically I saw she was kind of attractive but I was not really interested. I didn't even try to get her socials or anything.

A week or two later, I was on campus and came to the residence dorms because I was bored. It was night and I lived in apartment off campus. I met her in the lobby of a building and she was leaving to go to her room. This was around midnight or past midnight. I decided to go to her room with her but I didn't ask directly. I just told her to use her keys to open the common lounge for me so we walked to her part of the residence and she opened the lounge. Some people were inside and I was like there's too many people. So we came out and I found myself walking to her building. We got in and she took me to her room, offered me drinks of my choice ( I picked shots of vodka), and we both took shots while we chatted. I didn't want to make a move because I was nervous and it was the first time. I left to my apartment later. But I got her snap here.

wasn't special and i didn't do a fantastic job. i even couldn't come but i think she liked it because when we talked the following morning she said she enjoyed it.

but before i left, she told me we have to stop having sex and all that because she wanted to focus on another guy (he's taller and has beards and she likes beards, i don't have beards). she did tell me when we first kissed that she kissed another guy and that was him. i was surprised but i just assumed that maybe the sex wasn't good enough. i didn't tell her i was a virgin and i told her my body count was like 4.

When she said that to me, i was like okay. i told her my real age was 18 and she said she felt like i liked her and she didn't want to lead me on. she was interested in someone else. she was surprised about my real age but she said it was fine that her best friend that was the same age had a boyfriend who was 19 too.

i left and went back to the other city. we were still talking on imessage and facetime. and i discovered that things didn't go too well with the other guy because she kept telling me she was single and nothing happened.

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