₦airaland Forum

its is for traders and not SMEs do you know what SME and MSMEs are for crying out loud.. unlike you lazy one.. 10k-15k is what some serious people have used to turn around their life, from you blodas buying bail of okirika 7k and selling for huge profit, recharge card sellers, indomie and tea vendors, petty traders, mai suya , pepper sellers

IDeyNL:
10k loan!

See how poverty has damaged your skull.

What do you expect an SME to do with 5-10k? Are you guys really sensible?

Would you give that to any of your close relative to start a business? What is wrong with your people?

You seem like someone from korunu village in Ibadan. You guys don't think

What are SouthWest Governors waiting for.. lets make it a uniform effort.. although we know North and Education are two conflicting entity.. the same dull Governors that ban schools would open quranic schools, mosques with large gathering, jumat services


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Martinez39s:
Okay. I just skimmed through the act, I am yet to see the laws that says a woman automatically has sole custody of the kids during divorce (and even when she is remarried), and the man is obliged to pay child support. The act was just about the legitimacy and conducts of a court wedding in accordance with the Nigerian constitution. In all fairness, I will still go over it again to be sure I didn't misrepresent anything, and I will properly look up the divorce laws here.

Cc. Angelfallz

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Matrimonial%20Causes%20Act.htm this comprehensively deals with divorce and settlements

the first deals with what marriage is in the eyes of the law

Cc. Angelfallz

HeadNigga:
give me a reliable link. I didn't read she was later pronounced positive

negative i meant

omo see Gobe.. with the careless manner Enugu's suspected case was handled till she died and then she was pronounced negative, i fear for Nigerians and this virus


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Stevecovey:
Linda osifo is an igbo woman.

i know, everyone knows.. just showing how silly Zubby Micheal sounds

atleast we can slowly see the disgusting people we share a country with.. full of envy

thank God .. Almighty separated us with River Niger and they have to cross at least two states before bringing their envy to our land


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Is this man sensible at all? your kid smashed it with a squash ball and you want LG to give you a refund or a new one.. if that's how companies run then they would go bankrupt

cant his gun protect him from corona virus

Hustlers...

imagine shooting all night, sleeping in an hilux in the morning just to get the perfect movie and after all the hard work pays off and she wins an award one unfortunate bastard would now say it is because she is a "Yoruba woman" and a yorubas share awards out of tribalism and not hardwork

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Hustlers

imagine shooting all night, sleeping in an hilux in the morning just to get the perfect movie and after all the hard work pays off and she wins an award one unfortunate bastard would now say it is because she is a "Yoruba woman" and a yorubas share awards out of tribalism and not hardwork .. yet the yeye producer Zuby Micheals lamenting would shoot part 1 part 2 part 3 of same movie within 5 days


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drugs don full circulation

I have seen better..next

interesting.. but ladies wont hear.. its that your life that you are managing they want to make hard

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She is from Benin republic and not Ghana

why is he snapping in a class room I guess he is back in ABU zaria

The reflection on his shades in that second selfie pics shows his precise location... another paid masters loading

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Martinez39s:
No one should pay attention to fear mongering divorce tales of iammo. She He just lying left, right, and centre to buttress his narrative.

call me he or she, form alpha male to soothe your young ego.. bro you go learn anyways I helped you with laws guarding marriages in Nigeria should you decide to commit

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm

angelfallz:
Under what law is that mapo court operating? How can a woman remarry and still keep the children and also be getting monthly upkeep for the children if the woman wants to keep the children then the new husband should be responsible for the upkeep of the children

Nigerian Family law isn't hidden and marriage act is online, study it and know what you are getting into

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm

DabuIIIT:
You have a home in Ife and you are here 247 on ipob/ Lagos matter

old ife road and ife are two different places... road to lagos doesn't mean you are in lagos

Abia state and good news


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lilmonarch:
in other words, men should stick to being slaves in marriages cos they wives can take the kids away from them? Nothing i no go read o

its your choice.. isn't it slavish to work all day and use your sweat and salary to pay rent, utility bill , school fees and house keep? or you think marriage is 50% 50% guy wake up. if you haven't being told you would labour hard and sweat for your family and they don't even have to tell you thank you.. highest you would get angry and beat them, while your wife calls you wife beater, your kids call you monster.. nobody cares to listen to your side

Lostz:
iammo
most Nigerian divorce cases are always decided by how much you have to pay. some people even ignore court summons for years.
even Tonto said Churchill has refused to pay child up keep.

you can be jailed oo my brother, I have someone who heads the infamous mapo customary court and I know first hand..

there is this divorce case, the woman remarried and the man went to court to pay the monthly upkeep as ordered, on getting there the wife came with her new husband and the kids disrespected him in front of his laughing wife, he got angry and decided to skip like 3 months upkeep, soon the wicked woman went back to court, got a bailiff and a police and they went to the guys workshop, they dragged him to court and he signed an undertaken when he can make the payment

your only way of avoiding payment is to run away from your neighborhood

Lostz:
Google the many divorce cases where the judge only award ₦10k as monthly upkeep for two children

sure, 10k monthly plus school fees every 3 months is something for many Nigerian men, don't forget this is poverty capital of the world where minimum wage is 30k

Martinez39s:
OP, don't listen to this advice. No one is asking you to quarrel with your wife. This is not a issue of gragra. Also, there is nothing bad in getting a male house help. However, it's imperative that everyone in a family must do the right thing and know their place. If your wife didn't trust you and wasn't comfortable having the maid around in her absence, she should have done the right thing by talking to you about it (usually from the onset) and thereby leading you or her to make plans for a male replacement way before she travels instead of just sending the housemaid you are paying for away against your will, and leaving you stranded. That's wrong, thoughtless, and selfish. She doesn't complain of the housemaid when she is around but all of a sudden, she sends the housemaid you are paying for away against your will, without your permission, and leaving no helping hand in her absence. To make it worse, it's all happening in your own house, your own house.

Since the house belongs to you, you are the one paying the maid, and your wife didn't complain about the housemaid's stay from the onset, your wife has no right to send her away against your will leaving you stranded with no replacement. That right is reserved for you. That's wrong and selfish of her. Had it been she had complained from the onset, we could say she did the right thing she could and you should have employed a male house help. Give your wife the options I listed and stand on it. If you are man enough, call your wife out on her thoughtless behaviour. This time around, if there is going to be a male replacement, your wife must be the one to talk to you about it way before she travels again.

It's funny how women who don't trust their husbands freely, to any extent, investigate any possible shenanigans of the husband, and take every precaution and measure to ensure the husband doesn't cheat regardless of what their husbands think. However, if a man doesn't trust his wife and insists on a DNA test, or decides to check his wife's phone, all hell break loose and the man gets told "don't you trust me?", "are you trying to say I am slùt?" etc. The op can as well play these cards on his wife.

Ubunja, emmaodet, akinbahm

For a relationship, you gave a wonderfull piece of advise, but in marriages things don't work out just has you just barely painted it, in relationships Men can take ubujas advise its all cool and helpful, but marriage especially the one with kids, kids you love and ready to do anything over things change and a man needs to exercise a lot of caution and wisdom

Men can always dominate a relationship as you can walk out easily, women on the other hand dominate marriage because they have leverage on you if you truly love your kids

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Oluwasaeon:
What did you gain with this now?

unlike some omo ale Yoruba who watch effort of their fellow tribe men being rubbished their leaders being insulted like Osinbajo an house boy, Awolowo betrayer, tinubu a theif just for being Yoruba, to calling us cowards for being diplomatic, now they have moved to discrediting the hardwork of our artist who spend good furtune producing music and content.. while awon omo ale yoruba forming politically correct keep shut to happier nice, me I have taken a stand

hope you get what I gain now

Ibos wailing never start, 2023 them go wail pass this one

Asa
Wizkid
Davido
Tiwa Savage
Angelique Kidjoe
Shade Adu
Fella

all got international deals and awards through Tribalism abi even Wole Soyinka got nobel leurate through tribalism





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Isnt that a little too much, and to think I have a home close to Old Ife Road


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Lostz:
with Tanko and co as Judges, everything will be sorted out.

at least that is the benefit of living in a country with pay as you go Judges.

paying your child school fees should be a gesture of Goodwill not force. whoever the child stay with should pay for the upkeep

lol tell that to a judge... google the messy divorce case of Babangidas Son and how much he fvcks out every month, or that of Churchill olakunle

better don't near marriage if you don't want this vampire Nigerian women and their babies suck out your youthfulless