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Finally this group has gone on recess !!! Hehehe!!!

TellBlazer: If the Arabs lay down their arms there will be no more war,but if Israel lay down its arms there will be no more Israel.......Benjamin. N.

hmmmm so deep..a lot to grab from this

hazyfm: I'LL WAIT BRO, "[size=16pt]UNLESS THE LORD BUILDS THE HOUSE, THE BUILDER BUILDS, BUT IN VAIN[/size]"

Oh my goodness!!! so God should come down again and change things for u..after u used your own hands to spoil it??.. Bro. pls think out of the box and use sense.. This man might have not been appointed to die..but he is gone because of sheer and gross irresponsiblity and people the like minds of the people in your school of thought.. But when people like u talk like this a lot will go unchecked..and u may be next..and people that follow your same theory will say what u just said while u in the grave.. Think oooo!! Learn from history of how other countries contained their problems.. If u can't do that then we just draw a conclusion that interlectually inferior and close the chapter

Idrismusty97: A bloody waste of time indeed! Depreciating Africans brains since its inception. Especially the foreign religions we carry on our heads like its ours.

do u know that the average black man thinking faculty is low because of all this that why we have a lot of problems years after independence.. God! I wish to become president some day

Angeldemivida: Hey, this thread just reminded me of my primary school mate that this kind of issue caused great unhappiness in their home. Mum woke up one day and started covering head all the time and attending a church that is different from the whole family. There was always disharmony as father and mother hardly agrees on issues anymore. Mother always bring in strict strict ideas that made the children unhappy too.

Husbands! close up on your wife real good before they take them away from your home with crazy religious beliefs with this religious madness going on in Nigeria. In this case that the idea has already been imbibed in her, poster try to kinda help her unlearn. Have a liberal woman pastor (who preaches the word of God and still know the importance of looking beautiful and feminine) speak to her. They can help her unlearn her new found belief that she is hugging to heart like that. Forcefully or rashly speaking and nagging her about it can only make her run deeper into it all because in her mind's eyes she believes that now she has seen the light.

Anoda beautiful suggestion

seagullbabz: The things u say without researching about it. Israel has always been in the forefront of weapons development, that's why the USA made them allies and they sponsor the development. Its coz after d researches, US will then have theirs made...so I beg to differ, it's not copycat. no one sponsors a copy cat research.

that's is attributed to their generations of fighting.. It has only made them more tatical and developed more skills in the offensive

This is just one of the many reasons why we need this •
www.nairaland.com/1808167/how-separation-church-mosque-state

hazyfm: [size=18pt]GOD PLEASE HEAL OUR LAND...[/size]

wait for God to come and heal it for u.. No go carry iodine and gentian violet pour for the country

biz2get: Niqqaz be like .......

hehe.. U sure this is not an ex terrestrial in homan wig

Normality: Women and church fanatism ehn, to the best of my knowledge, Bible doesn't condemn a woman from looking her best in moderate body covering clothes, even Bible made use of "ornaments", telling women to beautify themselves with these things.

It's not a sin to dress good, but in a moderate way not one that reveals any sensitive part of your body or seducing in any way.

Your wife has received serious brainwashing and as the case is always with women, she will be so mad passionate about this new found way of life until she becomes tired, almost nothing will make her go back, just step back, relax and see her tell herself d truth in a short while.
Do nothing that will ruin the sanctity of ur marriage sir.

Peace!!

OP follow this advice!!

Stillfire: On what grounds or biblical scriptures did she use to change her outlook? Compile them and let's discuss it here. Many Christian women are very very gullible and swallow every darn thing their pastors tell them.

once they hear their lipstick gold and ornaments are from marine kingdom they will fling into canal. God save us from brainwash.. That's the hardest war the country is facing

donnypool: My man, just play a trick on her and bring another girl to the house and tell her she will be coming every night for special prayers and make sure she dresses sexy.

na fuji house of commotion u don dey start up so.. I have helped in relationship matters.. But when it comes to religion and relationship its quite difficult

lastpage: Op,

I want you to come out and tell us/me that there is more to what is bordering you than "How she dresses".

I know this and l can smell it from a thousand miles but l appear to be the only one thinking along this line (abi l dey crase nii sef? )

Pause and think, look inwards and try to figure out what you think its really is. (Maybe you already know anyway)

The fact that "cheating" crossed your mind indicates that you have thought "long and far".

I referred to "change in loyalty" in my previous post (and that is a gamut of things in itself) but it is a summary of the whole show.

I remember this saying: "If you love me, you will do almost anything to make me happy". True-dat!!

Finally, this issue is not about "religion" at all ...... its just that the Op's wife manifested her "change of loyalty" 'religiously'.

My warning to all married men, guard your wife/husband from the over-reaching influence of these MOG's, for by the nature of their 'business', it is normal for them to seek "unfeterred loyalty", like from a Dog to its owner. That is what makes the business grow (or how do you explain an unemployed young man who goes to church to clean Pastors office at 9am in the morning (when all his mates are out looking for job, writing aptitude tests, doing interviews or even prowling the web for possible job offerings), returns at 5pm in the evening and is back in church again at 7pm (for digging deep) and then goes back home by 9:30pm only to be back again at midnight (for Night Vigil)?

Is that not total submission/loyalty to the control of a fellow man?

As they do to the young man, so they expect from your/our wives (They know married men are a bit stubborn).

They will employ all sorts of gimmicks to divert and re-direct the loyalty of spouses to themselves and against the other spouse.
I've seen it happen countless number of times in different churches.

Some call it 'faith', some call it 'total submission' to the will of 'gwod', some call it 'surrender' and all sort of funny-funny acronyms.

This man must by now have accepted that he has "lost his wife".
His post is just all about easing the pain and agony of that sudden realization.
The "cheating part" is actually just a mask, it has nothing to do with the problem he is facing.

So saad. But That is life for you. Man-up and take it on the chin. Stay focused because its actually not the end of life but the beginning of life in anew chapter and on a different level.

if need be, you will file for Divorce in the future but until then, dont cheat (it has repercussions and its never a justification for what you went through)
abandonment and denial of conjugal bliss is a valid ground, even inthe sight of the creator who implanted such needs into us, a priori.


Lastpage!

Endorsed and stapmed.. Let me get $y eleganza pen to sign

Dygeasy: You see and yet we have lots of people here forming wise(wo)men and sages.

its because majority of them are too religious and affected by crows mentality.. “I don't want to go.. Oya stay! I don't want to stay ”syndrome

Dygeasy: lol! Yeah. And the essence of all the advice is?

Nigerians! Always beating around the bush.

lol infact there is no two ways about it

Dygeasy: That is where y'all are getting it wrong. I'm not supporting his wife. But did y'all pause to wonder how much she has been supposedly 'BRAINWASHED'?

The OP here says he has tried many means possible to get her to change and she's not budging. He's here cos he's frustrated.

Now if after the millions of 'angelic' advices that have been offered here in the past 48 hours his wife still remains the same, the OP goes out and cheat. It's that simple.

Africans always want to hear what they wish to. Not the truth.

I said the same thing.. But rather than cheat.. If they can't agree and the heat is getting too much they have to divorce

honeric01: Kindly show us how hammas didn't stop and how hammas kept firing rockets. do you know how many people have died so far? were the kids playing football at the beach also firing rockets?

In your small mind, anyone that does not support your brainwashed view is a muslim abi? grow up and have a neutral mind.

bless u..a lot r brainwashed.. In their eyes isreal is always the good guy....and chosen so no matter what they will win.. Mindset of a brainwashed and defeated person

MadCow1: Mark 6:22-25New International Version (NIV)

22 When the daughter of[a] Herodias came in and danced, she pleased Herod and his dinner guests.

The king said to the girl, “Ask me for anything you want, and I’ll give it to you.” 23 And he promised her with an oath, “Whatever you ask I will give you, up to half my kingdom.”
24 She went out and said to her mother, “What shall I ask for?”

“The head of John the Baptist,” she answered.

25 At once the girl hurried in to the king with the request: “I want you to give me right now the head of John the Baptist on a platter.”


Herodias danced and pleased the King and for that she was able to make him kill and behead John the Baptist.. Does that make any Woman who dances a Bad woman?!





Jezeebel used her make-up to enhance her beauty to attract Samson for neferious plan to work. Its like a Man using his Range Rover to attract a Woman for sex. Does that now make range Rovers Bad?!

The Make-up was not what made Jezeebel bad.

Dont get that twisted. The make-up was a means to an end.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
This is a word of advice for people that can't use their brain to think..everything they juist hear they go along with it.. Some don't wear Gold cos its demonic..did God keep it for devil to use When white man takes from you land and makes rolex they like it and say why can't blacks make such..we r so corrupt.. Its from marine kingdom bla bla bla..

Dygeasy: Bluntly speaking, No advice anyone gives the OP will be sufficient to change his orientation cos for a man to have TRIED to consider cheating on his WIFE for a reason as absurd as what he's stating here, trust me he is just wasting our time.

It's either she changes or he cheats.

u did not give any advice to him but just jump into conclusions.. If the two don't settle on her to make themselves comfortable in the house. How can they leave together.m then tomorow he cheats they will give her brainwash part 2 that he is in darkness and needs to come into the light.m the lady won't see anything wrong in what she is doing but increase pressure.. Be careful of brainwash. My fello Nlairalanders.. Am not saying she should put thick make up but look fine.. I have some that pass my area.. I won't mention the chuurch.m u will see a woman with phd..with smelly hair.. That kill.. Wear sandals like they in 1980 don't even use mosturizer to cleanse the skin.m their skin will be dry and un attractive.. Tomorow you will be fasting for husband.. The only person that can marry such is someone that thinks likewise. ..guard your family from brainwash.m this thing is like an epidemic

xynerise: My question still stands

I know where you are going to.. You don't seem to care about his plight and give him advice.. Probably because u share the same philosophy with the wife.. He need unbiased answers.. To keep his marriage together..

wow..!! swear down I have thought of this technology for some time now.. didn't know it exist .I also have in mind a technology that can ..cause earth quake on a controlled magnitude and to a particular location.. thoughts become reality!

This is the same thing that happened to the last flight.. Usa did a military drill and mistakenly fired the first one.. But they covered it all up..

Pls when talking about tats ..endeavor to differentiate real tats from all those local tattoos , that's is like they use nail to draw scorpion , crab or cross ! Those ones na smellos

[quote author=RickyRoss1][/quote]Currently there is plan to move the capital away from Accra.

You are right on that..something like abuja in the center .. The plans have already been set down.. Also there is going to be a new internation airport in prampram accra.. To ease the stress on the main accra metropolis.. the plans for that place are beautiful and sustainable..it will also house the hope city among others..

You should read the honest comments of Ghanians on the Ghana webpage to know this list is biased.

If you need honest suggestions I suggest u move to ghana thread on skyscraper city and not ghanaweb.. I visit ghanaweb just to read news.. But the comments there make me wonder if those people r ghanaians .. Never seen such degrading behaviour.. Well accra might not be number one or even 2 as they mentioned. But it deserves a spot cos there are things as as city they still try to get right.. Abuja is beautiful.. But to me it does not really have an identity. And expensive too.. The boko boys have also raised insecurity levels which give abuja a red flag

RickyRoss1: bc from my experience over 70% of Ghanians believe that Nigerians eat human beings, am talking about both illiterates and educated Ghanians, only the few ones who have been to Nigeria know this to be false.

Well a friend asked me the same thing when I was back there..and she is no illiterate.. I asked her in suprise who told her all this things..she said a nigerian said it..and that all the degratory nonsense seen on home videos happens for real.. He emphasized on the ritual killings and all that.. That's one mistake we make over here.m there has to be proper control of the media..such news r not suppose to get out..sadly it was done by a nigerian.. Now she vowed never to step into nigeria

Gbawe: @Topic.

Accra deserves accolades as a very "livable" City by African standards. As far as I can tell, in my over 10 years association with the City, it has always been like that comparative to other populous African Cities. Whether some like it or not, it means Ghanaians are doing certain things right others can learn from. Although it must be said that Ghana's challenges are different to that of Nigeria. Lagos, for example, has challenges that means Accra is unlikely to serve as a model for conquering the greatest problems of the State.

u r right tho.. I have a list of projects that have been proposed to change accra..with that accra will be competing with jobuirn and other famouuus cities .. Buut this present mayor of accra and incumbent will block this dreams from coming to pass.. If you see the artistic impression of korle lagoon.. You will smile.. But they have been collecting millions of dollars for that place.. Yet nothing

shymexx: Basically, I used to think Nigerians were the most tribalistic people on this planet, however, after reading the comments on that link - Ghanaians are worse...

It's battle royal between Ewe, Anago, Ga, Fente and Ashante... Bwahahahaha

At least, Nigerians have something to celebrate...

The black race is going to hell in a handbag!

am a full blooded ghanaian and will always be proud of my roots.m tho I have been based in lagos for a while.. I thought nigerians were too tribalistic cos u don't hear much of conflict coming out of ghana.. But from the last election to this one.. It became glaring to me that they r so tribalistic.. And that is what the people are payoing for in this regieme.. People did not care who comes in ..so far its not an akan person.. Koufour came in and changed ghana but this tribalistic bigiots never saw good but always complained.. Now the incumbent have spoilt the country and they r ashamed to talk now.. I feel like slapping them all.mcos this is what has cause a lot of underdevelopment.. The oile would have been flowing well by now..and ghana utilizing its on gas..but this bastards came in and stop the previous govt projects..now even theirs they can't complete. Africa which way

U should post more of this on south africa skyscraper thread.. Cos you have over shadowed the main project with brought us here..which is not good.

dellaziz: HAS ANBBODY LISTENED TO THAT GHANA DUDE M.A.N.I.F.E.S.T... especially no shortcut to heaven.,.... that Charley is a badoo lee


2cent mia

he is a mad lyricist .. Just that he does not do club bangers

MiguelMi6: Excuse me,but what is Un-african about a sensible government allowing consesnting non-threatning persons express their sexuality as they will.Come to think of it,the laws have been suspended,it still gives you headache,no arrest for gay persons.Do you for a second assume that 14years imprisonment will change a person's gayness.
If with this move,all Western nations flock to her and she develops her country,good for Malawi.What has your own anti-gay law gained you in Nigeria?

God bless you.ma very wise comment.. A lot are just hypocrites.. Will 14 years change them.. Even b4 the law came up u don't see gays or lesbos claiming right.. So I wonder what wrong with people. Religious hyprocrites.. Is this what we really need to addresse @ the moment

skipper123: Dude is onething throwing insult.but posting those gore pic i find it very very teaseless and childish pls show some maturity here.i use to enjoy e way u defend ghana but offlate your over the top respond to anything said here abt ghana is so unghanaian ,.......this coming from a fellow ghanaian.

that's y I keep saying this whole immature beef has to stop.. Its expected to go down tthis way.. And may even get worse.. U don't put out a fire by pouring more petrol..its just like saying u hit someone with a stick so the person should only use stick.. U have already sent out a negative msg..sad enough it seems that's some peoples mode of communicating on here.. Stop the beef and we won't have to see any of this

SantaMafia: According to the World Bank, 90% of Nigerians survive on $2 a day or less, compared with 52% in Ghana

Life expectancy is 52 years in Nigeria and 64 years in Ghana.

Corruption: Nigeria is rated 139th most corrupt, while Ghana is rated 64

Electricity—120 million Nigerians don’t have access to electricity
https://www.nairaland.com/1314971/120m-nigerians-without-electricity-fg

70% of Ghanaians have access to electricity http://www.energymin.gov.gh/?p=346

According to the United Nations Human Development Index 2012, which measures life expectancy, literacy, education and standards of living for countries worldwide, Ghana was designated a Medium Human Development country and ranked 130. Nigeria was classified under the Low Human Development category and ranked 142.

[url] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_African_countries_by_Human_Development_Index[/url]

The World Health Organisation (WHO) says in 2012, 143 out of 1000 children in Nigeria died before their fifth birthday. In Ghana, 74 out of 1000 children died before their 5th birthday during the same period.

The 2013 Global DuPont Food Security Index, which measures food security in 107 countries by looking at factors like food affordability, availability, nutritional quality and safety, ranked Ghana 68 (3rd in Africa after South Africa and Botswana). Nigeria was ranked 86.
http://www.businessdayonline.com/New/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=40912:nigeria-ranks-low-on-food-security-report&catid=76:hot-topic&Itemid=564
http://foodsecurityindex.eiu.com/Country/Details#Nigeria

Ghana is ahead of Nigeria in FIFA rankings.

Nigeria is not likely to meet any of the MDG targets, while Ghana is on track to achieve four of the MDG targets.

nice and clean.m with no insults.. Just facts.. I will always lov e ghana.m but I believ that there is still room for improvement.. A lot to be done.m and we will get there surely.