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Crime / Re: PHOTOS: Inside A Cell At Prison Where Derek Chauvin Spends 23 Hours A Day by IAmSkinny: 5:03pm On Apr 23, 2021
This prison is a million times better than all the hostels of Nigerian Universities
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: I'm an Enthusiast Photographer: Here's My Mini Portfolio by IAmSkinny: 9:30am On Apr 07, 2021
From a wedding

Art, Graphics & Video / Re: I'm an Enthusiast Photographer: Here's My Mini Portfolio by IAmSkinny: 9:02am On Apr 07, 2021
Sadly, I lost my IG account and evidence of most of my meaningful works. So let's jailbreak this thread out of limbo!

Let's bring back this thread to life.

Family / Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by IAmSkinny: 8:42am On Mar 11, 2021
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

Guy your last sentence should be written in gold and hung all over the billboards in Nigeria.
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Nothing made of flesh and blood can come in between my mother and I. It's even worst if the flesh and blood is a woman.

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Romance / Re: My Little Sister's Wedding Pictures by IAmSkinny: 5:53pm On Jan 28, 2021
Nice one . Let's handle your wedding photography at an affordable rate. Check siggy
Education / Re: Best Universities In Nigeria 2021 - Webometrics by IAmSkinny: 2:52pm On Jan 27, 2021
DenreleDave:
Wow, my school has gone up oooo..
Number 11... I think from number 13 or 15 Sha...
Anyway, they are still going to top 10, then 5...

Buk to the world
BUKite spotted
Politics / Re: High Court Banned Open Grazing In 1969, Akeredolu Rules Effective Tomorrow by IAmSkinny: 2:00pm On Jan 24, 2021
AlhajiImam:


Our nature of business makes us to stay in the bushes and forests. Why chase us out
Can you say the same about Southerners who lost billions of naira and their means of livelihood when northern governors decided to confiscate and destroy alcoholic beverages being sold there?

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 9:10am On Jan 18, 2021
luminouz:


Not only you bro. I have seen so many stuffs out here, first hand.

Marriage that stands the test of time have both parties committed. But what we have today is just a transactional contract between two people.it cannot endure at all. I see so many men growing older and looking worse after marriage than as single men. Worse off, they die off quicker and for what? Carrying the load of everyone and everything without any support, without no one to care for them.

Naenaesosa talked it all. No one appreciates our sacrifices. No one cares to know how hard we tried. It's either we provide for everyone or get termed losers.

I'd rather provide, for my own happiness. That's why my siggy is a reflection of who I am.

you have ended up summarising my relationship + life goals.
I don't give a fvck what society thinks.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 8:08am On Jan 18, 2021
luminouz:


If I were you, I swearugod, she either does that or she goes to her parents house...it's a marriage, not a conditional statement. It's either she supports me or gets out. I don't care how many kids she has for me. If you can't support when the chips are down, then you have no need staying in my house.

My personal opinion
I am not married yet. In fact, the scam called marriage is already disgusting me going by all the stories flying around. Damn, I might end up not getting married.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 10:22pm On Jan 17, 2021
As a redpilled nigga, how do you handle a working wife who refuses to take up some basic household financial responsibilities knowing very well you are temporary incapacitated

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Romance / Re: What Makes A Lady Boring To You,guys? by IAmSkinny: 5:25pm On Jan 16, 2021
Eer siingle thing

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Prescrib An Affordable Camera For Photography & Video by IAmSkinny: 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2020
missdivineprove:
Then I will keep managing my Canon 700d. Wanted something super for photos.
The 700D is already super.
Come to my whatsapp lemme share images I took with the 450D and kit lens.
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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Prescrib An Affordable Camera For Photography & Video by IAmSkinny: 4:49pm On Dec 31, 2020
missdivineprove:
150k.
This is pretty weak. This can only get you an entry level body that lack basic essentials like mic port, high video frame rate and even limited control over manual exposure.

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Prescrib An Affordable Camera For Photography & Video by IAmSkinny: 9:31am On Dec 31, 2020
missdivineprove:
Very affordable, great quality. What would you advice and why? How much can I get new one or fairly used one?

What of a particular one that can be effective for both photography and video with great quality?
Thanks

What's your budget
Romance / Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by IAmSkinny: 1:56pm On Dec 30, 2020
SimpDetector:
Submitting to a man doesn't indicate weakness, rather it indicates femininity. The desire to submit to a man is the quintessence of being a woman. Every woman wants to submit to a man, but there is a caveat: It has to be an attractive "alpha" man that's higher than her financially and in terms of social status.

Even so called feminists and independent women still have men that they submit to in private. These men own their bodies and they do whatever these men ask them to. But they'll come online to pretend and talk rubbish.

Even this Kemi has a powerful man that has her pussy on his beck and call. The reason she isn't married is because no man in his right senses will want to get married to a 56 year old woman with serious mental issues.

Another thing is that the kind of men that wealthy, successful independent women like Kemi, LindanIkeji, Genevieve etc would be attracted to, tend to be on the top 10% percent of men, and these men are so alpha and so high value that their commitment and attention is so difficult to get. These men find it hard to commit to women, hence why most of these successful women hardly get married.

The more successful a woman becomes, the harder it is to get commitment from the high value men they are attracted to, because these men simply will not commit. So they either have to settle for the low value beta men that will willingly commit and endure a boring, unsatisfying relationship with him, or become sex partners/baby mamas to the high value men that won't commit.


Who be this guy. Who give you this kind overflowing wisdom?
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: I'm an Enthusiast Photographer: Here's My Mini Portfolio by IAmSkinny: 10:23am On Dec 14, 2020
Heads

Art, Graphics & Video / Re: I'm an Enthusiast Photographer: Here's My Mini Portfolio by IAmSkinny: 10:13am On Dec 14, 2020
Studio scenes

Art, Graphics & Video / Re: I'm an Enthusiast Photographer: Here's My Mini Portfolio by IAmSkinny: 10:10am On Dec 14, 2020
Themed shoot

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2020
LordAdam16:


Been a silent reader for a while.

Permit me to flesh this out a bit.

Here's the thing:

We're ANIMALS.

We have genetic programming refined over 3 odd billion years. This programming dictates our existence and how we approach life for the most part. We share 90% of our DNA with other primates. With cattle, cats, mice; it's 80+%.

One key part of this programming is reproduction; which in our case rests on the pillars of an existential need to seek companionship, pairing up (whether it's marriage, civil union, cohabitation, gf/bf romantic relationship), accumulating resources, and continually working on ourselves (self-improvement).

Much of this is mindless. For the average person, 100% of it is mindless. Whether you're driven directly by how you feel or indirectly via social constructs (such as peer pressure, societal norms/expectations, and what not), our species helplessly fall into the same patterns.

It's no different from wild ducks flying south every winter. Beavers building dams across streams. Or male black Widow spiders spending their entire short lives avoiding predators only to go f*ck a female Widow spider that'd kill them.

In the latter case, regardless of how many male black Widow spiders die, regardless of how long it's happened (literally millions of years), most male black Widow spiders will still go through the trouble of finding a mate that will kill them. We call it their nature.

Well, the same thing applies to Homo sapiens. Regardless of how many times we hear these stories, it would not stop the teenage boy from getting a hard-on when he sees boobies. It will not stop people from crowding the marriage registries.

We may jokingly call it the NAWALT illusion. But the illusion is only possible because:

We're ANIMALS.

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I get it, some of you are prolly fuming. Even though our entire reality is one giant pile of evidence. Guess what, that's also part of our programming.

Seriously though, I get it. Humans are supposed to be sentient. Have self-awareness. Have the ability to put an end to self-destructive patterns.

Unfortunately, at most, we're only about 300,000 years old. Until 40,000 years ago, we still had to compete with other hominids. Then until 6000 years ago, when we invented agriculture, we were pretty much nomadic. And it's only been less than 100 years since the dominant geographical powers weren't always in constant physical conflict.

The bottom line is, we have the potential. But for the most part, our 3-billion-year-old genetic software runs virtually everything. And we've not built enough steam to break free from 'it'. WaitButWhy calls this 'it' The Primitive Mind. The comedian Andrew Schulz calls it our Lizard Brain.

When you decide to enter relationships even though you're a redpiller and subscribe to the AWALT paradigm, it's the Primitive Mind (or insert synonym here) pulling your strings. You're physically incapable of going without companionship and pairing up. It is your nature.

Understanding this is like a light bulb moment.

Amongst many things, it confers a healthy dose of humility. Especially if like yourself (Capslocked), Martinez, myself, and a number of others on the forum, you have stopped betting against the house. You realize it's either down to lucking out genetically, having the ability to channel your Higher Mind into matters of romance, have tremendous willpower, or whatever it is that eliminates the crippling need to pair up or seek out companionship.

For most people, that is a real struggle, and almost always impossible. Kinda like people with lactose intolerance. Regardless of how delectable diary products may be, their body simply wouldn't cooperate.

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As such, whatever pill you're ingesting, blue, red, purple, or black. Do you!

Maybe in 1000 or 10000 years (if we don't destroy civilization first), when we've:

a. fully assimilated womenfolk into the workforce
b. unlocked the secrets of ectogenesis (we no longer need the uterus to procreate; currently we're two decades away from the first artificial womb?
c. spread out into the stars
d. found a way to maintain Earth at its carrying capacity (a median of 10 billion humans); amongst other things

...many of the current deleterious practices like the current Western legal contract and paternity law, societal norms on hypergamy, infantilizing an entire gender while simultaneously turning the other into a slave class, to mention a few; will be shredded.

And many of the thought processes extolled in TRP and MGTOW circles will seep into the mainstream. And hopefully, after millions of years, eventually become part of our genetic coding in. Kinda like walking upright.

Until then (and seeing as none of us will live that long), know your strengths, be aware of the pitfalls of whatever path you choose, and above all else do your darn best to LIVE FOR YOURSELF (within reason of course, whatever that means to you).

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For instance, this means if you've decided to bite the bullet and enter a committed relationship (the equivalent of keeping a wild animal as a pet). Make sure you go in with your eyes open. Imbibe the factoids shared by TRP scholars. But never forget, that regardless of what you do, if you get into a car, there's always a possibility you could get into a car accident. Likewise, if you enter a relationship, regardless of what you do, it could end badly.

It's pretty much a game of probability.

Unlike wolves and select bird species (scarlet macaws, bald eagles...), humans are not eternally monogamous (that is, genetically wired to pair up for life without "detours"wink. In fact, most monogamous animals are like humans. American beavers, gibsons, penguins, hell even swans (that have been immortalized with their beaks-touching shape of love mating ritual) cheat and may divorce and get new partners.

So when Donald Trump's second wife cheats with her driver or the Sheikh of Dubai's wife cheats with her bodyguard; understand that could be you, after you've literally achieved everything you set your mind to.

THREE billion years of evolution. That's what you're betting against. Good luck!

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Lastly, for the veterans of TRP who've either personally experienced the horrors firsthand or have been scarred by the innumerable examples out there: Try to have some empathy for those who are starting out. Or trying to make sense of it all. Or making the effort to reconcile their natural inclinations with theories that most people [sic: society] flat out denounce.

Note, I used the word empathy, not sympathy.

Help if (or when) you can.

Also, do acknowledge the difficulty and how the system (society and even their own f*cking genomes) is rigged against the average Joe. That said, note there's only so much you can do. And recognize that sometimes, all you can do is be the wildlife videographer documenting a hunt rather than stopping it.

There'd still be guys out there who'd raise another man's child even though DNA tests are available. And guys who'd define themselves by how much of their SO's bullshit they can gulp before deepthroating a shotgun. It'd disgust us. We'd use them as cautionary tales for the umpteenth time.

Still, it is what it is.

-Lord


This guy is one of the most intelligent persons I've ever met (virtually though) on planet earth. I've followed his political analysis prior and during the general elections of 2015 and I was blown away. And now this! DAMN!
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Be like say they carry book chuk inside your head. I'm glad you are contributing steadily to this thread now.
A genius, I stan.

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Romance / Re: . by IAmSkinny: 4:23pm On Dec 10, 2020
CalliDora1:


Because of the way they behave when we deny them like they are going to quench. Some literally cry like a baby.

They be like
Please na
Please na
Oya let me put only the head
Oya I'll not move. Let me just put it and leave it inside
Oya how much is that shoe you requested for tongue
Oya... pleaseeees naaaau

That is the extent they can go just for common sex.

Lol... I'm out!



This is the exact stuff the REDPILL movement have been warning us (men) against. Shey una de see am?
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Godforbid I beg for sex. I'd rather cut off my d!ck than do this shitt!
Romance / Re: What's The Craziest Thing You've Ever Done For Love? by IAmSkinny: 4:11pm On Dec 10, 2020
I'm not stupid so don't expect me to do stupid things for meaningless abstract things like love.

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Need a competent photographer to perverse your previous memories? Check my signature.
Romance / Re: Gentlemen, What Is The Most Expensive Gift A Female Have Ever Gifted You by IAmSkinny: 8:28pm On Nov 22, 2020
NOTHING

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Phones / Re: How My Infinix Note 8 Made Me A Pro in Photography . by IAmSkinny: 8:00pm On Nov 21, 2020
theFilmtric:

Is it because you are a photographer
Ok then take a pic with your phone and with the watermark
Then post
I am waiting for your wonders



theFilmtricsay


it's not about the phone. It's about your photography skills and output in general.

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Phones / Re: How My Infinix Note 8 Made Me A Pro in Photography . by IAmSkinny: 7:34pm On Nov 21, 2020
Keas:
Can this be the wonders you are looking for
you call this wonders? WTF!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 8:05pm On Nov 20, 2020
luminouz:


Going through that thread will reveal that some men are not still listening to the redpill. The advice they gave was just meeeeeeeeehhhhhh!!! undecided
it's the main reason I brought the issue here. I can't listen to people who have refused to unplugged

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2020
My ogas here, how would you handle this mess of a marriage as an unplugged fellow?

https://www.nairaland.com/6266592/really-frustrated-wife-keeps-denying
Politics / Re: EXPOSED!!! This Is What Britain Don't Want Nigerians To See by IAmSkinny: 8:13am On Nov 17, 2020
oyolohi:


You see, my friend. They aren't minding their business --unless of course, their "business" (venture) is "Nigeria".
I lived in an area in Benue that was terrorised by Northern Herds men. They killed any peasant farmer who complained about their cattle grazing on his farmlands. The farmers had cutlasses, the herdsmen had AK47s. We stopped living there are are about leaving that part of benue entirly and you call us "Insecure"


Agatu right?
Romance / Re: Promise Made, Promise Kept: How I'm Getting married to my Girlfriend Of 8years by IAmSkinny: 12:58pm On Nov 13, 2020
Decolonel:
I wil try and be as brief as possible.

As a growing child, I watched lots of nollywood movies where young lovers who fell in love had to stick with each other through the rough times, suffer together and still end up in marriage. Then other scenarios where the same set of people had to break up due to some unreconcilable differences. Well, I was opportune to experience the former.

I met my fiancee in 2012 in the university while I was in medical school. It was a journey that later graduated into a beautiful lifetime happiness. I met her among other young girls in a fellowship gathering but there was something spectacular about her. Her jovial but shy disposition made her outstanding. I collected her no along side other gals no but kept on calling her. She was very respectful, loyal and caring. She gradually captured my heart and I asked her out after some weeks. We became best of friends. We shared almost everything in common except that I'm an sanguine and she is a melancholy. But we later clicked so fast.

Later I started having issues in medical school. She never left me. She was always there. My failures in medical school started giving me depression, she was also there. She never gave up on me. She would rather stay and help me braid my grown hairs so that I would be happy. She was the only one that understood me. She encouraged to strive on and always believe in myself. I gradually bounced back mentally, wrote my MB exam and passed all my professional exams.

Fast forward to 2020, I had finished medical school as a medical doctor, started my housemanship, proposed to her and she said 'yes'. We will be getting married this Dec, 2020.

Truly, true love exists but the problem is that people are not ready to work it out. There were times we quarrelled, but we later sorted our issues out. It was not rosy throughout. Most young girls are not ready to stick with one man to build him and build with him. A responsible man will always come back to that loyal babe who has always been there for him to settle down with. You can confirm from 2Baba.

So find that loyal babe who is ready to build with you, especially when u have a vision and a feasible plan to succeed in life. Trust me, you will find her and find true love.
#queenoch20


Congratulations boss.
I can provide professional wedding photography services your wedding at an affordable Sir.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmSkinny: 8:22pm On Nov 09, 2020
luminouz:


Exactly what I've been saying to men here.

Women can be so ruthless yet you see men giving excuses and trying to accommodate some nonsense. Just look at the mental,financial and psychological torture that small geh put the guy through. She never remembered or gave a fuq that he sponsored her through school.

Be selfish with your time and money men. If you dont, no one gives a fuq about you

GBAM!

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