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Sirhush:
Come finish to what you start

His phone don spoil

Osiris12:
you leave umahi the son of the soil Dey drag person from amambra for not serving ebonyi as a governor. I no wan believe say u well

Hypocrisy at its peak

God bless you for this response.

cityboylagos:
“Marriage Is Also Prostitution for Women” – Lady Sparks Debate with Viral Claim


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7421791337856519429?_r=1&_t=ZS-94dF0z4jG8j


https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/03/12/marriage-prostitution-claim-viral-video-debate/

Look who's talking

IbrahimSola:
I actually had a girl who friend zoned me in my University days. She was my class mate and went ahead to be the Vice President of the Departmental student association.

In my ignorance, I was still hanging around her, hoping. She was a good girl who had self respect and I didn't disconnect from her. At a point she was giving mixed signals, I refused to take the bait. She got more attached to me, but I had already programmed my brain to be just friends with her. She introduced me to her mum, to her brother and other family members. Everyone thought we were dating, but we weren't. Because she was so pretty and homely, other fine girls started eyeing me. I deliberately had other ladies falling on themselves to date me and she got jealous. I told her I'm your friend and nothing more.

I was everywhere with her in friend zone but I was the one making things happen. It got to a point that she was literally trying hard to make me talk about relationship with her again but I didn't because she knew the girls who were running my show. Some had real problem with her.

After graduation she called me to let me know that I hurt her real bad. But too late I already had a younger girl who was more powerful, prettier and more compatible with my life. I wasn't ready to let go.

So, someone who friend zoned me because the loser, not me.

The twist is that years later, she introduced me to someone as her runaway boyfriend...and the man ( her aunt's husband) gave me a gig that established me in life

The reason I wrote all these is that if someone friend zone you, don't feel awkward. Be her "friend" but run your matters while still being her friend. Take out your mind from intimacy with her but don't take her off your life.

In life Network is better than bleep. Bleeping may last for a while, but Network lasts longer. At least by my experience. Yours might be different anyway

Respect!!!

No

DyshApp:
Popular influencer and media personality Nons Miraj has sparked widespread debate on social media after sharing her views on how men should demonstrate love and commitment in a relationship.

Speaking during a recent online discussion, Nons Miraj argued that a man who truly loves a woman should be willing to improve her living conditions by renting a better home for her and her family.

According to her, genuine care is reflected in tangible actions that offer security and comfort, especially when a woman is living in poor conditions.

She questioned the sincerity of men who claim to be in love while allowing their partners to remain in environments vulnerable to harsh weather and hardship, particularly in cases where the man resides abroad or has the financial capacity to help.

Her words …

“You are attracted to a girl, how do you show you love her, how do you show you care? You move her and her family from where they are staying. You rent a place for them. If you’re outside the country talking to a girl, will you leave her to stay where when rain falls it will enter inside..”

Rubbish

Saturnalia:
Keep running your mouth like tap water. Do you know the agreement Tinubu signed with the North in exchange for their electoral support?

So far, you are the only person who have said something reasonable.

Solofresh2:
half sister The same father with different mothers

Then do what you have to do for her, believe me she just a teenager, that's how they behave sometimes. Calm down and make see things your way.

Solofresh2:
This girl now feel so entitlement to my things now because have been gifting her stuffs.She is my step sister and in secondary school education SS2 .I took over paying her school fees even before we lost our dad last year.Her mum is dead and she is the only child.My siblings had asked me to be careful with her but I loved her so much and I used to feel pity for her.Though I am single close to my late 20s I decided to take responsibilities of her education because my dad stopped working a long time ago because of his health.
She now feel so entitled and I just hope it won't get out of hand in the future
What do you think guys?

A question for you, is she your step or half sister? There's a reason I'm asking.

ebubeson:
Which gender is known for this rubbish? Is it not the female gender when it comes to pre-wedding?

So will you like to start marriage with your EX child?

If DNA testing becomes rampant like wild fire, maybe your gender may buckle up on this if they are still slacking.

I just wonder how some people think.

Treasure17:
Yikpata camp in Kwara that year was terrible.

I agree with you. Couple with the shit inside black nylon hanging on trees

When was the last time you did something you have not done before?

[quote author=Yugoslavia247 post=131668166]If they were fucking you would know.

They are fucking already.

And you have an evil brother. The gal is an outsider. You can break up. But your brother is family and he knack your babe.

If you want to catch them it is easy.

Just complain you are sick or pretend to be to your brother.

Go and forge one doctor report with letter head saying you have early symptoms of an incurable disease.

Tell your brother in the most scariest way and tell him to keep it a secret from your gf.

Your gf will know and confront you. Then you know they are knacking.

Because it is am abominable act.

Your business could crumble


Bros you are very wise... Respect!!

Goodday90:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2024/07/22/soyinka-i-intend-to-keep-quiet-about-tinubus-administration-for-now/

Tribalism in Nigeria will never stop... Good luck regime you didn't keep quiet.
You better talk

0001Lagos:
The tinubu supporter we talked about. You guys stand for nothing good but illegality and that's why your tinubu has run this country aground due to his cluelessness to leadership

My brother God bless you.... Some people are so daft..

Vanilla4:
Cheers! Enjoy your meal 🙂

God bless you

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

Oga!!! Man up. See the hand writing on the wall. Focus on yourself. Someone out there is sending out flares for your love to come the rescue.trust me you will be fine.

[quote author=Ourtruth247 post=129460134]This might be a hard pill to swallow for lots of Christians and Muslims but the God they worship is actually a group of malevolent 4th dimensional beings that play the role of God and Satan simultaneously.

I'll share everything I know about the subject.




Weed at work....

Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

Until army tie you like alligator before you go know weytin to do.

odinaccess:
If it's suicide he won't be facing that direction, becos most suicidal victims reconsider thier actions at the point of death , and with direction he's facing he has some chance of survival..my opinion though. Rip

I see your point. Something is not right

Coolsperm:
We Yoruba Muslims are at peace with the fulanis, forget about this propaganda by ipob

You are very stupid.

immortalcrown:
Oga, if you wan help am, help am.

The way you sound here shows you are the type that brags too much or lord over people you help.

Your good does not justify your bad. You tried by giving him job links. But you are heartless for refusing to assist him with transport fare. Legally, you owe him nothing. But morally, you owe him every good thing you can afford for him.

Things are so bad for some people that they can miss wonderful opportunities because of lack of transport fare. The demand for transport fare can be a sign of unseriousness from some people. Yet, there are people who are serious but cannot afford transport fare, so they beg. This guy didn't ask you for money for his luch on the day he will go for the interview. He didn't ask you to buy him cloth or airtime for the interview. He only asked for transport. Do you think transport fare is the only thing an applicant needs for an interview? Be considerate abeg.

God bless you

April 19th

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, we Christians condemn the brutality of Isreal against Gaza. No sane Christian should support the bombing of children and innocent women. 11,000 innocent people bombed to shreds for been defenseless and trying to be free from oppression. We nigerian Christians stand with and will continue to pray for the Palestinians. May our Lord Jesus continue to guide and protect the Palestinians against the evil of Israel

You are on your own.

advanceDNA:
Where did u read and concluded from the story is that he wants to leave is girl just because another man gave her head?

She cheated, she's deceptive, unfaithful, collecting money from him, and sleeping with someone else, yet not being intimate with him... that's the summary......weda head is involved or not.... Cheating is cheating... Betrayal is betrayal


And ur solution is to teach the guy head Gosh!!!! men like u are are just weird.... U worship pvssy too much......

I weak for the advice sef.. I wonder person go give such advice.

Creamypie:
Useless pipo. Did they warn Palestine b4 they started killing Israelis and unprovoked?once people discover you are more violent than they are , especially when they know u as gentleman, they begin 2 grumble

God bless you.... some foolish people will not see the truth.

Hayzed203:
I broke up with my girlfriend about 3months ago and I still struggle to convince myself that I did the right thing and I believe this is affecting me in the process of trying to move on and meeting new people. We both live abroad and you don't meet a lot of Nigerians easily around here.

She was very caring, admired me and always supportive but still I made a decision to end the relationship. Why ? It was based on some sort of things that happened when we started being together. We started as friends with benefits while in school though she was in a distance relationship at the time. We both agreed it was just sex and nothing more when we started and I was fine with it. However, we started acting like couple - sleeping over, going out together, doing everything exclusively, and all that despite not defining things officially.

She wasn't always happy when I'm on phone with any girl irrespective of whatever relationship I have with such girl and I just sort of started distancing myself from all other girls. On her side, I acted 'maturely' by not interfering during her phone calls and all. Things continued that way for some months till the pressure was just too much that we had no choice but to define things. At that point, I was hooked already - in that, I was saying in my mind that it was just friends with benefits but I couldn't even leave her and I also found it difficult to make a decision to commit to her forever due to some number of reasons:

1. She once asked me to give her MouthAction which I have never done before at that time. I told her I wasn't ready and her response was that If I don't do it, someone else will do it for her. She went on a dating site, hooked up with a guy for one a night stand and I was aware of this though shocked at such boldness. I couldn't complain because we were not dating officially though we were always together at this point.

2. Another time during our time together, I was on a night duty and she went to a party which I was aware of. I saw a guy with her and her female friend and she earlier told me the guy came with her friend. Unfortunately for her, her female friend left early without the guy. I added 2 + 2 together and fixed it that she had something with the guy that night. I subsequently saw their sex chat on her phone. She later confessed they had a one night stand only.

3. There was a guy disturbing her that I was aware of, she always told the guy off until one day she told me she was visiting the guy for the weekend. I was shocked because we were literally talking about building a genuine relationship the previous night confessing how we have come to like each other. She was love-bombing me throughout her stay with the guy and I knew they were probably having sex throughout the 3 days. She came back on the 3rd day and started acting all nice and all to me.

4. She has a bit of bad temper especially with others. She is not the most likeable person out there and she doesn't care and can say anything when she is angry. She can bullshit anyone and I was always wondering if she will do it to me too one day. She was an angel towards me but opposite towards others.

5. Unlike me, she was very experienced in Nigeria with series of sexual partners littered on her phone. I stumbled on her nudes being with different guys on her snapchat. Sex wasn't a big to her and that was a total turn off for me since I didn't live that kind of life.

I know this might not make sense to anyone reading as you may assume I have reasons to make an easy decision but trust me, it wasn't an easy decision for me as I was almost used to being with her which I have never had with any other woman. My mind kept tricking me saying maybe it is not totally her fault as I didn't commit her. Plus, I have never been with any woman that showered me with so much care in my life before this girl. I have met very decent girls that still showed me shege despite being ready to commit.

I have only seen things like that on movies and I would have said it was juju but it was not. I have never experienced that kind of 'love' before and I didn't even care if it was fake or real. I enjoyed it as we both went on dates, vacations abroad and all but I was scared to commit to her.

Eventually I had to make a decision on whether I should stay or leave her and that was I how started going back and forth. I didn't want to leave or stay. I had never been so confused in my life. It was as if I was getting the kind of love I have always wished for but I am not exactly settled with our circumstances. I wanted to forget but I just couldn't given that I knew these men and it doesn't appear she has sexual discipline as well. I felt so bad for her and myself.

Though we ended up dating officially for 2months, I struggled to let bygone be bygone as she had requested. Not that I am so concerned about it but I just hate the fact that if anything happens in the future, I can't say I didn't see the signs but she was still a good person to me.

It is been 3months since we parted ways and I still randomly wonder if I did the right thing. Should I have given her a chance to change and prove herself ? Could I have influenced her positively ? I guess I will never know.

Who has experienced this before and what are your thoughts please?

You go just kill yourself.

ebubeson:
Mohbads death touched alot of people and people protested. It was a sad experience for many.

Please protest against the killings of people in Nigeria; the Southern Kaduna Killing, the Jos killing, the killing by ritualists, the killing of ladies by yahoo boys etc. You cannot keep a blind eyes on these and enjoy life, while people waste.

PROTEST FOR MOHBADS DEATH AND SOUTHERN KADUNA KILLINGS.

God bless you

Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

This matter tire me. Oga move along

frank317:
your ass gets drilled? does it not pain you? how does a strong male ass attract u? what happened to those lovely female boobs and sexy ass all other the place? u need a doctor

Ein soon wear pampas

seanwilliam:
Ok. Tife270

1. Before a woman agrees to come around , ensure you throw sexual talk in between conversation on WhatsApp , doing this would have prepared her ahead . Although , if a mature woman who’s not your fam or business partner agrees to visit you alone, she’s already concluded in her mind to fhuck u, it’s left for you to package yourself well .


2. When she comes, if you’re living in a self con, e don finish , make she sit with you on bed, dont try to impress her and don’t appear desperate before her.
Be bold and touch anywhere apart from coming directly for her breast-this will make her uncomfortable and restless. When you begin to touch her, youself go know weda to proceed or not, if she gives u green light, proceed to touching and fôndling her breast from the outside, afterwards, plant a devilish kiss on her lips and watch her get soaked .


To be sure she’s in the mood and not forced, naturally when she’s soaked, 90% of time , she won’t be able to control herself so she’ll take it up from there by holding your neck and locking her lips with yours, if she’s a hoè she’ll look in to your eyes while doing this, if she’s not, she’s close her eyes. Whichever, continue this forèplay and romance until you notice she’s shaking and sweating.


Take of her gown/skirt/jean, watch her take of her pant by herself. If she does this , it shows she’s damn in the mood and really wants u.
Attack her twins with 4-4-3 formation , stand up and direct her head to your peepee, make she suck u, shift your pillow and take out your condom, well well you know the rest .
don’t worry nature will take its course easily from there .

3. If you’re using a bigger apartment where she sits on a chair , it’s simple , move closer to her, sit beside her and log on to TikTok , catch cruise then refer to no 2 above.


But if she resists after all your effort , then two things dey involved,
1. She no like u
2. She one size u up


whichever it is , don’t fall for it, enter bathroom and soapy with her pic in mind, come back to her and discharge her without mercy. Whatever she says afterward is non of your business, don’t contact her again and let her do the chasing .










Least I forget , please smell nice( use sweet perf), this also works particularly for me, I no fit fhuck women wey no smell nice .

Don’t forget to strap up , good luck my G

Respect!!!!

Wiseandtrue:
Because you said so Or are you the murderer

Lol... If you look very well
There is some kind of struggle around

Wiseandtrue:
There was no struggle

There was a note, obviously a suicide note

There was no forceful entry visible

The blood on the wall is in sync with the position of the gun

The body language doesn't look like she was taken by surprise

Visible environment is an indication that the lady is prone to depression and probably loneliness

So yes, suicide is a likely option!!!

Purely murdered