Weitin come happen. U no update us again oo. Abi u don hookup with am back ni

Nonsoboy4life:
I will be straight to the point ...
My girlfriend of 3 years came to stay with me during this period of lockdown. She's been here for almost 2 months and I noticed she had changed completely from whom she used to be. She came all the way from Awka to Lagos because their work place is closed because of the pandemic.
These are the changes that made me to start suspecting her:
(1)we usually have intimacy as soon as we meet because we always stay for sometime before seeing each other, but this time around she vehemently refused and said later, someone who used to bump on me for that
(2) she started answering strange calls and even video calls
(3) she cared less about me and what happens in the house..she kept burning my food and infuriating me, something that never happened before
(4)She now said she has lossed the zeal for intimacy and we could stay up to two weeks before intimacy

Because of all these I was finding out how I can spy her phone because it is passworded...so I luckily saw when she imputed her password and noted it.She sleeps late normally and wakes late too.So I had to wake up one early morning before her and what I saw shocked me..My gal has been having sex with one guy like that severally and even receiving head from him(lol)..I don't even know whether I'm now the side niggar or not..I took screenshot of the whole thing but I have not shown it to her yet...I don't want to tell her anything, but she suspected I might have found out and has started talking nicely lately..How she might have guessed I have found out was because she wanted to go much later while I now encourage her to leave earlier, she's surprised at that...is been three days since I found out but I'm just tolerating her and waiting for her to go..This is a gal I looked up to getting married to but is all over. I will wait for her to get back to her location safely and sound before revealing it to her.
Thanks for reading

And ur shocked and suprised....that's a typical naija girl for u ,,fall in love at ur own peril.

J111333:
...our sex scenes


..."which of them"...


Haa, her office in Awka na porn office?

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OP, give her obnoxious attitude till she's tired of Lagos. If possible, leave the house and only sleep in the house twice or thrice a week. Whenever she's tired, she'll leave for her place and then you can let the cat out. But in whatever situation, don't allow such girl back into your life. If she can cheat once on you, she can cheat forever on you. Don't give in for nonsense.

Nonsoboy4life:

No one knows what they want oo...money is not my problem too, I paid for most her expenses like house rent , some additional cash and the rest

You were not yet married to her, but here, you've assumed the role of husband, even with the long distance between you two. You guys need to take the pill and stop all these.

Unless you're married to her, there should be a huge extent to how much you can go for her. First you need to understand women don't love unconditionally. The major reason why you need to use your brain always.

Nonsoboy4life:
I will be straight to the point ...
My girlfriend of 3 years came to stay with me during this period of lockdown. She's been here for almost 2 months and I noticed she had changed completely from whom she used to be. She came all the way from Awka to Lagos because their work place is closed because of the pandemic.
These are the changes that made me to start suspecting her:
(1)we usually have intimacy as soon as we meet because we always stay for sometime before seeing each other, but this time around she vehemently refused and said later, someone who used to bump on me for that
(2) she started answering strange calls and even video calls
(3) she cared less about me and what happens in the house..she kept burning my food and infuriating me, something that never happened before
(4)She now said she has lossed the zeal for intimacy and we could stay up to two weeks before intimacy

Because of all these I was finding out how I can spy her phone because it is passworded...so I luckily saw when she imputed her password and noted it.She sleeps late normally and wakes late too.So I had to wake up one early morning before her and what I saw shocked me..My gal has been having sex with one guy like that severally and even receiving head from him(lol)..I don't even know whether I'm now the side niggar or not..I took screenshot of the whole thing but I have not shown it to her yet...I don't want to tell her anything, but she suspected I might have found out and has started talking nicely lately..How she might have guessed I have found out was because she wanted to go much later while I now encourage her to leave earlier, she's surprised at that...is been three days since I found out but I'm just tolerating her and waiting for her to go..This is a gal I looked up to getting married to but is all over. I will wait for her to get back to her location safely and sound before revealing it to her.
Thanks for reading

You are the real man. That's the best way to handle that. Bitch.es aren't royal. Those babes studying in Awka are all cheaters.

Your case is kinda similar but more subtle than mine.some years back my babe who works as a receptionist in a firm(won't mention)was seriously knacking her boss doing all the travelings with him to several state in naija,and also a colleague from work too.her phone screen broke and I decided to do d funding cos it was way expensive you know Samsung's na,when engineer finish then asked for password so that we go check whether e de work perfectly,na so she tell us .omo the discovery channel made the engineer cry and hated his wife for no reason,therein her galleries re filled with sex videos of she and her boss and d colleague.then bomb exploded when I went to her WhatsApp ,guys omo I was dating a Mia khalifa,sending nudes to most of my friends and probably bleeped too,she bleeped my best friend I saw the chat and where they met she told me that particular day she was going to a wedding omo na hotell with my nighar,wetin pain me pass e still collect transport and for the chat d guy send am 30k just for tf.let me end here cos it might spark outrage the list too much an fit contaminate good people mind here.but amidst all that she has a beautiful soul till today,but I pity whoever go marry her .

Dande55:

Naso una deh always talk when a girl seeks for better option.
Besides, your sex game might be poor, learn to satisfy your woman.

Uncle stop this thing you're doing, that guy is hurting right now and you're refreshing his wounds. 3years is not too much to be in a relationship afterall he was still very much inlove with her so i don't see any reason why you'll call it time wasting when the girl still wants the relationship and still wants to test other men's joystick to the point of refusing the would be owner to having his way for weeks...it's so not cool at all if she not okay with the relationship she should better quit it instead of hurt her man, and please stop being a bad judge.

EricSmallz:
If na me eh, hehehehe. I go blast that girl eh, she go carry bag run. I go dey blast her like 6 times in a day (if I no dey go work o)
Body go tell her say, this guy go kill me o.
I dey blast o especially when I dey vex for the girl

Blast asin quarrel?

So op what later happened

Nonsoboy4life:
I will be straight to the point ...
My girlfriend of 3 years came to stay with me during this period of lockdown. She's been here for almost 2 months and I noticed she had changed completely from whom she used to be. She came all the way from Awka to Lagos because their work place is closed because of the pandemic.
These are the changes that made me to start suspecting her:
(1)we usually have intimacy as soon as we meet because we always stay for sometime before seeing each other, but this time around she vehemently refused and said later, someone who used to bump on me for that
(2) she started answering strange calls and even video calls
(3) she cared less about me and what happens in the house..she kept burning my food and infuriating me, something that never happened before
(4)She now said she has lossed the zeal for intimacy and we could stay up to two weeks before intimacy

Because of all these I was finding out how I can spy her phone because it is passworded...so I luckily saw when she imputed her password and noted it.She sleeps late normally and wakes late too.So I had to wake up one early morning before her and what I saw shocked me..My gal has been having sex with one guy like that severally and even receiving head from him(lol)..I don't even know whether I'm now the side niggar or not..I took screenshot of the whole thing but I have not shown it to her yet...I don't want to tell her anything, but she suspected I might have found out and has started talking nicely lately..How she might have guessed I have found out was because she wanted to go much later while I now encourage her to leave earlier, she's surprised at that...is been three days since I found out but I'm just tolerating her and waiting for her to go..This is a gal I looked up to getting married to but is all over. I will wait for her to get back to her location safely and sound before revealing it to her.
Thanks for reading

Hahahhahahaha

Nonsoboy4life:

What if she starts crying and forming emotional tears or even probably refuses to go,?

Or what if she harms me in the night before then?

That's why I opt for her to leave first..do you get me?

Bros... It's best you tell her to face... That will make her to know that you are not stupid. After that live your life.

What later happened?
It seems like the OP is Mr Simpson .
He later married his girlfriend because of big nyash and breast.
I hope he is still alive and seeing this.

My brother don't use because another man give your girlfriend a head to dump her, most ladies goes crazy for a good "head" (from my little experience) so why not do it for her?! Learn how to do it well (chat me I will teach you) of you end your 3 years relationship you start a new one! She's someone you've come to grow with and understand, she's not pregnant for neither of you, also 3 years is 2 children, you wasted both of your time, assuming you didn't see the message you would have gone ahead and married her, my advise is let her know you're aware she's cheating, let her call the guy in front of you and put it on speaker that you found out "and please let's end everything here, I'm getting married to him"
If she can't do that it means she loves him more than you, let her know in spite of that, you will still marry her, let her promise you that she will never see him or NY other man again, she will respect you, I'm not married yet but nobody is expected to marry a virgin at this civilization. I doubt if your mum was a virgin when your dad met her, please I beg you on her behalf don't end it, rather make it an opportunity for her to be sober and respect you, she's not a good yet your wife, if she's attractive, men must approach her, but if you dump her I pray for her that the other guy marries her, and keep giving her the head she loves... Good luck

RichieRodman:
My brother don't use because another man give your girlfriend a head to dump her, most ladies goes crazy for a good "head" (from my little experience) so why not do it for her?! Learn how to do it well (chat me I will teach you) of you end your 3 years relationship you start a new one! She's someone you've come to grow with and understand, she's not pregnant for neither of you, also 3 years is 2 children, you wasted both of your time, assuming you didn't see the message you would have gone ahead and married her, my advise is let her know you're aware she's cheating, let her call the guy in front of you and put it on speaker that you found out "and please let's end everything here, I'm getting married to him"
If she can't do that it means she loves him more than you, let her know in spite of that, you will still marry her, let her promise you that she will never see him or NY other man again, she will respect you, I'm not married yet but nobody is expected to marry a virgin at this civilization. I doubt if your mum was a virgin when your dad met her, please I beg you on her behalf don't end it, rather make it an opportunity for her to be sober and respect you, she's not a good yet your wife, if she's attractive, men must approach her, but if you dump her I pray for her that the other guy marries her, and keep giving her the head she loves... Good luck

Where did u read and concluded from the story is that he wants to leave is girl just because another man gave her head?

She cheated, she's deceptive, unfaithful, collecting money from him, and sleeping with someone else, yet not being intimate with him... that's the summary......weda head is involved or not.... Cheating is cheating... Betrayal is betrayal


And ur solution is to teach the guy head Gosh!!!! men like u are are just weird.... U worship pvssy too much......

advanceDNA:



Where did u read and concluded from the story is that he wants to leave is girl just because another man gave her head?

She cheated, she's deceptive, unfaithful, collecting money from him, and sleeping with someone else, yet not being intimate with him... that's the summary......weda head is involved or not.... Cheating is cheating... Betrayal is betrayal


And ur solution is to teach the guy head Gosh!!!! men like u are are just weird.... U worship pvssy too much......

I weak for the advice sef.. I wonder person go give such advice.