Family › Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 4:28pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Fyi0: Your marriage will definitely crash one day. It's mow "my kids", "my children". No longer "our". Your husband is now anything.
Like the poster above said. Guys hustle so your wife won't create this kind of thread You people are really reaching. Her use of ‘I’ wasn’t to exclude him from the family equation or leave him out, if that were the case she wouldn’t be asking for her husband’s input in the first place, she would’ve just taken the job. |
Family › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Use School As An Excuse For Doing Runs? by ibkayee(f): 3:56pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Fast money, their business |
Romance › Re: What Are You Angry About In Life by ibkayee(f): 3:53pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
First world problems sha but I hate the fact that McDonalds breakfast meals stop being served at 10.30am |
Food › Re: Do You Chew Or Swallow Your ‘swallow’ Meals? by ibkayee(op): 3:44pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Bojack: I tried using spoon once..... it was like using chopsticks, I didn't even know which one to pick first Lmao |
Celebrities › Re: Pamilerin To Drag Peruzzi To Court Despite Apology by ibkayee(f): 3:09pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Thegamingorca: Lol I think poco enjoys being seen as female power chest beater  She’s just trolling lol |
Celebrities › Re: Pamilerin To Drag Peruzzi To Court Despite Apology by ibkayee(f): 2:53pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: But it is true na...
Do you think no one would have flipped the narrative with the usual "women and their running mouth" talk if it were a lady he slapped? I agree, we would've needed the witness accounts of every single person present to get all other sides of the story |
Celebrities › Re: Pamilerin To Drag Peruzzi To Court Despite Apology by ibkayee(f): 2:34pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Thank God it is two men.
Nobody will ask what Pamilerin said to deserve the slap.
They should kill themselves. You’ve come again  |
Romance › Re: The First Animal You See In This Picture Will Determine Your Personality. by ibkayee(f): 2:05pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Saw a wolf |
Family › Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 1:48pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Mister man, what is wrong with what she said, she said her own mind, do you know her husband's mind and what he can sacrifice above his children's well being  That one just wants to be offended for the sake of it |
Family › Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 1:47pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Thegamingorca: Yeah it's just selfishness I don’t know her husband personally so I can’t say for sure. But in a lot of cases similar to this it is selfishness |
Family › Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 1:39pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
nahzyla: Personally I really really want to go. I have struggled in life before and I don't want my children to suffer so I very much would like to go but my hubby is the type that always speaks against spouses staying far apart from each other. He never liked the idea of married couples staying apart so when I brought my job offer up he knew it would be better for our family in the long run but he was not too happy about it. He hasn't given a definite answer whether he wants me to go or not. He knows it’s beneficial in the long run, sometimes we have to suck up not doing ‘what we want’ to do what’s best for the family If you’re concerned about cheating, the onus is on your husband to decide if he lacks that much discipline over a decision that will also be helping him If your husband were in your shoes I doubt there would be as much fuss over it |
Family › Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 1:08pm On Jun 11, 2019*. Modified: 3:31pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Well paying, permanent position with a salary potentially 4x what your husband is getting for work that isn’t even stable. Leaving doesn’t sound like a bad idea, I would anyway
Your husband isn’t fully against or for it as of now so use your feminine wiles have a discussion, outlining and weighing out the implications of the move, both good and bad.
What are your husband’s reservations about it?
It sucks that you’re worried about things like cheating over a decision that’s supposed to be helping your family |
Family › Re: Chatting With Exes After Marriage by ibkayee(f): 9:27am On Jun 11, 2019*. Modified: 5:05pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Dangerous territory. Leaves doors open for possible unresolved feelings, don’t do it. And just out of respect for your spouse tbh |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 9:17am On Jun 11, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 9:16am On Jun 11, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 7:47am On Jun 11, 2019 |
GoTV: The reply is in ur email.. Bye Lmao bye |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 7:38am On Jun 11, 2019 |
GoTV: It's easy to advice people The same mistake she made is what many of you make. Ignore serious guys in your younger years for some fvck boys then get desperate to marry any demon in your 30's. I hope you don't experience this. Nonsense You sound upset, is everything ok? |
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Crime › Re: Man With Four Wives Rapes 12-Years-Old Girl (Photo) by ibkayee(f): 5:37am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Slurity: Be careful with you choice of words. Its on holy You’re right, I apologise |
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Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 11:52pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
TSRC: Let's laugh together then. Hio hio hio |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 11:41pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 11:38pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
TSRC: There are many kinds of truths.
Nigeria is more developed than America is a true statement in some quarters. In foolishness, yes |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 11:34pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
eni4real: Smiles Lol surprised you told him the truth |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 11:29pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
TSRC: Entitlement? Is that a new word you learnt? What exactly was I entitled about?
*it seems this night is not going to be boring after all. I have a clown on my tail * Yes you are obviously entitled and very bitter  |
Crime › Re: Man With Four Wives Rapes 12-Years-Old Girl (Photo) by ibkayee(f): 10:45pm On Jun 10, 2019*. Modified: 5:37am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Jesus Christ |
Family › Re: Who Benefits More From Marriage? Men Or Women? by ibkayee(f): 10:33pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Deepfeel: Same thing Regina married Ned Right? The average man doesn't have Nnayi Ned money though... When people talk about women benefiting from men, they're usually talking about money right? Rich men don't benefit from marriage as much as average men, true But most men are just average...or broke. And nowadays, many women also financially contribute their share to the homefront |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 10:03pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta: d same church, d same establishment. not easy at all. if not for those circumstances,but I am looking for a way around it. Choose the option least likely to end with you in a casket sha, the guy is scum Best of luck dearie |
Education › Re: Dictionary.com Plans To Update The Definition Of 'black' After Branded Racist by ibkayee(f): 9:57pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Nice  |
Food › Re: Do You Chew Or Swallow Your ‘swallow’ Meals? by ibkayee(op): 9:46pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
theButterfly: Well, yes, there are. But lol, who's counting while chewing, tho? Most of us don't, however, it's def. good to keep in mind b|c it aids digestion and prevents overeating - you feel fuller longer when you eat slowly than fast. French people eat slowly, which is one of the reasons not many of them are obese, compared to America's colossal 34%. They live longer and have lower death rates too. While there are definitely other factors behind these, I think their eating habits play a huge role.
Lol, that makes sense. I was thinking, 'Ahhnn ahnn, how can I just be swallowing anything w/o chewing?'.  Just imagine how many people would be flooding the ER if that were the case. It's a useful thing to know  Lool imagine trying to swallow a whole ponmo whole  |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 9:43pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Marriage prep after just one month of dating is way too soon, sounds like you were fear mongered into the marriage (typical), but whilst I understand the pressure you were likely facing, your decision to enter a marriage with a complete stranger was less than sensible. But like I said, I can imagine the harassment pressure you were facing
I would leave him personally, you don’t have any children tying you to him which is usually the main incentive for people to stay even though they’re suffering in their marriage. It’s not even like you guys have history together so 'broken heart' won’t be an issue. You don’t depend on him financially either. I guess you’re worried about how it will look? Which is fair enough but is it worth the nonsense he’s putting you through? Cut your losses and divorce him dear. Good luck |