Romance › Re: Dont You Wish Your Boyfriend Was Hot Like Me PIC by ibkayee(f): 12:09pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
scooby12: Hmmm..
I don't really know.. guess I was just bored  Or trying to hide from something.. I don't know jare.. Fair enough, I get  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ugandan Lawmakers Exchange Blows Over Bill Extending The 31 Year Rule Of Museven by ibkayee(f): 12:08pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Same guy said this, "the problem of Africa in general, and Uganda in particular, is not the people but leaders who want to overstay in power" - Museveni, 1986 |
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Romance › Re: Dont You Wish Your Boyfriend Was Hot Like Me PIC by ibkayee(f): 10:38am On Sep 30, 2017 |
scooby12: No I wasn't  Lol why did you change your monicker?  |
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Romance › Re: Dont You Wish Your Boyfriend Was Hot Like Me PIC by ibkayee(f): 9:14am On Sep 30, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Dont You Wish Your Boyfriend Was Hot Like Me PIC by ibkayee(f): 8:37am On Sep 30, 2017 |
scooby12: This is daylyt.. you know that right? Lool I didn't know o  |
Romance › Re: Dont You Wish Your Boyfriend Was Hot Like Me PIC by ibkayee(f): 8:29am On Sep 30, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Tiwaloluwa Oluwademiladeola: Seyi Law's Daughter’s 1st Birthday Photoshoot by ibkayee(f): 8:15am On Sep 30, 2017 |
I just want to chew her cheeks |
Romance › Re: Dont You Wish Your Boyfriend Was Hot Like Me PIC by ibkayee(f): 8:14am On Sep 30, 2017 |
scooby12: Ibkayee aka ibikaye how far na? Hey dear, I'm not bad thanks, how are you?  |
Literature › Re: The Cartographer Of Memory, ABook By A Nairalander's Brother, Boluwatife Afolabi by ibkayee(f): 7:37am On Sep 30, 2017 |
This is great 1 Like |
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Family › Re: Marriage List Of Items In Imo Presented To Prospective Groom From Anambra by ibkayee(f): 11:42pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How I Was Raped By My Girlfriend! by ibkayee(f): 6:54pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Evaberry: please please and please you can't rape a man!!!
You can only perhaps assault them sexually not rape.
A man doesn't know what rape is and can never be a victim of it.
I find it insulting when men try to play victims
you are not a victim, you are a predator!!!!
Modified: I don't see where the law said boy or man. That's just a written law, not the actual definition of rape. Crazy how some countries spefically only recognise females as victims Hope he gets the help he needs |
Celebrities › Re: Skales: "Timaya Housed Me When Banky W Kicked Me Out Of EME" by ibkayee(f): 6:34pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Skales doesn't really have the IT factor, has some decent tracks though |
Celebrities › Re: MI Abaga Spotted With Jon Snow Of Game Of Thrones (pictures) by ibkayee(f): 6:27pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
kenonze: When someone pose and took pictures, do u still caption it as "spotted"
Spotted are used by entertainment journalists when the person is unaware of the photo shots Probably by paparazzi Lool |
Jokes Etc › Re: Why Ekiti People Must Stop Cheeting In Public (Photo) by ibkayee(f): 6:19pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Shai  |
Politics › Re: Buhari Writes Paul And Peter: The Unity Of P-square Is Non-negotiable by ibkayee(f): 6:11pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by ibkayee(f): 4:06pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Gwaihir: I don't think there is any problem with that, as far as both parties can compromise, understand and be patient for each other without it getting heated or a need for a back and forth. I think that is mainly why people are harping on the submissive part. I agree |
Celebrities › Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by ibkayee(f): 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: No man wants this trust me. No one wants to be a beneficiary of a stone-hearted woman Hmm most of the younger generation aren't as archaic but it would be willfully obtuse to think that no man wants this, times have changed but there are still people carrying such ideologies |
Celebrities › Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by ibkayee(f): 3:58pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Sterope: Like a man who is not financially responsible but expects his wife to trust in him because he is the head of the family... People and their jokes
I admit I don't understand the word in the context of marriage. I understand that there are times when you go with everything he says but it is beyond comprehension to expect an adult to say ‘yes' to everything and be comfortable with someone else having his way all the time. I may understand submission in a business relationship but marriage with all its familiarity...Nope.
I might actually understand it the day my parents and I stop disagreeing.  Exactly Yup, I'm against any authoritarian, unilateral, 'yes man' etc style of leadership which is the distorted definition a lot of people seem to have of submission within marriage Lool  |
Celebrities › Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by ibkayee(f): 3:31pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: But you know if you ladies aren't well in sync, you have your ways. Anyway, most young men thesedays want a partnership, an arrangement where the leader is still involved as the man. Hence, the need for submissiveness to this arrangement, not submissiveness of not having a say, voice or will, but that the will of the woman is represented in the decisions of the captain... Lol it goes both ways my guy, men aren't perfect either. Lol like I said, it's up to the couple to set the dynamic they're comfortable with (whatever that is, it will differ) and keep to whatever their part of the bargain is and also, let's be honest, a lot of Nigerian men's ideas of being submissive aren't always as civil and 'collaborative' as you've put it, so I can see why women would be averse to it. Also don't expect the person to change if that's not how you met them. As for Chris and Dami I don't know what exactly happened with them |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Lady Commits Suicide In UK By Jumping From A Bridge (Photos) by ibkayee(f): 3:21pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Damn, you never know what people may be going through. RIP |
Celebrities › Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by ibkayee(f): 3:18pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
I sha want a partnership, not a 'leader', though there's nothing wrong with that type of arrangement if both people are ok with it and are actually keeping to their part of the bargain. Problem is when the people fixated on their women being submissive aren't doing the work to actually deserve it.
I wonder if they'd set this dynamic from the beginning or if he was hoping she'd change once they'd married. Anyway submission is subjective, I don't know exactly what his version of it is |
Romance › Re: White Lady Sends iPhone & Apple MacBook To A Nigerian Guy She Met On Facebook by ibkayee(f): 12:04pm On Sep 29, 2017 |
Lmao |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 9:55pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
Gravel Pit | Wu Tang Clan |
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Celebrities › Re: Crystal Harris, Hugh Hefner's Wife To Inherit Nothing From His Fortune by ibkayee(f): 6:26pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
Thought he'd be worth more tbh |