₦airaland Forum

ijustdey:
https://www.independent.ng/spousal-abuse-against-men-rising-in-lagos-ui-criminologist/

I see that the study puts forth that polygamous marriages see less abuse to men. What are the men on such marriages doing that might be of benefit to their monogamous counterparts?

hisexcellency34:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/12/24/kankara-schoolboys-%E2%80%98rescue%E2%80%99-was-christmas-gift-nigerians-defence-minister

Old man I can see you’re mental.

DamZik:
So you people believe that flimsy reason of name mismatch is enough to take the school six (6) months to sort out. I can assure you, if VC's daughter has the same challenge, it won't take the school up to six (6) to sort it out. I love everything that has to do with Oyedepo but I don't like this issue of sluggishness from CU. In the timeline of events above, look at the wide gaps between the dates. Who does that in a sane country?

If you’re not a CU alumnus you better keep your mouth shut because you do not know shit. The lady is wrong, we can bring tons of CU alumni to brief you on their experience both good or bad on transcript, etc. collection and this lady went off the tangent. Don’t be unfortunate.

nairavsdollars:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos


https://www.independent.ng/british-parliament-cant-summon-queen-sagay-tells-nass/

You do not summon royalty. The parliament can call on the prime minister and he will show up.

Compare apples with apples.

Starzo:
Dem no get medical courses??

For some reason no. I think it had something to do with the founder’s personal beliefs. Hope that changes.

okefranci:
You had better choose osinbajo to be your first choice

Is it by force?

ExAngel007:
https://thecable.ng/abaribe-its-non-negotiable-for-an-igbo-person-to-replace-buhari

One Igbo brother to another, if this doesn’t happen, what will you do? Mehn, this Nigerian political climate is tiring.

Ecstasy154:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-jerry-rawlings-ex-ghanaian-president-dies-from-covid-19/amp

Sad to hear that one of the few respected African leaders has passed.

RIP, Africa needs more men like you.

benjackugo:
Nigerian Father Of Two Punishes His Wife By Sleeping With Her Younger Sister (Photos)

A Nigerian father of two, Maduakor Wiseman Jesus said that the best way for men to punish their wives if they provoke them is by cheating with their relatives, IgbereTV reports.

According to him, his wife left him and their infant baby after he cheated on her with her younger sister.

He wrote:

"If your wife provokes you and you want to punish her cheat with her sister or relative and make her to find out, there is nothing more painful to them like cheating with their blood, they may not care if you cheat outside.
I don't post what does not work for me. She will be pained all the days of her life. In fact I have been cheating on my wife, if she find out I apologize. Immediately I found this strategy, I cheated with her junior sis and she left a breastfeeding baby for me and leave. she never returned, we separate. That's why I know it Pained them.

Just want to make common sense. #WISEMAN"

https://m.facebook.com/maduakor.wisemanjesus

Mr. You’re trash

Just sell the country. Brazil? Really?

DiagnoPolitics:
There is nothing wrong what the gallant soldiers are doing, they are simply dealing with yoruba miscreants and potential Amotekun terrorists. Kudos to the gallant Nigerian Army.

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My friend, your reasoning is totally off.

Aya! Old man are you really a peace ambassador? I pray you receive some common sense before it is too late.

Special Weapons And Tactical Squad? Shit just got real. It have be

It have be... lol... this has to be a joke

Haha... this is so interesting. Lol...

This guy is a snake. I am shocked at how my fellow Igbo brothers can subscribe to his thought process.
If you want your “Biafra” it’s going to crumble under this guy’s leadership... wisdom is profitable to direct.

Be guided.

Personally and I could be wrong on this, wrong goes both ways. I would commend you for being quite through the ordeal. Not easy. I would tow the line of many here, all relationships are not perfect - both parties come with their problems and attitudes that have the tendency of destroying it.

Someone on the platform mentioned his behavior can be worked on. That is a yes and no scenario. First off, be honest with yourself and don’t say it is because you were quiet; can he hit you? Do you believe he will slap, beat or punch you? If yes, end it. Is he verbally abusive? Now, key word abusive not harsh (for verbally and physically abusive, I recommend you think back to how he has handled not just you but others - is he quick to fight people for talking trash to him or talking in a strange way to him) if so, end it.
If it’s harsh, but not verbally abusive. When both of you have calmed down (because there will always be friction, there is not guarantee there wouldn’t be) explain what you did not like (respectfully. An eye for an eye makes the world blind and you would achieve anything). He may learn or not, if it seems like he isn’t learning after several attempts, know your limit and walk out.

If you guys are dating (truly dating and not it an undefined relationship) then what are the things you can do as his girlfriend without him mentioning it (mind you, you seem to be at a stage where you have your emotions in check that he is, so you might act more logically than he will) e.g. the cooking thing, you could easily have told him to give you some money for you to buy things to cook prior to how the whole thing escalated... yes you had your business and you had to take care of it, yet again what would it have cost you to do that by the side? Here are number of way that’s would have gone down: you finished your business, you took some money from him prepared some food... your money got missing, he has food you made for him, he would probably act different (again I’m not justifying his behavior - he is insensitive with or without food) and yes he is selfish too.

Finally to end my long talk, ask yourself what do you want in a partner. For starters, I do appreciate doing your own thing but I cannot tolerate a selfish partner (for me bottomline, they will not see reason or understand if they feel it’s not in their best interest or favors them). Where do you draw your line? Do the same and if he does not fit into it make your decision. But at the same time... deal with him the same way you want to be dealt with... if not, it would be unfair.

Pray, think through what you have to do and good luck.
Wish you the best.

bodybuilder:
Have you noticed that handsome guys end up with less attractive women?
And handsome guys get lesser girls than average looking guys?
What could be the reason behind this phenomenon?

There is really no science or reason behind this. It just happens.

It’s amazing how some of my fellow Nigerians think and speak. Anambra, Ebonyi, Akwa Ibom and host of other governors seem to be bringing out/ramping up certain projects. Great stuff, highly commendable. Some will say long overdue, but nevertheless kudos.

I don’t how some of us will come up here, insult others and the Governors in question. Not necessary. Applaud what you can applaud. Keep it simple if you feel they are playing mind games due to upcoming elections (which I swear, my mind is like hmmm!) but not insult anyone.

Peace ��

Drabeey:
Borrowing for capital project is better than borrowing for looting.

You guys have my consent to sell the country, Nigeria can be rẹ-colonized by China, no big deal as we no wan get sense


Dra was Here

Not quite a good idea bro. Zambia is in shit due to their sellout to the Chinese, Tanzania saw the handwriting on the wall and bailed out Chinese offers. I agree that it is nice to see money go into projects but the end does not justify the means. The nation is screwed either ways. The Chinese do not play nice, this is a global invasion/domination - Europe, certain middle eastern countries and Africa, they tried America but America has a mad man on seat who does not play nice as well.

Africa is their biggest target and Nigeria is entrapping itself.

Good job.
Show others it can be done and they should keep pushing.

I think it’s dicey.
I wouldn’t say she is myopic or weird.
She has a right to be worried no matter how small.
Clearly in several different ways her bf said he would not be in such a relationship. Although he is acting different after hearing the truth, it makes you wonder, can I trust this man’s words? None of them are bad people, but it’s always better for your words to match your actions. But she should get some clarity for him, if she has concerns she should air them, ask the necessary questions and the conviction he is genuine.
She knows the guy best, there could be another behavioral pattern he has that makes her worry. It’s not about the age thing but more about the individuals themselves. Let them sit and talk. Get to the bottom of things

They can work, it’s all up to them