₦airaland Forum

nellaluv:
The spa and massage palour business have been abused by naija runs gals. It's not advisable for a married man to visit such places unless ofcourse he has a dirty plan to have sex right there. I can tell you for a fact that sex is included in their services.

kITATITA:
There's nothing wrong with that; work on your psyche. To the masseur, you are just an object. You can look at her as if she's a doctor or physiotherapist of sort.

ronald4lif:
Lol! Are you married? Even if you're I don't see what's wrong in patronising a massage parlour. You would have turn the other way so she stroke your kini na, what's there. Next time pay for a home service. That would make you feel more relaxed.

SUGARBEE:
It's partially right/wrong tho..



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EroticAngelina:
its nt. I took that pic in a studio and transfered it to my phone.

EroticAngelina:
it fits them since their konji-ransacked brain can't do without toasting and dating girls they meet online

and the foolish ones get scammed by them. smh

omogidi234:
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Many thanks for the constructive and well tailored point. The truth is No institution can be created without the Constitutional requirement of passing a Bill to enact such institution and from the information in the news the Bill is already being put together. Obviously, I do not expect that the Bill would be passed and they would be runnning up and down to source for people to work in such institution.

omogidi234:
Yes I am.

omogidi234:
ejibaba, Have you been to court lately? Do you see their list? Let me use Abeokuta for example. Each time I had cases in Abeokuta, the court was always filled to the brim. You will see a judge with about 15- 20 cases per day. Among those cases, there would Ruling, there would be judgment, hearing of applications and the most tedious one TRIAL. You will see Judges who sit from 9 to 4pm and sometimes they have to adjourn some matters without hearing the lawyers. These processes go on every day until Mid/late July when they go on Vacation and resume late September or thereabout. I used Abeokuta because Litigation traffic is low there. You want to try Lagos, between 30 to 60 cases per day. Once the Judges see the list, he/she will mutter (you people want to kill me before my time, no problem, I will stylishly take 5 cases and adjourn the rest).

I have written all these epistles to let you appreciate how congested the courts are, so asking them to come and try new set of cases and wanting them to deliver judgment in a short-while is a suicide mission.

HungerBAD:
Sour Grapes.

mutter:
I guess most people of his parents age share that opinion.
About 30 years ago when there was the boom of merchant banks in Nigeria and marketers. As at that time many of them had little idea of anything to do with banking.
merchant banks sprang up then like mushrooms . It took some years before the government became more alert .
I do not doubt that the job of a marketer today is highly qualified and professional but parents of today probably still have the old picture in their head.

mutter:
As I wrote she should be judged by her qualities and not by her job.
The job of a bad reputation. Certainly does not mean that every woman conpromses in the job .
But I go a step Futher to say even if she did it might be circumstances that led to it.
Nigeria is a country without any social or welfare system. In such a country it is unfair to stand in judgment over anyone that has to compromise. This is the sad situation and abuse of wo.en brought about by a foul system.

mutter:
There is so much more to marriage than you can ever understand unless you have spent some years in it. Especially in an African marriage where family is still held in high esteem. Also the Impact of a divorce on the spouses and kid's is terrible. Marriage comes with allot of joy but also with pain. The parents are aware of this and want to avoid their son making a wrong choice. However the girl should be judged by all her qualities and not her job. Sometimes a LovePeddler can make a better wife than a Virgin. It might have been circumstances that led her to have to take the job. It is also circumstances that make women compromise their bodies . As long as the man can deal with her past if the woman has good qualities and he loves her let him go ahead. But parents hardly change their opinion for the better. She would be on scrutiny throughout the marriage.

walemoney007:
I thought everybody in d south south[b] blivs in biafra

Chiwude:
Nigeria died in 1970.

merry02:
u claim u knw right,ojukwu lead the war while the Abury traty was meant to foster peace btw gowon and ojukwu in Ghana..

sebali:
I never knew his resume was dis strong...... Dat means he was suppose 2 kn wat a confederation meant....
Anyway wat happened had happened, ibos shud let it go or up their political game so as 2 be more relevant in national issues or come 2geda and use legal means 2 pursue d biafran dream(SS xcluded) if dey still want such and stop crying foul at every little opportunity and plss beg ur brodas in NL 2 stop dis biafra biafra infiltration of every thread.
Finally dis is d first am having a good conversation without abuses flowing up and down (d usual NL mantra) wen pple have opposite views.
Tank U.

sebali:
U kn dey said Gowon wasnt educated and didnt realize he had signed 4 a confederation, coming back home he got to realize dis and inturn went against..... On Aburi blame it on Gowon's lack of proper education.

sebali:
U re right northerners ova did it.... Ibos were slaughtered... Esp. d civilian killing and d in house barrack slaughter of ibo soldiers, no justification for dese bt all am saying is ibos shud also share in d blame because d actions initiated all dat followed.
Am not aware of 20pounds stuff govt wasn't fair in doing so.
My point generally is dat ibos should not look at it won sided, as dey rain curse on Yorubas cos of Awo dey shud also give Yorubas some credit cos of Fajuyi who sacrificed his life 4 Ironsi, as dey point out d errors of d F. G and northerners dey shud also giv some blame to kaduna Nzougbo and his crew.... Blame Ironsi 4 nothin handling d aftermath of d failed coup as he ought to. And ibos shud let Yorubas be...... Dey choose one Nigeria just d way Nnamdi as against Awo's pre independence request chose one Nigeria.

SLIDEwaxie:
lol...dude, u're a moronic entity.

You really believed what I said abt 'joking'? Lol...

Your foolishness knows no bound bro...

dayo23:
Very good appointment, The new MD Habibu Abdullahi already knows that no room for stealing is not corruption, any rubbish and you are kicked out like football