Romance › Re: If This Thing Had 1 Billion Dollars, Do You Think Nigerian Girls Would Chase Him by id4sho(m): 7:33am On Dec 13, 2023 |
EFULEFU1: Assuming this thing had one billion us dollars, some Nigerian girls would chase him and some even marry it? My brother, let him own a wooden cart with four wheeler  Dem go rush am |
Family › Re: Man Accuses Pastor Of Marrying His Wife, Demands 6 Million Naira Bride Price by id4sho(m): 7:09am On Dec 13, 2023 |
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Health › Re: Lady Commits Suicide Hours After Her Boyfriend's Death In Adamawa by id4sho(m): 6:49am On Dec 13, 2023 |
na HIV abi wetin kill am  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: World News! Events Happening Around The World by id4sho(m): 12:44am On Dec 13, 2023 |
HolinessForever: THE FEAR OF THE MOSSAD!!!
3 very senior members of the Hamas leadership suddenly vacated their offices in Doha and left the country.
They took their drivers and advisors with them, and they completely disconnected their phones.
It is not clear what their destination was, whether it was Beirut, Algiers or Tehran.....
Jokers, Mossad will fish them out. If Dem like, let them hide in Satan's anus. All Hamas are good as dead '' its a promise ''. My take: Qatar is tired of hiding them officially, All man for him self. Afghanistan won't take them in, they are looking for PR |
Politics › Re: Fayoade Adegoke Appointed As New Lagos Police Commissioner by id4sho(m): 12:10am On Dec 13, 2023 |
chigoziri2403: This AIG IS IN FCIID, NOT IN ZONE 2 Yeah, that's why I stated zone 2. There are up to 4 AIGs in lag |
Politics › Re: Wike Vs Fubara: The Home Team Is Winning But Game Is Wide Open - Dele Momodu by id4sho(m): 12:03am On Dec 13, 2023 |
Wike wants to repeat what tinubu did to ambode but through impeachment  Wike has lost on second attempt, Fubara needs to up his game and be brutal. I don't know why Wikes house is still standing in portharcourt  and why the imbeciles state house of assembly members still living in portharcourt  |
Business › Re: GSK Quits Kenya 4 Months After Nigeria Exit by id4sho(m): 11:59pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
INTEGRITYA1: Its exit follows disappointing sales for many regional multinational pharmaceutical companies in the face of competition from cheaper generics from India and locally manufactured medicines India and china ain't joking, they are taking over from western pharmaceutical giants. Pharmaceutical marketers in Nigeria design drugs structure and take it to India for production and this method has made the competition tough. Effective cheaper and effective variants full market |
Politics › Re: Fayoade Adegoke Appointed As New Lagos Police Commissioner by id4sho(m): 11:49pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
chigoziri2403: An Assistant IG AND A commosioner of police in the same state? Will the CP take orders from the AIG? Or are they independent of each other CP takes order from AIG. By structure/chain of command, CP Lagos takes order from AIG zone 2 |
Politics › Re: Fayoade Adegoke Appointed As New Lagos Police Commissioner by id4sho(m): 11:46pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
One chance  Ceremonial Cap didn't fit his head well, which kind CP. Lagos on a long ride  |
Family › Re: MY SEXUAL HARASSMENT EXPERIENCE WITH THE CHAIRMEN AND MD I WORKED WITH by id4sho(m): 9:56pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: As you already know.. yes you! I like to share my life's experiences any chance I get or as my heart leads. So you'll have to deal with yet another one. This, for me, has become a ritual cos It serves as an emotional cleansing and a way of relieving my chest of years of pent up feelings and resentments (towards men) that have built up over time from these ordeals. if you know my stories always irritate or affect your sanity, please, at this point use the exit button but if you choose to constitute a nuisance by spewing rubbish as usual, then be my guest.
In my early years of working as a front desk personnel and secretary, the chairmen of the companies I worked in have always seen me as a sex object and all they want to do is get inbetween my innocent laps but thank God for wisdom and good home training that made me stand for what I believe in and resist them all. These were men in their 60s and 80s with grand children and all
It started with my first chairman in 2000. Then I was awaiting results. My dad would always advise us to get busy during this period of waiting so we don't just idle away or start joining joining other young girls to flirt with boys and that year my area was hot cos some OPP guys just returned from Yankee and parked themselves down to Ikoyi messing girls up and down my street. My dad wasn't going to take chances knowing he has six beautiful girl's to protect from these wolves. So you were either away in school or out working. That was how I found myself working at that tender age instead of resting at home like my mates while awaiting results.
I got a job as a front desk personnel in this company. Before I knew what was happening the chairman started calling me more often into his office. He would tell me to make tea for him. His secretary whose duty it was to make tea was there o. He'll leave her and buzz me downstairs with the intercom to come upstairs and make tea for him. One day after serving him tea, he said I should come and help him check something on his PC. As I was checking the computer he started rubbing my back I quickly moved back and he was like... " You know I like you and I'm going to take care of you" bla bla bla... He started asking me what I use for my face that he'll be giving me money to buy it any time it finishes. I was dazed. Though I never went to him for anything but any time any of his children was having their wedding he'll order for the aso oke for me. He'll pay for my aso ebi. I remember he ordered for an Italian leather bag for me during one of the daughters wedding. Me I'll just thank him and continue my job innocently.
One day he said I should be transferred to one of our branches at VI where one guy was and that the guy should come to Ikoyi. I got there and the following week this man landed. As I greeted him and turned to go to my seat, he tried to grab me but I was too fast for him. Then I told him, Sir I'm a Christian and he said "am I a devil? 👀👀. I said you're not but I can't do this. He tried to hug me again and I ran and stood in front of the glass door facing outside so people passing can see. He went into his office ( he was no longer using the VI office o he just came to do rubbish). After a few mins he left . That was the beginning of my problem.
This man started frustrating me. He would call the office landline ( then there was no GSM). blasting me that he's been calling the office but I didn't pick that I've gone to meet all my boyfriends in vi. Chai!... The next thing he'll say start coming to Ikoyi right now! I'll cry and cry.. if I get to Ikoyi, they'll say he just left. He continued until one day I was crying in the office and one elderly man who's office was opposite ours came in and saw me. I told him my boss is frustrating me he said I should not worry that they know him. This man told me to leave the job before he uses my star. He then told me to wait that he's coming. He went into his office and brought out huge amount of money and said my daughter take. Go and manage this until you get another job. I thanked him was ready to dump their work.
Something now happened. I got to the office and as i was opening the door, the phone was already ringing non-stop. Fax machine too was ringing. Na rush I use open door like mad girl cos I don know say this kind bad ringing na Chairman. I quickly picked up the receiver and it was him. He asked me if I received a fax from Japan, I checked, no facsimile. I said no. He then said it's because I didn't get to the office in time when the fax was ringing to speak with the Japanese man and to fix paper in the machine that was why I missed the message bla bla bla ( na lie o. Body dey pepper am.) He now told the manager to give me sack letter. I got to Ikoyi branch, took the letter and signed the photocopy.
He called the manager and was asking what was my attitude when I received the letter, that one said ko tie bother. He said "omo geh yen, o ti stubborn ju. They didn't know I was behind a partition hearing them. I just laughed and left after they climbed upstairs. That was how I escaped that one.
Another one was in 2012. Then I was already through with my secretarial course and had worked in so many companies without issues until the bearish market that affected the Nigerian stock exchange and caused the finance and investment house I was working to fold up in 2008/9. So in 2012, I got a job in Guinness and was attached to a Chairman of a unit there. Everything was working fine until a new MD came. A middle aged Man with wife and children.. He started disturbing me. This one uses force to ask me out. He just told me one day (after being friendly with me for a while) that he wants to go and give me a treat. I politely turned him down and the next thing this man shouted. Common Lock up and follow me. we got downstairs and I was heading to the gate, he said if you step out without me, you're fired. I'll be beg him that I don't want to go. This man will yell at me and order me to enter his car to take me out by force. If I refuse he'll be threatening me with sack. I'll just follow him for peace to rein. He'll spend and I'll eat and drink. It wasn't easy. I'll pray, cast and bind until one day, after leaving an eatery, he was going to drop me home when the back tyre of his new jeep got stuck in a big gutter. I say God catch you. He was now saying my ogbanje people don spoil his new jeep. He was lucky it happened in my area. So I went into one of my church elders house and begged him to give us jack or so, i can't remember now. He was able to pull it out sha.
The following week the chairman sacked him. He called me into his office and said he knew the MD was disturbing me, true or false.? I was like is that why you sacked him and he said, are you not happy? I just shrugged. The next minute baba too was toasting me. huh ! Men...
He started his own wahala. I was like.. I can't do this Sir. It's against my faith. This man began to tell me how he dated a young lady who came to buy beer and transformed her life. He said she got pregnant for him and he sent her abroad to deliver the baby bla bla... He said he's going to take care of me. Meanwhile, the other staff there told me he once dated his former secretary and impregnated her. She had two children for him and developed breath cancer, this man abandoned this lady in her mother's house and took his two sons from her. Till she died he never went near her again. They said he abandoned the first wife he married in his youth that had all his grownup sons that are now working in his private companies. The chairman even told me about his first love he met in Yankee when he was still a young boy had a son out of wedlock with her but after his education he left the boy and his mother and came back home to marry another woman. That his son was already an old man when he was telling me this but the guy looked so fresh because he's based there. He showed me his pics with his grand children. Me was wondering why he was telling me all these.
One Saturday, he called me and said I should send my house address that his driver was coming to pick me. He doesn't work on Saturdays o. So I sent the driver adress of a filling station near my bustop. He came and picked me. I got there and he asked me to sit down. He started talking rubbish again. This time he brought out bundle of cash and gave it to me. I rejected it. This man para. That why would I reject his gift? that for a man his age thats an insult. I should apologize. Na so I kneel down begin apologize. He now said I should stand up and take the money. I did. He stood up and left.
Another Saturday he came and wanted to smooch me. I screamed he now ran into his office. He came back and was asking me how old I was, I said I was 31 and he said he thought I was 25 . That I'm behaving like a baby. He now sat me down and played king Solomons message on his iPad saying it's not wrong for a Christian to marry many wives. He brought out his check book and dropped on the table asking me to name any amount and he would sign it and give me now now.. I was shaking ic I couldn't talk.
Later he told me the lady he told me about was coming. Under 3 mins a CRV drove into the compound and the lady entered with the two kids he had for the man. Immediately they entered I looked at the 4yr old boy, he was a carbon copy of this man. then the little boy shouted, youre beautiful! I like you.. I just looked at the chairman and he smiled wickedly. In my mind I said like father like son. E dey una blood. I bought then drinks and told baba that I was going he said no, come and sit with us ha! I sat down and the lady was looking at me with disdain. After a while when he saw I was no longer comfortable, he said I can go.
After that day, he started avoiding me. I was happy o. Then one day he said I will be working with the wife henceforth. That the wife needs a PA. I sensed he wanted to sack me and I remember asking him that hope he's not going to use this against me, he said no. I joined the wife. That one Margaret thatcher. Nothing I do was good enough. She would yell and talk thinking I'll shudder like the other girls, I'll just do my job and remain calm.
One day, he came and told me to follow him to the office. We got there and he said the wife said she doesn't need my services any longer. He now asked me to write a resignation letter. I said no, that since you're the one asking me to go, you should do a letter to that effect. He now said that will not be a good report in my record. So he called the accountant to prepare all my benefits and pay me off. I left with a heavy heart and told God this will be the last I'll ever work as a secretary in my life or work directly with a man and God heard and answered that prayer.
Young ladies are going through a lot. If you find yourself in this situation please don't give in. For what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his own soul. It's well my dear |
Politics › Re: Drama Over Power Outage During Power Minister’s N344bn Budget Defence In NASS by id4sho(m): 9:24pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: BREAKING: Akeredolu Proceeds On Medical Leave, Transfers Power To Deputy by id4sho(m): 9:11pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
kingsways: All the enemies of the Deputy Governor are in trouble Their nyash go open |
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Akeredolu Proceeds On Medical Leave, Transfers Power To Deputy by id4sho(m): 9:10pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Daewoo Convoy In Rivers, Abduct Two Koreans, Kill 4 Soldiers by id4sho(m): 9:01pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Rivers of blood |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Turkish MP Suffers Heart Attack Right After Cursing Israel ( Video) by id4sho(m): 8:50pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
motayoayinde: I curse them daily like millions of other people around the world.
And guess what? The curse is the reason they're killing themselves on the battlefield now.
They will never remain the same. The beginning of the end of Israel has began. From now onwards, it'll be a story of woe and despair for them till the land is returned to the Palestinians. You can start jihad by killing your neighbors. Idiots |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Turkish MP Suffers Heart Attack Right After Cursing Israel ( Video) by id4sho(m): 8:49pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Indecent Dressing By Ladies Seen Everywhere On The Streets This Yule Tide! (Pic) by id4sho(m): 8:46pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Business › Re: Gomoney Bank Has Been Down For A Week Now, Customers Money Trapped by id4sho(m): 7:49pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Indecent Dressing By Ladies Seen Everywhere On The Streets This Yule Tide! (Pic) by id4sho(m): 7:46pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Anny69: No.  Your fellow gender protect their male relatives from you ladies. This should ring a bell in your head  |
Romance › Re: Indecent Dressing By Ladies Seen Everywhere On The Streets This Yule Tide! (Pic) by id4sho(m): 6:27pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Anny69: Sigh, another woman-bashing thread. I wish men could have a separate planet and leave us alone.
And you this agbaya op, women can wear whatever they want to wear it's not your business, let women be! Rest Abeg |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Visits MC Oluomo In Lagos by id4sho(m): 6:19pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
No Lele Lyrics
[Verse 1: Wizkid] Ya yeah! Ojuelegba Shitta Ask my sister My music travel no visa Oya ask your sister She not fit say she no know me You feel the beat, you go down low She not fit say she no know me You feel the beat, you go down low Omo, day by day Me, I dey grind, I dey hustle Make you ask Wande Him go yarn you how the ting go Say bad mind fit talk But I swear me no send dem Na, dem get there mouth o Let dem run their mouth o |
Education › Re: 18 Pupils Hospitalised After Eating Osun Free Meal, Govt Begins Probe by id4sho(m): 4:51pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Food poisoning in small quantity  |
Politics › Re: Rivers Exco Approves ₦800bn 2024 Budget Amid Chaos by id4sho(m): 2:29pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Dilemma In Relationship Over Lies by id4sho(m): 2:11pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Midnight newspapers left thread  |
Politics › Re: Governor Akeredolu's Wife & Son Keep Him In Ibadan Against His Wishes by id4sho(m): 11:48am On Dec 12, 2023 |
Family cabals  |
Romance › Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by id4sho(m): 11:13am On Dec 12, 2023 |
His eyes will soon clear |
Politics › Re: Labour Fumes As FG Stops N35,000 Award Payment by id4sho(m): 10:45am On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: FG May Unbundle Discos Swap Stakes With States - Adelabu by id4sho(m): 10:32am On Dec 12, 2023 |
Worse decision loading  |
Food › Re: Burnt meals,share your experience! by id4sho(m): 9:56am On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Protecting Yourself Against Fake Job Offers This Festive Season by id4sho(m): 9:46am On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Protecting Yourself Against Fake Job Offers This Festive Season by id4sho(m): 9:45am On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: DJ Chicken Crashes His Car In Lekki (Picures) by id4sho(m): 9:27am On Dec 12, 2023 |
Coo coo rooo koooo 🐔  Hope he has completed paying for the car sha  |