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One Nigerian man has a Lebanese son birthed by his Nigerian wife in my hood. Everybody just dey look them. The younger children are pure Nigerian breed

He's irresponsible and junky at some point. Littered children everywhere. American wife ran with her kids.

FreeStuffsNG:
Going through his comments, I didn't see anywhere he personally took responsibility for his poor choices and his oft-repeated selfish decisions he has used to ruin the lives of others and innocent people whose only mistake and misfortune is crossing path with him in their life. Yet he blamed everyone except himself. Typical loser's way of interpreting life's setbacks. Smh.

He never finished his studies at UNILAG even when he had age, money and job on his side. He started with famed National bank but hardly settled before quitting to join Union Bank. He had barely spent a year in Union Bank before jetting out of Nigeria for unreasonable excuse to abandon a house, wife and children in Nigeria!

He got overseas and continued his life of indiscipline and at after 30 years still had nothing to show for it! He never finished even his marriage in the US, he abandoned them same way he abandoned the one he had in Nigeria before running overseas.

He has a penchant for never finishing anything he started in life! He lived an indisciplined life. The day he starts admitting his mistakes, genuinely beg for the forgiveness of innocent people he badly hurt and turn to living a disciplined life, he may recover.

There's a lot of his young version in Nigeria,
diaspora, here on Nairaland and out there, that's your old age playing out before you so.

Nothing beats self discipline and focus. Being the last born doesn't give you license to be selfish, irresponsible and insanely indisciplined. Olorun je ki ale sanwa ju owuro lo. Check my signature for free stuffs!

His irresponsible lifestyle led him here

APC

Destroyed in seconds , very fatal machines

thomasjoe:
Helping to train another man's child is not even the biggest issue .
The real issues are the heap of Emotional , Social, Financial , UNCONSCIOUS BIASES and other baggages from her past, that she is likely to continually dump at you ....and still blame you for her errors / inability to reach your expectations .
Most of them are usually more toxic than you think at the begining .
There will be exceptions though but it is what it is.

It's best you walk away asap and friend zone her .

Toto water don touch him brain

SIONKPO1:
I accepts but Single mothers I know will want to give in Everything to make the marriage work cause she knows that her Value will drop if she messes up in the new marriage.
The so called Ladies we date have mostly flushed out their Wombs through Abortion and social media has taken over their thinking

No doubt

SIONKPO1:
It's so unfortunate with how we Bash Single Mothers.
They were impregnated by we guys
Thou I know some were stupid in getting impregnated bit please let's also put into consideration that we also have sisters that may be single mothers,if we start discrimating Against them,who will marry them and lastly some guys are also baby daddy,does that mean single ladies shouldnt marry them?
@Op,Make your findings well before you upgrade the relationship .
Goodluck

It rarely ends well, they are mostly damaged. I think it affects them psychological

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

Time bomb, e get why men dey avoid single mums

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

Issues are treated immediately, she will still want to gas light you further.

Thundafireseun:
Hope you guys are all aware that Wike has never lost a single fight

Slave thinking, Godfatherism has damaged you

Prigidypogodo:
Yes he should have sacked them but I like what he did.
he's biting Wike and blowing him simultaneously.
you think fubara didn't know this will happen when he knew that all the commissioners where nominated by Wike ?
he's just being tactical here playing victim at the same attacking Wike viciously.
only someone with balls will pass that budget with only 4 HOA members.
not every governor can do that especially in a state like rivers.
Fubara is just waiting for Supreme Court judgment which is the last card of Wike.
if Supreme Court mistakenly validates fubara ehhh trust me Wike might never enter rivers again till 4 years because fubara will rain Armageddon on him.

Fubara is still gentle. Rivers state is very rich, use bullion vans and enter supreme court. Dem go believe. After that, demolish wike house and Ban WIKE from the state

okoliobinna84:
The fuse box I got from Mgbuka Obosi

Fuse box ain't enough, buy the complete wiring harness and fuse box. Don't waste your money. A experienced electrician will advise you better

Ban WIKE from Rivers state remain

Drsnives:
Am still believing God.. if all things being equal I hope to jakpa next year.. unless miracle happens that something big which am still believing God too.. I know it will be a win win for me on both case

Amen my brother

Balablu bhlu bhlu bulaba gazelle gragra ,
This one has bitten dust.

Terrorists sympathizers are Terrorists, One less problem. Suffered heart attack because of hate, tueh

Drsnives:
My friend working in Polaris bank left on student visa 2yrs ago to Canada..
Schooling and working on a water factory.. according to him he earns approximately 1.2m month.. in naira
Leaving this country is a must my guy.

No dulling

Beer 🍻 fa

Felix6:
Are you sure this is the case? I kinda feel like a court judgement has been written.

Nothing like that, let's keep fingers crossed

osuofia2:
Lol. Resign or get sacked. They choose resigning. Nothing personal.

Your mind dey there, Barman give him a chilled bottle of origin

mastermaestro:
You mean Wike caged Fubara this much? He practically appointed all of his key aides. Wike na greedy man! Fubara must wage war. Bring in political and propaganda strategists to fight this battle on all fronts.

Ha! No wonder Fubara cried out this early. Dude could not take the stranglehold anymore.

Fubara is still gentle. I for don use media war destroy wike image now. Crush those bastards, heaven won't fall

Gboom:
Gov. Fubara should have threaded gently. He should remember that without Wike's support, he wouldn't have become the governor of Rivers State. He should not allow noisemakers to push him into political oblivion. I believe this issue can still be resolved amicably to become a win-win for both parties

Fight to end, wike won't forgive him. Don't forget how wike rubbished Ameachi Rotimi. Fubara should meet Chris Ngige on how to deal with Godfathers. Fubara is still playing with snake

Charly68:
When Ambode was fighting those that installed him to power;this is how internet waz agog with wotowoto ...people were hailing the man to continue the fight until the ship was down. Those hailing Fabara today werent party to the decision that brought him to power . They werent there when Wike was protecting the governor from Efcc arrest ..

Ambode battle was close to party primaries, late into the administration and close to election. Fubaras own is at dawn, let's see how it unfolds. State governors are very powerful, those that understand what's in their hands

Benwallt:
Fubara go soon subara(shit for body) by the time Wike is done with him

Dead on arrival. Wike is finished. Wike wanted to pocket rivers state like tinubu pocketed Lagos state.
Wike has lost on two attempt hits on Fubara. Impeachment and house of assembly members decamping.
Lastly, massive sacking of WIKEs men

[quote author= post=127485970]Naija'Cover Is Following The Update[/quote]We no want bad news, bia b kiaful

Benwallt:
Fubara go soon subara(shit for body) by the time Wike is done with him

Nothing go sub. Unless Fubara doesn't understand the power at hand . Deal with rookies, crush them totally. They will literally beg for their lives. WIKE that mosquito couldn't breathe in portharcourt. A new Sheriff in town, that's the Boss. Your mind go dey

DSS1335:
This was expected of them, they were all hand picked by wike. It's better they tenderd their resignation before being showed the way out.

For the first time in 8 years, Rivers state appropriation budget was made available to the public

It's day break at last

Wikes men are goners. Replace all commissioners and political appointees. Sack all local government chairmen and councilors. Replace everything replaceable.
Heaven will not fall, Ban WIKE from Rivers state . You need to be brutal in power, don't be like ambode that was begging for peace. Replace all agberos collecting revenues. Depose any useless traditional ruler. Grab power and run with it (jagaban)

That's how to get a new structure . Sack state party chairman and excos, who's their daddy?? Men go confirm oOoOO