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ebuks4ever:
Do you need help with the fluid for your Automatic Transmission?
Drop details of your car and we will recommend the right oil for you.

2003 Toyota Camry (ATF)a.k.a Big for nothing and cost pls

All the 70s/80s people na mastubators,
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shehufaruq:
The range btw 450k - 700k

what's d cost of getting a job from Federal Character Commission FCC ,any idea pls

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Dngs:
Hello room...
Please who have an idea of how much a Nissan Pathfinder cost, and how expensive is it to maintain?
Thanks.

Don't kill your sef by ur sef.
Expensive parts and bad fuel Guzzler

Ojady:
Please note, some of these are applicable to man and woman
1. A whole lot of patience: True colours will start to emerge for hubby and you... also be patient with having babies... babies are self centred and drain out "the Tarzan and Jane" in you and your hubby
2. Be ready to change (The honeymoon is over): to be a mother to a big baby (her husband) that can talk, change his mind, annoy her and still want to Bleep later on at night
3. Be ready to lose friends (most of those her sheshere friends on the bridal train) gotta go!
4. Be ready to adopt another woman (her husband's mother) as a mother, only that, this woman can become many things in a blink of an eye ( a rival, who can do and even did all you have enrolled to do, in the life of your husband; an ally who can help you win over your hubby - if you re lucky; May you find favour)
5. Be ready to manifest undeveloped talent and skills: women are multi everything good or bad, it just depends on which is nurtured; a woman can do multiple things at ONCE; they may struggle initially, but if they hang in there, they will see many abandoned/undiscovered abilities...unfortunately it is called witchcraft amongst the ignorant
6. Be ready to experiment: in the kitchen, on the bed...trying different current practices of slay mamas... believe me, being a slay mama to an audience of one, your husband is very very easy... seduce am, do all sorts...
7. Be realistic: Married life like every thing in life has 2 sides: good, bad; light, darkness; happy, sad; Be ready to constantly realise that and adjust accordingly

Sabi woman wey get experience. More grease to your elbows

DateMynd44:
When a girl says she's in a platonic friendship with you, what does she really mean?

Is it just Casual friends with no relationship attached or Closed and deep friends to confide in with no emotions or affections or love relationship that you both are dating but absence of sex?

well I got a friend I asked her to define our friendship and she said we are just in a platonic friendship that's all. Though I like it that way cos I don't want any distractions as I don dey near to finish school so I'm battling how I'll shoot from this boundary 2:1 to first class which seems to be a Herculean task so dating and engaging on all those stuff may dampen my goal now.


Okay straight to the point, so this girl that told me we are nothing but platonic friends has some financial issues as she hasn't paid her fees as her parents are financially drained (dad got sacked, mom's business isn't flowing) so she risked suspending her studies cos she couldn't register her courses and the school fees is 50k (Course registration inclusive) and she had to struggle and hustle during the holidays and earned 20k and now needs 30k to complete an pay her fees and register her courses.

I long paid mine and there's this work that entered for me an I had 50k gain and tho I don't have any pressing needs except to boost my wardrobe and save the cash or by my mumsy a present.... But my mind and conscience is irking me that I should send her the 30k and help her out but that money is too much to give out to a platonic friend that I'm not sure I'll marry, so I should just start taking care of someone's future wife Due to the issues she's passing thru she may not be able to pay back.
so guys what's your advice in this? what's the extent of help u can give a platonic friend?
Had it been u were in my shoes would you lease out such amount of money to a platonic friend without refund

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[quote author=omachris98 post=81543666][/quote]688k annually, 49-53k monthly after deductions. Congratulations and all the best

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Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

DNA first,
dis so called wife will bring her ex to US and marry him after using you to get complete papers. D ex has seen the potential in the d relationship. Reply asap

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local man in sifia pains

what exactly are we restructuring? No government worldwide is the same. All government levels have failed us. The matter tire me ooo

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Plenty12:
I ran away from that school 2003 with bullet wound and never went back. It's still a mystery I am alive today. Very useless UST

Am speechless, I celebrate u

Flier:
Its called LOBBYING! If your king don’t do it,your city will never develop and your people won’t get their fair share
This is why you sometimes see small city getting federal university or federal polytechnic or highways passing through a tiny town

Man wey sabi . Northerners have perfected this art

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Nawa o, 18 year old boy got himself jailed for armed robbery here in jos, plateau state. He was arrested a few days to his secondary school graduation. All these generational teenagers and cultism sef.



If you can't do the time. Don't do the crime.

I celebrate you this day, I see a greater you in Jesus name. it's your day , have a blast.