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glowryhaa:
and that hasn't helped issues now has it...?

it has at least to some extent but you know it's still the house I sleep

HopeAtHand:
the bolded is thought provoking. How does one help nature fulfil karma and thereafter escape being punished by Karma. Knowing fully well that he will surely be served in his own coin, sooner or later in life!

@ Billyonaire, I also want you to kindly throw more light on this

MARKETfund:
Pls be careful who you are getting involved with.
This is an unanimous place o. Don't flip from frying pan to fire out of frustration.
This guy that his female neighbour invites into her room and naked herself and all he does is simply smile and leave could be be gay o!
Not that there are no people with such high moral standard, but he's is suspicious.
The offer of accommodation to someone you don't know? Hmmm..

Noted, I will be very careful. Thanks

andyanders:
Op, people should stop doubting you over this type of temptation. A friend of mine had similar situation some time 2004. He relocated from PH to Lagos, to stay with a very good friend of his, who had a wife he was legally married to.

They were too close as they went to same high school and college and have built a strong relationship for a long time.
As the wife saw this friend of her husband, she started asking him to sleep with her whenever the husband is not around. He narrated to me what his friend's wife wanted him to do of which he never wanted to be part of that mess.

A day came when he said he was taking his bath, the lady opened the bathroom door while he was just naked and she came in naked too and told him straight that he must sleep with her. He was shocked as he had to pull his towel and left the toilet for her. He dressed up and left the house. Later when he came back and his friend was home, he noticed this his friend started keeping malice with him and they started locking the fridge and other things in the house in order to frustrate him out.

One early morning, he came to me to tell me what happened. I was shocked and told him straight that I was proud of him for not sleeping with the woman. I had to take him straight to the bank to give him money to go get a a two bedroom flat. That was how he ran away from the Jezebel.


Op, just note that this lady can frame you up or kill you in order to get back to you for refusing her request. The best thing for you to do should be to get out of the house b4 it will turn to be something else.

I'm at a shock why some people don't believe this kind of situation can happen or is happening to me. I will get out of the house, just don't have where to move to just yet

megama:
I have lots of advice. But on the clause "somebody who is like an aunt ". Am more confused. Please be bold to tell the house what you want and what you are up to QED

i didn't say she's an aunt but rather she's like an aunt, that's the way we take her to be in our family. We are not related at all, only that her mom was my late mom's closest friend.

*Mods thanks for unbanning me from the antispam bot stuff*

magni2016:
bro will u mind staying wt me. I av a 4 bedroom apartment in Sambisa forest . Com n keep my company while we find job togeda

hahahaha... Sambisa weti? From frying pan to fire be that o, i no wan. Thank you

enemyofprogress:
Kai see free toto. Why me no dey get dis kind luck?i go fok her buratiously with anger both front and back sotey I go film her to blackmail her for her to get me better job, accommodation and monthly allowance. Please send her number to me

nothing like free toto bro, singles ladies dey no be another man's wife. Me never reason to do that kind of thing

smithsydny:
I've experience your ordeal bra

hmmmm... How u take free yaself cos dis woman don dey ma neck. I won commot sha but never see whre to stay yet

smithsydny:
I can relate to it brah.. But I no fit talk am shaa..

how do i get to knw d details bro

zolapower:
@op are u a gay ? Since u said u don't av time for single lady. If u are a born again xtian ,is quite understandable . So am thinking otherwise !

i'm no gay, a lots of things on my mind now but that isn't my major priority

jgbemson1:
bro,,,next move ..its beta u don't do it ,since it not coming from ur mind ...

I have a neighbor like that ,each she will tell me to come her see her in her room ..on getting she will pull down her bra..


I will just look and smiles...and work out ...


so stay put and look for a male to stay with ..where in lagos do u stay ?

cos I have b of help for the accommodation bro

Ok

Ekuru:
From the counsel I've been reading here right from page 1, it's not doubt majority of nairaland users are not above 25 years.

some nairalanders can be very funny, don't understand how some people reason

carzola:
please hook her up with me.. Its my occupation.. I stay in lag too..

hahahaha...occupation kini? Bros u bad o

Okoh1:
Here we go again!

hey mr.Joseph, continue been chaste. Prison awaits you and then, the husband will have a dream which you are going to be called to interpret.

You know the rest of the story nau..abi?

The husband will, at last, give you a job and you will become a high ranking officer

Anumanu!! a simple matter that demands your calculative skills is what you have brought here on nairaland. .

all hail the faithful op!!

poverty never scatter u finish.
I see it coming

rubbish.

Ask every rich man on earth today..there is a secret they will NEVER tell you. all u hear is what they want you to hear.

rubbish post

thank u sir! I understand the world is funny and some things are hard to explain but it doesn't realy mean every rich man went thro some dirty routes to break thru.

hardbody:
Your story replicates Joseph and Mrs Potiphar of Egypt

Stick to those good principles and you will be rewarded with great things just like Joseph.

hmmm...May the almighty creator uphold this

miyagi01:
Bro, if she rili needs to get laid, am sure she as male married colleagues at work dat will be willing to screw her. Dnt sleep wid another man wife, u might get caught

I won't, she's at the moment a full time house wife because her husband ordered her not to do anything but rather stay home and take care of their second child until she's of age.

glowryhaa:
She's got Sumtin up her sleeves... Avoid getting into a discussion with her.. Let everything end at greetings, ... Avoid staying at home all day.... Hope this helps tho

Yeah, I've been going out more often now but she's asks if it's because of her that I'm going out more often than before and I said no

biz2get:
Don't Start What you Can't Finish...

Keep Avoiding Her.

Try and Go Out More Often.
Not seating at home always.

And Keep Searching.

aiit, i appreciate your input

Billyonaire:
@id911

Well, my views are always dissent but I will continue to share my opinion.

Rule: - Learn to use people and take advantage of every opportunity provided by the cosmos to further your goal.

Go with the flow, but dont ever get caught. The reason is simple; You didnt start this, you have no choice except you can create one. Make her an offer, tell her, if you do it, you wont live there any more, that she needs to get you money to rent your own place and that you will refund the money later.

I got your input Sir although it looks 'here and there' but thank you

hardbody:
Are you Joseph in the Bible?

No Sir. Why that?

Chukwumeremeze:
If you are a christian or muslim, Kindly notify and explain to the head pastor/Iman in detail about your present predicament, I believe they will hook you up with a brother whom you can put up with in the interim.

Thank God for your graceful morals and disregard some of the lousy comments made here by some people, who take everything as a joke.

You will be amazed that there is a great breakthrough coming your way, and the devil wants to use this woman to knock it off your reach.

I think it's time you moved out of the house for good, and if you must stay, try and ensure you codedly record discussions you have with her going forward. Her type can go all way to frame you.


Please take off from that house . if you must trip off in morals, it shouldn't be with a married woman abeg. Prov 6:32-33

noted bro, thanks and God bless u

technicallyrich:
.nobody gives a Bleep about u in this life and ones you are broke you are damned.so there fore I will do almost anything to be rich in these world including fuckin and sucking people's wife if she can pay me well.
If they tell you what people do to be rich you will shout.anyway you are selling your market I don't want to spoil it for you.you are a good man bla bla bla

if fuckin a married person will make you rich continue bro but not me. I'll be rich naturally but certainly not thru that means. So fucck off

technicallyrich:
I have noticed that all of you come online to act all good.if truly humans are like what I'm seeing online the world would have been a better place.anyway what I can deduce from your write up is.
You are looking for a job and since you know nigeria is a religious nation with preachin of heaven and he'll you want people here to give you a job so that lack of job won't lead you to sin.

2 you have high morals so anyone that employs you in his or her organization is save.

3 you are a good man with a good heart who considers people felling.
In summary you are stylisgly marketing yourself.but I will leave you with these quote.
You can deceive some of the people sometime but you can't deceive all the people all the time.

Everyone was not brought up to be morally bankrupt like you to the extent of having sex with a legally married woman. This is the second time I've experienced such thing. The first one was very easy for me to deal with because I was managing in a school so when the same issue came up I left. This one is someone everyone in my family knows and we have had excellent relationship over many years.

I just don't want to hurt her feelings, cause a problem with our family relationships and also don't want to compromise in that aspect. It's not compulsory for you to believe or comment if you can't give meaningful advice

Dadsonval:
Your age again? Must u ask this question if its good to sleep with her or not?

You're getting it all wrong. I can't sleep with her because she is married. I just want good advise on how to stay or talk to her anytime she becomes funny until i move out without making her feel bad

Enoma222:
guy dont do it, na temptation trust me something good is coming for yuh and d devil want to use her to stop yuh pls b warn?

She's legally married so sleeping with her is out of place for me. Just don't know why she is unable to understand that. Don't want to have any issue with her until I move out of her place.

Her family and ours have been so close for ages

daben1:
Everybody want make him story reach front page... Bros, the part 2 of this your yeye story go reach front page, you hear?

Front page or no front page isn't my issue. It is only the creator that knows if there's the truth in what I've narrated

firstking01:
Don't you have family members like sisters, brothers, cousins and etc??

Of course I have but they're far away from me. No one in lag here in the position for me to stay with currently

Oyindidi:
Even with the f you still call me sir

oh, I didn't notice that. Thank you ma

daben1:
ahn ahn, bros, you wan cry?

i no cry, life is in phases. So enjoy urs because i'll enjoy mine soonest

Oyindidi:
move out of the house. I no fit blow grammar for this simple problem

Thank you ma. Working on that

smardray:
Bro, if u finish writing this story, people will think u pirated yemi my lover's film....think of another storyline..

I don't think it's an offense for one to ask for advice on what has been happening to him. Sometimes Some people may have almost similar experiences in life. I never wanted to say this out because some people like lies but abhor the truth. The reason I kept it to myself for some time now is because of comment like this and and how i can make people believe me but it so unfortunate this still came up

daben1:
see this one, na swear be this one?

I never wanted to write all these things but I only need people u may have had similar experience to tell me how they got themselves out without compromising. But u said is a fake story and someone else said is a lie and all that. That's quite unfair because you don't really know for sure what is going on around me