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ojun50:
He continued: “I see a tremendous number of divorces when husband and wife are both working and the husband loses his job… it sends them spiralling into a depression.


Men plan your life

Very important, if you have 100 naira, spend 40 naira and put 60 naira for your future else you go the regret way. No one will come to save the man, better save yourself now.

Proserpina:
That's because women are not created to be providers! Whoever loses job should get another!

I don't blame women who have this notion, I blame men for making life easy and allowing women enjoy without commiserate interest with knowing behind the scenes of how the money is made.

For an adult to have zero accountability and responsibilities for herself another must have made her to believe this rubbish mindset by throwing money at her thereby making her life easier. When you meet someone that allows you take responsibility for yourself you will start gnashing your teeth.

Mercenary123:
. You be mu.mu.

na ur papa u dey call mumu so?

SensetionalGoal:
So Chukwuma is not an Igbo name ?

Dey play!

Is it only chukwuma u saw? List all the names and call it Igbo,this is why u deceive yourself calling rivers Igbo I laugh in 3 dimensions.

vanitybutiwanti:
People do not hate the system, they only hate their place in it

That dude I replied is a known bigot on this forum, he doesn't have rights to enshrine his views on another. I had to say that to check mate him.

Mercenary123:
. So chukwuma is a Benin name from ikpoba okha local government

Dey whine yourself

I no get ur strength just do what suits your brain.

EmeeNaka:
Many Igbo names in the list. We must ensure that everyone is carried along in any multi ethnic society

Those are not Igbo names.....It's because you don't hail from Rivers State that is why you make that assertion, I could possibly tell you the possible local government each of them hail from.

SadiqBabaSani:
A Rivers assembly of 3 members

Is it your assembly? We in Rivers State are fine with it go to your region and complain.

BondRiv:
Clowns 🤡🤡🤡

Fubara and his fellow clowns are just embarrassing Rivers State and deceiving themselves. These are just imposters that should be arrested for parading themselves as commissioners, including the mugu Jumbo pretending to be a speaker. Criminals.

The authentic Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly remains Martin Amaewhule.

E pain you?

U don join wailing wailers

jojothaiv:
Women supporting women is a lie sha

Big lie

uuzba:
Having accident is wrong with celebrating new car in the village.
That's what's wrong.

Celebrating new car in the village isn't wrong, what is wrong is driving poorly on the road. Unsafe acts causes accidents on the road, unsafe acts like not using your mirrors, driving above speed limit, drinking and driving, making calls whike driving etc

agabusta:
So why did they choose Naija for Egina instead of Angola?

Egina was in the dispensation of Yaradua/Goodluck, think.

There is consequences for our actions.

helinues:
Toh

We get Dangote for here.. Food wey man go chop no go pass am

You no sabi anything oo, dangote is a major player in the downstream while Tonal energeties is a major player in the upstream. I don't expect you to understand.

Sandralight:
Divorce him he obviously don't care about you and don't listen to those men that will advice to stay because if the tables were turn, they will be the first to tell the husband to leave you.
The truth is most men can't take when they diss out, they expect women to take their cheating bullshit because to them we don't have feelings, you staying in a marriage with constant cheating will affect you mentally and emotionally in the long run, you will become a shadow of yourself and many people that goes through this usually dies young from High blood pressure and studies have shown that stress causes some cancers, do you want to keep living a life where you will be in constant stress and pain because of your husband.

I always tell people life is too short to be so unhappy, marriage is supposed to be a union, a happy union and if one is hurting the other, it's better to leave because Trust me if you cheat once you husband will never forgive you, so just leave forget all those talk of nobody want a divorce woman because they are fear mongering tactics to keep your unhappy in a loveless marriage.

Try to build yourself, become financial independent and you will surely meet the one that will make you happy and always remember life is too short to be unhappy

Equality in cheating advocate but not equality in financial responsibilities in the family. The day women bring 50 percent of the money in the marriage then I will listen to equality bullshit in cheating. Divorce am make hungry finish you . Why did you marry again? They say I want a man that will take care of my financial liabilities , a man that will buy me a car , give me money and make things easy for me is that an equal man with you? Think, when you solely wait on a man to give u money for pad what do you expect? Equality? Dey play

When it gets to your turn divorce him and go back to the trenches where you came from , this one is still enjoying freebies from men when you get married then repeat that line.

Kobojunkie:
How do you cope? Well, you are already doing just that which is accepting that what you are worth is a cheating husband who has no respect for you nor values your emotional and psychological wellbeing. That is coping right there and you are doing a hell of a job of it for that Mrs. Badge.

ENP don drop quote, OP if you like listen to people on this forum them dey find people wey go join their club

LordIsaac:
Who celebrates new car…and in the village?

What's wrong doing that in the village? Nollywood has corrupted your minds. Drive carefully you say no and you expect your vehicle not to b bashed?

Poor driving skills is the cause of 99 percent of accidents.

Jeon:
Abeg divorce, and let's breathe. Moreover they said "Marriage is no benefit to them,
They don't need love,
Women don't have anything to offer" , yet they will be clingy and asking for help once they see the wife no send their popsi.

His seeking advice but not from an ENP

cocolacec:
Nothing is wrong with your wife,you are the one looking for a zombie or a maid.Treat your wife like your best friend not a lord and his servant.

You can also help out with market runs sometimes.caring for a child is a demanding task on its own.

It's disheartening you will say your wife isn't a maid and a zombie, help her buy things from the market(gender equality) but will never tell the lady to bring 50 percent of the finances of the home why is that so? When equality is done it should be done in totality and not cherry picking

JAOS:
because na woman matter and am sure its a man that transfer the money to her

Women dey dash money to women?

Lunaloopies:
Thanks, it says exemptions are only for people who are in the military, nigerian missions and people who got their first degree at 30 and above sadly

You are not eligible for exemptions , you apply as a foreign graduate and you will be enrolled for tge service. I have someone who applied for the exemption certificate 30 years after his graduation in the USA he wanted to come back and join politics but he was rejected for exemptions because he graduated when he was less than 30 even if he was 55 at the point of application.

You go explain tire , go and tell your mentor that converted all properties in Rivers State to his to bring back our money.

Holluwhakemmy:
Thrash no word of wisdom just rubbish

An unwise one won't always have the mental capacity to discern a wise advice (Idahme., 2024)

Holluwhakemmy:
When your mates are struggling and hustling to make it in life to become something reasonable in the future you are here fornicating and happy about it. Anyway the end of a thing matters than the beginning, we shall see just continue.

Have you also struggled to make it? Or you are waiting for a man to take you out of poverty? If the latter is the truth then you need to start struggling like your mates to make it

Go and work like your mates, do this to that , women will never do what they give to men as advice

orohbiro:
pls don't generalize women there are still decent once like us . zubby is very stupid if u ask me him too no dey run paroo y is he been an hypothetical in all these

I hate it when you bring equality to discussion , him no dey run parole? Why do ladies always bring this line but when e reach financial responsibility and accountability all of una go run enter una hole?

Men have standards and can't be compared by bringing equality into the discussion because equality without financial equality is no equality at all. A man who has had plethora of partners has the rights to seek a virgin just as a broke leech desires a rich dude for herself that's how life works.

Women will want something for themselves but won't when their sons is in the picture

chopnaira:
Fergie001 is a PDP supporter. Whereas helinues is an APC supporter.

There is nothing you can ever do to satisfy Ibo posters on Nairaland. They always play victim online and offline.

Bigot Nairaland chapter good morning , how did you know he is an Igbo?

helinues:
Na supermarket price you dey display here. How many Nigerians buy from supermarkets?

Modified: ebukajay184, unfortunately the notorious trollers on the forum derail this thread for you.

Hope mods would take care of them sha

This guy you get sense at all? Which one is supermarket price? How many people go to the regular market to buy stuff? Supermarket is even cheaper than most regular market when I new this was when I did a comparison between marketsquare prices and that of the other market . Even though there is difference it's usually in the range of +-5%>

Indeed you are lost in the wind, in your mind you are making sense but you are going downhill in critical thinking skills.

DaddyCoool:
See below and stop talking nonsense

Read what you posted, your problem is comprehension you need to upgrade your critical thinking skills as well as your comprehension skills. Even the Google page your uplifted clearly states that urine has odour but ignorant you is still arguing .

More water reduces the ammonia and dilutes it , did you hear eliminates it? it only reduces the odour but never eliminates the odour.

I remove my hands for your matter, you are irredeemable

DaddyCoool:
See below and stop talking nonsense

Didn't you Read from the first sentence that urine normally has an odour? What does it mean to you? Mayo clinic one of the finest in the world also buttress that point. I new that was what you will cite for me that is why I left Google search for you and I gave you one of the finest authority in the world from in medicine Mayo clinic. From the first sentence you should understand what they meant. Consumption of more water only reduce the concentration of the urine thereby reducing the odour but not eliminating the odour. Urine is not odourless

DaddyCoool:
Total lie.
Even light urine no dey smell when it first come out, talkless of water urine which comes out practically as water

I no dey talk with people wey their ignorance don reach heaven ooooo, I go just help you but if you say you no want to learn them there is nothing I can do to help your situation.

All urine smell, publication from Mayo clinic to prove my point. Educate yourself

https://www.mayoclinic.org/symptoms/urine-odor/basics/definition/sym-20050704

DaddyCoool:
Lie.
My urine no dey smell if I drink plenty water

When someone stay around a place where they throw dirts for so long he will no longer smell the offensive odour coming out of the waste. All urine smell wether you drink plenty water or not.

yarimo:
Always good at attending event that he was not invited

Give the phone back to your father.

Procashtips:
Learn the art of never allowing your wife know your full worth.

My wife still believes I have millions hidden somewhere because of how how behave.

With this, they're always confused on wether to misbehave or not.

I agree 100%>