₦airaland Forum

Dpharisee:
That boy made a big blunder taking sides in the conflict between his parents.

Igbos have a proverb that if a son thinks he has come of age and decides to lift his father off the ground, the Blokos that was used in impregnating his mother will block his vision.

I love this proverb.... Ogini di

extol1:
Emefiele should die in the prison, I don't case. Imagine, he has the temerity to be carrying Bible to the court. God will punish him. In fact CBN is a useless institution in Nigeria for highest bidder

If south East people catch you. Emefiele no di any wrong o in their eyes, infact cos of Emefiele, Buhari regime is the best regime, he built 2nd Niger bridge. Buhari can never be wrong to the South East people.

MadamExcellency:
They should link the routes to all the companies in Aba as previously done before the breakdown. Unilever, PZ, Johnson, Equitable etc have tracks inside the factories for the transportation of finished goods. That was what made Aba special. Aba had well connected Gas lines and train tracks to Factories.

Unna wey get money to connect companies, to connect to national track should nt be a problem.

seborrhic:
But won't it be factored that the kids were left in the cold for that long?
I know the worst offence is child abuse or neglect.
This story get as he be unless the man is not telling the truth.Leaving kids out in the cold because they cannot access their home due to the woman's absence,is even the woman in this case that should be scared shitless that the story doesn't get out.

Woman wey dey ontop another dick wey dey sweet am no dey reason her kids. At that point, she no send

10thTenthMan:
The thing is most men do not know.

And when I say so, I am not exaggerating. Many of us do not know what our women will do once they have financial power and autonomy. A place where they are far away from societal and cultural demands, controls and expectations. A place where divorce isn’t frowned at and in fact the woman stands to gain from the separation.

No MAN CAN COME HERE OR SHOULD COME HERE TO VOUCH FOR HIS WIFE OR SPOUSE OR GIRLFRIEND.

E GO SHOCK YOU!!!

That women you think you know in Nigeria IS NOT THE SAME PERSON Abroad. Na two different people. It has nothing to do with Church, religion, denomination, tribe or ethnic group. We don see separation within all forms from Catholic, Deeper Life, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Hausa, Yoruba, Ijaw, Igbo etc.

IT IS A RISK THAT ALL MEN MUST PLAN FOR, ACCEPT AND KNOW PROPER MITIGATION MEASURES TO TAKE.

My advice. Factor this possibility of your spouse (husband or wife) misbehaving when you sponsor them or both of you support yourselves to go abroad.

The one wey I hear recently, Husband ask wife “Are you Mad” for not answering her calls for almost 6 hours and the kids were stranded outside the house in winter.She was no where to be reached. The man was afraid that neighbors might call child protective service people which will lead to questions and issues.

When she eventually picked and he told her the situation she did not bother to hurry. She said she is in Walmart. He informed her that Walmart has free Wi-Fi and he has been calling her on WhatsApp for over 6 hours and she didn’t pick. He informed her that the kids are stranded and neighbors are seeing them outside.
When he called her back like 30 minutes latter she was still claiming she is at Walmart and had not made any efforts to go home to the kids. He scolded her and asked if she is mad to not have immediately gone home to open the door for the kids.

The “Are you Mad” don cause quarrel wey people Dey pray Dey watch and hope say the woman get her sense back.

The woman dey nack one dick as the man dey call, which yeye Walmart. Make men just travel alone, when your child reaches 14 years old, dey bring them abroad one by one. Forget all these shit.

shiwex:
My Bro.....you missed the point....The issue about abroad is not that someone is looking at your wife or not. The issue is about females having more rights than the males. Females are valued more than males..so they dictate the order of the day. The issue is about your wife whether she is old or young exercising some yeye rights she does not have in Africa. It does not mean that someone is eyeing your wife.

Don't dismiss this pls, sometimes it's extra marital relationships that these women may have engaged in that made them change towards their partner and the laws are r easily there to achieve whatever they plan in their mind.

jaxxy:
I think think men need to know how to address their displeasure with their partners without being offensive or escalating the issues.

How hard is it to have a civil conversation with ur partner or better yet a woman who bore u 3kids?

Why are u afraid she may send u out of the house in future just after a month of joining her?

Most of this is due to ineffective communication skills and then we allow the issue to fester and resentment to grow.

When they serve you breakfast, we go see how good a communicator you are.

Kingpele:
Deep ....I see alot of childish comments and am confuse how people will still bring personal stuff here...however my brother ,my advise is for u to give yourselves chance to adapt to your new environment...selfishness and greed is not good at all for marriage .....you only wanted to lay low so as to get paper next year common that's selfishness....u should take it easy and sake ways to earn respect and trust from your wife ...with it u could build lasting union even in Uk

Your Mumu is very exemplary. For your mind now , you don help OP.

Emaprince:
You should be ashamed of yourself.

The oppressors are impoverishing the people and weaponizing poverty. Feeding them crumbs to appear as good leaders just to win their supports during election. Instead of giving them power supply, good water good roads, good health care system, education and the necessary things that will ease life and empower its citizens, they will rather make sure the masses remain poor so no challenges can spring up from unexpected quarters.

You as an evil human deem it a great thing...because you can't see past political or tribal differences. Even when your brothers are marching on top themselves to go beg for crumbs, you are applauding their oppressors.

Shut that dirty mouth of yours. How e take oppress your papa? How e take impoverish you? He held your hands from working? You will just open your mouth wa wa wa with hatred dey yearn shit dey call am talk. Them curse you with useless ness ni? Abeg take your shit talk to Ariaria and park well. Useless people with rubbish mentality. E no dey tire una? Better go commit suicide now cos if this guy com win next election , na absolute depression for you and your people. Get a life and stop masturbating over Tinubu, if he is not doing it well, you too contest and win an election to make the changes yourself. Till then, close that cockroach infested pit toilet that you call mouth. Ise!

Lovemeharder:
Fine man

Such man won't love you harder, he can however...... You harder.

AbuTwins:
Diezani Alison-Madueke, Emefiele and their cronies should be the richest in Africa!

$9Bn!

Only that Forbes does not recognize or respect stolen ill-gotten wealth.

Whalis:
Did you observe that anyone there has a name and sources of income?
No headminer. No yahoo boy. All these don't pay.

You forgot to add that no drug trafficker in the list as well.

Enemiesmasquera:
Buhari and Tinubu are the worst mistake Nigerians have made in their history. Very corrupt and ineptitude

In our democratic dispensation, no government have surpassed Goodluck Ebele Jonathan's government in corruption and theft by cabinet. Deziani alone stole 90 Billion USD and you are here shouting Buhari, yes Buhari government reeks of corruption and Emefiele capped it up for him as one of the most corrupt regime ever in the history of our country, yet it's nowhere near GEJ corruption infested regime.

Cut Tinubu some slack, dude has not been there for a year, you are already calling his govt corrupt.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8XJYMGcqEU?si=50JkuRnr998uygu6


According to Frank Edoho a man may cheat and remain in love with his partner, not the one he cheated with. However, it's asserted that a woman cannot be in love with someone and then go on to cheat.

Hot-body, jealousy and the hurt of feeling cheated on which are all correct anyway, will not allow women to treat this as a fact. They think it's men trying to defend their bad behaviour. In the end, men will chose polygamy if they have the chance.

Ewedegubbler:
Helpless kee u dia.
Where they not offered independence at the same time Israel was offered? What did they do, reject it and then started stupid wars that they’ve never won.

Helpless my foot

Why are you taking it personal? Are you a jew? Be civil you are in a public forum. Let your education amount to something good.

[quote author=lanre316 post=127569761][/quote]The Germans who did the holocaust are not terrorist, but the Palestinians who had their lands taken, villages destroyed, thousands of them murdered are the terrorist. Give them what has been forcibly taken from them, return to the border as agreed by the international community and see if they care about anything going on in Israel.
When was Hamas charter drafted? What led to their charter? You want them to keep quiet while Israel silently kill their own race? There should be no response from them?
The history of the region is not so difficult to understand, just don't take side while reading, the occupier and the occupied are very clear to see.

emmyN:
Palestine had no land.

okay.

They don't even exist.

mikeapollo:
Who were the first people to settle on the land, between Israelis and the so called ''Palestinians''?
Did the world and its history begin in 1948? What happened in 1948 was an effort to remedy what had happened thousands of years earlier when the Romans expelled the Jews from their land, and the Ottoman empire later conquered the land and Arabs took over everywhere and the Jews became a minority in their own land.
Even the Koran in chapter 5:20-21 says the land of Israel is given to the Jews through Moses! Yet the Arabs don't want Israel to exist becuase of their hatred and jealousy

Religion is the reason for 80% of the wars fought globally and bloodiest of them. If you want peaceful world, remove your dogmatic religious belief that you are not expected to question or reason beyond what written in a book and told to you in mosques and synagogues/churches.

So, where should the Palestinians go now? To your village? I mean how mean can we possibly be? Put yourself in their shoes.

mikeapollo:
So in your head, everything about Israel started in 1948?
When did Kings David, Solomon, Hezekiah etc. rule over Israel and Jerusalem? Was it in 1948 too?
What do you know about the history of Israel and their land before 1948?

And Buddhist, Shintoist, Eckankar, Buddhism, Confucianism, Hinduism, Jainism, Judaism, Shinto, Sikhism, Taoism, and Zoroastrianism etc should believe what is written in your own book because you follow it as the reason why another race should be obliterated?
Who wrote the Bible? And why should we use it as the justification for the treatment of the Palestinians? Why should we use it as a reason for their suffering and mass killings?

If you think what is going on over there is just, that's you, not me. And when they call righteous and just people, please don't consider yourself one.

lanre316:
No. Start from 70 AD.

Israelites are the original occupants of the land of Palestine from the Mediterranean Sea to the Jordan River. [/b]They were persecuted and forcefully exiled from their lands by the Roman Empire.[b] The Arabs took over the land. The original owners came back for their properties in 1948.
Don't try to rewrite history.

So how is this the fault of the Palestinians? If they have any scores to settle, they should go to the Germans who did the holocaust or Rome, to the Romans who exiled them.

The land upon which you stand or sit typing right now, do you know which people or the culture or civilization that thrived on it at 70 AD? May be they are in another country now, or spread across Africa, if they should now quote one book that you probably don't believe in, that the book said your own ancestral land where you are now, that you and your people have ever know and lived on for centuries is actually their and you have to leave, and for 75 years, you and your people have been under constant bombing, village burning, military occupation and sieges. Would you say that is a justifiable claim?
The solution is still a two-state solution. Nothing more.

If the jews can lay claims to lands they left since 70 AD, as far back as 70 AD, how many thousands of year's ago is that? How many generations ago is that? and that is justifiable or sound just to you, then all land sized by military campaigns and wars must be returned back to their original owner. Australia should go back to the Aborigines, US back to the Indians, California and New Mexico back to Mexico etc.

Isreal should should recognise her neighbors right to exist independently, centuries of war, tons of bombs can not bring peace, only justice and respect brings peace.

I say again, don't try to rewrite History.

Sunday2021:
Jews didn't start in 1948. Jews were there since over 3000 years. Go and read the history of the Jews.

I am familiar with the History more than you think I do. I don't bow to religious or racial superiority or God's chosen biases. Strictly the truth.

Why do they have to be resettled in the area in 1948 by the British Balfour declaration if they have been there since Adam and Eve period?

How many centuries has the Palestinians spent on that same land? Both set of people have a genuine claim to that land and it should be divided between them. All the Israeli settlement is illegal, they should withdraw back within the UN Resolution UN-recognized borders. That's the first step towards peace.

lanre316:
Hamas attacks Israel - the world is silent

Israel retaliates manifold - the whole world is condemning Israel.

Israel on the other hand does not care what anybody thinks about them.

Alright, let's just wait and see how things unfold in the coming months/years.

Start from

Israel was established on Palestine land after the burning of their towns and villages since 1948. That's when the who wahala started. Don't try to rewrite history

nairalanda1:
Anyone hailing Angola on leaving OPEC...should know it is bad news for Nigeria.

Oil prices fell on the news. Know what that means? It means Angola is free to produce and pump as much oil as it wants without any pesky OPEC quota...which means lower oil prices long term because of the resultant glut.

Angola is also free to sell crude at a lower price than the OPEC benchmark if it wants...especially if it needs the money now. (That's part of how Russia survives US sanctions, sports fans).

This weakens our revenue stream drastically, meaning we have to take more and more loans, or the government would have to raise your taxes well well, in the short term at least.

So, don't rejoice.

Modified

The thing that even scares me is the fact that everyone is discovering oil. Zambia, Uganda and even Benin have all found oil. Yes, it is not as high as Nigeria, but more oil in the market means lower prices for oil...which means lower revenue.

Modified 2

Know who benefits from a glut induced low crude price? Europe and the USA. It enables fuel prices there to fall, and their governments benefit as a result.

Nigeria needs to go back to heavily mechanized Agriculture and technology, over dependent on oil is no longer helping her growth.

naptu2:
What does that have to do with sukuk bonds (cheap finance for infrastructure)?

Is the United Kingdom an Islamic country?

This is the UK Government's sukuk bond offering.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/uk-sovereign-sukuk-plcs-offering-circular--2

You dey mind the mad bigot. Are his tribal girls Islamic girls when they travel to Arab countries to gaggle shit and szck hairy balls for dollars?
cenaman

Ulunne777:
None.
They need their mom and their sister.

Leave your pride and [/b]whatever the mother did to you[b] and unite those triplets.

They need a family.yoi,their mom and 3 of them.

I have a serious problem with the bolded. If it happens to be a woman posting this, your reply will be different. What is the offence of the male gender? It's okay for woman to leave a dysfunctional marriage but it's not okay for a man to do same. Nawa for you o

Paystack:
Wetin u from all the Way Tanzania go find for where Hamaz the?


They see you as a house cockroach


Even cockroach has a better chance of surviving there than an African

Even for Israel, his chance of survival is zero

verybadmouth:
Which kind demon possess this one now. If pastor D. K Olukoya handle this pervert with better deliverance ehhh

Ha! He will spread your pastors asssssss open and faaack it. Better stop that rabish and think straight.
Why you no do the deliverance? Why risk your pastor assshole while you keep and cover yours with boxers?

D4gmail1:
No insult meant, This alone says a lot why your life is the way it is. You live life as it comes.

Where’s your passport?

I misplaced it. I declared it missing and the British Government replaced it, but it went missing again. I went back for the passport and I was told that I was careless with the British property and that it wouldn’t be replaced for me.

God bless you. That passport would have saved him now. He will just book ticket and move to the UK first before going to the US to reunite with his children

Also, he never took care of his Nigerian child and wife. Karma came for him

casualobserver:
Run away, woman scarce for market?

You can never be a priority to a woman with a child….even when the child is yours.

1. When there is a problem she will remind you that you are not the father. Even you the man, the day you have problems you will start behaving or even telling her you are doing her a favour by taking her on with a child. When she doesn’t have time for you because of the child (children are time consuming) you will become resentful because the child is not yours. As time goes on you may start to feel you shortchanged yourself and resentment may start to build.
2. Do you want to have a child with her such that your child’s mother has children from different men?
3: a woman who is divorced or has had a child outside wedlock is not likely a woman who values a stable relationship and so is unlikely to go the extra mile to rough the hard times that will come in any relationship.
4. All women are sweet in the beginning, all women bring problems. So select a woman without baggage. A woman will not see a broke man and a secure man and choose a broke man because he is more attractive. Women select partners with their brains, learn something from women and stop choosing partners based on emotion.

Run away from a woman with a child, run an additional distance from a woman with a child who is prepared to move herself and her child into the house of a man she is not married to.

OP after this advise, nothing more again. Na you know now o

GOFRONT:
You fall for a single mother.......Okay but be wary of Okafors law of CongoElasticity

Okafor's Law of Congo Dynamics, very potent and effective.

gameova:
Good afternoon sir, compliments of the season. Please can you assist me with any amount to buy foodstuffs please I'm starving 🥺. God bless you.

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

It is my dream too, but I got married before the social media revolution. Now, the dream is unachievable....... Though religiously I can have a second which I am not open to, but no caucasian would want to marry to be a second. So, my dream of having mixed kids may be long gone.