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Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me

Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.

He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room

My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .

Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.

We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do

Stop sleeping apart as husband and wife. It's the course called Introduction to divorce ITD 101.

Then have strong conversation with him

Ewedegubbler:
Helpless kee u dia.
Where they not offered independence at the same time Israel was offered? What did they do, reject it and then started stupid wars that they’ve never won.

Helpless my foot

Ignorance is bliss, especially when you think your Ignorance is helping your god's prophesy. Your biases still does not change the truth and facts one bit.

Floky215:
The israel issue is completely different from that of South Africa...!!

How can you co-exist with other person whose sole aim in life is to exterminate you....?

Answer that and have peace...!!

No it's not.
And don't try to normalize your unjustified support for violence against an helpless people after almost an hundred years of displacement and subjugation.
Don't abuse our intelligence here. You are free to hold your biased opinions,but don't sell it to us pls.

JASONjnr:
Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.

Remove the spoil. Why does he need to spoil her on first date. First date should be normal reasonable amount of food and drink and alor of getting to know each other. Thats the way to do it

Nnewison:
Yorubas makes use of their language than igbos do that is just the case, an igbo,most igbos I mean will not speak their language but igbos are everywhere as I have been to few countries ,I stand to be corrected

Nnewi blood.

Yes, US statistics are fake. We agree with you , wholeheartedly. No argument

opamoses1:
Some 🤡s like to say "Yorubas don't travel".

We just don't travel to unsafe regions. That's all.

You have killed the table like Hamas killing spree in Israel. Ipob Igbo Christians in severe pains.

Disclaimer12:
I am Emeka Benedict,

The true Emeka will not comment.

He is an IPOB member.

LadyRosa2:
Few eat their cake and have it.
But so many eventually regrets especially at old age.

The story is bitter sweet. Bitter for all the hurts and suffering, sweet because they ended so well and i am happy for them.
Now, i want to add a new perspective to our discussion, but i am afraid only men will understand. The thing is men should be more responsible, and when a woman get the chance to hook a man that already has a family, women should stop preventing them from caring for their first wife and children. You know a man is with family and you decided to hook him, and still want to have him like he is a full single man without a prior spouse or children. This is what women who entered a home as second wife do. It has to stop. A friends step mom was claiming she has no iyale, first wife in Yoruba. In the story you narrated, having taking over the man totally and prevented a proper cohesion of the first wife family unit with their father she still left the man when the life was difficult.
If you marry a married man, let them take care of their first family, stop the juju, nagging, calling first wife witch(if she be witch you no go fit snatch her huby so rest) and stop preventing them from caring for their loved one.

Las las, Na women still dey do women!
Just some of the thoughts that came to mind.

The reason why the condemnation is not cost it's injustice and infringement of her human rights to lock her up over no issue. All the shout it's cos she is a Christian and those afflicting her are muslim people. It's a religious support. If it's muslim that is facing this injustice, these people won't say nothing, the person is muslim and not their own, so can die in prison.

If i lie, the support that Israel gets against the palestinians is not cos she is right, most christians know Israel is killing innocents, displaces people and oppresses them, but they feel it's the country of Jesus christ, so whatever they do over there, is god's doing and they should be able to get away worth it.

Our mentality needs to change. We need to support justice and condemn what's is wrong not cos it support our biases but cos it justice and protected human rights

Free Rhoda now!
Stop injustice

VeryWickedGoat:
The neighbours just peeping through their windows in disgust at the Black Monkey family acting bush.

You are really not only a very wicked goat. A pissed one too

KingKO22:
What more recognition do you need when the white photographer was the one who cleared the uncultured woman

Real leaders don't need introduction or photography to make impact


Asiwaju has passed that level of photography even before he becomes president, many of them visit him personally

IPOB are free to cry 🤣🤣😀

You have at least more 500 years before you can be considered as true patriotic Nigerians

Knockout blow! IPOB miscreants in sivia pains.

Akoasi:
why does Hamas have so many child terrorist ?

And why are they coward to take responsibilities for their terrorism act.

Religious bigotry and Ignorance is deceptive bliss. Enjoy! It however does not change the reality or the truth. A people's terrorist is another s freedom fighter.

clefstone:
that Christ has died, Christ is risen and Christ will come again

Okay, i thought you will say something new. I have been hearing this before i was born. He is not coming to anywhere. He has gone and left your sinful world for you. Why will he leave heaven and come back to this hell full of in justice and horror? So that you can kill him and shed his blood the second time? Or betray him again like judas did the first time ?

You will say no right? Are you not part of people that said killing 15,000 people is okay to avenge the murder of 1400 people cos they are God's Chosen ? They can kill you ma sef just cos they are God's chosen?

Now, about the message, how is that going to create industries, tar roads, build stable electricity , create jobs and reduce the no of poor people.

The earlier we leave religion alone the better. Have a personal relationship with God, but anything that has to do with organised religion, my hand no dey.

clefstone:
probably because we haven't had the privilege of getting that true message hence my initial comment that the world earnestly needs it. We wouldn't need what we already have, right?

Okay, let's assume we don't know. What is the true message of God ?

clefstone:
do you know that the true message of God will produce all these things and more?

It has not produced any of it in the last 60 years.

clefstone:
to what use will industries and infrastructure be to you in 100yrs time?

It will feed the booming population with more than half of it youths will be engaged with jobs, it will reduce the rate at which they engage in social voices that damages them, give them hope that with hard work and right vocation, skills and education, they can have a better life and future. Improved standard and quality of life. That's what it will bring in 100 years.
They can be a better follower of God's words in the long run.

But if we keep building 200,000 capacity workshop centers while people go on empty stomach, bad roads everywhere, politicians looting the govt to death but brings part of it to the church for blessings etc.

Nigeria will remain the way it is.

kestolove95:
Don't let anybody kill the... The system will set them free after meeting bail conditions...
R. I. P Mohbad

That does not mean they won't serve the time if found guilty. It's just bail.

clefstone:
As long as he preaches the true message of God which this world desperately needs, no problem

What the world is in desperate need of , especially Africa is industries and infrastructures. We all know the true message of God already, it's God who gave us the free will to decide whether to follow it or not.

Sultty:
woe betide anyone supporting this evil chai. Naija don spoil patapata sotay na Kuwait; a country before now nothing is known about it #smh and as it is going boys go soon be going to taliban's afghanistan

Go and read about Kuwait. It's a very very good country. Strong currency and vibrant economy. The standard of living is quality, though expensive. Just that they are not too open to Africa ns.

Matinox:
OP, if you know the rottenness & corruption that's eating up the Nigerian Correctional Service, you will change the objective of your journalism towards her

Please enlighten us

NewBoyKhashoggi:
Hey !

I like your honesty . But nevertheless i will not support entering America via illegal means . But let me clarify to you that the US embassy is still granting visa to anyone going for conference IF THE PERSON SATISFIED THE REQUIREMENTS.

2. If you got your visa to attend the conference and you board a plane and land in America then YOU HAVE NOT ENTERED AMERICA ILLEGALLY. or YOU DID NOT ENTER AMERICA ILLEGALLY because the US embassy gives you visa and you board a plane to enter their country. Therefore, they have your bio-data.

3. Those who entered the US illegally are those who crossed borders from Mexico, Canada etc or those who came via boat or ship from the Carribbean. They do not have any documented BIO DATA in the US database.

I always listen to positive advice because some people will make things looks like you WANT TO GO TO THE MOON 😊 .

But please 🙏 don't do anything illegal.

Sure, my plan is to visit and apply for study.

AyoGolden:
Easier said ,than done.

That thing na political statement. No Prison will admit anyone without court commitment warrant.

If you are innocent and have not committed any crime and found yourself in Prison, then the Police has many question to answer.

Why did they arrest the innocent? Why did they take an innocent man to court?
Why didn't the court discover his or her innocence?
Why did the court found the innocent guilty and sent them to prison with a warrant?

flourishing247:
You can check with your association. That's the easiest way to get reputable conferences that can help improve you in your career. If the conference is for japa purposes then forget it. It won't work.

Thanks for responding , the conference is actually for Japa.

Is the US embassy not granting visit visa based on conference anymore?

NewBoyKhashoggi:
Hey !

No I never meant to insult you indirectly , in all honesty even some professors , bankers , lecturers and teachers at time does not know that they can easily get a link quickly via search machine or tools like Google.

For example , do you believe that i have a friend whose daughter wanted to do something with NNPC and the person was asking about the website ? I said type NNPC on Google period ! He is an MSc holder , he is educated but just waiting for the website which is fine ...but he can just easily type NNPC on Google...do you get ?

I am awfully sorry anyways 🙏

No problem bro. I can understand you better now. Good morning .

NewBoyKhashoggi:
Hey !

Google it yourself if nobody is coming forth . Every genuine international conference MUST register with Google otherwise it is not internationally recognised.

But if you don't know how to use internet then let us know 😊


There is God . Don't give up .

Okay, thanks.

You sha use style abuse me small abi lol 😆

No wahala.... Na something wey man dey find dey turn man to mumu lol 😆

Hello! any link to an International Conference on Corrections, Prisons, Inmates or Policing in any state in the US?

ONEjoblessGUY:
Why is dis stewpid xenophobic god damned south Africa........the only Africa putting this for head.........
country we modern slavery wan finish sef......

Not everyone is biased, blind to the truth, dumb to verify both sides and fanatical religiously like you. Religion or not, christian or muslim or hindu or Judaism, black or white or yellow, rich or poor, powerful or weak, weapons or not, state or non state actors. International laws , human rights , law and order must be upheld.

It's a court, until proven guilty, Israel is still presumed innocent. So, don't get worked up unless you feel Israel is guilty of war crimes already.

But this is not good for Israel reputation at all.

naijapikin2:
the obidient movement gained momentum after tinubu was (s) elected.

Loot

Steal
.loan

I still believe in the obidient movement.

Thanks for your time.

It gained momentum after Obi left PDP for Labour Party and the social media believes he is the best politician. Unfortunately, he lost the election.

We all have political free will. Thanks for your time as well.

Padipadi:
They v just started. Infact may UK economy crash. Those mofos are lenient to Asians than Africans especially India. The usefulness of Nigeria to UK pas India own. It's India this, India that. They ditched Kemi Badenoch to accept Rishi Sunak abi na Rich Snacks.
Charles no like Nigerians. Wished Lizzy didn't die. That dependant visa wey dem cancel for still dey.
Those same Asians are biting them protesting for the oloriburuku Hamas people.
UK and US ori yin buru o!
Una no see Nigerians that really will not betray you mofos!
Do normal to Nigerians n let ya country v peace.
In UK, it's Indians, Lebanese and Arabs that do fraud pass.

You dont look like them, you are Black.

KillahPriest:
the way you agbado people just drag out lies from una anús baffles the Niger Delta man in me non stop.
Use Nairaland as your search template and you'll see majority of those who attacked Osinbajo for daring to contest APC primaries were SW APC miscreants. How do you in a normal world confidently say Obidients were against Osinbajo ? A man who endeared himself to Nigerians irrespective of tribal leanings in the short period he held executive power when transmitted to him ?
Even a Raji Fashola would have been widely accepted and all this $460k drug forfeiture, Government College Lagos and Chicago State drama wouldn't have come up at all, they're upstanding men and the agbadorian way of standing logic on its head when it comes to integrity is an insult to upstanding men worldwide. Una dey cap careless o and you also have the guts abi na confidence to say who will loot and who will not because you're deputy angel Gabriel Try traveling round the country and really integrating with people a bit before making sweeping statements.
Carry the cross of your candidates shameful performance in government so far and stop telling people how their own candidates would have been a catastrophe just like yours. As it stands, even Bubu na genius for where Bulaba dey and I'm not even capping

You are entitled to your political opinion, i am entitled to mine as well. Have a nice day.

naijapikin2:
let me give you a peephole into naijapikin. I'm from the middle belt, with maternal yoruba blood, and live in the FCT. Some igbos I know here supported tinubu. Haven't you heard of the fake Bishops hired to hoodwink Nigerians? Well some took their efforts to the polling booths. As well as others who in their own personal way franchised freely for tinubu. My line of work brings me in contact with people of all tribes, so I know this for a fact.

In summary I believe in the obi mandate. I also believe that, had the apc selected osinbajo, many obidients would have swung in the direction of the ex VP.

Just my 2kobo🤔🤔

You don't have up to a million people in your contact, so it's still not strong enough to say candidates are evenly supported. I am not even talking about individual supported now atleast APC and PDP have presence in all states and their members will support.

But, i am speaking of states won. How many non Eastern candidates won in the East?

It's absolutely your political right to believe in a candidate. No one should have any issue with that.

Also Obidients were not in support of Osinbajo, they saw him as took weak, cos he was not looking like he has 6 packs, on confront his principal, he was even mocked and called fake pastor. So, where is the preference?

To an outsider, Obidient is National political movement, to the South East it is their Ethnic Political Revolution. And i am yet to see any special political attribute of Obi, he is like every other Nigerian politician, if selected he will take loans, he will loti, his appointees too will loot, masses will cry, like others a little project here and there, and 8 years will finish and the cycle continues.

KingAzubuike:
Many people don't know obi is richer than tilunbu.

Chop the life of your head obi. We dey your back.

Lol 😆

Infact, he is richer than Nigeria.