₦airaland Forum

When will some ladies learn issues of life and relationships?
I just developed head ache reading this kind of story.

Tomorrow, u hear they will say, "men are heartless and wicked " and "all men are the same"

I once read on nairaland how a fish will see hook and bait, she thinks she's smart enough to eat the bait and escape the hook.

Am also surprised at some conciusions people draw from incidences.

Anyway, @op, if this gist is true
1. Are u returning to ur ex because u wanna get married.

If yes, do you wanna marry a cheat believing he has changed.
If yes, anything you shall see pls endure it

Like you said your new guy has made plans to meet your parents, (well, some folks have already concluded he has hidden agenda ), for me you have been friends before and you know him, he knows you, perhaps that's why He's acting fast.
Also understand men are emotionally immature at initial stages of relationships that could also explain his actions.

If you are not comfortable with it, talk to him, ask him to slow down, so both of you can build the friendship and ensure a strong foundation(there are problems "so Called LOVE " WILL NOT solve in marriage, but If the foundation is right, with wisdom and maturity it can be solved.

Finally, pls don't be in a hurry, ensure the man you put up with has your core values, never again act blind to wrong signs, pray and have peace inward before you decide

NEVER GET MARRIED OUT OF PITY and don't rule out God in things you do, esle you're on your own.

Best regards.

dytbabe: Very very well
Infact with bare knee sef
I know am troublesome so we will always have sweet arguement
To appeal him, good cokked and uncooked meal, kneel and cry

Lol, good but don't conciously look for trouble o o

Houseofglam7: My thoughts exactly.

, hi

yhermmie: so funny

Lol, its not funny, you won't understand,

MzMariah: Really? please tell me about it.

my good friend, how u de? what do you wanna hear, in my case i almost walked majestically into gutter because i decided to look into the sky

2sExy1: smh

Sup, how u doing?

Houseofglam7: Yes I can.
Most relationships are ruined coz of pride.

So True, kneeling won't change who u are

Seriously guys have experienced such too. Not ladies alone

Houseofglam7: I'm good, u?

Good evening dear

MissIndependent: Lol we were close to 2000 pages before Seun's hackers ate up all the pages.

Thats nice

Wow, wonderful house,
1000+pages and still counting

Miss you guys

Congrats to those that survived the last NL shut down

Bigsteve: 1.Open your eyes:
Don’t shut yourself off from the world, be accessible.

2. Look inside:
To be good company, you must learn how to successfully stand alone.

3. Be patient:
your attractiveness drops when you’re too eager to get hitched.

4. Grow, improve, but don’t change:
people lower their standards, pretend to be who they are not, and disregard their values only to be heartbroken !

Point blank, lovely write up

odavo: Alama please don't take this personal come and do this in FUTO, and let see if you will even make first class

You guys are funny, even if she comes to FUTO, she will make, it may not be 4. 99,

You need to understand the environment is different.
Some Nigerians are doing well in foreign universities because of the environment and ciriculum

Do you wanna compare laboratory, lecture halls, quality lectures even health wise.
In FUTO, u even have lecturers who are happy if you fail, etc.

Stop hating, you too could perform well if you were in CUniversity.

[]quote author=Brymo]If she made that C.G.P.A, in FUT MINNA, then i would take this as a feat, but in P.unis. Its cheap, for all i care.[/quote]

kennygee: Let a federal university set an exam for her, if she justifies her CGPA, then i can congratulate her.
if not, it's just a CU thing.

ideology: Cool, but Seriously some ladies on Nairaland pass this people. Only 4passed my analysis

Anambra, kastina, Ekiti and Kogi

Cool, but Seriously some ladies on Nairaland pass this people. Only 4passed my analysis

Special regards to all those married or soon to be married who met through social media, really inspiring stories, lessons to learn.

missmayorall: met him two years ago via nairaland

This is beautiful

Houseofglam7: Lol.
Or groundnut oil sef

Lol, u are in the spirit, G/oil Will be cheaper

Houseofglam7: We go use my head as mirror for house.
That should save plenty of money.

Lol,
Cool, nice investment
We will just order special Vaseline for ur head, lol

Houseofglam7: I'm fine handsome.
How have you been?

Am good, thanks sweet
Just haven't heard from you for awhile.

jasmine21: I started bottling up my emotions 2yrs ago. The only person I open up to is my boyfriend. None of my family members understand me just 1 of my brothers and sometimes my dad. My mom is d last person I can ever tell anything to.

Anyway, Now that I live alone its even worse and I hate it. Thank God 4 phones at least.

Lol, #phones, Facebook or Twitter

Houseofglam7: I would've gone for Nigerian hair but those players are full of poo too, so imma go without hair till the next World Cup.

Hahaha, what's gonna happen to ur natural hair dear,

Houseofglam7: You're sure you're in school?
I gotta meet your English language teacher!

Seriously, i had to read it twice, correct the mistakes before i could grasp what he was saying.

Houseofglam7: How comforting

Lol, , how are you doing dear? Its been awhile

Godmother: Mumu topic. Will the content of a lady's bag change the state of bombing in Nigeria? Mtcheeeew

Lol, are u that into politics, "Godmother"

Houseofglam7: You want a glass of Vodka mixed with tequila?
Hope I'm included in your will?

Sure, you own everything, lol

Houseofglam7: I'm right here.

Lola lol, may i have a glass of vodka mixed with tekila and ice.

Houseofglam7: Yes darl

I. Miss u, where art thou

Houseofglam7: Chewing Stick, coconut, roasted corn and a bottle of Vodka.

Vodka, lol

Nawao, well follow ur seemingly smart friends advice, and be the 3rd baby mama. Thats a sure gift, i believe he will give.

you should ask Google for more points.