₦airaland Forum

Integrityfarms:
If am a woman, once my hubby agrees to take the kids for paternity test, I won't utter a word but once the results are out and he is sure he owns all the kids, I will sue for divorce for he never trusted me.

you are deceiving yourself, the awareness on DNA is not a joke.

Something led to this

A lot is going on, it is not something one should play jokes with.

Trust or no trust or na pastor daughter she be, DNA test shikina

oladeebo:
DR.Nwoye will win Anambra governorship election, the indication on the ground show, no aspirant will draw nearer to his victory.
He is a people's choice and well loved by the people.
The real people's governor Dr. Nwoye.

. yes he will win on naira Land , lol

just pray u see voters, the real people are tired of politicians, they need a champion and KANU is doing just that.

ebosie11:
May thunder fire poverty.Hardwork really pays.

    Check out these before and now photos of Pastor Chris Oyakhilome.See transformation.

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/07/pastor-chris-oyakhilome-before-vs.html?m=1

he was never poor, he is from a wealthy earthly & spiritual home.

if your dad had cars in 1950's that speaks already

This is a pure case of leadership failure

All the leaders from South East from 1999 till 2011 failed woefully

by the way,
I support self determination
I support Biafra

If there will be no sincere restructuring, then let everyone go home

MONITZ:
MTN has always been about themselves ,they re strictly in business with little care given to social corporate responsibility and ethics. They re simply very crooked in their dealings with Nigerians and they neither give a hoot nor care as far as the profit keeps rolling in,they ve been outed on some occasions, from telling us then that per second billing was not possible until GLO came to disprove that,and also other sharp practices like the one they engaged in and were caught just recently nd were fined nd made to pay thru their nose, they were also accused of giving the National Assembly members recharge cards raining from 15k to 25k every month, now y were they doing such a thing if they were clean?, they re simply haemorrhaging this country badly nd they re an economic terrorist and must be properly checked... .

you de talk trash bros. They moved their money, the owners are not Nigerians do you expect them to come and live in Nigeria and spend it
Do you even know what CSR is have you heard of MTN scholarships. and other programmes carried out by MTN foundation, what of Who wants to be a millionaire, even sign ambassadors is an aspect of CSR.

Don't follow Nigerian politicians, they know what they are looking for from MTN

These same politicians complaining of capital flight spend millions traveling aboard, own businesses, bought properties, go on holiday, send kids to foreign schools.

Are the above not capital flight?

These guys moved their money not as if they took it at once, over a period of 10years. is there anything wrong sending money to your business partners and investors. By the IBTC is an investment bank

krissconnect:
OKAY

no mind me, me likey children, thanks and God bless

krissconnect:
With all due respect too,its nothing serious. What do u say about pple who use his pix for wallpaper or as a sort of remembrance? Since I didn't taunt the pix,its nothing. Except u wanna take it serious.

I hope if you lose a loved one esp a kid, I guess you will be happy to see his pics being used as memes

I trust you have conscience, not everything should b used for jokes.

In fact this is serious.

iluvpomo:
It's good that you pointed that out ... was the young man sick?

Bradley Lowery is the name, died of cancer 2 weeks ago

[quote author=krissconnect post=58856735][/quote]hello, with due respect, the young lad whose pics u used as meme is late.

Pls do him this honor, remove the pics, pls don't use his pics as memes again

#Respect

The man who visited GEJ 2 days to election
Decamped to APC 6 hours after PDP lost presidential post
Tried to blackmail GEJ, Tompolo, Militants to get protection from APC
Tinubu used him to implement divide and rule strategy in South South
His boys unleashed mayhem in Delta just to help APC win.
Sent his boys to Bayelsa to help Timi Slyvia win for APC
His source of wealth is known ...

Unfortunately Nigeria celebrates criminals too
SMH
Just have money, I mean more money

None of my business

Hopeful20100:
The truth is this woman was poisoned...she stepped on a lot of toes especially at NAFDAC, where hundreds lost billions of Naira in destroyed goods..

poisoned with cancer, guy are u OK!

Tolexander:
From where did she see the money to acquire this?

Well, stealing isn't corruption!

after all Abacha did not steal

beautydutch:
first time i'm commenting on explorers thread.. keep it up guy

he just returned from honey moon

Bluestreams:
Profile: 10yrs old Nlander, Postgrad, 32yrs old, 2 yrs old in marriage with a 1yr old son.

Pls kindly read patiently and advice me if I am wrong and also what to do if my spouse is the problem. Thanks.

I got married as the first child out of two and my family (mother) really supported me financially. At this time, I didnt have any salary job neither do I have any contracts running as I do pest control and landscaping services and other small legal hustles. I met my wife who is a civil servant and we fell inlove and I never hid my financial or employment status from her. Shortly before my wedding (I was also job hunting for a better job) I got an interview in a top oil and gas firm in the country by insider recommendation, and being the only one invited I felt I've gotten it. My fiancé started telling her sibs that I'm already a staff which I frowned at because I've not received any appointment letter. This she was doing in "faith" anyway. Subsequently, I was never called for that job again and by this time we were already married. Prior to this time, I got a slightly less than 50k job in a bank and after a few months my fiancé pressed me to resign athough that job was stressful and in another state where I neither had family nor friends.

We got married then the issues began.
I noticed my wife is the type of woman thats slow (I'll not use the word lazy). She cant keep up with my pace when we walk, she can't clean the house daily, she'll prefer I do the house chores while she watches tv and all. We were in honey moon so I didn't have a problem with that, and more over I enjoy such chores and I am a good cook. By this time her salary was dropping and we were living on it coupled with whatever income that comes from me from my business (my wife isn't stingy with her funds and neither am I).

Our problems started when she became pregnant just a months after wedding. She became super slow due to the preggy and I had to do like every every due to the initial sickness and all. Also, I noticed my wife doesn't know how to talk to people. She isnt rude or insolent but she can argue blindly and just keeps talking. She talks too much and doesn't know how to ignore things. She will say she likes speaking her mind, even though I adviced her that she will have lots of enemies by that lifestyle.

My parents live in the same town with me but hers are in the village. If things gets a bit rough I do visit the family shop and pick things on credit and pay later. This happens only when I'm low on budget.

After our honey moon, my wife refused to go back to work (her station is in another state) although she has been complaining that she doesn't like the job (her father helped secure it). Since she couldnt travel she kept calling the offixe and they were still paying her, only for some of her seniors whom she isn't in good terms with write against her and her salary stopped coming in. By this time I had to up my game and started husting harder. God another low paying job which didn't last and I continued with my biz. I lost the job because of lateness due to taking care of a pregnant wife and so on. In fact I lost 2 other jobs of same nature and wasn't bothered because they pay was very poor anyway.

When my wife put to birth, my mother (as hers is late) asked her to stay at our family house for a week,so she can look after her because I was still working at this time and my mother's business and other engagements is just around the house, my wife refused. Infact its not the refusal that touched me but the attitude she put up. Shortly after then I needed to relocate to a new aprtment and asked her to go over to the family house with the baby so I can move things which she did and the outcome of that visit was a heated quarrel with my mother. She accused her of telling my church members not to visit her after childbirth (my house is very far from the church) and even though it was a lie and I told her to shut up she kept on talking so many trash.

At home I cant talk to my wife and she keeps quiet. The will tell me to shut up to my face and one one occasion I landed her a small slap which left an eye bloodshot and this ended the shutup episode. Often times, if I talk she will raise her voice.

Four months after my wedding her father called me sounding angry and asking me why my wife is still with me, why she hadn't gone back to the state where she works, I overlooked. Some months back late last year, he repeated the same thing and even dropped the phone on me and just a week ago it happened again. My wife have refused to go back to work saying she will rather start a particular type of biz (which I'm trying to setup for her) but her family is talking behind my back all manner of absurd things.

My wife and I have been having our own bouts due to her attitude. I don't talk to neighbours again as she confided in one and laid bare exclusive family secrets and they had a quarrel and in front of my landlord, my neighbour spilled the beans and I felt so ashamed. My wife's salary has been stopped for over a year now and I have been solely the bread winner. I even got a car recently and uses it for transport to support other income.

My wife can nag about everything, she can wake me by 3am over petty things so I stopped sleeping in our bedroom and now sleeps in the guest room. If she's angry she'll not wash plates I eat with. This is someone I always wash her clothes and my with the machine since I married her. But she can hardly do same. If she cleans the house its favour and she'll keep murmuring. If we have an argument she'll start shouting, abusing my whole family and stuff.

This morning we had a quarrel and my wife told me I cant even take care of my family to provide for her, talking how she's leaving (she always tells me she'll leave and I've made it clear I'll gladly wait for that day).

I have been thinking about everything myself, since I married things have not really improved. Maybe I really made a wrong choice or rushed things (as I now believe), so I am planning on sending her away soon and them take me dad and kinsmen to her father (as is the culture in my place) for him to either caution his daughter or take her back because I might really injure her out of anger one day.

This is my last effort to save this marriage . I have only slapped her once in 2 yrs.
I feel I should seek matured advice from experienced people here as I know I might be right in my own eyes.
I really don't know what else to do.

PS: I'll answer any questions you might ask me. Forgive any typo. Thanks.

ayam coming, I can't put up with nagging people...

Bros stop complaining about your wife, its too late.
These are things you should have noted when u were friends and within you, you could have known if u can endure.

Check yourself too, you many made mistakes maybe u are not seeing it.

Just check yourself, then do changes within you.

Don't be surprise when the changes in your changes her

Sociologie:
I Applied and didn't get any invite

everything happened in your head

hahahhahahha, There was a country ...
Houseofglam7 pls what do u have to say!

Sociologie:
I don't have 3 years Human Resources experience,have applied though...thanks

u are not doing the right thing.

The jumia offer was for u, instead of giving it a try u disqualify urself.

morbeta:
Oba of Lagos wouldn't like this news

he is just a glorified village chief not an Oba.

His dressing can tell

feranmi400:
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hahhajahha correct listing hahhahahahahahaaa online ministrations.

hahhahahahah @public tap

its happening everywhere, so am not in a hurry ...
Public Tap don full naija from literate to illiterates, from Christians to Non Christians.

Its well sha

vicfuntop:
How about nudes not showing the face, only the boobs

wonderful hehhehehe u funny self

ConcNiggress56:
my younger brother needs a job..

my virginity is up for it.

pm me if interested!!


I am serious about this and serious offers only

you don't need to do this, he needs a mentor or exposed to information.

Audi my first love, before Range Rover gave me green light. nice !

XaintJoel20:
saint Joel20

hi, there is no straight rule wrt to getting a job in Nigeria.

Thoughts shared from time to time are mostly based on experience with other factors it definitely works.

My advice is improve yourself, get more skills, build yourself as a brand and stay informed.

Enjoy

sunnyb0b0:
2019 campaigns in full gear.

Afonjas will reap what they sowed in 2015.

this is the first reasonable post on this thread. others are carried away by sentiments. This write up is geared towards 2019.
kudos bro for not being gullible and carried away by Dele musings.

Since the days of Awolowo, Yoruba's knew the power of media in politics.

Media is the number 1 reason PDP lost elections

Houseofglam7:
She don dey fat and old.....
Aunty Omosexy, leave all those crazy dressing for the younger generation biko.


Take a cue from Joke Sylva

but Joke is way older

MizMyColi:
but sorry o.
does android have virus too
??

hahahhah was about asking too, I remember the age of Java and symbiam no antivirus then you are in soup, except you don't pair to another device.

In the last 7years, i have been using andriod no antivirus, no virus.

but they are viruses for android though very few and rare

CROWNWEALTH019:
That should be challenge


Good old unilorin days


God bless saraki

God bless ekweremadu

God bless dino melaye

God bless our party senator

God bless KANU

God bless ibori

God bless fayose

God bless wike


If you can support tinubu amaechi fayemi fashola and co why can't I support those above?


Are you saying tinubu and co are saints?

I came here to laugh and you gave me something to laugh about, hahahha, God bless you too

989900:
OK, we'll agree with you and assume you know everything that went down in private.

And, we'll assume we all missed the part but you didn't, where Tinubu's boys were busy doing a 'Wike' (the guns, the thugs, the killings, the threatening and all) on Tinubu.

this is the problem with you guys, you will living in the west and be assuming what is happening elsewhere.

Who told you the guns, thugs, killings, and threatening are all of Wike, don't you listen to the number of times Ameachi has declared his ?

989900:
The public perception is, Wike is an ingrate, whatever went down in private we won't know.

you must be joking, politics is a game of interest, all over the world.

How many of Tinubu's boys that have reach Aso Rock are still licking Tinubu'