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I seem to like that part when they say "IF "



It reveals the true nature of the person, one word -- SELFISH

bolethings:
I really appreciate all your comments guys. Actually I've always heard there's a thin line between hate and love and to describe how much I detest her right now would be unbelievable. It was crazy when she said "I'm sorry if I hurt you" , I was like if you hurt me? Sounding like it was relative. Of course she hurts me. I'm done with her and I've had to delete everything about her. Live goes on throughly.

The only painful part was not having as many side chicks as I could, imagine when I thought I'm done teasing or flirting with other women, now I have to really start looking...lol...

lol, Nairaland gurus can answer this oooo

I use only one url in a post, if i use more than one i get blocked

ogaprime:
hello sir, how can I post URLs on nairaland without the nairaland spambots banning or blocking?? How can post URLs in a way humans will understand and spambot wont block me...thanks

It is well

Put yourself together, though it is not as easy as I said, you will get better some day.

It's funny these things happen to good guys, but don't blame her, some brains work that way.

Have confidence in this, All things work together for Good ...


For me, I trust only God and myself.

I trust myself because I know what I can do and what I cannot do
I know when I say a thing I fulfill it.

I trust God because I know what God can and cannot do
I know when he says a thing, it is done.

Besides this two, none other.
So am not surprised when human fails to keep his/her words

Learn the lessons and move on, better things ahead.

I know it hurts, 5 years wasted

What I detest most is time wasted not the money spent

Find things to keep yourself busy

bolethings:
Brethren, today I believe the worst thing a man can do to himself is fall in love.

This is my story.

I've known this babe for 5 years precisely when she was in pre-degree, I stay in Lagos and she schools and lives in the North. Over the years we've both agreed on getting married and since I was ready ever since, I agreed to her request of graduating before we tie the knot.

So funny it's 5 years already and now she's getting ready for final year. As a man, I must be honest I had offers from women all through the years but because I wasn't the type that plays around with people's heart, I had to turn them all down simply because I gave someone my word and wouldn't want to be tagged disloyal.

Fast forward this year, we've been on the good note and I was even thinking of getting an apartment so I'll leave my place for my brothers. Everything was going fine and I was in the mood looking forward to taking her home to mama and sealing it. 5 years brothers, I waited!

Surprisingly last night she said she thinks I was getting too serious and needed to make some things clear. I wasn't serious when I sent money, wasnt serious spending 2 hours on phone assuring and comforting her, 5 years o. I can almost access people when I know them a little and I can vouch she doesn't mess around. Trust me I'll say 90% I can vouch she isn't wayward. She said she's found another man and he happens to be her best friends brother and they started courting about 5 months ago. Funny enough she'd given him her words and agreed to marry him. She even had the boldness to tell me I never did anything wrong, never ever but she just switched and her word to him matters. Imagine! 5 years.

As a realist I ask her every time if she was dating or promising anyone else just because I expect every woman to have suitors and I'm not the time that intrudes, her answer is always NO one, even till as close as 2 weeks ago. Chai!

No doubt I'm hurt. I stood loyal for 5 years and it didn't even take a woman 24 hours to blank out. Many men would call me names I know and truly waiting 5 years without any faults??

For those who are presently in love you probably would laugh at me as I have always done others. Just be careful.

Once again thunder fire any idiot coming online saying thrash about men. Imagine at 30, I can't possibly go about taking revenge on every woman now. I'm obviously moving on. Feb 2016 is a month I won't forget in a hurry. Bless you all brothers across the nation.

Obviously I can't tell my friends this. I just have to talk to someone and that's why I chose NL. Peace!

HAhahahahaha

Social media connecting couples since 1845

Ekiti e di ok !!

Congrats man

Explorers:
From here;


https://www.nairaland.com/3453568/two-nairalanders-set-wed




When the Groom is not man enough to approach her, thanks to Facebook.

I need advice from Auto guru's

Audi A4 or Audi A6

Where can one get a neat Nigerian used or Tokumbo and price range

CC; Autojosh

wishing you well by encouraging you to embark on a suicide mission abi

Nigerians self

kings09:
Even if they v given up, is it ur 'give up'?

MMM rili brought out the true nature of nigerians - nigerians don't wish each other well

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Thanks for understanding

sorry sir for the delays, I have replied, let's chat on WhatsApp so that I can attend to you faster. thanks

Eddodoh:
You haven't responded to my mail.

MrEgghead:
Tell me how all these aforementioned are more profitable than Farming?

hahahhaha, chai i forgot agriculture, lets say that will go under the sub title family business

join a fiverr group online, there is one on nairaland for better explanation

espionage48:
please how do I take the courses. I have registered for fiverr but I don't even know how it works.

Wow, Good to know

Thats the spirit, keep it up,

You will flourish this year, amen

Janeyinspires:
Like this? I am loving this post ideology! These ideas are just fab, especially for peeps who are still finding it hard to come up with something worthwhile, to keep them busy.
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I already have an ongoing course on Alison and I'm also taking some writing courses for freelancers too....There is always something out of all you've mentioned which someone can do,depending on their make-up and all that......Tnx z bunch and Happy New Month Too!

cool

professore:
I like especially the part to work in the church and the freelancing they were nicely written.

my head oooo, no wyne me na , thanks bro

ejikesbm:
i realy appreciate u my guy.the most resourceful content i hv ever seen online

You are welcome

omotoyosiT:
Nice piece... Thanks

Hi bro, i have reviewed your CV before, if am right, email me lets talk info@ideologieshub.com.ng

Eddodoh:
No jobs and deciding which skill(s) to learn is another problem. I am fade up to be sincere.

Try and learn about content marketing, visit the sites I listed and learn as a professional.

Then you would have moved to the next phase of making money

josh77:
Pls I need advice on Freelancing.
how can I start writing online and make money? I mean d steps to take and sites I need to register in

Just keep doing it

vickvilles:
Great post... Find something doing... Don't just hope and wait... Learn a skill, be loyal, gain the experience.. Before you know... You are making money on your own without those companies. #beyourownboss

My pleasure

Phunkyposh:
nice.... Thanks so much OP

Cool bro, keep it up, He will crown your efforts with success

yungbillionaire:
dis is very resourceful...nice one op...i am actually in dis category and ryt now i have gotten involed with a new and very professional skill( tower erection and maintenance)...mehn dia r opportunities everywia...i came out from school with a pretty good result but life is about good human relationships, experiences and skills which i believe can only be gotten with humility and proper character....so for evryone reading dis, never forget to remain humble for even God Himself resists d proud and exalts d humble....stay blessed.

hahahahha, maybe they should think of business and stop searching for jobs, God gave us the ability to create wealth not ability to look for jobs

Acidosis:
Business/Entrepreneurship is not meant for those searching for jobs.

Thanks for your observation if I hyperlink the URLs, Nairaland Spambots will detect it as spam and block me,

Kindly read the full article directly from my blog http://www.ideologieshub.com.ng/10-things-a-graduate-should-do-while-waiting-for-a-good-job-offer/

You will have the full URLs from there,

gale2626:
this is a very resourceful content but I was disappointed that most websites mentioned don't carry there full website URL addresses

You are welcome

casttlebarbz:
thanks

Hi Janeyinspires,

I think you will like this

Hi guys is been awhile ...
Hopefully I will be active here soon ...

Meanwhile You would love to read this piece

10 Things A Graduate Should Do While Waiting For A Good Job Offer

The road to career fulfillment as a graduate is different for many. We may have big dreams, but things may not pan out the way we want them. For those who find themselves on the receiving end of reality, no hope is lost.
Waiting for the job we desire does not mean we have to wait idly… There are always things we can do to maximize the time we have on our hands.

In the light of this, I have decided to share ten things you can do while waiting for that dream job.
Teaching
Much respect to the teaching profession, but this is one job that is readily available anywhere. There are many schools around Nigeria just starting out and looking for teachers.

Most times the pay is low for these schools. Take a stroll around your area and apply for teaching roles. Of course, teaching is a lucrative profession when you’ve got some experience and can deliver the goods. If you have good level of experience you can apply to standard ones such as Corona Schools, Chrisland Schools, Turkish School
Home lessons/Tutorials
Are you good with children? Do you enjoy impacting knowledge then home lessons are perfect for you? I know someone who makes over N100, 000 monthly from home lessons. However, trust me when I say he is good at what he does. It has its own set of peculiar challenges but can be a lucrative side job. If you can’t get kids from rich homes, try applying on Tuteria.com prepclass.com.ng

You can teach online too on Homeworks.ng and NigeriaTrainingCourses.com

Freelancing
There’s a lot of money on the internet. Freelancing is one way to tap into this gold stream. So if you’re good at writing (I mean excellent), then you may end up taking freelancing as a career itself.

Why? Because it pays and pays well. Same applies to graphic designers, web developers, programmers. Your skill is a money-spinner if you’re a genius at it.

Register on Freelancer, Fiverr, Elance, upwork, Belance, Nairalance, Pushnaira, Freeciti, Contentmart, vrtsk, even on Nairaland and earn some money from home

Learn a skill
The world today is more about what you can do with what you know. Many people know things; few people can actually do them. Instead of doing nothing, learn a new skill. Baking, sewing, writing, welding, graphics/web design, etc. Just learn something new related to your career path.

Blogging
If you’re into social media, then you can start a blog. Choose a niche and generate useful content for it. Blog for fun, write short stories, open an online diary. You never know, that blog could be a plus on your CV the day you apply for a Content Strategist or Digital Marketing role at a firm. Click here and own a blog today for just 350/month


Take an online course
Similar to learning a skill. Take online courses when you can. It is your duty to educate and re-educate yourself. There are free courses online some of which come with valid certificates. IFP MOOC is one of them.

Also, check out Educations Macaranta Udemy, Lynda, Coursera, Alison Shaw Academy Sijison Training, Sijison Educational, Nigeria Training Courses, Nigeria Training Network and CodeAcademy for more.

Join the family business
Often times, some of us have a ‘family business.’ This can be a provision store, a restaurant or a construction firm. You can join in this business to learn a thing or two. Valuable life and career lessons can come from there too. Don’t forget we have business families on online forums like Quora and Nairaland, join one today.

Study past questions
For a recent NYSC leaver, it’s not out of place to finish every past job question you come across. Practice them until you can solve them in your sleep. Being good at these tests increases your chance of getting to the next stage and getting the job.

You can practice online too, on Learning Indicator Indiabix, SHL SHL direct

Be active in church
Of course am smart, but my secret of success has always been God. Be active in God’s Courts. Not just in church but also in any group you find yourself (like a book club). This does not mean it you stop doing so when you get what you want. It’s more about being useful wherever you find yourself. Better to spend that extra time being a blessing than spectating.

Volunteer
People often ask where they can see volunteer opportunities. I say they have to search harder. For example, the sickle cell foundation has a volunteer program open to the public. While writing this post, I also saw that of Foodbank. There are other causes around if you look well enough.

In conclusion, avoid being idle while waiting for the next job invitation. You to make good use of the time available while keeping one eye on your goal. In the famous words of Dick Dastardly,” Don’t just stand there, Do something.”

Culled from http://www.ideologieshub.com.ng/10-things-a-graduate-should-do-while-waiting-for-a-good-job-offer/

Am sure you enjoyed this post, like, comment and share with friends, thank you.

Wanna be inspired, motivated, visit ideologieshub.com.ng daily

#HappyNewMonth

I Love you all

The road to career fulfillment as a graduate is different for many. We may have big dreams, but things may not pan out the way we want them. For those who find themselves on the receiving end of reality, no hope is lost.
Waiting for the job we desire does not mean we have to wait idly… There are always things we can do to maximize the time we have on our hands.

In the light of this, I have decided to share ten things you can do while waiting for that dream job.

Teaching
Much respect to the teaching profession, but this is one job that is readily available anywhere. There are many schools around Nigeria just starting out and looking for teachers.

Most times the pay is low for these schools. Take a stroll around your area and apply for teaching roles. Of course, teaching is a lucrative profession when you’ve got some experience and can deliver the goods. If you have good level of experience you can apply to standard ones such as Corona Schools, Chrisland Schools, Turkish School
Home lessons/Tutorials
Are you good with children? Do you enjoy impacting knowledge then home lessons are perfect for you? I know someone who makes over N100, 000 monthly from home lessons. However, trust me when I say he is good at what he does. It has its own set of peculiar challenges but can be a lucrative side job. If you can’t get kids from rich homes, try applying on Tuteria.com prepclass.com.ng

You can teach online too on Homeworks.ng and NigeriaTrainingCourses.com

Freelancing
There’s a lot of money on the internet. Freelancing is one way to tap into this gold stream. So if you’re good at writing (I mean excellent), then you may end up taking freelancing as a career itself.

Why? Because it pays and pays well. Same applies to graphic designers, web developers, programmers. Your skill is a money-spinner if you’re a genius at it.

Register on Freelancer, Fiverr, Elance, upwork, Belance, Nairalance, Pushnaira, Freeciti, Contentmart, vrtsk, even on Nairaland and earn some money from home

Learn a skill
The world today is more about what you can do with what you know. Many people know things; few people can actually do them. Instead of doing nothing, learn a new skill. Baking, sewing, writing, welding, graphics/web design, etc. Just learn something new related to your career path.

Blogging
If you’re into social media, then you can start a blog. Choose a niche and generate useful content for it. Blog for fun, write short stories, open an online diary. You never know, that blog could be a plus on your CV the day you apply for a Content Strategist or Digital Marketing role at a firm.

Click here and own a blog today for just 350/month


Take an online course
Similar to learning a skill. Take online courses when you can. It is your duty to educate and re-educate yourself. There are free courses online some of which come with valid certificates. IFP MOOC is one of them.

Also, check out Educations Macaranta Udemy, Lynda, Coursera, Alison Shaw Academy Sijison Training, Sijison Educational, Nigeria Training Courses, Nigeria Training Network and CodeAcademy for more.

Join the family business
Often times, some of us have a ‘family business.’ This can be a provision store, a restaurant or a construction firm. You can join in this business to learn a thing or two. Valuable life and career lessons can come from there too. Don’t forget we have business families on online forums like Quora and Nairaland, join one today.

Study past questions
For a recent NYSC leaver, it’s not out of place to finish every past job question you come across. Practice them until you can solve them in your sleep. Being good at these tests increases your chance of getting to the next stage and getting the job.

You can practice online too, on Learning Indicator Indiabix, SHL SHL direct

Be active in church
Of course am smart, but my secret of success has always been God. Be active in God’s Courts. Not just in church but also in any group you find yourself (like a book club). This does not mean it you stop doing so when you get what you want. It’s more about being useful wherever you find yourself. Better to spend that extra time being a blessing than spectating.

Volunteer
People often ask where they can see volunteer opportunities. I say they have to search harder. For example, the sickle cell foundation has a volunteer program open to the public. While writing this post, I also saw that of Foodbank. There are other causes around if you look well enough.

In conclusion, avoid being idle while waiting for the next job invitation. You to make good use of the time available while keeping one eye on your goal. In the famous words of Dick Dastardly,” Don’t just stand there, Do something.”

Culled from http://www.ideologieshub.com.ng/10-things-a-graduate-should-do-while-waiting-for-a-good-job-offer/

Am sure you enjoyed this post, like, comment and share with friends, thank you.

Wanna be inspired, motivated, visit ideologieshub.com.ng daily

#HappyNewMonth

I Love you all

you are not serious. Continue ......

I am very sure your man, can shave you, but you are now making it look as if it should be a way of life.

#My advice stop reading all these fantasy blogs, that fill you up with beautiful nonsense expectations.

Advising you based on their experience or another's story, it is wrong.

Humans are never the same don't expect A to react to issues like B.

Save your life with Wisdom from God, spend more time studying the bible than reading articles useless marriage counselor

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

Yea, Ever Flowing Liquid Love

Janeyinspires:
'Liquid love' Cool description.
.There's always a need to reach out.

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As a business person, I wont comment on MMM again till after 90 days from Jan 14th, ie. April 14th.

If MMM cannot pay above 31,000 in the next 60 days, anyone who has at least 50,000 should forget about it.

I wont pity folks I warned

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You will work as outsource staff.

If entry level, you will be placed to under study a more experienced personnel.

You are blessed and will be outsourced to a big firm like Insurance, Oil/Gas , Banks Manufacturing firms, In Jesus name, amen

ishaq062:
please I need information about this company .
their pay , career like, HMO, paid leave and etc.

please urgent reply

Entry level - HND - 60k BSC - 70- 90k (without experience )

If you are transferrred you will get housing allowance etc.

Is on of the top most IT firms in Nigeria

seems you still do it ?

2SWT:
Yea

It was fun

hahahahaha, forming beyonce abi

sisisioge:
Yes nau

I was a world class singer when I used to sing in front of the fan then