₦airaland Forum

VULCAN:
Igbos known for always hating on each other.

If it was Hausa judge and Hausa thief we know what the bail would have been set at.

pocohantas:
31yrs of dating?

That must be an ancestor.

Or did he start from his mother's womb?

Whatever made him not to marry the other ladies in his 31 years of dating must go beyond their inability to serve him breakfast o.

31yrs?

UDOKABESTLUV:
Too Many Bad News In Nigeria

kmcutez:
I thought it was the Bobrisky we all know in Lagos. I don pack handcuff and my stun gun ready to storm his house before I read it was another Bobrisky in Rivers..

$30 million just gone like that. Very disappointing

MachadoPreto:
If EFCC can maintain this crack down, The future is damn bright in few years to come.

God bless the EFCC!

soberdrunk:
Up Nigeria...

Nwaedeinya:
DRFTGYHUYGFDRSAW

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

FCBboy:
Trash, trash.

it's clear you're a lowlife.

it isn't your fault but you parents ; one is a goat the other is a dog.


you're just a sewage, you can as well help your father book an appointment with a dentist.

Lerio:
Didnt finish reading though.. This long thing wey you write might be part of the reason.

OmoAlata1:
You probably have body or mouth odor. Ask someone that you trust to tell you the truth

uzohrome:
Nice places to visit oooh. But the cave fear me ooh

Cosmatikka:
They should make an example of him. We can't be codoning rubbish in dis country

Yyeske:
Many of you will see a trend in the next few days about IPOBians and other supporters, they have been insulting Sowore since yesterday but now their god has spoken in support of him, they'd start supporting him and calling Buhari names.
This is to tell you that most of them have no mind of their own to reason except it is done for them.

emperorblog21:
Someone should suprize me too with a laptop.

paradigmshift:
Na Ogun go kill you.
Why you they fear quote.
Glorified fool

BluntBoy:
The heart of man is wicked.

They love to kill.

Printerscanner:

Yes, because Easterners have always been cowards. One nonentity called Emeka Ojukwu declared war and ran away to Ivory Coast leaving three million of his kinsmen to be sacrificed to the Yoruba gods of iron.

Martinez39:
Charity is a disservice to the poor and a waste of time. Let people learn to take responsibility for their actions and stop giving birth to children that they can't take care of. If a man gives birth to many children that he cannot take care of, let him suffer it alone. Don't feed his children, clothe them or pay their school fees, let him take responsibility for his actions. Keep your money and invest in yourself and family instead of irresponsible, poor, and stupid humans who gave birth to children that they can't take care of. I will never take up the responsibility of such irresponsibility even if it means parting with five naira. I can't be help those that are selfish, stupid, making life hard and increasing crime.

Why waste your money and time? Even if you spend two million naira feeding them today, they will still go hungry tomorrow. Why bother?

The only people that qualify for charity are the disabled.