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Get a life boy

Except something exceptionally negative happens. No

respect

None deserve respect! Gather, tie, package and send ALL the respect to the poster! Na him deserve respect.

And I was thinking humor is not the forth of an average Nigerian woman. And they say men are without humor, how do you get wooed then? Women!
@ gabby, if you're witty, you sure can hold down long term relationships. It's a spice a lot of people can't easily let go of
You could do well to run a school for 9ja girls. Insecurity has made them,, em,, witless!!

Diva, as you make your bed, so you MUST lie on it. You've been given good advise, tough albeit but good. You can go ahead and send him a card if you feel your LIFE depends on doin so. It's the wrong option though and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know. But, then again, itz your call.i

@post: you're ON sister! Stiffen that spine of your's and STAND. You weren't wrong taking him back before asking questions. You could either ASK him questions and lap up his lies or you OBSERVE him. You chose the later which is the SMART option. You are not wrong at all. Itz called giving a second chance, some people are worth it. Some don't. He doesn't!

@debo: what if she does ask this chap?, what truth do you imagine will come from him given his antescedent. What do you imagine happened to self help? That this girl will HANG on to whatever trash he tells her as if his word is the bible

@touchmeder. You are spot on! Can't believe a CHEAT should be accorded niceties! If he was innocent and she snooped, the shoe'll be on the other foot. But the slowpoke is a FUCKING CHEAT! so which privacy should he have? Privacy to turn the girl to a nervous wreck? Jeez!!!

Don't send any fuc.kin card to him! Don't be a whimp!!

Nyc one!

He is more streetwise than you thatz why he could so easily manipul8 your conscience so you'll feel guilty he having none. Stonewall this guy if you want to retain your sanity. Just take him as a mistake you've made and nothing more. You guys are not in an inquest so you shouldn't bother proving it to him that he's guilty. He knows anyway it's just that his new side kick is there as his prop. He came back to you once sis. What does this show?- that the side kick cannot hold a candle for you neither can she hold his attention too. He'll come crawling back like all leeches and cockroaches do with tears and all when his bubble bursts. Then you'll be in a position to remind him of what he put you through. Dam your heart baby and move on. Just gratify good people by CRUSHING him mercilessly when he comes tail-between-legs. It might take time, but he'll come back one day.

I love it when she laughs and just shakes her head when I "commit"

I love it when a woman is mischevious and DEVILISHLY witty!

@ ammamat, Yes there are women that refuse absolutely to,(1,) try and rationalise+ understand men and their wants and take recourse to the easy way of either blaming LUCK or MEN for their malaise
(2) some don't know who they are and, in effect the kind of men they should be with.
These are flaws that could be corrected.
But what happens if a woman's flaw is that she is just too good? How do you rectify such a flaw within societal and moral boundaries? It's a toss up. Some end up wiv the sticky end. Even if they're stoic and refuse to blame "luck" and lie down and pine, deep inside they all know it is.

O yes!, I think some women really are. You'd see some that really, really ticks all the correct boxes in terms of what a lady should be, yet at the end of the day, they get repeatedly marooned with the most odius of men. I don't think it has an explanation. It just happens. Sadly.

Sorry sis but I find it curious that you couldn't find out who the girl is to your boyfriend even though you've interacted one on one with her. I think it shows you are very insecure in this relationship for reasons only you could tell. And your boyfriend is "chiming" unto this by doing things "in your face" The handwriting's on the wall, you cannot love somebody you do not have respect for and this guy doesn't hav respect for you so how can he love you? Must you tell your boyfriend before you go to his house? And why do you BEG for money?

I'm sorry if I sounded abusive ma'am. But can u go through all your threads on yoruba guys and tell me how YOU sound?

Bore you? But boredom has been a consistent feature in your life. You were BORED of skul too, remember why you dropped out? Now you are bored of SIKIRU. Why don't you try MOSHOOD?!!!

Bore you? But boredom has been a consistent feature in your life. You were BORED of skul too, remember why you dropped out? Now you are bored of SIKIRU. Why don't you try MOSHOOD?!!!

Bore you? But boredom has been a consistent feature in your life. You were BORED of skul too, remember why you dropped out? Now you are bored of SIKIRU. Why don't you try MOSHOOD?!!!

Aha. Never knew you weren't off DIAPERS yet. Still squishy between your legs? Get a NAPPY!

I'm angry because your parents spent so much on your education with absolutely no RETURNS. Your CRASS IGNORANCE is belly churning!!

Nerve? What a laugh!! Coming from a FLOPSTER like you, the world is indeed coming to an end!!

Read your post again then see who is ASSUMING

Get stuffed, air head!

Perhaps, if you had stayed in school and learnt instead of WHORING, you wouldn't have been a FLOPSTER as you so obviously are. Then you wouldn't be HURTING so much and HATING so much in effect. Close your legs!