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Culture › Re: Do You Believe In Reincarnation: Discuss by ifyalways(f): 1:27pm On Dec 05, 2012
I don't .given that I now understood the "secret and explanation" of abiku/ogbanje theories.

What comes back, btw? The spirit takes on a new flesh or the flesh gets a new spirit?
Culture › Re: Nigerian Blood by ifyalways(f): 1:15pm On Dec 05, 2012
I don't think I understand what the rant is all about but hey, if you say you are a victim, so be it.
Family › Re: Maid Serving The Husband: Right Or Wrong? by ifyalways(f): 12:58pm On Dec 05, 2012
Biko, what do we mean by "serve" ? I be proper Igbotic girl and needs it broken down to avoid asiri .

Is it cooking? Or dishing out food? Abi doing eba and heating up soup? Or na to put food, drinking water, toothpick, serviettes et all on the dining table then walk sheepishly to say " Oga sir, your food is ready" huh

The husband that's waiting to be "served" (whatever that means) is he physically challenged undecided
Events › Re: Good Decorator In Nigeria? by ifyalways(f): 12:46pm On Dec 05, 2012
Okiez.

Send me a mail with my nld username at gmail and I'll forward you their contacts. Dunno if they'll go to osun though.
Family › Re: Meeting Divorced People For Marriage Advice :. Is It Reasonable? by ifyalways(f):
It depends.

Some people are so bitter and dishonest even to themselves that they want everyone else to fail just because they failed. Not just divorcees but people that have had bitter, unsuccessful relationships and are finding it difficult holding down a partner. They tend to want to spread their misery and would want to seek for company.

Personally, I stick to my mom and some male friends. When it comes to marital advisory.
Events › Re: Good Decorator In Nigeria? by ifyalways(f): 12:19pm On Dec 05, 2012
Where in Nigeria? I know one or two in lagos.
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland End Of Year Charity Flight..... by ifyalways(f): 7:44am On Dec 05, 2012
This flight is about to start taxi-ing. . .

Book and confirm your seats now cheesy
Culture › Re: Africa NightLife/Night clubs by ifyalways(f): 7:31am On Dec 05, 2012
Abagworo: 40-40, Owerri
video please.

Which part of owerri sef?
Culture › Re: Nigerian Blood by ifyalways(f): 7:25am On Dec 05, 2012
yorubaamerican: Today I heard someone say that being Nigerian is biological. WRONG! Nigeria was created by European colonial masters. Your ancestors (great, great, great, yeah, all of them) didn't identify themselves as Nigerians. Being Nigerian has nothing to do with DNA, sorry. It's an identity that was given to you by your masters. Deal with it!
was this ever an argument?
Where are you from?
Family › Re: Working On The Island, Living On The Mainland! by ifyalways(f): 6:03am On Dec 05, 2012
Your best bet is to look for a Mon to Fri accomodation in the island then save up and buy a car.

Shuttling to the mainland-island at odd late hours everyday is risky.
Music/Radio › Re: Video: Asa - The Way I Feel by ifyalways(f): 5:22am On Dec 05, 2012
Yeah. This is the ISH.

Babe never disappoints. Meaningful lyrics, cool video, soothing voice.
Fashion › Re: Rita Dominic Wins Most Stylish Actress At FAB Awards by ifyalways(f): 5:15am On Dec 05, 2012
Well won!
Rita is always on point. Always.
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland End Of Year Charity Flight..... by ifyalways(f): 9:15pm On Dec 03, 2012
Check your email, sir.
Family › Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by ifyalways(f): 1:51pm On Dec 03, 2012
no, I'm not Rudysmith.

Hope you'll be able to kill the monsters you led on and created with the RVK handle undecided

So the watering hole, divorce and addiction to WWE stories were all fantasies, huh?

You should be stripped, flogged thoroughly @ aswani mkt.
Nairaland General › Re: Official Nairaland/General Section Poster Of The Year 2012 by ifyalways(f): 1:43pm On Dec 03, 2012
Lasinoh/calloti
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland End Of Year Charity Flight..... by ifyalways(f): 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2012
Please those that wants to make non-cash donations can you contact us as soon as possible?we'll be visiting the first home soon.

Thanks.
Culture › Re: University Of Nigeria Professor Of Arts Work Sells 11.4M at Ikoyi Auction! by ifyalways(f): 1:28pm On Dec 03, 2012
Was there live. Ben's "agbogho nmawu" was beautiful. One oyibo bought it fiam while I was still counting my coins grin
Family › Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by ifyalways(f): 1:17pm On Dec 03, 2012
Richy, so you were posing as a female and creating those controversial threads?then turn around and claim its the handiwork of the cabal. That's shameful really.

Btw, I know you are not Rudysmith. The person behind the Rudy handle is a very pretty lady kiss
Events › Re: Winners Of Nigerian Broadcasters Merit Awards by ifyalways(f): 12:44pm On Dec 03, 2012
I didn't know men are now being qualified with "sexy"

Uti is cool with winning the most "sexy" guy? Na wao undecided
Family › Re: How To Forgive Someone When Its Hard To Forget What They Did? by ifyalways(f): 8:07pm On Dec 02, 2012
Hey B2F grin

@topic, there's no "how" to forgive.you need a closure. Did the person ever apologise?

Sit down with the person and let her/him know you still feel bad about the "incident" . If s/he apologises sincerely, accept it and forgive. If you still find it difficult to forgive the fella afterwards then call of the relationship now undecided

I see no point in being friends with one you can't forgive. . .
Culture › Re: Any Ghanaian Settlement In Lagos? by ifyalways(f): 7:35pm On Dec 02, 2012
There are lots of Ghanaians @ ilaso Orile.
Culture › Re: Igbo Kwenu! Kwezuo Nu! Join Us If You're Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/lady by ifyalways(f): 7:21pm On Dec 02, 2012
Ike gwuru . @ Darfur, owu ukwu a ka nama ga-eji aga ukwu awusa?

Ano m na airport eche ndi nile na alota nu.
Culture › Re: Nrurita Uka (debate In Igbo Language). by ifyalways(f): 7:05pm On Dec 02, 2012
^ a nam eche ya bu ihe. O putara n'eziokwu na o bu ndi ocha wetara anyi "edemde" ?

Keduzi maka usoro edemde "nsibidi" undecided o bu ndi ocha wetara ya ?
Celebrities › Re: Ghana's R2bees Backs Out From P-square Concert - Because Of Money? by ifyalways(f): 5:52pm On Dec 02, 2012
Lmao!

The love-hate relationship btw "online" Nigerians and Ghanaians is hilarious.
Family › Re: Give Me A Child And Get 250k, Twins 500k by ifyalways(f): 8:03pm On Dec 01, 2012
@OP, have you found a willing guinea pig?
This season is the best for mating and brooding.

What happens if there's a miscarriage or still birth?

When you're set to embark on an unusual trip, you should be prepared for all eventualities undecided
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland End Of Year Charity Flight..... by ifyalways(f): 7:39pm On Dec 01, 2012
biolabee: based on the trend of contributions is it possible to have a tentative budget so we can determine the budget shortfall as this helps to focus contributions
I am impressed with people stepping out and touching their brothers or sisters

This is true human love and giving your brother one coat out of 2
For those looking for jets/evoque/**** God knows
our budget sir, is 150,000NGN.
Culture › Re: . by ifyalways(f): 9:19am On Dec 01, 2012
Go to lagos!
Most 3 and 4 stars hotels do have a "mini art gallery" .check them out.
Culture › Re: What's Your Belief About The Dead,can They Still Patrol Around After Death? by ifyalways(f): 9:16am On Dec 01, 2012
^you started the thread, so are we talking of spirits or dead people ?
Family › Re: Life For A Woman After A Divorce.... by ifyalways(f): 4:52am On Dec 01, 2012
Psalm,you are a strong woman. Please take your time and think through your relocation decision.

All the best!
Family › Re: Let's Talk About Online Flirting... by ifyalways(f): 4:46am On Dec 01, 2012
Nothing is right or wrong in marriage anymore so long as the 2 concerned parties are OK with it. Gone are the days of set rigid rules meant to fit "all"

What I see as flirting may come across as a harmless banter to some.

Naturally, when it gets to the stage of "exchange of phone numbers, offline meet ups" then its obvious one or both parties want more . . .
Family › Re: Have You Seen Oludamilare Akinlosotu? by ifyalways(f): 4:37am On Dec 01, 2012
Na real wao.

Where was he last seen and with who?
His phone nko?switched off?I think the providers can now provide families with last calls/phone activity log.

I pray he's found alive.
Family › Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by ifyalways(f): 4:27am On Dec 01, 2012
anny101: Nice reality show, I'm really loving it. Ill keep glued to the family section. I had to think hard to remember my password just to comment. I wish, I wish , I wish I can be happy in my marriage again. I'm very reserved. I'm married and lonely. My only friend is my baby. My life is really boring,honestly my husband isn't caring, loving n romantic. We re no friends, I don't feel loved, we don't go out together or do things together, I have tried o, I'm just like a piece of furniture in this house. I miss passIon, romance, lovey dovey things, love making, kissing, I just missed being loved. I'm attractive n I'm thinking of having an affair- but I scared, really scared- if not would ve. Must say, my husband is my only sexual partner ever, he tot me abt sex, everything I know about sex is from him. I had to turn to porn movies to calm myself. I'm lost. I look happy outside but miserable in the inside, our last sexual act was abt 8months back. I'm a sad woman, wish I could turn back the hands of time. I have tried everthing, but nothing is working. And yes we have other issues. Mr reality shows, what will u advice me to do.(3yrs marriage nextyear o) don't want to open a new topic cos I don't want it on the front page
is your husband not living with you?have you tried talking with him, telling him all you've typed here?has he/the relationship always been this way ie cold and unromantic?any previous "trust and cheating" issue?

The first step to solution is talking with your husband.

PS: this is what it is. A "show". Don't start comparing your marriage with "shows", every marriage comes with its unique problems.

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