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metodman:
curse themselves because they caused it

lmao

. . . .whatever rocks your boat.

@poster,i can't wish for such a husband for my worst enemy.
there is a way to say it without actually saying something.
you know the grooms new office rite?ask either the mum of the bride or the bride herself to go with you to anywhere close to his new office.hopefully,they would see things for themselves,you would just be an angel and not an amebo.
i really wonder oooooooooooooh,what do we even know about ourseleves  what a way to go abt marriage these dayz.
chaiiiiiii imagine rubbish !
on a second thought though,how are you sure that the brides family don't even know his real profession?they might just be hiding it from you ? i say na wao  

@topic :
some of them were born as cheats.
some grew up in an enviroment where cheating is a norm.
some married the wrong person for the wrong reason.
some cheat cos their wives cheat .
some cheat cos the thing btw their legs is a vector quantity ie no definite direction,
need i say more ?

. . . hmmmn things dey happen oooooooooooooh.
marriage and cheating .

@topic,take lots of lemon juice,beet juice,carrot juice and infact juices of leafy greens.leafy green juices are recommended because they supply chlorophyll.chlorophyll cleanses the blood of impurities,builds up the blood with important nutrients and even promotes regularity.
again,FASTING.yeah fasting is another method of detoxification.

Most importantly,thats the work of the Kidney . . .detoxification.are you having kidney problems?if you are then DIALYSIS  is the word for you.

. . .it should be her final,concluding and last answer

Uncle Ikomi i na akowa ?
i ji style ekwu na adighim faith na full ?
chaiiiiiiiii,o buru na dede m si na ije m edoghi ya anya o buzi onye ga akowa my moves?
ewwwwwww,anyway ekele diri chukwu na faky bu nwa catechist no time for crossing the river for me
o buru nke e ji awale virgins,Yes ,osimiri a gaghi ahu ukwu m rie 100% sure
toshieeeeeeeeeee babie aka oru gi na fake a putala ihe * ** afo ime
i hope na ha a gaghi ebu anya ijiji gi sha.infact,may they all luk like fake.
Papa pres/fromuk ndeeewo. for nnenneigbo
Oziomatv/3viso ndewo,am confuzzled with d aha
Romanus/3viso daddy ndewo.a maghimzi m onye bu onye.
GC Babie,ole nke na eme nu for your side?one love
Darfur my ex-love,ya gazie.
Otele nsi na ahuru.gudevening.
@Iromba,nwanne ndewo.ya gaziere gi.i bukwanu onye ebe?a bum onye Abia state.otu love

youngies:
Odi m ka onye dere ya bu akwukwo bu nwa amadi Tony Ubesie

thank youssssssssssssssss  i almost chefuola !

youngies:
Echebobo did you remember the story line: Chude! Chude! Chu!

hehe.i biakwa again.echetanam ya ooooooooooooooh.heheeeeee good old dayz 
nna men,mmadu a kala ooooo 
@topic,onu koro ogiri onu ga a koro ogiri racha ***be right back for the meaning 

kashiff,youngies na echelon,ndeewo nu

Ikomi:
Agaram uka LOL

Let me answer your question as good as I can.

Listen I have heard and seen people die of fear even before they meet what they fear.

A woman is charged with adultery and asked to cross a river, mind u the rivers current could even sweep a weight lifter of his feet. You know why? The bottom of the river is infested with algae.

Though this case is a woman who possibly might have committed the charges leveled against her and possibly not. But lets not forget we are humans even if she did not commit adultery she could have erred in some other respects which weighs on her conscience, and here she is asked to cross a river that myth has it, that it would kill whoever have committed any wrongdoing especially adultery. Well she has to cross cause all eyes are on her. Even if the river current does not fall her, and the alga-es show her mercy, the eyes of the people watching would bring her down. Then they will come to a conclusion that she did not only commit adultery she was nearly turning a prostitute.

Another thing u should also ask youself is, since these events were not recorded were there guilty women that crossed unharmed.

Listen my dear "There is no darkness but ignorance"

If the world had there way am sure they would charge us for the air we breath and none, not any would be alive.

thank yousssssssss bless bless your heart !
e chekwara m like dat mana a sim ka jukwa ase ofuma.it must be that.i cant forget the picture echi ahu.the poor nwanyi was standing alone while almost half the village lega ya anya.naani the anya alone,can mere even a virgin to fail the so called test.
dalu dede m.anyway,o nwa mgbe nta,umu ihe ndia just like the slave trade wud fade away from our lands.IHE OJOO ADIGHI NMA.ka chukwu wepuru anyi niile ihe ojo na uzo anyi .

hmmmmmn fakyyyyyy ,onye gwara gi na o bu nwoke abuoo? okwa nwoke na nwanyi buko.lekwa akwukwo scan ahu anya ozo,hehehe i nwuru rum sef na boi na girl buko .love you babe
igbo ndi oma ya gazie !

. . .you cannot love and cheat !
its either you are in lust or just having a good time but LOVE, NO way ! for both sexes too.
i wonder if ppl can cheat on who they claim to love,hmmn what happens to their enemies?

blacklion:
watching your mum batter your dad to death is good for the kids?

. . .watching your dad batter your mum to death is good for kids ?

almondjoy:
Uju baby!

Please there is a thread next door about a lady in her 30's with PID and unmarried.  The relationship with her boyfriend packed up partly because she is in her 30s and she cannot get pregnant probably as a result of her "chronic PID". 

Please go and read that thread so you can realize that you should not waste your time with guys who are not ready to marry you after sleeping with you for over 2 years.

Please protect your organs from infection by limiting all unserious relationships. Please look for guys who are serious I beg you. Love is not everything. I would take a responsible man anyday--you can't help but fall in love with such a man down the road in your marriage, while your friends are still[b] dating [/b] their numerous loved ones! You would have had all your kids and they will still be "dating"!

Goodluck!

AJ i tell you,that seems to be the trend NOW.i do agree with you.Yeah,the truth is bitter but have to be told.looking around me even here in Nairaland eg lady UY. .  guys rarely marry who they dated for long.this so called long years of waiting more often don't pay on the girls.hmmmmmn,one needs to not only be in love but again and most importantly WISE AND SHARP !
@poster,waiting you said  ok ooooooh.methinks the man is gone for good !keep saving all your love for him then. if he cud summon up courage to tell you things arent working,then why not let him be and move on?well,if you decide to wait,hope you know its at your peril?he might come back for sex and all what but still  . . . . 
why is it that we gals find it difficult to move on?
why would a girl chose to wait for a man that has said ITS NOT WORKING?
why do we so believe that love is patient and stupid and not patient and wise?
why must we keep waiting and hoping when we have been rejected?
why can't we read the handwritting on the wall even when its so glaring ?
goodluck.

. . .good for them.sweeeeeeeeeet wind of change is blowing

mukina2:
Natural
My mama gave birth to me the natural way i also want to do the same to my kids

NATURAL ALL THE WAY !

@poster,she was not confirmed medically infertile yet so if you really love her as you sound you can still stick to her.talking of PID,if not treated early and well might lead to permanent damage to the reproductive organs.infections causing bacteria can invade the fallopian tubes causing normal tissues to turn to scar tissues.this finally leads to the blockage of movement of eggs to the uterus.women with PID have greater chances of having ectopic pregnancy and infertility.

well,they said marriage its not all about having kids.there is always an option,ADOPTION. if you can,then you can still marry her . . .
you too need to go for a test,you can be a healty carrier.if you love her enough,marry her then.

. . .should i pick his call

almondjoy:
The good news is that it has not happened to any of us.  We have time to think things over--and I pray it never happens to any of us.

It is not as easy as you think---who talks of abortion in 2008!

I deey laff!

You are not serious!  Abortion is only a prochoice decision for people who do not know any better!  For the ignorant. I am not a religious router--this is life and death we are talkin' about. It never an option for[b] any sane female. [/b] Not if you have a period every month.

Go and think about it!

Na beans!

thanks a million,we pray such things don't happen to any of us 
like you said,its a very difficult situation not even good to be imagined.

. . .bia lekwa anya Uncle Ikomi,kwanyere Uncle di na aha gi ugwu biko.
ole kwanu nke bu i quote front na back hia without i zaa ajuju m
anyway,i gakwara uka?
onwere ihe i nwere i kwu nu biko ?

. . .the gods of the land ?
echekwa m dat they only work/protect nani ndi na a serve ha?
ok agreed,i maghi ya just like me  
maybe,its like a birthright  

keduuuuuuuuuu maka nnenne anyi nile? o muola ejima owu ?  
nke nwanyi ga abu ifeoma,nke nwoke ifeanyi  
pres i love ejimaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ,chai anyway,uche dady bi n'elu mee.  

aka na ukwu fake di n'elu na ekele

@AJ I cant give what i dont have.i cant love a rape child when i dont even love/forgive myself for having him.its a really tough decision but still,i still stand on abortion ! we dont pray for such things to happen anyway

Pres dalu.
ihe m na aju bu "which power ?"
kedu ihe mere d thing ji aru oru?
o putara na ike di na arusi ka o bu gini?
ihe gbara m double harii wu that even when i saw it LIVE the first time,the couple are pratising christains,d man adighi etinye aka na okwu ma o bu omenala then ole otu d thing siri jide nwanyi ya? hmmmmmmn o gbara m hari.
o putara na nwoke o bula na obodo o bula udika ihe a di,e ketala ya(like birthright?)

happi sunday dede m.a mam na i gaghi sabbath unyahu na tata.o dikwa na nma?.
yes from the likes of TOSH NA IKOMI wepu fake there 
hehe,umu nwoke kwa?o kwa ha si na uwa bu nke nwoke

**gets up,dusts my ass and still parades around waiting for the kiss asses **
uses aradite on my neck,checks, it sure balances and sits back,expecting , . . . .
who told who am a good girl?

Agreed.we dont wish for such things but i really think thats what i wud do.i simply cant live with such a child.Yes the adopted one might be a product of a worst crime but then,emotionally,its sounds better to me.hmmmmmn living with and loving a rape child?anyway God help us.
Am not going for adoption cos of any man,Hell no.i wud be doing so cos i cant possibly be a mother,not to talk of a good one to the unbron child so . . .perharps one never can tell,if there is any close relative that is willing to have and keep such a child,i might though its really gonna be hard.go tru 9 full painfull months cursing and hating ,nooo i simply cant.
yes adoption becomes an option for me.whatever the parentage.i dont know so it wont hurt me.

@Aj the God i serve wont let that happen.i wud rather adopt a child, love and cherish him than having a rape child live with me.i CANNOT love such a child so even if it gets to that extent,ADOPTION becomes my best bet.  

3viso:
wetin you wan say now Ify?

Hehe.wetin i wan talk nah
its all good.

yeah,there are lots.
call +234-803-3081461
neuropsychiatric hospital,Aro,abeokuta,Ogun state.i think its affiliated to UN 
good luck.

God forbid but its abortion straight ahead.

cooldude62:
hi all, i want to know what you all feel about girls who say guys must marry them because they are above 30 years old and thereby should not be heart broken in a relationship.
Please,are we not supposed to take into cognizance the behavior or health status of the lady before we go ahead to marry her?

read my own story,
i met a girl where i was working before,we started a relationship and i was determined to have it good for both of us,
i discovered however that whenever we made love, she released a colored substance which i found not usual, i was worried and i told her to go for a test, in fact,i took her down for the test,
the test revealed she had a chronic Pelvic Inflammatory Disease!!!
I goggled that and i wasn't happy with what i discovered, We went for the treatment and the stuff still persisted!
i also noticed that before then,we had sex without condom almost all the time but she never got pregnant!
I honestly wanted a baby and might have used her getting pregnant as a pre-requisite to our tieing the knot.
After what i discovered,i decided to dump her,although with style. I traveled to another state and we stopped communicating.
she got the message anyway,

Now my question is, should i have stayed with her because she was 30something after knowing she might not be able to conceive?
Most people who don't know why i dumped her (i kept it secret for her sake) kept saying i was unfair to her!
What do you all feel? Was i unfair?

i thank God for you ooooooh firstly cos it was ONLY Pelvic infection and not HIV.you wud have been singing a different song now.
you dont marry someone cos of self pity,the ppl i heard did that got frustrated and packed up.she wud find the right man in the same age frequency with her and likewise you .how old you sef dey

hehe.
kronk i hear you. no comment yet
lol-ing and fart-ing

**strolls in leisurely,spots the kiss asses,qiuckly pulls down shorts and expects . . *