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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 7:48pm On Jul 02, 2017

kaziblake:
Looking for cheap likes
Pretender!Go and marry first and see how it feels.

oops..how do u knw me...hv we dated b4? dnt judge me boy if ent know me..no hating doh...and if u hv d mentallity dat marriage is a WORLD CLASS trophy dat must b won den baba u ar doomed..I passed a suggestion for restoration of an emotionally weak man not for "likes" on me. plz direct ur kind heart to d welfare of d op not me..#winks

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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 7:24pm On Jul 02, 2017

BiafraBushBoy:
Lol... oya borrow me your spare money, let me do MMM...

Any "investment" you do with spare money (Money you can afford to lose) is not an investment...

It is gambling!!

Take note sweety!!

Lol...ivn d so called investment is a gamble(dats if u knw wat gambling is)..Let me make it easy.

Investment: Risk

gamble: Risk

Investment: Loses ar inevitable

Gamble: Loses ar inevitable

If am stil wrong..fix me right

Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 7:09pm On Jul 02, 2017

greyboy5000:
OK I get your point
But my comments was motivational in a way

Now the op is clearly feeling down at the moment so it is obvious he may not be motivated to go extra miles to change his situation
the wife may not motivate the op either because of her behaviour
But the son is neutral here, probably the only bright spark in ops marrige

That is why I used the son as a source of motivation and inspiration

Ok, I now clearly undastand. U ar right. Mind u..if dis situation continues and d boy grows up to knw its his mom dat keeps up wit home stuff,broda..d lil man wunt b neutral anymore. So OP, sleeve up, go into d hustle and n set tinz right in ur family.

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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 7:00pm On Jul 02, 2017

BiafraBushBoy:
You were making sense till you mentioned MMM.

Make I no land you brain resetting SLA....p

Bro MMM stil pays ai...d reseason y i mentioned MMM is dat his MONEY works for him witout sweat...Den he cn direct his sweat into looking fr a job. N wen i said MMM i mean lil like 20/30/40k. He will b getting interesting witout sweats. d people dat ar crying on MMM brekdown ar d greedy ones...It wz ivn a serious from page warning on MMM 'Use you SPARE MONEY' but greed cn let piple knw sup. If i am stil wrong wif wat i hv jst said plz point it out.

Question: is it better he stays at home spending d lil he got? is it beta he spends d lil he got nw into transportation and noting is coming in? bro MMM cn solve dat problem. he gets interest fr it to run around n do oda tinz til he finds his feet or do u want him to beg his wife for transport money which will break his heart cz she must insult him or do u want him to go beg his friends for transport money n his friends will mock him/help a lil den stops at somtime or people dat wunt ivn help atool.

plz if am stil wrong...do fix me right, tnx

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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 6:45pm On Jul 02, 2017

greyboy5000:
Bro the biggest headache in your story is that she keeps records and then she uses it to bully you when ever you get into argument with her

Now everything else seems like normal behavior of ladies, particularly the ones you started dating when you have already made something of your self.

The only solution is for you to remain calm in this period, perhaps these is the period you earn the tittle of the man of the house

I know what you are thinking.
If you remain calm, people and your wife may take you for a fool, but looking at the defination of a fool which is a person who has no idea of what he/she is doing. Keeping calm in your situation will not make you a fool

Finnaly, I know you will have heard these a thousand times, so it will be like music to your ears, but seriously you need to find something doing not for your own or your wife sake but the sake of your boy

Stay blessed

I swear if he makes dat mistake of "sake of ur boy" den dats d begining of OPs end. Biko did he force himself to make a child? It is THEIR(Both man and woman) responsibility to care fr dia child. Remove dat "Sake" deceptive crap. Show ur boy love and giv him wen u can but if u do silly tinz ALONE for his sake...den ur doom awaits u..Abeg na both of una get pikin no b only u nor her

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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 6:41pm On Jul 02, 2017

greyboy5000:
Bro the biggest headache in your story is that she keeps records and then she uses it to bully you when ever you get into argument with her

Now everything else seems like normal behavior of ladies, particularly the ones you started dating when you have already made something of your self.

The only solution is for you to remain calm in this period, perhaps these is the period you earn the tittle of the man of the house

I know what you are thinking.
If you remain calm, people and your wife may take you for a fool, but looking at the defination of a fool which is a person who has no idea of what he/she is doing. Keeping calm in your situation will not make you a fool

Finnaly, I know you will have heard these a thousand times, so it will be like music to your ears, but seriously you need to find something doing not for your own or your wife sake but the sake of your boy

Stay blessed

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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 6:23pm On Jul 02, 2017*

Its high time you men should stop giving us girls money but rather buy her gifts( d ones u cn afford o) if she cant cope wit it n she cheats or dares to break up..plz wit all joy.. let her go. She ent d kind dat cn giv u peace. Most fat men ar fat not mainly because of d food dia wives feeds on them but because of PEACE!!!

do u knw wat peace can giv? happiness, joy, etc..name dem.....well Op i undastand wat u ar goin tru. It gets into our heads wen we earn mor dan our spouse some/most times.

Advise for men: before u settle with her..make sure she is earning n make contribution for FAMILY(not only a man) upkeep. Marriages can b so sweet wen both couple take up home responsibilities happily because u dint marry her jst fr her to b on d receiving end. OP if she venture asks if u ar a man plzzzz denounce being a man. I swear dat will scatter her head.lol...well u made a mistake at 1st...dats wat Emeka ike is goin through now sha...so key into my suggestion if u can..d choosing is left for u

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Family › Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 6:11pm On Jul 02, 2017*

This is the reason most well doing men dont flaunt dia money wen dating girls. Like i once said "U know d depth of loyalty from a woman wen her man got noting..and d loyalty of a man wen he got everything" OP jst calmly tell her to b paying bills dat u will refund her back and start lookin fr a job, meanyl if u cn invest d lil u hv in MMM n b looking around fr anoda appointment. Broda if u finally get a job n she brings d list of fr u to refund jst tell her to giv u somtime, u shud go write a list of all u hv bin spending wen u both wia dating, all d money u spent on both white n traditional wedding and all d expenses u cn fabricate and tell her to pay up all diz tinz before u refund her money back. You sef u wud hv opened a shop for her or tell her to hustle as well or look for a job, its easy fr us to get a job, the make it mandatory dat contribution will b 50/50..or 60/40. men u guys hv com togeda to b one..forget dat MAN Provider mentallity nonsense. Oya drop dead n see if she wunt take care of her kid/kids by hustling. Op if u knw hw u cn start pinning ur mouth wen she talks plz kindly do. If she takes ur PEACE plz dnt beat her..Kindly n gently in a romantic way carry her back to her father/mother's house...dats our only refactory and reset mode but before u do dis make make sure YOU hv paid d current house rent and earning lil cash...ivn if its lil..Thank me later.

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Romance › The Reason For Love: Why Did You Say YES!!! by Ifyone123(op): 9:24am On Jun 28, 2017

Love makes you weak and vulnerable but that same love makes a gloomy day shine bright. Most of us do lie and say "NOTHING, I just love you for you" When asked the question: Why do you love me? but on the long run, something(s) attracted you to him/her and made you say YES/PROPOSED.

Was it her beauty, her figure, her personality/character, his looks, his riches, so many reasons for you to accept a guy's proposal or to ask her to be yours.

So Ladies..What made you accept his proposal to date/marry you.

Gents...What made you ask her to date/marry you.

Married Couples..Do you know?

Nlander fams, Share with us.

Health › Please HELP by Ifyone123(op): 6:10am On Jun 27, 2017

i could not sleep all through the night because my two nostrils were blocked with dry catarrh that does not want to come out. i can not breathe with my nostrils and Opening my mouth makes me conscious. i have tried inhaler, rub, breathing in and out steam. Please which strong drug should i uses to end this trouble that cost me entirely my night sleep and what should i avoid?

Romance › Re: She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 11:21am On Jun 22, 2017

NairalandCS:
All I can say is that there is no manual on how to live life.

Read your bible...It will teach and guide you on how to live life RIGHT. It is (Bible) indeed a manual.

Romance › She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 11:10am On Jun 22, 2017

Men note this:

1) If she does not and can not spend on/for you, She is not worth it.

2) If she can't contribute intellectually to your life, she is not worth it.

3) If all she can offer is sex, she is not worth it.

4) If she can't take you out for a date atleast twice or thrice and take care of the bills, she is not worth it.

5) If you caught her with EVIDENCE over a cheat allegation and she still denies it with lies, she is not worth it.

6) If she only flashes you EVERYTIME and expects you to call her, she is not worth it.

7) If she asks for airtime and flashes, texts or only calls just to say thank you and cuts without saying few words, she is not worth it.

cool

If she says you are stingy but she has never given you a dime, she is not worth it.

9) If she begs you to trust her, she is not worth it. Trust is earned and won not given.

10) If she does not pray with/for you, she is not worth it.

11) If she does not appreciate the little you give her but rather complains on what she cant acquire herself, she is not worth it.

12) If she does not exhibit or have a hustling spirit to make money legitimately but solemnly depend on a man's pocket to attain a rich level, she is not worth it.

13) If you can't see 6/7 qualities from all I mentioned above in her, She is not SERIOUS with you.

Most ladies of our time have lost what it takes to be THAT WOMAN. That's why most men, especially the rich takes us for granted because there feel they are doing us a favour by spending their money on us. Imagine how much respect we can earn and command from these men if we don't depend on them to live a quality life Independently without hoping on thier pockets or considering how fat his bank account is for our financial break through. We need to step up our game. We are helpers not PARASITES. Helpers are well appreciated, recognized, never forgotten and hard to let go but parasites are gotten rid off. This is the 21th century. Let's earn that respect and LEAD a perfect example to our daughters.

Note this: Relationship/marriage is not about how compatible you both are but how you deal with your incompatibility.
Like the wise once said...

"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing; A man's loyalty to his woman is tested when he has everything" Contribute positively into his life and see if he will not RESPECT YOU.

She ain't worth your time/money/attention.

Well.... Keep the "If" rolling

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Celebrities › Re: Rosaline Meurer Writes Open Letter To Her Future Husband by Ifyone123(f): 10:50am On Jun 22, 2017

maxtop:
I wonder how this piece will make Buhari come home and sign the budgets.

IMO Sister Tonto just ruin her marriage with 'strong head '. She can only have my sympathy if Mr. Churchrat[s][/s] sorry, Churchill met her a virgin.

or even after one or two body counts

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Celebrities › Re: Rosaline Meurer Writes Open Letter To Her Future Husband by Ifyone123(f): 10:47am On Jun 22, 2017

and dis happened after churchill said he does not want tonto again..just hmmmmmring

Romance › Re: I Need Help On My Relationship by Ifyone123(f): 1:15am On Jun 22, 2017

But wait o...since u said "U tink you hv falling inluv wit d wrong person" dat means u knw she is? which help do u nid again...to teach or show u hw to RUN?

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Romance › Re: I Need Help On My Relationship by Ifyone123(f): 1:13am On Jun 22, 2017

bros....run. Her ex takes her for shopping and club yet der ar not togeda....broda..RUN. She will milk u high n dry n go to d next dude n say dsame tin..bros RUN. She cn neva change her abusive ways. Dnt ivn try to b patient wit her.. Bros RUN

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Romance › Re: She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 10:21pm On Jun 20, 2017

Dlordsamurai:
lol its her mates that attends church services looking for husbands, not knowing that their character are what is driving husbands away.

Beauty attracts a man. Good character keeps him but most of us don't know this...

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Romance › Re: She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 9:27pm On Jun 20, 2017

sekxy:
minister for women affairs...hope u worth all

when you find her you will know

Romance › Re: She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 9:21pm On Jun 20, 2017

Safiaa:
Which one is she does not worth it again. Ah beg go to school and evaluate the definiton of worthiness. Nonsense

Thanks alot love

Romance › Re: She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 9:20pm On Jun 20, 2017

Fadiga24:
She 'IS' not worth it.

Thanks.. Corrected. winks'

Romance › She Is Not Worth It by Ifyone123(op): 9:12pm On Jun 20, 2017*

Men note this:

If she does not and can not spend on/for you, She is not worth it.

If she can't contribute intellectually to your life, she is not worth it.

If all she can offer is sex, she is not worth it.

If she can't take you out for a date atleast twice or thrice and take care of the bills, she is not worth it.

If you caught her with EVIDENCE over a cheat allegation and she still denies it with lies, she is not worth it.

If she only flashes you EVERYTIME and expects you to call her, she is not worth it.

If she asks for airtime and flashes, texts or only calls just to say thank you and cuts without saying few words, she is not worth it.

If she says you are stingy but she has never given you a dime, she is not worth it.

If she begs you to trust her, she is not worth it. Trust is earned and won not given.

If she does not pray with/for you, she is not worth it.

If she does not appreciate the little you give her but rather complains on what she cant acquire herself, she is not worth it.

If she does not exhibit or have a hustling spirit to make money legitimately but solemnly depend on a man's pocket to attain a rich level, she is not worth it.

If you can't see 5/6 qualities from all I mentioned above in her, She is not SERIOUS with you.

Most ladies of our time have lost what it takes to be THAT WOMAN. That's why most men, especially the rich takes us for granted because there feel they are doing us a favour by spending their money on us. Imagine how much respect we can earn and command from these men if we don't depend on them to live a quality life Independently without hoping on thier pockets or considering how fat his bank account is for our financial break through. We need to step up our game. We are helpers not PARASITES. Helpers are well appreciated, recognized, never forgotten and hard to let go but parasites are gotten rid off. This is the 21th century. Let's earn that respect and LEAD a perfect example to our daughters.

Note this: Relationship/marriage is not about how compatible you both are but how you deal with your incompatibility.

Like the wise once said...

"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing; A man's loyalty to his woman is tested when he has everything" Contribute positively into his life and see if he will not RESPECT YOU.

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Family › Will You Date/Marry Your Opposite Or Someone Like You? by Ifyone123(op): 1:24pm On Jun 15, 2017

What do you think of the idea that opposites attract? Does it hold any truth in your relationships/marriage? And if, indeed, you are attracted to your opposite and decide to marry him/her...will it last? Will you date/marry someone with thesame character/attitude like you?

Honest answers please...

Fashion › Re: Is Self-Love The Key To Ending Africa’s Skin Bleaching Syndrome? by Ifyone123(f): 4:10pm On Jun 13, 2017

Ekakamba:
It ain't about just bleaching, if you truly love yourself you gonna stop artificial nails, eye lash, brow, sole, palm, laps, bumbum, bweast, arm, ear, eye, attachment etc

you forgot to add makeup or makeover. whatever its called.

Politics › Re: FCT Indigenes Protest Unclad In Abuja Over Marginalization (Photos) by Ifyone123(f): 3:29pm On Jun 13, 2017

eleojo23:
Very bad

word!!! we all have one common enemy. Be it Hausa, Igbo, yoruba and other tribes...Our common enemies are CORRUPTION, TERRORISM and UNEQUALITY.

Politics › Are There Abandoned? Two People That Fought Alongside Nnamdi Kanu by Ifyone123(op): 9:03pm On Jun 12, 2017

On 23 November, 2015, Nnamdi Kanu was arrested on charges and count trial of criminal conspiracy, intimidation and membership of an illegal organisation by Nigeria's Department of State Services (DSS) alongside two persons agitating for the Nation Of Biafra.

On 28, April 2017, Nnamdi kanu was granted bail and released from kuje prison to unite with his family leaving behind two Biafra agitators still in detention at kuje prison, Abuja.

It is 45 days today after Kanu's release and nothing has been done to secure the release of the other agitators in detention.

Is this politics playing its con or are the detained agitators already abandoned? What are the Indigenous People Of Biafra doing about their release?

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Politics › Re: Whatsapp Conversation Between Two Igbos by Ifyone123(op): 4:40pm On Jun 11, 2017

Politics › Re: Whatsapp Conversation Between Two Igbos by Ifyone123(op): 4:32pm On Jun 11, 2017

Politics › Whatsapp Conversation Between Two Igbos by Ifyone123(op): 4:31pm On Jun 11, 2017

Saw this on facebook and i decided it will be good to share with Nlanders

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