dhameelare:
Nothing u say is going to make him stop.

U shld mind ur own business or he'll see u as an enemy in the long run

The issue is that I can't mind my business on this issue, he is family! and I can't just watch him tow this path of destruction. on the other hand I'm trying not to betray his trust, Cos he is someone that has looked up to me all his life and doesn't keep anything away from me, I actually know about this relationship because he wanted me to. If I betray his trust this one time it will affect our relationship negatively. The thing is I just have to be diplomatic about this whole issue and it requires wisdom which I seek from the good people of nairaland. but many are telling me about coffIN and grave digging.

Salliet:


Send him an anonymous threat message. Posing as the jealous husband. Make him think you are aware and waiting for the right time to strike!

nice one. This is what I'll do.

GuntersChain:
If the woman gets pregnant the husband will take care of the children. You will have unknown niece and nephew.

She got pregnant recently and wanted to keep it but couldn't for two reasons.
1 her husband was visiting
2 my brother insisted she aborts the baby

gentlestdude:
bahd guy... op face your business

He is my business sir. Can't watch him bring destruction upon himself. even if he fails to take my advice, I'll keep pushing till I exhaust all my options.

DDDEnterprises:
If you've talked to him severely but he still persists, start saving money for his coffin... Cause he may soon die young.

e no go reach this leve by GODs grace

My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

To learn Skill on bomb diffusion and bullet dodging I guess.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

A real nigga is disappointed at OP for not including bombing on that list.

doctore212:
I knack one girl for the community .
I don't know if it was jazz or something else.

But wetin I know be say once they pay me my allowed,I go carry am give her she go collect and give me 2k5 which is just sufficient for my transport.

The only thing I bought during my service years was two boxers.

Fear PH girls.

Amaka I no go beta for you

no be jazz my gee! The kpekus was just magical. I don laf taya

Nonexisting:
Something is fishy about this Buhari. Could it be that the real Buhari has surfaced?

something is truly fishy, but we can clearly see through the scam

I can only go to a place like that as a soldier having all the necessary gadgets to defend myself, which I'm not even still safe not to talk of going as a civilian touring the dangerous terrain of maiduguri. You even seem to be having fun! please be safe, the bad guys(boko boys) are very much out there.

Simeonee111:


Take it or leave it, Yahaya Bello is going to gain a very massive support come 2023

He has built a University in Kogi
He has fixed rural roads across the 3 sentatorial districts
He is building giant hospitals everywhere in Kogi
Kogi workers get paid every month end
He has employed over 3,000 health workers
He has empowered security and made Kogi one of the safest places

You may not like him for your own political reasons
But this guy is one of the best Governors currently in Nigeria and he has my support for 2023!

your mumu no too much like this!

Clowns

Na we deh here, i even sel my mama new pot and all those big spoon weh dem deh use turn party rice.

Cant believe i was actually crushing on this corrupt woman.

Olofin2:


Yes. I do deliver the messages if it's about the relatives. It's usually from dead parents to their children who are my relatives. The recipients adhere to the messages if it doesn't involve spending much money. For me to believe the message is real, the dead would tell me some secrets about recipients which I would first find out from recipients. If true, I would then go ahead to deliver their messages.

ordinary things no fit move you again.

Coincidentally last night, a few minuites to twelve i was outside with my towel around my waist staring at the giant moon in the sky, admireing the beauty of GODs creation and trying to wrap my head around it all when i head a tiny little voice in my head "you deh try understand how GOD deh reason? e be like say u wan crase" i just jejely enter house

Olofin2:



This one is small compared to what I do in dreams. Dead people would send me errands to living people and I would ask them questions back. If they say the living person should send a certain object or valuable thing to them, I would ask how the living will be able to send it since the dead and living don't live in the same plane and and the dead would give instructions concerning how to do it.

ahhhhh! So do you deliver this mesages? If yes, how do the recipients respond to them?

illicit:
There's this feeling sometimes when u sleep, u really want to wake up but u can't
It's scary

sleep paralysis! thats what the white man calls it, but my village brothers say na village people they come press person for night. First time i experienced it was in my room back then in the university. it wasnt funny at all, When i finally gained control of my body i was all sweaty and really scared even with the fan on. Ive read about it before so i knew immediately it was the sleep paralysis ive been reading about or village people get my time that period whichever one is valid. Not long after that first experience about a few days interval it happened again. What i observed was that at both times i was sleeping facing up while it happened so i try as much as possible to control my sleeping position. E neva happen to me since then but anytime i loose guard leave body anyhow con turn face up i deh get nightmares.

No be juju be that?

nsiba:
Agbero husband and Olosho Wife

union made in the park.

richmond500:
Ojukwu wasn't innocent civilian, ND militants aren't innocent civilians, BH aren't innocent civilians

when they defeat bokoharam?

Beautiful family. Live no ballance so we pray to be on the better side of the scale someday

stanliwise:

Well speaking about it and keeping the consciousness until justice is found is our major problem. We easily let things slide away in this country and for this single reason our corrupt leader knows just how to buy time since they know we would forget with time

Nobody is talking about isah pantami anymore.

Kandeed:


if dem kill u run enter barrack Baba ur wailing start and ends on Twitter or anywhere o he wey beg is not foolish. some are saying fight back bla bla if you attack military men on uniform and it was caught on camera you were attacking him whatever befalls you become ur lot even if ur killed. to me the driver was a wise dude and not a coward

This act is babaric and shouldnt be allowed to continue. What do you advise we do, should we keep begging for mercy in the face of oppression? Are we now slaves in our own country?

We have so many mad men on uniform.


The civilian populace are not helping matters, you dont just stand and lament from afar when you see innocent civilians getting brutalized by this idiots on uniform. You speak up for them, when many people stand up to them in one voice they will backout. Las las how many people soldier go kill... we really need to revive aluta spirit not this 'e no concern me attitude ' we have to understand that those people are our servants and as such have as much power as we give to them. The demi god attitude they portray is all our fault.

why is the emphasis on the sale of beer when the deplorable state of living condition in the barracks should be the utmost priority

Does she even have the power to that? Oh well, its still our banana repuplic where the families and extended families and even friends and neigbours of a government official create offices for themselves and starts exercising unconstitutional authorities.


ive been opportuned to visit the bar beach police barracks and was even scared of entering the appartment of my host as the building was so old with so many cracks on the wall and looked like it could cave in at any point in time.
The police job is risky enough and our men and women of the force shouldnt be made to live under such a risky condition.
The government really need to do something about the welfare of the men and woman of the nigerian police as it will be a major contribution to the much needed sanity in the force.

Baba just vaasa me anything make i see front.,if i say my i drop my needs here e fit choke you. 'lean on me no mean say make you press me die' anything you fit do will be strongly appreciated.

Johel:


Send email "johelchyville@gmail.com"

sent boss

Johel:



Hi...I can help u out genuinely with a job and accommodation.

i need help too sir

Benz4pimp:
this your comment about glory,made me shed tears...3 weeks ago,I was pleading with my neighbor to take me to his pastor,I have invested in different areas but no returns yet,I was close to depression.my neighbor started playing me,if I ask him today,he will say tomorrow morning,the next morning,he will say evening.chai me that hate to beg!!!he did this for 2 weeks,I just ex him.bro,my 4bed duplex don reach decking as at today in space of 10 days.....funny enough he still took 500# from me yesterday

baba no cut d soap i know say you deh manage am, make i just rub am for my head.

abiodun175:
It is true my sister, perhaps God doesn't want anyone to take the glory as you rightly said. I was once in this situation whereby people promise me heaven on earth after graduation, but nothing manifested. The good God make it happen for me when the time is right, and no one other than him can take the glory. My brother just keep believing, and keep praying to God to give you the best.

I can totally relate, so many broken promises. I never imagined myself being in my current situation but it is what it is and like they say 'life no balance'. I believe my breakthrough will come in no distant time.