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[color=#9900ff]Kai this cat sef. You lucky dem nor throway you for garbage disposal. Strong head too much [/color]

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=586092.msg7536856#msg7536856 date=1295077559]true. they are merely adapting to the foreign culture. and even still, not all do. I've seen posts here where foreign wives complain that their nigerian husbands are not romantic enough.

this is where the problem probably lies. To most Nigerians, when a man marries outside of the tribe, it is the wife's duty to assimilate into the husband culture. rather than the husband assimilating into the wife's culture.
but what do you do when you are in a society where your wife's culture is dominant?

that's why I came up with a theory that most intercultural/interracial marriages happen between males of the dominant culture and females of the minority culture. this is considering that both cultures are patriarchal.
within a matriarchial dominant culture, the wife marries someone of a minority culture
within a matriarchical minority culture, the male marries someone in the dominant culture.

the aim of this is for both dominant and minorities to preserve their cultures within the society.[/quote][color=#9900ff]Quite true.
But there are still instances the wife of a dominant culture still plays the minority part.[/color]

m155y:
@ iice - food does it for u?? lol

[color=#9900ff]Yes
I'm not big on compliments. Too much yapping for me. [/color]

da student:
@iice,Human Target has been cool even with the new additional permanent cast members.

[color=#9900ff]Bleh Unnecessary female members. Especially that Ames girl. I just wish Guerrero ties her up and dumps her in a lagoon. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Dang! Gotta get my toe shoes[/color]

[color=#9900ff]And the one you're watching now is?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Bloodrayne. . .pitiful work[/color]

[color=#9900ff]For wetin? [/color]

[color=#9900ff] Not meant for public consumption [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Food[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Wasn't she raped by a family member? And that counts like dating someone? smh[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Gawd. . .what week? Need to get away[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Well why didn't you say the person was fantasizing and not what happened in reality?
It's like i see it talking but it's not really speaking[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Spaghetti and chips, eba/fufu and egusi with hot lemon drink[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I thought he was gorgeous. He still is. He made a movie with Tom Cruise and Kirsten Dunst, that swept me off my feet. Now he has babies with Angelina Jolie. [/color]

[quote author=deli.cious link=topic=586020.msg7534493#msg7534493 date=1295038995]Whatever happened to writing in plain, easy to understand English.[/quote][quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=586020.msg7535321#msg7535321 date=1295048433]Hook on Phonetics![/quote][color=#9900ff] Makes the person seem dumber than he/she actually is.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]So people should not have the right to change their minds?
Incessant blathering.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I think the author is prejudiced [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If you have patience. . .work with him/her to tone down the possessiveness. 
It's not a guarantee the person will actually change but if he/she does. . .lucky you.
If not. . .please find someone else, unless you're cool with the over-possessiveness.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Egusi and Vegetable soup with Eba.
The cravings can drive pesin to madness [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I'm not really a 'changing' person. I still am the person i was 20yrs ago [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Ahhh ahh.
Yes i'm single, frustrated and Old. Is that all that is bothering you?
It's good NL is just a forum that you want to take my old frustrated single problems on your head or is your real life not busy enough for you?
Tunnel rotunda[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Brother
If needs and some wants are met. . .it is all good. [/color]

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=582473.msg7520322#msg7520322 date=1294893093]IIce stop teasing . . .lol[/quote][color=#9900ff]I dey ask nau. I don't know what you're thinking [/color]


[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7529253#msg7529253 date=1294979923]@iice
Having problems is not d problem we all do but dat lack of undastandin just kills it 4 me.
4 u lemme guess u are tom-boy n u are fiercely independent. so wat else?[/quote][color=#9900ff]True that. I just refer to them as my problems so no long tori
Plenty ooo [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Well i don't like people in my biz, but with someone in my life. . .i'm not so particular.
It's not like there's anything there i haven't told him before [/color]

gohome:
Deceive you how, to make silly statement like whether na 1 Naira?

[color=#9900ff]Erhhh i guess the essence of your post is lost on you [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Thank you @ the two posters above.

Yes some women try to trap guys.
But we all have to take our responsibilities in the scenarios.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]What led to him asking for a list?[/color]