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[color=#9900ff]I find it hilarious. Yes i get them sometimes but like most compliments. . .i tend not to remember them. Irrelevant to me.[/color]

rokiatu:
If you had your chance with that woman, you just blew it like a wind. What a dumb answer

nothing unsexier than a dumb man

[color=#9900ff]lmfao[/color]

[color=#9900ff]If it's shocking to you, she's being disrespectful to you whether she means it or not.
If she denied it and you have the pages, she's lying to you.
The stress is not worth it.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Can i take two separate weeks? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Bored[/color]

ARE YOU FOR FEMINISM OR AGAINST FEMINISM?
[color=#9900ff]I agree with Ify.  Feminism means different thing to different women.  Certainly age does play some effect on it.  Am i independent? Yes. . .i was raised thus and i would still prefer to be raised so.[/color]

WHAT DO MEN AND WOMEN REALLY WANT FROM/IN A RELATIONSHIP?
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Others are as follows:


1. Can you tell just by a few minutes after meeting him/her that he/she is the one for you?
[color=#9900ff]No.  I'm too cynical to believe in the good of people.  They are devious.  I have to know who he is for him to be someone.[/color]

2.Can you tell a husband/wife material just by spending a day/a few hours with them?
[color=#9900ff]No.  Same as the first one.[/color]

3.How long do you think a good courtship should last? how long is too long?
[color=#9900ff]For the most part, i agree with Ify.  Depends on the people involved and what goes for them.  It can be anywhere between 2 to 10yrs.  [/color]

4.Men/women would you rather be in a 50-50 relationship or have one person play the part of  the "head of the home" ?
[color=#9900ff]I wouldn't say 50-50.  He is the head but he should also be able to make compromises and give me leeway when i'm right.  It shouldn't be all his way nor should he have to shoulder all the responsibilities no matter how broad his shoulders are.  He is human after all.[/color]

5.Men: Do you think taking money from your GF/wife makes you a lazy person? Especially those in a relationship and not yet married do you really think accepting money from your GF makes you a lesser being?is it right to take money from your GF?
 
Women:Even during courtship do you feel bad accepting money from your Lover? or do you feel it is your right to have a man be a man in the relationship and provide for you no matter how little? will you accept money from a lover when he offers you some?
[color=#9900ff]I can give cash.  
I'm like blank on this.  Never receive, will not accept.  My father raised me not to ask and not to accept.  I rarely spent money when i was a younger.  If i cannot afford it then i made do without it.  I will not die for lack of it.  My exception is food  Yes he can buy me food anytime [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes but that's just me.[/color]

Blackteeth:
Besides I have long noticed how you keep posting scrambled messages here. I guess thats your way of claiming intelligence. I don't even remember any single wise and well-thought coment you have made on NL.

[color=#9900ff]Yes. . .your intelligence for all it's worth could only stretch to that explanation.  Don't be bothered jare. You already explained that was your OWN intelligence.   And temperament do not maketh a person intelligent.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Johnny? Absofreakinglutely[/color]

[color=#9900ff]What are you babbling about? Cannot even make sense of the post.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I checked too. . .couldn't find anything substantial. It's the optimus tab right? Or something like that[/color]

Canisma:
If u know what philosophy means, then every issue here on NL is purely philosophical. Again respect is the regard u give to just people around you while in special respect, it involves people that mean even more to you, maybe because of what u expect to gain from them or whom and what they are to you.

[color=#9900ff]So do you respect your parents for what you get from them and 'what' they are to you? [/color]

Canisma:
Philosophically, scientific proofs are just weak cos they proceed from inductive reasoning -iice is tall. Tall ladies are ugly. Therefore, iice is ugly. This is how scientists come up with thier findings. So pls dont ask me for scientific proofs. @ your question, independent ladies are not a special case per se, rather im just writing with regards to the thread's topic. In order to make one loyal to you, you must, i repeat, MUST make that person somewhat dependent on you. Even God knows this, thats why we dont have every thing we need, hence we need Him everyday. Excessive women empowerment in America is the root cause of the high rate of divorce over there. Finally, if a woman is not somewhat dependent on a man materially, the man would simply not feel like a Man, either in a relationship or in marriage.

[color=#9900ff]It would seem weak to you being 'philosophical'.  But we can't rely purely on philosophy because they are subject to man's emotions and reactions (very unreliable set of species). Again so you are only loyal to your parents because of your dependency on them?  And the atheist and other religions? Do they depend on God everyday? Is it because you don't feel like a man when a woman doesn't depend on you for material things, you assume other men feel less of who they are?  You are projecting but then again with the human element. . it obscures what is simple.  If a person has no loyalty, regardless of the situation, he/she will not show loyalty.  Just as if it's in the character of a person to remain loyal, regardless of the situation, he/she will remain loyal.  [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hard to do. If you have to say no, explain why.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Wow those are beautiful

Next time i renew my vows i'll wear something like that [/color]

[color=#9900ff]30, i think[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Clash of the Titans (I'm a huge fan of greek mythology and of the original movie.  Very weak effort)
Percy Jackson. . .again very weak effort
I'm not a fan of the R.E series (Milla while is cool and all, but she always looks like she's about to have a apoplexy in all her roles) except for R.E:Degeneration because it's animated.
That Ethan Hawke film of vampires. . .being one of my favorite topics, you can imagine my disappointment.
Legion. . .angel fights are cool but it reminds me of the 'Gabriel' movie with Andy Whitfield i.e. initially looks cool then quickly degenerates to wth-i-can't-believe-i-wasted-my-time-watching-this-ish.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]^^lol very true[/color]

[color=#9900ff]How dumb can people get? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Chile. . .is that philosophical?
What's the difference between respect and special respect? [/color]

Canisma:
It is in human nature not to feel that we owe someone a special respect if we feel that there is nothing material that we can get/need from him or her. So the same feeling goes on in independent ladies.

[color=#9900ff]If we feel there is nothing we can get from him or her with regards to human nature, what makes it a special case in independent ladies since primarily it is human nature.  Or are independent ladies are a sub species of the human species? Please provide scientific proof to verify their sub-speciesness.[/color]

Canisma:
The inevitable ripples of marriage makes them to realise that the only thing they need from thier spouse is just luv and maybe companionship. And when it aint coming, they damn everything, including the weak loyalty they ve been showing. Therefore, the more independent a lady is, the less her level of loyalty. Thank you. Im a graduate of philosophy anyway,

[color=#9900ff]If their loyalty was weak from the beginning, it's common sense to know that weak loyalty will remains so.  Or did you think a man's money will make any difference?  Going by your post, i can assume you understand that loyalty is a characteristic of a person and not a situation/circumstance/pedigree.  Again, what does loyalty have to do with independence?   [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I'm rarely get attached to people.  So kicking people out or them leaving really has little effect on me [/color]

[color=#9900ff]It's not what i mean.
Yeah humans appreciate their fellow member of the species by their looks. [/color]

Blackteeth:
You ladies should quit this talk of intelligence. Everybody on earth has a brain.

[color=#9900ff]Well that takes you out of the pool of intelligent people.[/color]

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7510854#msg7510854 date=1294774359]your BF hardly gives u money for your hair, clothes, creme, etc but he buys u food, takes care of some bills, buys u credit n bales u out of financial messes,etc
[color=#9900ff]Is he supposed to give me money for things for my body? I can handle him buying food but i pay my bills and handle my own ish. [/color]

So if he does those things for u u gonna yell at him?[/quote][color=#9900ff]Why do i have to yell? Am i losing my voice or something?
I can settle for some sharing - half and half or alternate months with regards to bills.  As for hair and all that, sorry but no. . .it's not his responsibility.  Should he take responsibility for everything? What about wiping my nyansh?  [/color]


[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=582473.msg7510854#msg7510854 date=1294774359]Of all the guys that have toasted and are toasting u, BF is amongst the least financially capable.
[color=#9900ff]And the point is? [/color]

The point is BF is struggling while the others just cruise. It would ease alot of financial burdens for u if BF was cruising too.[/quote][color=#9900ff]Again what is the point?  Does his struggling make him less of the man he is? Or is money supposed to magically correct the 'character/spirit' of a person?  Should i ask him for yacht and jet plane? If we can eat, transport ourselves (no i dont mean owning a car), get a fair amount of our needs and wants. . .what is wrong with that? Ease which financial burdens? I should be raking up the financial burdens and dump it on his head to settle? What about his own financial burdens?

Sometimes i don't understand people.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Interesting. Maybe there are some reviews on it[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I love sleeping in the sun.  Ironic considering my undead status [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Moments of unattractiveness is not bad. It's after all, moments. Not everyone can be 'on' all the time

Anyway, i think one just has to communicate properly.
Remember the other attractive qualities too. Don't compare to other people.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I like fish[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Be very afraid! [/color]

[color=#9900ff]The xoom is getting rave reviews. . .[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sleep[/color]