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[color=#9900ff]He has a hard time letting go of what happened to him.
I agree with Arosa, trust is earned. And most people practice 'speak' claims. However in a situation where one partner refuses to see the good of the other, then it's not going to work out. BTW i can't really reconcile the possessiveness with setting up. Usually possessive people sequester their partners and try to dictate everything that goes on and should go on.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]She should practice boxing or wrestling because she likes it?
Anyway, you knew she was deeper life member before you dated her. I don't know what you're expecting [/color]

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=800718.msg9587257#msg9587257 date=1321652073]I'v being noticing it. I'm shocked 

I'm not into Black hollywood either. For me, it's a matter of the "black" personality and morals we derive from their stories. I think that black people need to resist acting out condescending roles in black hollywood. They need to step it up and raise their class. Consistent roles like  "highschool dropout mothers" or "bad mother and misbehaving child" or "Fatherless child" is really not helping the black community. Why  can't I see a successful black family or a black CEO in a successful company?

TBH, Black hollywood is not only condescending to black ppl, but it continues to show that black ppl cannot rise up beyond the "Ghetto situation" to be better than the best. Large percentage of human imitation comes from the television. So let's ask ourselves what our children and us ourselves are seeing and what we're interpreting.

Black Hollywood depresses me. And to make it worse, black hollywood is filled with black producers/directors who continue to categorize their color in a condescending manner.

As for Nollywood. . . . no comment for that junk industry.[/quote][color=#9900ff]lol

I agree with you. It's what irks me the most. Like we can't be anything other than some ghetto, drug sniffing, drug selling, gun toting, baby mama people. Sure it happens alot, but i'm not going to a movie to see what's happening down the block. I mean throw a little something totally different every once in a while. The other day i was watching something on Mark Walberg. He is typecast but he refused to remain in the box. So he does these tough guy roles but once in a while he tries something different. Hence his creating Entourage and co producing Boardwalk Empire. He said he knows he's not the first or second choice that casting directors and producers look to when finding an actor for a role, so instead of sitting back and waiting for some great role to fall on his lap, he went out and tried to do other things (within the movie industry) and create more chances for himself in terms of getting roles and being involved in movies.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I'm a words person. Nothing like wit and an agile mind to catch my attention.
I don't like pretty boys. Never have. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Nor cry

Gahhh so i have to really drag my bum to this shindig [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If i have time i'd like to read it[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I ignore alot of things. But i don't joke with my brothers.
She had better go report to him before i do because I will tell him. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Regardless of where he's from, he's a man and human being.
You need to have a good talk with him, what you want, what you hope to have with him, what he wants, what he hopes to have with you. What values are important to him, to you, what you will stand for, what he will stand for etc. Then open your eyes and watch. For the life of me, i can't understand why people can't read other people especially after forming a bond with them. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Love is wicked and heartless because people are wicked and heartless.
Love is a word/thing we give life to, thus it's flawed as we are. It's not a separate entity that operates outside the mind or actions of people. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Nigerian men have this thing with their looks. 'i'm a fine boi', 'people been telling me i'm handsome', 'i fine well well'.
Like they need to reassure and be reassured that they have 'looks'. Anyway all cause and effect.

I'm not shy to tell a guy he's handsome. Why should i be?
I can understand where megletters is coming from though.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Getting a bit pale [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Watch, eat or sleep? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Exhausted[/color]

Vieira:
New X-Men? Nope. Men this UK sha, always missing out on new shows.
Well I need to do a lot of torrenting when my Internet is back up!

[color=#9900ff]Anime style. Not my thing at all but as an Xmen fan, i'm obliged to watch it lol.
Anyway, it's interesting how it's shot. Like a long story cut into episodes, so next episode starts precisely where the previous stopped.


@Topic
Ringer
Revenge
BigBangTheory
Hell on Wheels
American Horror Story
Person of Interest
Mentalist[/color]

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=805180.msg9576469#msg9576469 date=1321529457]Care to expantiate pls. How old were you when the first kiss happened?. Do you think it was a mistake or is the guy worth it?[/quote][color=#9900ff]lol.
First kiss was cosmic.  Had that before my first boyfriend.  I was 15. Pictured how i wanted it to be.  Moon filled night, in a compound with fragrant flowers and background music from one of the houses, and he the final ingredient.  Yea, Odin did me well
Nothing to expatiate on first boyfriend.  It was a couple of months after my first kiss.  I picked who i wanted to be my bf.  Went for the bad boy of the town.  He was kinda sweet lol.  Helped that he was a friend, so no regrets.  I made that decision and that's it. Was he worth dating? Yes, they all are.  They are people who passed through my life ~ not that they changed me, i've always been who i am, always known who i am and what i want but it gave me a chance to learn more about people, so i don't really have regrets or hard feelings.  Prolly why i'm still friends with them.  There was a time for us to be partners, that time has passed, it's now time to be friends or not.  [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If it happens to be everyday. Once a day, preferably at the end of the day.
If i have my way. . .3 times a week [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If we've talked about it, yes.
If he just upped and asked. No. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Prolly 4 years younger. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]^^ Lol!


I think she should have worn something more funky. It's the grammys na. [/color]

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=805180.msg9573027#msg9573027 date=1321480454]Do you still remember when you wrote your first love letter or when you got your first boyfriend/girlfriend or when you had your first kiss ?. How old were you and was it a good decision at that age?.[/quote][color=#9900ff]On Letters: Never wrote one. Not my thing.
On first BF: Yes i remember
On first kiss: Ahhh. . .magical!
Good memories[/color]

moroh:
Thanks. so are sandals good enuf for 'dressing up'?

[color=#9900ff]In some situations yes.  But lets say, something like a wedding, i think a closed shoe looks more appropriate[/color]

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=804748.msg9573548#msg9573548 date=1321487880]What's native and palm slippers? [/quote][color=#9900ff]Native is our tradition clothes.
Palm slippers are these, though these are of an older design. [/color]
[img]http://4.bp..com/_BSUIbFWO9s4/SwAi576eLkI/AAAAAAAAABQ/c8utGgJ6_7Q/s320/MALE.jpg[/img]

[color=#9900ff]What gifts?
Only thing i accept is food.
If i have stuff he gave me, i prolly would return them.[/color]

fados4sure:
You try, thank you. Where is your location so that if it calls again, i will give you the phone to pick it.

[color=#9900ff]lol[/color]

[color=#9900ff]All boils down to choice. You make a choice, you live with the outcomes.
I have pride but i make decisions i can live with. I don't take my decisions lightly. No room for regrets. If i care enough, i will bend otherwise one is erased.
A guy once told me there are certain things i should hold back from telling someone i'm involved with. Gave me the usual spiel of what others and that someone may think of me. Like i care My own is that, i talk my own and move on. I'm concerned with what i can live with. Na him/her go live my life instead of me? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Felonry[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I think it works well with native but on events you need to dress up your feet.
Palm slippers are not that formal.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Don't like steamed foods except for moi moi.
I liked my food boiled, fried or baked[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Go to an ENT[/color]

[color=#9900ff]If that's you, it's you.[/color]