₦airaland Forum

BetaThings: You have issues.
If Islam is the problem, why were Nigerians (including christians) bent on staying in Libya even when the country was at war
Christians still go to UAE, Qatar and even Saudi Arabia
Do you think any citizen of those muslim countries want to live in the "peaceful" christians states in SE and SS?
If muslims were as violent as you claim, do you think you would live in peace
There are enough muslims to carry out at least 3 suicide bombings every day in every state, if muslims were as violent as christians claim
ie just 3 x 37 x 365
That is 41,000 people in a year
In 10 years, that is less than half a million
Think about this before you post
Muslims are generally peaceful. Dealing with millions of truly violent people is a scenario you cannot imagine!

sadyeek: [size=16pt]kk.. Fine!
But let me ask you a question, would be among a party of people say 50 in number go to a hostile territory with 200 or more hostiles wanting to kill one or more of them and expecting to walk out of there alive. Let's not forget, there are military personels and a curfew!?

Juat tink about it.[/size]

odiaero: U are so dumb with others, so u mean if i want to write on my profile that u are my friend, i will first of request from u, all this dumbass girls self on nairaland, next time read well, comprehend b4 u reply

slimyem: this is one big lie!
if anyone wants to declare a person being married to him/her,the other party would have to accept the request of family/relationship.
no one can do this without you consenting to it!
except this story happened in your dreams,find another lie!

olugirl:
i have lost count and am not yet even married, cos am not ready yet!

koolguy88:
ok, i think i'll do a fertility test but if it is proven by a qualified medical practioner that she cannot give birth to a child then i have no option but to move on with my life. i've neva in my life impregnate a girl or advice on abortion. it is bad, morally, medically, spritually and other wise. why should a girl start sleeping with a guy that will not marry her? What makes a girl so loose to date different guys, sleep with them and hoping to get married to someone else in the future?

IF MEDICINE PROVES THAT HER WOMB CANNOT PRODUCE CHILDREN B'COS OF THE ABORTION SHE HAD IN THE PAST, THEN I CANNOT MARRY HER.

thank

izeek:
telling these days is old fashioned,
just grab what u want simple.

maradonat:
why r u gals been so hash or is[b] this nigerian mentality[/b] that it is [b]cursing [/b]all this hate?i jst wht to tall i love her badly.wht do u say?

Goldieluks:
It kills,only the simple minded.

lindabon:
err, so how come you're still alive and typing?? 

OCCULTIST:
No it does not kill,it cures fever

claremont:
^^^^
90% of Indian marriages are arranged (no love there), yet they have the lowest divorce rates in the world. It could be that all Indians are insane!

claremont:
^^^^
Yes, they do! Our ancestors have been marrying on the basis of mutual compatibility for decades, and their marriages have lasted all through their earthly lives and possibly beyond. The high rate of divorce and singletons in our modern societies today has been proven to be correlated to the so-called "love" culture.

Phate07:

Can You Get Married Without Love?

Can you get married without the the premise of love?

Is basic tolerance and trust enough for you to involve yourself in the hectic institution known as marriage?
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ans = disaster!!!

mykali:
we just need a good title for this and add and subtract a few things, get a sponsor, a good director, the perfect actors . . .and we'll be rich!

Lexusgs430:
Have you drank to much Holy Communion Wine ?

190:
Ask pastor to give you 2M

He got you in this mess

He gets you out

Arkhin:
If you forgive her now, then you've laid down a precedence. She'll keep doing it. Push the two-faced,lying, double-dating,rooster sucking daughter of a violated Jezebel away.

Audrie:
Pls, I sincerely hope the poster is kidding.
@ poster, are you high on cheap drugs?

fernado56:
@ fellow nairalander well sorry for my broken and poor english, I was typing from my phone so that's why there was a lot of error , The most important thing is for you to understand my post which most member understood! Well to all people saying crap we have right to post anything that happen to us , If you don't believe it that's your own cup of tea let other say something meaningful ,

Korrection:
and[b] she started nearing me

izeek:
nwokem
ibu ezigbo anumpa.

liksy:
tell him this-- nwoke m ihe gi n'atom ka sugar. odi ka anyi mewa ihe iberibe ubochi nile. Afuru m ego gi n'anya,fu motor gi n'anya,fu ulo gi n'anya mana afuru m IHE gi n'anya karicha. agaghi m arapu gi oburu na ine eme m ya ofuma

sweetguy10:
Shesan, Mariam , Ayoka , dayo , bilikit , Shooooooooooo .Bros wetn happen nah ? name too much

engyn:
complicated,baseless, & , obnoxious

Cuddlemii:
I will suggest you start a column for mad pple on the street. This would sell under the bridge like wild fire.

Send a proposal to Yaba left for sponsorship for your column.

omopatos:
I am deeply touched by the story of this lady. You can only imagine the pain she had been through. This lady had a benefit of good education and she was not in lack of good job. She however had issue with her womb. She must have laboured under the thought of being a childless woman and the attendant social stigma. Honestly, we have a terrible culture around here which makes it look like there is no life without a child. This is not true. Civilization has not changed some people’s view of life- not even the supposedly sophisticated among them. Her situation was not helped by her fiancée who was probably her only motivation for living. She got abandoned when she needed him the most.
It is easy to hurl blame at this man for the lady’s unsavoury fate but truth is, how many of us men can stay having been in the know of the state of her womb before marriage? Few, for sure. But this is not supposed to be so. This life is not a flower in the garden. We all have issues and no one is immune against life’s vicissitudes. I guess the impact of the news shattered whatever remained of her courage to live. I know of people who are living with more terrible issues but for this sister, it was just too much for her depressed mind and she had to call it quit. I do not support suicide but we should be careful to blame her.
Please do not under-estimate the power of depression. To say it is devastating is to make an oversimplification of a serious issue. I have suffered depression big time. In fact,I doubt seriously if I have recovered fully from it. So I am eminently qualified to talk about it. In depression, it is you against the whole world. Living makes no sense to you. Your university Degrees or good job makes no sense either. You just want to get out of this system of things.
The question is: where is the place of love in all of this?
To our sisters in here, next time a man says he loves you, it will not be too much of a request to ask him to define it. Love is not a walk in the park. Think with your head because in a matter of the heart, logic is always in short supply. A man will say he loves you, yet he wants to force his way into your virginals. Please ask him to define that kind of love. When you are pregnant, he asks you to abort it before taking you to the altar. Again ask him to define that kind of love. If you abort and are unfortunate to have complications during evacuation which results, probably, in a similar case of the lady in question, he abandons you in the most unfriendly way. I like to say here that complications from abortion is just one of several reasons that could necessitate removal of womb. I am not in any way insinuating this was what happened to this sister since I am not privy to what transpired in the relationship, but my point is that ladies should be on guard because the are always at the receiving end.
And to my male folk, the fact that you leave a lady for another is not a guarantee that the new one does not or will not have issues. In fact, it could be worse. People get married and later in life suffer one disease or the other. It could be cancer or impotence. But nobody will come out to announce what he or she is going through because life must go on. And that is the time this real love we pretend to understand will be on call. I wish this lady had found that kind of love. Good bye, Motunrayo