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@ poster
1. Where you in any way forced into this marriage?
2. You can work things out with your husband
3. 4 years is not a day that you can throw away like that
and this your x that you want to go back to( you dont know sh*t about him he might just be a photocopy of your hussy, )
I dont advice people to LEAVE there marital home for ANY REASON, my dear you can still WORK IT OUT, you AND UR HUSSY lack COMMUNICATION,

@poster if a man cant propose, wonder how hm go fit runs things with the babe, nawa o,

@poster this is wat i think about this sitaution
1. you are a married woman and yes we are flesh but let the past be kept there
2. what you are doin is wat we call ( INDIRECT CHEATING)
3. an x of how many years comes back out of the blues , dont u think he HAS PLANS he knows you are married
4. Think TWICE, before you use your hand to wreck ur marriage,
5. Yes ur husband did something to you THAT you ffind it difficult to forgive, you know why u feeling that way now, because u have an alternative, UR X.
BUILD ON ROCK OOO THINK THINK THINK,
CHEERS

@poster, you were a cafe attentant then and seg didnt want you as you were then but now u don hammer wetin u won make we say, she just won help u spend , chics nawa for us ooo, listen to KANYE WEST SONG , GOLD DIGGER (ONE OF MY FAVOURITES) then u'll know wat we talking about,

@both of them work hand in hand, anyone that says otherwise is wrong,

my dear sorry for ur situation but its done already, marry him and settle down, dont even think of aborting the baby
1 is he asking for you to marry him, ?
2 Age is nothin in this sitaution, unless there is something else you are not tellin us?

nah i don't think so.?
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Like i said before, my fiance can not complete me cause am complete and he comes in for us to make a pair, most women make that mistake by saying HE COMPLETES ME thats a big NO NO if you cant complete yourself physically, emotionally and otherwise no man can, and u end up living a life that is not yours but the product of the completed MAN.
MY VIEW

my own view, i believe you must complete yourself first before someone else comes in to that, if you can not complete yourself i guess no one else can,

there aresome certain things that are not meant to be talked about and this is one of them, Any one that is anointed of God is God's servant and we do not have any right to talk bad or make jest about them,

He WAS A HOT BLOODED LIAR,

believe most people mis-interprete education, you can still be educated and still be a stake illitrate it all a product of the mind, i have an uncle who married and the wife wsn't a DIPLOMA,BSC,DEGREE,PHD,DOCTORATE holder but she was smart he never wanted to be seen with her in public, unfortunatly she died, he went home married a DEGREE HOLDER IN ENGLISH now if he has a way of rasing the dead he would do that.

i believe most people mis-interprete education, you can still be educated and still be a stake illitrate it all a product of the mind, i have an uncle who married and the wife wsn't a DIPLOMA,BSC,DEGREE,PHD,DOCTORATE holder but she was smart he never wanted to be seen with people in public, unfortunatly she died, he went home married a DEGREE HOLDER IN ENGLISH now if he has a way to rasing the dead he would do that.

@poster: is this guy really ur bf cause i dont see that been possible keeping a female visitor for a week my boyfreind huh, if he is ur bf then you Bleep up ( sorry for that) and this your bobo get LIVER to do that, thats why i ask
- Are you guys JUST freinds or Lovers
- Or did you broke up with him before this incident, cause this is like an INSULT to you as a LADY

@Diva1 NO IT NOT OK

I have gone out with a lady for 8 years, platonic kind of, without thinking of marrying her and she knew I won't though she's married now to my friend who met her during the period. I know some men did that.
And that brings me back to my question why do men keep on in relationship that they know nothing will COME out of,

@Diva1 ignore his cheating ass, i dont know why u kept on wit his lies all these while, forget him move on wit ur life gal

@olanajim , what are trying to say that she should have taken permission before confirming if wat she felt was true, well i never knew ladies was meant to take permission before you check on a ones cheating bofy,

@ poster, This is called "Reverse psychology" he is playin the victim MOST people (male or Female) do it, its a way of making you to put all the blame on urself, galfy dont let him play wit ur mind you know wat you saw so ACT on it, AM sure u know wat to do,

Before marriage this dude saw all these signs and still went ahead nawa o, @poster my dear let him RUN 40/40,

my x eat my p*** in a phone boot whilst i was on the phone talkin to a freind,

@poster only some DESPERATE guys can be trapped by preg. but not all, and ONLY DEPRDOS trap men with preg, if he is urs he will be urs so i dont see why gettin preg. for him will make him MARRY YOU

Good, ask for her opinion and make sure you are mentally ready having a baby wen you are not yet married is not easy ooo, ( out of experience)

and you must also be cheap too, i guess she should add a post ans ask if you are cheap too, cause i think its this mentality MOST people have that gals are the only one called CHEAP who she wan straff no bi guy, the guy is CHEAP too, sorry but thats my opinion NO HEART FEELINGS, MAN

@poster she is not cheap,

@ POSTER yea they can but only few i guess, JUST KNOW WAT YOU WANT GO FOR IT, BUT MAKE SURE HE LOVES YOU, AM IGBO engaged to a yoruba guy gettin married in june, so make sure he loves you,

@poster my bible tels me that" i lay before you life and death choose you life that you may live" life is all about choices, unfortunately he has made his own which is the wrong way but i pray that my father will touch you instantly for a change, can we take off this trend,

its a pity you are passing thru all these, well i guess she's made up her mind. I wish there is a way one can help you but we all online givin a helpin hand my dear think of your kid, he/she needs you, DRINKING wouldn't help you at this moment.(lomenihu@comium.gm), and please stop calling her,

well bros, this babe don waka bi that so the earlier u get it, the beter it will be for you, i guess she has it all planned and maped out
- Date this dude@ poster
- marry him
- Have one baby for him
- Hit the DOOR
- thats leaves you as BABY DAD, paying child support( car, montly alowance and a house) , while she is waiting by the corner for her next GUY,
its sad you didnt see it coming, BUT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, sort out yourself NOW, peace