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anything these days is counted as ABUSE o... wow. A whole regina askiaaaa?

so if I shout on a woman when she does something obviously annoying, IT IS ABUSE.

When I refuse to give her money because I know fully well she has her own and what she asking for is not a NEED... but just some thing for trending... IT IS ABUSE..

When she is rude and I correct her... IT IS ABUSE?


THIS IS TERRIBLE.... social media is just a scaaammmm, ruse and a big fat lie.

Richfarmer:
you are a dump ass,
when real men talk you are to keep quiet and learn.

I have been dealing with multiple people before but none is as lukewarm like you

Pls be warned I can get you banned... you are breaking rules here in Nairaland. OPENING MULTIPLE THREADS WITH SAME TOPIC.... what are you looking for?

Mind yourself and respect yourself before MODs ban you.

I have warned you.

pls no one should fall for this clever trick

Futuragetty:
I already read that verse. but I need to hear your thoughts.
I feel since There is only one God, and this one God is both the God and Father of Jesus and the Lord Jesus himself. Because Jesus is Lord, idols are themselves nothing, following the tradition of the critique of idolatry in the Old Testament. We have nothing to fear, and nothing to worry about—and we are therefore free to eat whatever food we like, without any anxiety.

Well my thoughts are 1 Corinthians 8.

If you still have to hear other people's thoughts then you are just seeking gist.

Futuragetty:
it's considered a bit of an oddity for Christians to feast with moslems in iftar feast.
today, I joined my friends in their iftar feast. it’s called being polite and a good neighbor. For years, I have invited Muslim friends to attend our Easter party and they have graciously attended year after year.So when they have a potluck when their month of fasting ends, I go to their party. It’s a Jesus thing. I wish more Christians would reach out in love as Jesus did.

ok, That's my opinion, I need to hear your thoughts on this.

The answer you seek is in 1 Corinthians 8

pls study it with a good translation.

TRUTHS ABOUT THINGS LIKE THIS ARE NOT FOR DEBATE, IF TRULY YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN, Go to the bible and find your answers... ASSUMPTION IS COSTLY.

wow so he can speak to TRUMP not BUHARI?

I do not know which of you is deceived sha.

oscarsam:
Nice Perspective Sir. But going by your view of spiritual forces determining how people behave in a particular territory, it has always been known for every geographical entity to have a particular system of lifestyle/Culture that differentiates them from others.
Now to me, what you termed as spiritual forces/Princes regulating the behavioural approach of Men is not a valid point since there are no proven facts to back it up.
To me, it all has to do with people's Mindset. like it's already known that people in this part of the World(Nigeria) are highly influenced by Societal methodology. for example, when a Man gets to a certain age in life where most of his mates are already getting married, he will also be pressurized to get married too due to societal pressure and may not really be that he is prepared for marriage.

Also using Nigeria as a case study, I don't believe some strange/spiritual powers are influencing our leaders to always make wrong decisions thereby putting this Great Country in its Poor State. However, the major reason(s) why we are not progressing as a country is due to electing Selfish people who's major aim for power is to accumulate more wealth through stolen funds or any means possible not minding it's effect on the economy.

I believe, if we have leaders who has self discipline, learned in political matters as well as open to people's views and not be tribalistic/bigotry in nature, we would have been far better than what we are experiencing today.

So, I do not conform to your theory of spiritual forces regulating how people/Societies behave. Rather, it all boils down to how learned, prepared and self disciplined one is before indulging in any area of life.

Hmmmm but sir,
I am a christian and my facts are from the oldest and most infallible book on earth called the bible not just my personal experiences.

I can not begin to show you what you are not ready to see... how Nigeria is already an Islamic state and how occultic islam can be... because it is our very own news media that has exposed these simple facts for years but many do not want to see it....

UNTIL you have tried all the books you have read on success and on principles of personal development and still can not seem to make tangible headway... THEN YOU WOULD BE READY TO BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE SPIRITUAL FORCES.

I do not seek to argue, I have proof and I am proof of what I speak.
I keep an open mind though, but IF YOUR OWN WAY WORKS FOR YOU.... then you may teach others about it.


My biblical proofs have worked for me since I was born again and for many others who are not religious but want a LIFE THAT ACTUALLY WORKS with provable results.

THERE IS NO POLITICIAN THAT IS NOT FETISH.... but I leave that to you to research. There is a world bigger than this world and it the spirit realm.... IDEAS, THOUGHTS, LAWS ARE CREATED THERE.

kesbat:
You only really get paid per click with AdMob.
If you do get paid for impressions it is very small and unless you are getting a serious quantity of them, you probably will only make money off clicks.
If you want to earn via views you need 1,000 views to get $1. The best way to earn is through click

yes boss but lemme say i have 15 friend that am sure I can convince to download and be clicking.... how much is that gonna be worth for me

kesbat:
Hello everyone, do you know you can create apps for your blogs and websites then monetise.
The app will be published on Playstore, once your users install it and view ads allocated to your apps you get paid and you also get paid when users click your ads.
You're not allowed to click your own ads.
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if only one person views it... HOW MUCH WOULD I GET PAID?

oscarsam:
So much Wisdom Sir. This has really blessed me this morning most especially the last phrase.

But then, what would you suggest to be the cause of most wise people's limitations in life.
Do you think it all has to do with spiritual forces or they are probably not planting their seeds on a fertile soil?

Sir, I believe WE WOULD NOT KNOW EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD... there are many possibilities.... there are many enemies... each man can only know and describe the ones he has encountered and the ones he has heard other people encounter. This is why we should not feel like we know everything.

To answer your question sir... I will humbly tell you.. that PROBLEMS/LIMITATIONS are geographic... In the bible, specifically in the book of DANIEL... the principality in charge of the problems of that empire was called THE PRINCE OF PERSIA, but after he was defeated the PRINCE OF GREECIA came to rule... and Greece became a world power.... taking over PERSIA. Hence, that shows us that PRINCES are PRINCIPALITIES RULES OVER A REGION so that means there is a PRINCE OF NIGERIA, PRINCE OF EGYPT, and so on.


What we call geography on earth, is what the spirit realm calls TERRITORY. So there are territorial spirits, that have dominion over geographical regions and whatever happens within them... Now let me bring it home to naija...
The principality in charge of ABUJA.... ensures that the money flows to a point it brings men to slavery... they make and spend the money in ABUJA never able to spend it outside Abuja, and promiscuity increases...
The principality in charge of EDO state... ensures the youths are HIGHLY SEXUALLY CHARGED and some that are even skilled but broke, Spiritual Laziness is also there because there are few men of God there but MANY gods of men who are ever ready to tell you that your problem is from the village ... The lust for MONEY AND WOMEN is the order of the day.
The principality in charge of DELTA state is only after MONEY and POWER, yet sex is there but POWER IS MORE IMPORTANT TO A DELTA person.
Principality for LAGOS ensure the people are hustlers for MONEY, FAME and GAIN at all cost. And only INTELLIGENT SPIRITUALITY is supported even when there is absence of raw power, hence they explain every problem by scientific statistical reasoning lol.

I can go on and on. So how does this work in the light of your question, Once a person gets into any one of these states... if they are not spiritually sensitive to guard their minds.....they begin to THINK ON THESE THINGS that the principalities in charge are doing. So you will call it a MINDSET but a principality is responsible for it. However some people with a strong mind can travel from Lagos to Edo state and hustle and make money without being carried away by the lust for women or laziness in that state, but they are few, very few.

So it is
SPIRITUAL INFLUENCES
PSYCHOLOGICAL STATE
HABITS
DISCIPLINE

these are the only points that are responsible for limitations in a persons life.

gabbrri:
I am typing this massage because i just escaped a deadly temptation in the hands of my sister inlaw aged 17 yrs .. I am an artisan that closes work 7pm on a daily basis sundays exceptional and you know man gats drink one or two before reaching home , the issue here is that any time i reach for my fridge at night to get water to step down the one or two i always see her sleeping in a tempting position cos she sleeps in the parlour of course i do tell my wife of not being comfortable with her sleeping positions but my talk fall into deaf ears as nothing changes . this morning i saw a very raw p****y right before me wide open like chicken wey aboki display for show glass ready for massive devour, omor na only God save me and her today as my wife is fast asleep... You cant inmagine what happened to my jboy no be small sparking oo because no be me hold the remote control of my thing. My people i am planning on sending her away by morning as i cant take it no more note before i am not a fan of house help... Will i be wrong sending her away?

ADVICE IS WHAT PEOPLE ASK FOR, WHEN THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT TO DO


Bros we know, you have already finished planning what to do and how to do it.

All I am saying is.... REPENT o

varnaija:
Yes, come in scholars

NO RELIGION frowns on sex... I personally believe that SEX IS A RELIGION

oscarsam:
Truly, there are no two words about your Fact.
But based on what you said, I think it has to do with the typical mindset of an average Nigerian who believes in following the famous ones and not the Real step to Success.

Let's go to the BIBLE...

Ecclesiastes 9:14-15 Amplified Bible, Classic Edition (AMPC)
14 There was a little city with few men in it. And a great king came against it and besieged it and built great bulwarks against it.

15 But there was found in it a poor wise man, and he by his wisdom delivered the city. Yet no man [seriously] remembered that poor man.

POOR WISE MAN, spent his wisdom helping a CITY... but at the end of the story... he was called a POOR MAN.... not a POOR WISE MAN.... why?


People will not believe or reckon with a person whose WISDOM has not changed their status

By their FRUITS, we are meant to know them.... hence we follow those who have FRUITS(not seeds) of what they are saying....


If you are still in the seed stage... STAY HIDDEN

Charity85:
Which is preferable. Police or DSS ?

I have only done TRACKING with POLICE... I know nothing about DSS or others.

Yuceeluv:
Nigerian Police? The ones that will take the little you have left? you think they have sympathy? My mum's ordeal a certain time just made me know that all i hear about the police is even under exaggerated.

No, I know how bad the NPF is in this country BUT I have been helped on a very similar issue before and I paid 25k total for the tracking and when they got the guy who scammed... the go all I spent back from him and paid me.

The NPF loves these kind of JOBS because it is FREE MONEY FOR THEM.

I wish you could look beyond the evil we hear about them and find any of their zonal or area commands... that is where the MAIN tracking is done.

tyup:
Those criminals are wise they might not use their real details in opening the SIM which is so easy to do with those registering under umbrella

So you think the police goes to MTN OFFICE?

No bro... THEY TRACK THE NUMBER... THE PRESENT LOCATION- CHAT-SMS-every single thing in that number and phone.... and whomever they catch with it will lead them to the kidnappers....

I HAVE PERSONALLY EXPERIENCED IT AND IT WORKED FOR ME.... though it was in Edo state this happened. even Last year.

Technology has grown bro and NIGERIAN POLICE have lots of bad eggs BUT NOT ALL ARE BAD EGGS...

Charity85:
My mum was few hours ago swindled of #990k. She had renewed ATM card 2 days ago but had issues with the atm card. She got a call today from this number 07043062230 claiming to be from first bank to rectify the issue. Unfortunately for her, she never suspected she was dealing with a scammer. She disclosed her ATM pin and before her very eyes, all her money continued to diasppear, with just 1K left in her account. Please is there anything that can be done and what is the necessary next line of action

Go to the BANK and complain.... then go to the POLICE STATION to open a case, also the police can trace that number easily and find the culprits in a matter of days.

oscarsam:
Now, there has been so much talk about how Nigeria is nothing but a dream killer.
Many people after having failed in their different trials to succeed now ends up tagging their failure as a result of spiritual entities working against them. Few weeks back, I even overhead a young guy saying things like those who where able to build houses and ride cars in Nigeria must have indulged in blood money to attain such height.

So it dawned on me this night to correct these limiting mindsets of most people.

Believe me, if you are not getting the results, it might not be the devil attacking you or trying to bring you down.
It may not be your Village People.
It may not be your Enemies.
it's possible you are ignoring a PRINCIPLE that others who are succeeding in the same field have understood and is practising.

God's Grace is open to everyone.
Both to believers and unbelievers.
Just like Rain does not fall only for believers nor does the Sun Shine Only for believers.
that's the same way some other Success Principles Obeys Nature's call.

You really need to seek and know the Principles guiding the Industry/Area of your choice.
Don't just walk blindly into an industry, then starts trying to figure out how to Succeed in that Field.
Study,
Learn,,
Grow and become better

OscarSam Cares!!!

SADLY you are missing a very key principle, here it is

IF YOU ARE NOT LIVING THE DREAM LIFE OF MANY AND YOU HAVE NOT PERSONALLY SUCCEEDED IN WHAT MANY OTHERS ARE FAILING AT..... NO ONE WILL LISTEN TO YOUR PRINCIPLES, IT WILL NOT CARRY WEIGHT.

Blessamaka:
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I wish to start same business there because I've gotten enough customers but I'll join their union where as the law the union is dishing out is not favourable to me. There's no good reasons for their law.. the law is only favourable to the leaders. If I'm to sell clothes in that same market I'll also join a union. Every business has it's union. I'm not trying to do this to hurt my mum but to break free from these bondage called law

chei see slavery... anyway, all am saying is SELL ONLINE.

FACEBOOK
TWITTER
NAIRALAND,
JIJI
INSTAGRAM


there is no way your customers are not on anyone of these platforms, tell them and let them begin ORDERING.

Blessamaka:
My post might be lengthy but I'll try my best to be brief but please read to the end.

I'm in my early twenties (20's) and currently a student in one of the prestigious university in Nigeria. Before I got admission, I usually help my mum to sell onions in Ajegunle market aka boundary market in Lagos State.
Ever since schools were shut down due to the pandemic I've been scared of helping my mum because of the despicable rules or laws guiding the business which i might not be able to keep to it thereby putting my mum in trouble and that's the only means of survival for me and mum for now.
My mum belongs to a group of people that sells same product and they are usually referred to as Union and the leaders are the one dishing out those annoying laws.
Examples of such laws are:
1. You don't buy more than the quantity of goods apportioned to you else you will be fined and suspended from selling but the so called leaders go contrary to these laws
2. They tell you when to buy goods i.e before buying new goods, you sell your old goods for 7days not minding if the quantity apportioned to you is enough or not. My self as a case study, we were apportioned 3 bags of onions and I sell 3 bags in 3 days so me and my mum would stay at home for 4days before going to buy new goods.
3. They tell you when to start selling which is 10:00am everyday excluding Sunday and this law was before the pandemic
4. They tell you how to sell i.e the size of onions you are to sell for a particular amount as if they borrowed you money or they are the one giving you money always to buy goods.

And many more of these unimaginable laws. Right now I confused! I don't know the best way to go about this and I really do wish to start selling because I'm broke and I've so many responsibilities to care for financially.
I need legal help, advice on how to go about this until I get something else to do or probably a work or a different business.

The reason for going into business is to make profit and save for rainy days but the reverse seems to be the case here.

Lalasticlala please help me move to front page to get more reviews in regard to this

Amaka dont disappoint your mother o

You may need to START YOUR OWN BUSINESS right there...
See, there reasons for those laws that you may not yet know, so ALLOW HER the respect of obeying the laws, while you do ya own thing.


Learn how to import and sell or buy bale from Onitsha and sell there... And if that does not suit you.... YOU ARE HERE ON NAIRALAND... START SELLING ONLINE.

You are a creative lady, so come up with something that will not HURT your mum.

Wisdom is what is required in this matter.

REBELLION against slavery is GOOD but it must be done wisely.

sweeeeet

blesskewe:
Happy Birthday to me and my twin


Say me a prayer......

All the favor you require in your life will LOCATE YOU,

The tears from your past will never come back again, rather God will do some great things for you that will turn your situation around for good.

Money will be easy for you
Health will be your portion

And God deliver you from FRENEMIES(friendly-Enemies) and give you great besties that will grow old with you.

Amen

Joeclara:
Phone specifications
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Price: 108,000
Promo price: 7,999


The WhatsApp Tv had about the phone and got there order link, the WhatsApp Tv viewers testified to the legility of the product, 7 days of delivery. Promo ends in five days.

I ordered 5, no dulling, I will open a phone shop

Contact the WhatsApp
Tv(Poptv@ 2 3 4 7 0 5 8 5 8 3 4 4 7)

PLS IT IS A SCAM ooooooo


If it is even true that you ordered 5, YOU WILL NEVER GET THE PHONE.

Stop marketing AUDIO PHONE.

It is an old scam here on nairaland, for over 2 years

WORDWORLD:
Are you married.?! What about Pastor Oyakhilome he sure was a 'great' marriage counselor until his own marriage fell apart.

Marriage no get teacher, e no get institution. It is a very different ball game full of surprises mainly because humans are unpredictable.

Brother pls KEEP QUIET.... every body has their ATTACKS AND PERSECUTION.... they are not flaws..... PLS IF YOU CAN NOT GO AND PRAY FOR YOUR OWN MARRIAGE OR HELP THE OP, simply be quiet

Kenmatt:
Have you heard this statement; "broken relationship is better than broken marriage". These words are so scaring.

Its not sir.... it is why you need to prayerfully prepare.... DONT ENTER BLINDLY AND YOU WILL NOT GET HEART BROKEN.

Millennialaku:
i am just tired

i have used cc cleaner to clean registry
i still have 180gb remaining in my HDD
i updated some of my drivers recently
i use ctrl alt delete to resign in no way, which results in me removing the battery every time it freezes

I NEED HELP

i dont know what the issue is, I AM JUST TIRED

NOTE: i bought it brand new 2018

BACK IT UP AND FORMAT.... simple

Kenmatt:
Greetings to you all.


I just have to be precise here.

On a daily basis we read online how women do make their husbands feel Hell on Earth. Notwithstanding, the manner some men dish shabby act will get you baffled if these guys are married at all.

I have friends, relations, neighbours and many more people who really do not enjoy their marriages. The stories are not what I should put up here for security reasons.

Although. With what I see these days, I am afraid of getting married. I truly want to enjoy marriage, I don't just want to endure marriage.

Please guys, what are your take.

SIR, your fears are understandable but a sheer waste of TIME.

The time it takes to FEAR is the same time it takes to Prayerfully and Studiously Prepare.

Marriage is run by strategy... any married couple that do not have a strategy of how to wager common problems in marriage are bound to face TRAGEDY.

So bros, go and study books on relationship, get to youtube and download teachings by people like Pst Kingsley Okonkwo and others then move on to find good PEOPLE WHO HAVE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS of over 10/15 years and above and ASK THEM THE SECRETS.... yes... you need them as MENTORS...

We kill fear by preparation and prayers.

IkwerrePikin:
I don’t understand this, when this girl comes to my house, before we have sex she would take some of my bitter kola and chew. The surprising thing is that she prefer to chew it while we are having sex.

She said it makes her enjoy the sex more and I should try it but I don’t understand anyone knows about this??

how do you guys RISK your lives like this... do you know if the girl has a fetish background or you are one of the E-DIOTS who does not believe in traditional powers....


See, whomever taught her to do that is fetish and this may have adverse effect on you. Be very careful bro.... date a NORMAL lady, not a side-effect.

Leezah:
Let's Shake Tables This Morning.

Question:

Why are you Still Single?
ANS= I am single because its peaceful and maturity does not mean I should be accepting drama from Ladies, I believe in strong independent ladies who are not sausy or rude or an emotional drain, Marriage is NOT a MUST, hence I remain single till I find a lady who has a deeper meaning to love & life relationships than a ring and bearing children.

What makes you feel or think you are not ready for a "Walk the Aeil Commitment?
ANS= I am not ready because I am emotionally not able to accommodate certain misbehaviors I see in ladies of nowadays o, also it will not be fair to my children if I give birth to them in this country so am planning to relocate.[/b]

If a guy gets close to you and from the get go tells you straight up that his intent is "I Do".....Considering his present "Not so stable" status....

1. Will you sincerely take him seriously?

2. Will you get a bit uncomfortable and rather ask that you guys remain friends for now (so you can be sure)?

3.Will you see him as being desperate especially if he doesn't physically appear as your "Ideal type of Man"?




Guys.....You ask a Lady out and she tells u straight ups....I deals either we are dating to get married in a year's time or forget it...

1. What will be your initial reaction knowing your level of readiness at the time and your projection in a year's time?  Will you still commit or ask for a bit more time to be sure?
[b]ANS= before I approach any lady, I would have prayed like fire and gotten clear narrative from GOD, so yes as she tells me her own, I would smile and tell her my own too

2. Will you perceive her as being "Desperate" ?
ANS= Nah, I know the biological clock of women ticks very fast so I can never consider her desperate, I would respect her standard and show her mine, so it is mutual respect. If she can not meet up to mine in a year even if I have met and surpassed hers, then I leave her peaceful and go back to seeking God

3. Will you still go ahead bearing in mind that you yet barely know her through and through and take a leap on faith believing for the very best as you step off the cliff?
ANS= lol, a YEAR is enough to know a person through and through because every chat, every date will be seasoned with questions and tests and re-adjustments tilll we say "I DO"... you can not be hoping to marry in a YEAR and hope to have time for fun and thrills with a person you have not understood their HIGHS and LOWS


LADIES' who mean business are rare, ladies who are too focused to get caught up in the emotional rave and hormone of the moment are very rare, many who claim to want to marry early and no sex before marriage are the exact ones that fall prey to players and in 4 months they are alreay addicted to sex and other sinful vices.

Some ladies even set TOO HIGH standards for the man they want to marry meanwhile, they want the man to UNDERSTAND their own low standard.... this just doesn't make sense. Only Wisdom can help a person in these issues.
#LetsTalk

I HAVE SPOKEN

Muna4real:
Hey nairalanders! I've got a problem. Anytime I subscribe maybe 1000 ,it will finish within 5 days when it supposed to last for a month. I don't know what is wrong with my phone or my SIM. Even if I of the data and Wi-Fi, it will still keep on running . Someone is saying that I might be sharing data with someone. How will I know? Please can anyone help me out?

Muna, chill, its easy. Here are one or two things to do

1) Go to youtube and search for HOW TO REDUCE MOBILE DATA CONSUMPTION..... it will show you hidden apps and settings that are killing your data

2) Download a wifi or data scan app or even a good VPN that shows who is connected and what they are browsing on... so you can DISCONNECT them easily.

3) the BITTER TRUTH is... most of these mobile networks have tweaked their 1000 naira data plans so it runs out so fast, kindly use SAMSUNG VPN to browse, simply download it and upgrade to premium(for free) and ensure you are using MTN

the lady's face has been to the GYM.... but it does not give her right to call him IDIOT.

Both of them are right in their own eyes.